Once Upon A Gene

Effie Parks
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As a new parent of a child with a rare genetic syndrome, I was lost. There was no guide. There was no rulebook. This was not what I had imagined. As I navigated my way through this new reality, I realized something that should have been simple, but was not. A truth that had always been there, but that I had lost sight of for a time - I am not alone. And neither are you. These are the stories of my family, and of families like ours. These are the stories of how we have persevered, cried, bonded, and grown. These are the stories of children who have been told that they cannot, and that have proved the world wrong.

  1. APR 23

    ONCE UPON A GENE - EPISODE 272 Caregiver Archetypes of Survival (Part 2) The Prostitute Archetype: Reclaiming Your Worth Without Losing Yourself, w/ Christy Foster

    Welcome to Part 2 of our 4-part Caregiver Archetype series. In this episode, Effie is joined by somatic therapist Christy Foster to explore the Prostitute Archetype—also known as the Worth/Value archetype. This pattern asks:What part of myself am I trading for approval, peace, love, or survival? For caregivers, this can show up as sacrificing your time, identity, health, and needs just to keep everything going. While it often comes from love, the cost can quietly become too high. In this conversation, you’ll learn: How this archetype shows up in caregiving The difference between self-sacrifice and self-abandonment Why your needs still matter Simple ways to reconnect with yourself—even in the chaos This episode is your reminder:You can care for your child without losing yourself in the process. Series Note: This is Episode 2 of 4. Next up: The Saboteur Archetype.

    45 min

  2. APR 16

    Caregiver Archetypes for Survival (Part 1) The Child Archetype : Soothe Your Inner Child Without Letting It Drive the Bus, w/ Christy Foster

    In this opening episode of our special 4-part series on Caregiver Archetypes, host Effie Parks welcomes back her sister, Christy Foster, for a heartfelt and refreshingly different conversation. Christy will introduce the Child Archetype—the part of us that longs to belong, dream big, and feel safe… but can also slam the door shut, shout “It’s not fair!”, and feel completely powerless when life gets loud. It’s a simple, practical language to help caregivers notice their stress patterns in real time and choose kinder next steps. Christy guides listeners through how to spot when your inner Child is activated, how to soothe that part of yourself with compassion, and, most importantly, how to keep it from taking the wheel. You’ll walk away with: A clear understanding of the Child Archetype and why it shows up so strongly for parents and caregivers Tools to recognize your own “I have no choice” stress loops Small, doable resourcing choices you can make today instead of spiraling Permission to get curious, drop perfection, and treat yourself with the same gentleness you offer your loved ones Whether you’re in the thick of caregiving, navigating big emotions, or simply craving more self-awareness, this episode gives you a compassionate new way to understand yourself when stress hits. Mentioned in this episode: Once Upon a Gene Episode 29: Oxygen Masks & Motherhood with Christy Foster Once Upon a Gene Episode 239: How Stress Shows Up in the Body as Real Pain with Christy Foster This is the first of four episodes exploring different caregiver archetypes. Stay tuned for Parts 2–4

    55 min

  3. APR 2

    From Hopeless Grief to Heavenly Hope: Brittni Lamb on Surrender, Faith, and Raising a Son with Hereditary Spastic Paraplegia SPG3A

    Episode Description: In this warm and deeply honest conversation, I sit down with my sweet friend Brittni Lamb — a sunshine-loving mama in Arizona raising two daughters and her adorable son Jameson, who has the ultra-rare Hereditary Spastic Paraplegia SPG3A. Brittni shares the raw season after Jameson’s diagnosis when grief, loneliness, and hopelessness felt all-consuming. She talks about crying herself to sleep, walking through the days in a fog, and the heavy mom guilt she carried. Then she opens up about the slow, beautiful healing that came through daily surrender, faith, weight training, community with other special needs moms, and choosing to notice the “glimmers” of joy with her family. We talk about what surrender really looked like in her body and her home, how she’s learning to care for herself so she can show up for her kids, the unique bond she shares with Jameson, and why her hope is now anchored in heaven — where she dreams of one day seeing Jameson walking, running, and jumping with a brand-new body. This episode is full of gentle wisdom, real talk about grief, and encouragement that joy and hope really can return after the darkest days. Topics Covered: The darkest days after diagnosis and what hopelessness felt like The moment surrender changed everything How weight training became part of her mental + physical healing Finding and clinging to glimmers of joy Raising siblings alongside a child with disabilities Faith, grief, and anchoring hope in heaven Connect with Brittni: Instagram: @brittnikarina @preppedaz If this episode touched you, please share it with another rare disease or special needs parent who needs to hear that they’re not alone — and that hope can come back. 💛 Thanks for listening!

    30 min
  4. Smarter Speech: How Q-Voice Is Changing AAC for Families and Therapists with Lana Marcucio

    10/24/2025

    Smarter Speech: How Q-Voice Is Changing AAC for Families and Therapists with Lana Marcucio

    Lana is a mom, software developer, and fierce advocate who created Q-Voice, an AAC system built out of love, frustration, and deep understanding. When her daughter Quinn struggled to connect through traditional speech apps, Lana and her husband decided to build something better—something intuitive, visual, and human. In this episode, we talk about: The real-life limitations of traditional AAC systems How Q-Voice uses GIFs, emojis, and real-world icons to keep learners engaged Built-in data tracking that actually helps shape speech goals The AI feature that speeds up sentence formation and keeps communication flowing Why parent involvement and design simplicity are key to AAC success Whether you’re a parent, SLP, or educator, this episode is full of hope and practical inspiration for making communication easier—and more fun—for everyone. Learn more or try Q-Voice: qvoice.app Follow Lana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tigerishmom/ Follow Q-Voice on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/qvoice.app/

    43 min

  5. 10/16/2025

    Why Genetic Testing Matters: The Case for Genetic Testing and the Start Genetic Movement - with Geraldine Bliss

    In this episode of Once Upon a Gene, host Effie Parks welcomes Geraldine Bliss — rare mom, co-founder of CureSHANK, and the powerhouse behind Start Genetic, a new movement empowering families to take control of their genetic testing journey. Geraldine shares her decades-long experience as mom to Charles, a 27-year-old living with Phelan-McDermid syndrome, and how one test unlocked a world of understanding, care, and connection. Together, Effie and Geraldine dig into the real-world impact of genetic testing — what to ask for, when to push for answers, and how knowing the cause changes everything. They cover: 🧬 When and how to pursue genetic testing or re-testing 🧩 How a diagnosis can transform care, support, and research 🚫 Common myths and roadblocks that stop families from getting tested 🧠 Why “not knowing” limits treatment options — and what to do about it 💪 Action steps and resources you can use today Effie and Geraldine leave listeners with a clear message: You don’t have to wait for the system to hand you answers. You can start genetic. ✨ Resources Mentioned: Start Genetic CureSHANK Phelan-McDermid Syndrome Foundation 💬 Quote from the Episode: “Getting a diagnosis doesn’t change who your child is — it changes what you can do for them.” — Geraldine Bliss

    47 min

  6. 10/02/2025

    Mini Brains in a Dish: Organoids and the Future of Personalized Rare Disease Medicine

    In this episode of Once Upon a Gene, Effie sits down with Dr. Maya Gosztyla from Brainstorm Therapeutics to explore one of the most exciting frontiers in rare disease research - organoids. These “mini brains in a dish” are clusters of real human brain cells grown from a child’s stem cells. They’re giving researchers and families new ways to study disease, test drugs, and imagine personalized treatments. Effie and Maya talk about: What organoids are and why they matter for rare diseases How organoids could replace traditional mouse models, speeding research while reducing reliance on animal studies The potential for organoids to accelerate drug development and get treatments to clinical trials faster How these tiny models might unlock personalized medicine, tailored to each child’s unique mutation Why this shift from “watching and waiting” to testing and acting could be transformative for families Maya brings not only her scientific brilliance but also her heart and connection to the rare disease mission. This conversation will expand your sense of what’s possible for the future of research, treatment, and hope for our kids.

    38 min
  7. Healing in the Mess: Storytelling, Friendship & Finding Love - Author of The Unlikely Village of Eden, Emma Nadler

    09/04/2025

    Healing in the Mess: Storytelling, Friendship & Finding Love - Author of The Unlikely Village of Eden, Emma Nadler

    This episode of Once Upon a Gene is a little like a cafeteria tray - pick what feeds you and leave what doesn't. Chatting with the zesty, vivacious, and wildly insightful Emma Nadler - psychotherapist, author of The Unlikely Village of Eden, rare mom, and truth teller. Emma has a way of cracking you open with honesty and tenderness, then making you laugh through the tears. We talk about: How storytelling helps us heal and connect Grief, Joy, Love - all living side by side The long-haul reality of caregiving and what it takes to keep going Friendship, community, and the absurdities that keep us human Finding meaning when life reroutes in unexpected ways Emma’s memoir, The Unlikely Village of Eden, is one of those rare books that’s both heart-shattering and heart-rebuilding, leaving you changed in the best way. 📚 Grab Emma’s book📝 Follow her writing on Substack. 📝 Follow her on Instagram

    54 min

  8. 08/28/2025

    15 Years of Simons Searchlight: Dr. Wendy Chung on How Families Shape Rare Disease Research and Spark Aha Moments - with Wendy Chung

    In this conversation, Wendy Chung discusses the evolution of understanding genetic conditions, particularly in relation to autism, and the role of Simons Searchlight in patient advocacy. She emphasizes the importance of community support, global inclusion, and the hope for future therapies. The conversation highlights the significance of family connections and the collective effort in advancing research and treatment options for neurodevelopmental disorders.takeaways The understanding of autism has evolved significantly over the years. Community support is crucial for families dealing with genetic conditions. Simon's Searchlight aims to leverage collective knowledge for better outcomes. Language equity is essential for global participation in research. The importance of early detection and intervention cannot be overstated. Families play a vital role in providing feedback for research. The future of treatments looks promising with ongoing research. Building a supportive community can lead to better advocacy for children. The collaboration among researchers worldwide enhances the potential for breakthroughs. Celebrating milestones like 15 years of Simons Searchlight fosters hope and motivation

    24 min
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As a new parent of a child with a rare genetic syndrome, I was lost. There was no guide. There was no rulebook. This was not what I had imagined. As I navigated my way through this new reality, I realized something that should have been simple, but was not. A truth that had always been there, but that I had lost sight of for a time - I am not alone. And neither are you. These are the stories of my family, and of families like ours. These are the stories of how we have persevered, cried, bonded, and grown. These are the stories of children who have been told that they cannot, and that have proved the world wrong.

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  • Creator
    Effie Parks
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    354
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2019 - 2022 Effie Parks
  • Show Website
    Once Upon A Gene

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