Sex Love Psychedelics Dr. Cat Meyer

Writer and sexologist Suzannah Weiss joins me to explore sexual empowerment, gender dynamics, and spirituality. We discuss reclaiming personal agency, challenging societal norms, and advocating for self-determination. We delve into consent, boundaries, and the limitations of traditional gender roles in relationships, emphasizing the need for balanced approaches and open communication. We also discuss understanding the root of individual behaviors for deeper connection and personal growth.

In this episode you’ll hear:

00:05 Intro

08:13 Objectification vs. subjectification, views from a sexologist.

14:54 Societal pressure on men and women regarding sex and relationships.

24:13 Boundaries and Cultural Conditioning in Sexual Interactions

28:58 Pleasure, and consent in sexual experiences.

37:41 Gender roles, femininity, and individuality in spirituality and dating.

48:05 Reclaiming Agency and Challenging Gender Roles in Relationships

58:37 Embracing contradictions in sexuality and erotic expression.

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Suzannah Weiss is a writer and sexologist based in Los Angeles. She is the author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, which describes her search for sexual empowerment and her vision for a world where women are subjects, not just objects, of desire. She has written over 8800 articles, which have appeared in publications such as The New York Times and The Washington Post. As a sex educator certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, Suzannah has taught courses and given talks on topics including consent, orgasms, childbirth, non-monogamy, and neurodiversity. She is regularly quoted as an expert in publications like Cosmopolitan and Men's Health as a resident sexologist for Biird and also works as a sex/love coach, birth doula, and sexual assault counselor. She holds a Master of Professional Studies in Sexual Health from the University of Minnesota, a Bachelor of Science in Cognitive Neuroscience from Brown University, and a Bachelor of Arts in Gender & Sexuality Studies and Modern Culture & Media from Brown University. You can reach Suzannah Weiss on her website.

LINKS FROM THE SHOW

https://suzannahweiss.com/book/https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

Buy Suzannah's book "Subjectified" here:

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Writer and social justice consultant, Justice Rivera, joins me to tackle the complexities of psychedelic-assisted therapy for trauma survivors. We define and deconstruct sex work and its intersection with race, culture, and power. We explore the debates around decriminalization versus legalization. We also delve into 'chem sex' practices and the importance of consent in contexts combining drugs and kink.

In this episode you’ll hear:

00:08 Intro

06:45 Sex work, exploitation, and the potential of psychedelic-assisted therapy

15:08 Deconstructing Definitions and the Three C's Model

24:09 Censorship and the Hidden Costs of Online Regulation

31:12 The Potential Benefits of the Decriminalization of Psychedelics

43:22 Discussion on “Chem-sex”, Psychedelics, and Kink.

48:20 Harm Reduction, Consent, and Sexual Experiences.

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Justice Rivera is a writer and social justice consultant from San Juan, PR, specializing in harm reduction and healing justice. With a focus on challenging societal norms, Justice provides support to sex workers, trafficking survivors, and drug users. She is a Partner at Reframe Health and Justice, a harm reduction consulting company. Justice is also the co-author of "Body Autonomy: Decolonizing Sex Work and Drug Use" and enjoys traveling, cooking, and spending time with loved ones.

LINKS FROM THE SHOW

https://www.reframehealthandjustice.com/

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Psychotherapist Jonathan Robinson joins me to discuss using MDMA for relationships. We explore how MDMA can enhance intimacy when used safely for therapy. Jonathan shares insights from over 600 sessions helping couples communicate openly. We dive into his groundbreaking work treating relationship issues with psychedelics like MDMA, as well as training therapists in this approach. Explore the ethical considerations and safety protocols surrounding this therapeutic modality, and gain valuable knowledge on how psychedelics like MDMA can foster deeper self-awareness and strengthen the bonds of love.



In this episode:

00:27 Intro

03:21 MDMA-assisted therapy for trauma, anxiety, and depression

08:13 Using Zoom for therapy sessions, including MDMA and ketamine

19:40 MDMA use in therapy for couples, including its potential benefits and limitations.

21:25 Psychedelic use for couples therapy and emotional healing. 

31:15 Navigating Therapy Challenges and Personal Experiences

40:10 Therapy Experiences, Training Insights, and Cautionary Tales

48:50 Self-Awareness and Accountability in Therapy



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Jonathan Robinson is a psychotherapist, best-selling author, and professional speaker based in Nevada City, California. With over 35 years of experience, Jonathan explores methods for personal evolution toward a more caring, peaceful, and happy life. His work has been featured in USA TODAY, Newsweek, and the Los Angeles Times. He has appeared on national TV talk shows, including Oprah. Jonathan is the author of nine books, delivering informative presentations on personal development.



LINKS FROM THE SHOW

XTCasMedicine.com

MDMAcouplestraining.com



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Clinical pharmacologist, Stephanie Karzon Abrams joins me to share how ketamine can support our hormonal health. Stephanie walks us through the science + research behind why these compounds and psychedelics can help us towards finding balance when our hormones get out of whack. We dive into treating conditions such as PMDD, menopause symptoms, and the hormonal disturbances caused by autoimmune diseases.

In this episode:

[01:48] Intro

[02:28] Psychedelics' Dance with Hormones and Libido

[09:46] Psilocybin and its Potential for Women's Cycles

[14:39] Ketamine: A New Hope for Hormone Disorders

[29:15] Legal Plant Medicines for Intimacy and Connection

[36:36] Microdosing for Creativity, Mood, and Relationships

[41:45] Ibogaine Therapy's Promise for Traumatic Brain Injuries



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Stephanie is a clinical pharmacologist, community maker, and entrepreneur in the psychedelic space. Through her consultancy, Beyond the Bench, she provides comprehensive guidance and expert advice, offers open-access education, conducts research, and supports initiatives seeking to make a positive impact, in order to redefine the landscape of healthcare and support access to psychedelics and plant medicines. 



LINKS

Article about TBI in relationships: https://www.beyondthebench.life/eleusinian-echoes/relationships-after-traumatic-brain-injury-tbi

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Psychedelics + ketamine therapies are powerful ways to support the opening of the mind. But is there a thing such as being TOO OPEN?

Nate Klemp, PhD, is a writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur. He joins me to share how to live with an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World.

In this episode, you’ll hear:


The impact of cancel culture on our cultural mindset and resilience
The key differences between experiencing life with a closed vs. open mindset
How digital distractions affect openness in relationships and intimacy
Strategies for cultivating intentional relationships
Nate’s personal journey towards embracing openness and writing his book, "Open"
Understand the closed state by spending three days binging on screens and political outrage
Fostering openness in romantic partnerships and understanding its significance
Personality traits of openness and closeness according to the BIG FIVE inventory
Scientific research of how personality traits can shift over time
Insights from a skeptic's two-year journey in psychedelic-assisted therapy
The varying experiences and effects of ketamine therapy
Ketamine's antidepressant properties and its impact on neural plasticity
Utilizing open awareness meditation for integrating psychedelic experiences
Exploring the "80/80 marriage" concept for strengthening relationships
Understanding the dynamics of the "sexual great depression" and vulnerability
Patterns of trying to regulate our partner through sex
Techniques for skillfully closing and upholding healthy boundaries



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Nate Klemp, PhD, is a writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur. He is the author of the new book OPEN: Living With an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World. Nate is also the coauthor of the New York Times Editors’ Choice The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Marriage and the New York Times Bestseller Start Here: Master the Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing. Nate cofounded the mindfulness training company Life Cross Training and holds a B.A. and M.A. in philosophy from Stanford University and a PhD from Princeton University.



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Exhale Femme Retreat:

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Craving erotic stories and audio POV boyfriends who will tell you what a good girl you’ve been? Dipsea is a people-powered story studio that produces a wide range of erotic, female-focused audio content.

Co-founder of Dipsea, Gina Gutierrez joins me to share about their work.

In this episode, you’ll hear:


The evolution of the erotic audio industry and Gina's journey of co-founding Dipsea


Popular themes within erotic fantasies


Establishing emotional bonds with characters


The creative process behind crafting erotic narratives and insights into production


The impact of unrealistic expectations perpetuated by erotic content on real-life relationships


Common “ick” factors that hinder reader engagement + building tension in storytelling


The real-life effects of erotic fantasy on dating, relationships, and sexuality


Embracing consent as a desirable element of sex


Assessing the ethicality of porn or audio erotica


Distinguishing Dipsea's storytelling approach amongst others in the industry


Exploring hedonism as a positive and empowering facet of women's sexual liberation


Envisioning the future of women's sexuality and the roles of platforms like Dipsea and AI technology


The influence of sexual expression amid the pandemic





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Meet Gina Gutierrez, an empathy-driven entrepreneur with her sights set on reimagining and prioritizing female pleasure. As the co-founder and Chief Creative Officer at Dipsea, a people-powered story studio that produces a wide range of erotic, female-focused audio content, she’s passionate about demonstrating why sexual wellness is essential, and how storytelling and imagination are powerful tools that can help women unlock liberating connections with their bodies. Armed with a psychology degree from Duke and a desire to break the stigma that fantasy should be stifled, she’s ready to help women everywhere tap into their sexual powers. 



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Exhale Femme Retreat:

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