Relationship Radio: Marriage, Sex, Limerence & Avoiding Divorce

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Relationship Radio: Marriage, Sex, Limerence & Avoiding Divorce

Want help for your real-life relationship problems? We address issues that couples face every day and provide tools to deal with: affairs, limerence, sexual rejection, lying, communication issues, and much more. If you want to know how to make your relationships stronger - this podcast is for you. https://www.MarriageHelper.com

  1. 6D AGO

    Is Your Spouse A Narcissist?

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! In today’s episode, we tackle one of the most emotionally charged topics in relationships: narcissism. Whether your spouse has called you a narcissist, or you're wondering if they might be one, this conversation cuts through the confusion and cultural noise. Kimberly Beam Holmes is joined by Meredith Ball, a Marriage Helper certified coach, to unpack the real meaning of narcissism—what it is, what it isn’t, and why it's become the go-to label in so many hurting relationships. 🎯 We cover: What the term narcissist actually means (and why most people misuse it) The danger of self-diagnosing or labeling your spouse How trauma and attachment wounds shape narcissistic behaviors Why being called a narcissist doesn’t mean you are one What to do if your spouse weaponizes this label against you The powerful role of empathy and acceptance in healing How to grow—even if your spouse doesn’t change You’ll also hear insights from clinical research, personal coaching experiences, and real-life stories of hope and transformation. If you’re trying to save your marriage, feeling unfairly labeled, or just want to better understand this complicated topic—this episode is for you. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://marriagehelper.com/call 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    24 min

  2. JUN 4

    Why Labeling Your Spouse Won’t Save Your Marriage

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! When your marriage feels like it's falling apart, it's tempting to search for answers—especially ones that explain your spouse’s behavior. Maybe you’ve wondered, "Could they be a narcissist?" or "Do they have bipolar disorder?" In this episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes is joined by Marriage Helper coach and counselor Meredith Ball to unpack the dangers of diagnosing your spouse. You’ll learn why it’s natural to want clarity, but how labeling your spouse can backfire—leading to more disconnection instead of healing. We’ll discuss: Why people self-diagnose their spouseThe risks of assigning mental health labels without professional helpHow to focus on what’s actually within your controlThe surprising way real healing startsIf you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://marriagehelper.com/call 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    23 min

  3. MAY 28

    She Chose Chaos Over Me... And I Let Her

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! He did everything “right”—worked hard, stayed loyal, provided for his family. But when his wife left him for his own brother… he didn’t fight. He tried to understand. He felt bad for them. And somehow, he believed that was love. In this real-life conversation from Marriage Helper, we unpack the painful truth behind passive behavior in marriage—and how it often pushes a spouse away more than anything else. This isn't just a story of betrayal. It’s a wake-up call for anyone who’s given up their identity in the name of sacrifice… and lost their marriage in the process. You'll discover: Why empathy without boundaries can become self-sabotage How passivity kills attraction The real difference between panic and passion And why ownership is the turning point between wishing and winning Whether you're in a marriage crisis or stuck in survival mode, this episode is your invitation to stop letting life happen to you—and start choosing who you want to become. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://marriagehelper.com/call 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    36 min

  4. MAY 21

    What to Say When a Friend Confesses to Watching Porn

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What do you say when a friend confesses they’re struggling with pornography? Whether they admitted it directly or you discovered it by accident, knowing how to respond can feel overwhelming. In this honest and compassionate episode, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes guide you through how to handle these conversations with empathy, truth, and clarity. They discuss the spiritual, relational, and physiological effects of pornography and how to walk with someone you care about toward hope and healing. Whether you're supporting a friend or facing this struggle yourself, there is a way forward. 📌 Topics covered: How to respond when a friend opens up about porn Why porn affects both men and women The impact on marriage and intimacy The connection between faith, guilt, and behavior Practical next steps and resources for accountability If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://marriagehelper.com/call 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    28 min

  5. MAY 14

    Manifesting Won't Fix Your Marriage Problems (Here's Why)

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! You've probably heard people talk about "manifesting" their ideal relationship or saving their marriage just by thinking positive thoughts. But when your marriage is in crisis, hope alone isn’t a strategy. In this episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes—CEO of Marriage Helper and trained performance psychologist—breaks down why traditional manifestation falls short and what actually works when your relationship feels like it’s falling apart. You'll discover 3 research-backed mental techniques that high-performing individuals use to overcome adversity—adapted specifically to help you save your marriage: ✔ Visualization (the right way) ✔ Resilience-building breathing exercises ✔ The power of intentional practice If your marriage is on the brink, but you're too scared to take the next step, this video will give you the tools to begin. It's not about perfection—it's about progress. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://marriagehelper.com/call 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    14 min

  6. MAY 7

    He Thought He Did Everything Right... Until She Left

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! What happens when a well-meaning husband provides, protects, and leads—yet still finds himself blindsided by his wife's decision to walk away? In this powerful episode, Dr. Joe Beam and Nathan McIntyre unpack a real-life story of a man who thought he was doing everything “right” in his marriage… until it all fell apart. You'll hear: ✔ Why many spouses feel emotionally abandoned even when their physical needs are met ✔ How "doing the right thing" can still create emotional distance ✔ What pushes and pulls are—and how they impact your relationship ✔ The silent warning signs your spouse may be reaching their limit If you’ve ever wondered “Why did my spouse leave when I was giving so much?” - this episode is for you. Nathan shares practical insights from hundreds of conversations with men and women in marriage crisis, and offers real hope for those ready to change, reconnect, and rebuild. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://marriagehelper.com/call 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    20 min

  7. APR 29

    The Hidden Crisis in Christian Marriages (And How To Fix It)

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! 🔎 What Does Research Say About Marital Satisfaction Among Christians? | Marriage Helper + Barna Study In this powerful episode, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes dive deep into the fascinating findings from a 2021 survey conducted by Barna Research Group in partnership with Marriage Helper. ➡️ What percentage of Christian couples are truly satisfied in their marriages? ➡️ How does practicing faith impact marital happiness? ➡️ Why do men often report higher satisfaction — and what could they be missing? ➡️ Why does "somewhat satisfied" actually ring alarm bells for marriage health? You'll hear behind-the-scenes insights into how the survey was designed, why self-reporting can be tricky (especially around sensitive topics like infidelity and satisfaction), and the real implications for couples — and churches — today. Key Topics Covered: ✔️ Marital satisfaction breakdown across generations: Millennials, Gen X, and Boomers ✔️ Why “somewhat satisfied” may signal hidden danger ✔️ The critical difference between practicing and non-practicing Christians ✔️ How long couples typically wait before seeking help (hint: it’s way too long!) ✔️ Why churches struggle to support marriages—and how Marriage Helper is stepping in to help ✔️ Resources available RIGHT NOW for individuals and churches 📢 Free Resources + Support: Want real help for your marriage or your church? Tap the link or card to access free resources, or book a call with our team at https://marriagehelper.com/call 💬 Let's Chat: Have ideas for how marriage support could improve at your church? Drop your thoughts in the comments below—we read every one and your input shapes future resources! If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://marriagehelper.com/call 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    35 min

  8. APR 23

    How To Build An Emotional Connection With Your Spouse

    Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! The silent treatment isn't always intentional. When your spouse emotionally checks out, it creates a painful void that can feel impossible to bridge. Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes tackle this common marriage struggle with uncommon honesty, revealing the hidden causes behind emotional disconnection. If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free 📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://marriagehelper.com/call 🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper 👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelper Follow our other channels! 📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes 📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

    16 min
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Want help for your real-life relationship problems? We address issues that couples face every day and provide tools to deal with: affairs, limerence, sexual rejection, lying, communication issues, and much more. If you want to know how to make your relationships stronger - this podcast is for you. https://www.MarriageHelper.com

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