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Join us as we dive into the things others never would have guessed about sexual trauma.

Never Would Have Guessed Bethany Fray and Charissa Brim

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 18 Ratings

Join us as we dive into the things others never would have guessed about sexual trauma.

    A Conversation on Purity Culture with Sheila Gregoire

    A Conversation on Purity Culture with Sheila Gregoire

    Charissa and Bethany talk with author, Sheila Gregoire, about her latest book, She Deserves Better. Learn more about Sheila at BareMarriage.com and follow her on Instagram @sheilagregoire and Twitter @sheilagregoire.Follow us on Instagram @bethany_fray and @charissabrim and online at neverwouldhaveguessed.com

    • 56 min
    Episode 9: How to know when it's time to take a break

    Episode 9: How to know when it's time to take a break

    It's good and important to process our experiences, but no one can stay in the hard parts of their story forever. In this season finale we talk about 3 signs it's time to take a break, and what that can actually look like.Let's stay connected after the season! Bethany has some exciting things coming up in the new yearCharissa has a bundle of Audio Affirmations for the holidays, available to download later this week. Find out more about these offers and other resources we’ve been br...

    • 52 min
    Episode 8: The things we don't say out loud

    Episode 8: The things we don't say out loud

    There’s so much we don’t say about our experiences as survivors. This is where shame incubates, which can keep us trapped in our trauma responses. In today’s episode, we confess the things we don’t say out loud that leave us feeling so alone.Follow us on Instagram @bethany_fray and @charissabrim and online at neverwouldhaveguessed.com

    • 59 min
    Episode 7: What no one told me: sex after trauma

    Episode 7: What no one told me: sex after trauma

    It’s no surprise; sexual trauma impacts our sexuality. But sometimes this looks different than we may expect. Today we dish about how our different traumas impacted our sexuality, what feels tricky now, and what we’re doing to make sense of it all. Follow us on Instagram @bethany_fray and @charissabrim and online at neverwouldhaveguessed.com

    • 48 min
    Episode 6: Healing also looks like...

    Episode 6: Healing also looks like...

    The path to healing is a lot wider than we perceive it to be. Bethany & Charissa share their experiences with therapy, surprising things that healed them, and healing lifestyles they embrace. What does healing look like for you? Call and tell us at (504)517-5966.Follow us on Instagram @bethany_fray and @charissabrim and online at neverwouldhaveguessed.comTo support the podcast, visit patreon.com/neverwouldhaveguessedpodcast

    • 1 hr 3 min
    Episode 5: How trauma impacts your relationships

    Episode 5: How trauma impacts your relationships

    Trauma doesn't just impact you, it impacts your relationships with friends and family, too. Why does this happen, and how can we hold the tension of trauma in relationship today? Follow us on Instagram @bethany_fray and @charissabrim and online at neverwouldhaveguessed.comTo support the podcast, visit patreon.com/neverwouldhaveguessedpodcastShow Notes: Link to the trauma and relationship arch below https://i.postimg.cc/QMLH4tcv/The-Arch.png

    • 49 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
18 Ratings

18 Ratings

tootnanny ,

Moved by their courage

I recently met these two podcasters, and this is a great project that will help a lot of people in big ways.

Dsk713 ,

So glad I found this podcast

Thank you for normalizing these hard topics and validating my trauma and feelings. Y’all are the best. I’m a fan 100%

Rob LeBoeuf ,

Astounding!!

I don’t use the word “astounding” often. In fact, I’m not sure I’ve EVER used it, tbh. But that’s the word that comes to mind as I try to process what I’m hearing in these conversations between Bethany and Charissa…and me! (I mean, I feel like I’m in the conversation too.) What’s astounding is that they are able to talk earnestly about tender topics with such humanity and care. There’s a feeling of preparedness in their communication style but it is also free and responsive. Like the moment when Bethany virtually put the mics aside and spoke empathy and support over Charissa in episode 3. Very real. Very intentional. Don’t expect to binge listen to this podcast. You’ll want to go slowly and take time for your own story to rise to the surface. And it will. Astoundingly!!

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