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Stop Overthinking Kristen Odegaard
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4.6 • 22 Ratings
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The podcast for overthinkers, people pleasers and perfectionists... people who are hard on themselves and spend too much time and energy in stuck in their own minds.
Women's Life Coach Kristen Odegaard will help you quiet your (mean) inner critical voice, feel calm and confident without worrying about what others are thinking and shed the layers of self doubt, guilt and not being good enough.
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67. Is it a Coping Mechanism or a Buffer?
Wine, chocolate, working out, scrolling on your phone--- are all common ways to temporarily avoid your emotions with actions.
In this solo episode Kristen discusses coping mechanisms vs "buffering" which is using activities to avoid uncomfortable emotions.
Kristen explores various buffers such as drinking, eating, exercising, social media, and online shopping. She highlights how buffering leads to consequences you don't like and why buffers become habits that don't serve you.
Chapters
00:00 Understanding Coping Mechanisms and Buffers
03:25 The Consequences of Buffers
07:37 Recognizing Your Buffers
09:48 Finding Solutions that Fit the Problem
Learn more about coaching with Kristen: www.coachwithkristen.com
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66. The Core Transformation Method with Alina Nikishina
The Core Transformation Method helps transform patterns of behavior, thinking, and feeling that we don't like by working with different aspects of ourselves.
Alina Nikishina, a transformational coach and mentor, shares the Core Transformation Method and how it can help people overcome patterns of behavior, thinking, and feeling that hold them back.
The Core Transformation Method involves working with different aspects of ourselves, or "parts," to uncover their positive purposes and transform them on a subconscious level. Alina and Kristen share personal experiences with the core transformation methond and how it has created shifts in their lives.
Takeaways
The core transformation process involves uncovering the positive purposes of our parts and experiencing core states of being, such as wholeness and connection to source.
The core transformation method can create significant improvement in one to three sessions, and studies have shown its effectiveness in resolving clinical diagnoses.
Working with the core transformation method can help overcome beliefs of not feeling enough and the compulsion to save others, allowing for greater self-acceptance and empowerment.
The core transformation method can be combined with other modalities, such as neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), to create lasting change and interrupt patterns in the moment.
Alina Nikishina is a Transformational Coach and Mentor. (Certified Core Transformation Coach, Certified Hypnotist, Business Coach)She works primarily with entrepreneurs and helps folks transform repeating t. houghts, feelings, and behaviors that hold them back from being the person they want to be and going for their goals.
Www.alinanikishina.com
Learn more about coaching with Kristen: www.coachwithkristen.com
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65. Strategies for Mindful Eating with Megan Gaul
If you love to hear...
...honest chats about the emotional eating cycle, and what it’s like to go through it,
...how overthinking and people-pleasing can contribute to extra weight over time,
...specific actions you can take to bring calm and clarity to weight-loss (rather than a black-and-white/ good-and-bad-food view),
...then give this a listen!
Megan & Kristen chat about the importance of having a concrete understanding of oneself and setting realistic goals. Megan addresses the emotional component of eating and suggests finding the underlying need that food is fulfilling.
Takeaways:
Having a concrete understanding of oneself and setting realistic goals is crucial for successful weight loss.
Addressing the emotional component of eating involves identifying the underlying need that food is fulfilling.
Tactics like journaling, pre-planning meals, and creating a space between the urge and action can develop mindfulness and intentionality.
Diet culture has a significant impact on different age groups, but there is a rise in body positivity and intuitive eating.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Megan's Background
06:06 Building Healthy Habits and Setting Boundaries
13:36 Overcoming Emotional Eating through Empathy
28:31 Finding Balance in Food Choices
40:00 Pre-Planning Meals and Navigating Social Situations
46:14 The Power of Self-Compassion in Making Sustainable Changes
Megan Gaul is an educator-turned-coach from Staten Island, New York. She embarked on her own 100-lb weight-loss journey in 2018. While keeping that weight off ever since, she has worked hard to build and maintain strong boundaries to keep out diet-industry jargon and fear-based tactics. She forged a unique way to her healthy lifestyle, and food freedom was the most important part of that path.
How to Reach Megan, or Take Action On This Today:
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Register for the Partake Meal-Planning Club (a free membership): www.partakemealplanning.com/jointheclub
Follow Megan on Instagram: www.instagram.com/partake_foodie
Learn more about coaching with Kristen: www.coachwithkristen.com
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64. Releasing Shameful Thoughts
Shameful thoughts are still just thoughts. Thoughts not facts.
In this episode, Kristen shares her personal experience working with a coach to address shame.
She discusses hows shame can keep us stuck and small, and how it is important to release and let go of shame. But- that's easier said than done.
The breakthough for Kristen was really understanding that shame thoughts are just thoughts, and that there are other possibilities and ways to think about ourselves.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Setting the Context
02:14 Choosing to Work with Shame
03:22 Recognizing the Impact of Buried Shame
05:13 Process of Releasing Shame
06:09 Importance of Finding Support
07:41 Realizing Shame Thoughts are Just Thoughts
08:52 Expanding Thinking Beyond Shame
10:08 Embracing Freedom from Shame
11:17 Conclusion and Well Wishes -
63. Skincare Minimalism with Dr. Mary Alice Mina
In this episode we discuss skin minimalism and why less is more when it comes to skincare.
Dr. Mina emphasizes the importance of simplifying skincare routines and using only the necessary products. She cautions against falling for skincare hype and also discusses common skincare concerns such as dark circles and provides strategies for addressing them.
Takeaways
Simplify your skincare routine by using only the necessary products.
In the morning, cleanse, moisturize, and apply sunscreen. In the evening, cleanse, moisturize, and consider using a retinol cream.
Don't fall for skincare hype and seek guidance from a dermatologist for personalized advice.
Address dark circles by using lightening creams for pigmentation, lasers for increased vascularity, and lower blepharoplasty for age-related changes.
Be cautious with at-home skincare devices and consider in-office treatments for better results.
Prevent skin cancer by wearing sunscreen, protective clothing, and seeking shade.
00:00 Introduction to Skincare and Skin Minimalism
08:02 Combatting Dark Under Eyes
28:03 Skin Changes During Menopause and Aging
35:28 Preventing Skin Cancer
41:30 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Dr. Mary Alice Mina is a Harvard trained double-board certified dermatologist and dermatologic surgeon and leading expert on skin health and skincare. She is the host of THE SKIN REAL, a podcast for people looking for real skin care guidance, by true skin experts where she emphasizes a holistic and preventative approach to skin health and aesthetics. With over 15 years of clinical experience, she is an invited speaker on podcasts, at national meetings, and is recognized for her artistic eye and surgical skills while helping people feel good in their own skin! She is co-owner of Baucom & Mina Derm Surgery in Atlanta, Georgia where she treats patients with advanced surgical and cosmetic procedures to restore and maintain healthy skin.
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Learn more about coaching with Kristen: www.coachwithkristen.com
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62. Manifesting Your Inner Desires with Stephanie Hickey
Let's talk about sex... love and relationships. In this (spicy) episode we discuss how our desires (not only in sex, but in life) are like beacons for our life. We don't always have to answer the call of the desire- yet we get to choose what to do with it. But there's a lot of power in knowing what you want. These are messages for you about what lights you up at your very core.
Stephanie addresses how women are often very much in 'to do' mode and more rarely in 'being' mode - this loses the softness we long for, the pace of life we long for.
This is especially true for mothers and care-takers and we dive into how you can learn to shift into "being" mode which will recharge you in many ways.
Stephanie Hickey is sex, love and relationship coach with a special interest in helping women take the necessary steps to take radical self-responsibility for their own pleasure, for the love they deserve, and in their relationships.
She helps women create desire-led lives by guiding women through the journey of identifying and manifesting their inner desires by coaching them through a blend of scientific, mystical, rational and intuitive embodiment practices.
Learn more about Stephanie: www.wonderlovecoaching.com
Learn more about coaching with Kristen: www.coachwithkristen.com
Follow me: https://www.facebook.com/coachwithkristen
https://www.instagram.com/kristen.odegaard.coaching/
Customer Reviews
So relatable and valuable!
As a woman who used to have a lot of people pleasing and perfectionist behaviors, I find the stories and tips that Kristin and her guests share to be very valuable and relatable. This is a great show for women who want to be well and live their best life!
Extremely relatable
As a recovering people pleaser I can very much relate to several of these topics and stories. This work is SO important. I love Kristen’s analogy of a gate around your yard when thinking about creating boundaries. I’ll be listening more often!
Great fundamental lessons
A few episodes in and I am really gleaning a lot from this podcast