Take TWO: A Dose of Mental Wellness

Lindsay Fleming, LPC and Stacy McCarthy, LPC

Licensed therapists Lindsay Fleming and Stacy McCarthy give realistic advice with cross-generational perspectives. Owners of the successful therapy practice, Main Street Counseling, Lindsay’s and Stacy’s combined areas of expertise range from teen issues and social media to parenting and life transitions. Their mental health media brand fosters a safe space for parents, preteens, and everyone in between to gain perspective and actionable insights while navigating life. Produced by Sara Press

  1. 12/17/2024

    Overcoming Mental Blocks for Athletes with Jeff Benson

    In this episode Stacy and Lindsay interview Jeff Benson, Founder of the sports performance company, Mind Body Cheer. Jeff wrote the book “unBlocked: The Walls Come Tumbling Down,” to help cheerleaders, parents, and coaches understand and resolve the MENTAL HURDLES that occur in competitive cheerleading. We discuss the psychology behind mental blocks and discuss: -How his experience as a college cheerleader built his confidence and helped him embrace his identity. -The importance of helping others and how this key value led him to leadership roles on teams and in his career as a teacher, therapist and mental performance coach. -His analysis of fixed and growth mindset and how mindset impacts athletes, coaches and teams. -Tips for parents as they support their kid’s goals and why letting kids fail is crucial. -How he helps coaches develop growth mindsets and create psychologically safe environments for athletes. -The value driven roadmap he creates for coaches, athletes and parents and how this supports the athlete’s goals. -Why coaches and parents yell and how this demonstrates a lack of strategy. -How he conceptualizes an athlete’s mental blocks and how storing positive emotional memories is key to resolving the block. Jeff suggests that we Take Two this week by focusing on gratitude. Acknowledging the highs and lows and being thankful for the opportunities in front of us. Learn more about Jeff at: http://www.mindbodycheer.com/about.html (http://www.mindbodycheer.com/about.html) Follow us on: Instagram

    1h 6m
  2. 11/12/2024

    It's Not You, It's Me: Self Reflection and Awareness

    In this episode Stacy and Lindsay play the “We’re Not Really Strangers: Self-Awareness Starts With Self-Reflection” card game. They answer probing questions in an effort to better understand themselves and their relationships. So if you have ever wondered why you are a certain way, or what motivated you to do something, then answer along with them to develop an increased awareness of your thoughts, feelings and actions. They explore the questions:     -What do I need help with currently? Who can help me? How can I help     myself?     -What am I putting off that needs to be done? Why am I avoiding it?     -Are any of my insecurities hurting anyone by accident?     -How would I describe my relationship with myself in one word?     -Who do I envy and why do I envy them?     -What do I want to thank myself for?     -Where is one area of my life where I have seen improvement?     -What is something mean said to me in my childhood that I still remember?     -What has become more important to me recently than ever before?     -What purchase has meant the most to me recently? What purchase could I     have done without?     -What is my most toxic trait I can admit to and where do I think it stems from?  Take Two this week by answering these reflective questions: What is a non-negotiable in my life? What have I outgrown recently? What am I growing into? We look forward to hearing your insights! https://www.werenotreallystrangers.com/products/self-reflection-kit?srsltid=AfmBOooluTTdpm8fkmAvMju7RdRHlgVgMeSGoN-iGN-3b93tKEgQHcoF (https://www.werenotreallystrangers.com/products/self-reflection-kit?srsltid=AfmBOooluTTdpm8fkmAvMju7RdRHlgVgMeSGoN-iGN-3b93tKEgQHcoF) Follow us on: Instagram

    39 min
  3. 11/05/2024

    Tips for Parenting an Anxious Child: Practicing SPACE Treatment

    In this episode Lindsay and Stacy discuss SPACE (Supportive Parenting For Anxious Childhood Emotions), a PARENT based treatment program for children and adolescents with anxiety, OCD and related problems. This framework is unique because children do not have to attend SPACE sessions but they are considered the patients.   We breakdown the SPACE process and discuss:      -Why the SPACE program is empowering for parents.      -The two main changes that parents need to make when responding to their             anxious kids in order to reduce accommodation.      -How accommodations from parents can maintain or increase a child’s anxiety.    - Examples of accommodations so you can better understand what parental             behaviors and reactions should be targeted.      -Reassurance seeking from kids and how too much reassurance can decrease             their self trust.      -The best time to address your kid’s anxiety.      -The importance of including people from your support system in your plan             when using SPACE. Take Two this week by reflecting on accommodations that you may be making in your home. Are there ways that you are reacting to your child that could be maintaining or increasing their anxiety? For more information on how parent’s can react more supportively and with less accommodating, see the book linked below.  https://www.amazon.com/s?k=eli+lebowitz+space&hvadid=529437145575&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9021468&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=10254487046212137192&hvtargid=kwd-1015361533389&hydadcr=22537_9636735&tag=googhydr-20&ref=pd_sl_515t4m9s8g_e (https://www.amazon.com/s?k=eli+lebowitz+space&hvadid=529437145575&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9021468&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=10254487046212137192&hvtargid=kwd-1015361533389&hydadcr=22537_9636735&tag=googhydr-20&ref=pd_sl_515t4m9s8g_e) Follow us on: Instagram

    37 min
  4. 10/22/2024

    Ex of Wolf of WallStreet, Dr Nadine Talks Narcissism, Trauma Bonds and the Truths in the Movie.

    In this episode Stacy and Lindsay interview therapist, Dr. Nadine, who at the age of 22 married Jordan Belfort, the stockbroker depicted in the hit movie “The Wolf of Wall Street.” She shares the dark reality of their traumatic relationship and how she now helps others facing similar struggles. We discuss:      -Her opinion of the movie and what they left out that she would have included.     -The role that addiction played in her relationship with her ex-husband.      -How pathological partners use coercion, control and abuse to keep you stuck     in your relationship.      -Signs that you are in a trauma bond.      -How shame about your relationship leads to isolation.      -Her number one tip for preparing to leave an abusive relationship.      -How the public information about P-Diddy’s abusive behavior can serve to     educate us on abuse of power.      -How she talked to her kids about her marriage once she left.      -The importance of reaching out to helpers when you need to leave a     relationship and the value in starting small to make changes. Take Two this week by reflecting on where you feel shame. Then write out the opposite statement in an affirmation or say it out-loud in the mirror. Make it a positive affirmation that resonates with you and what you are currently trying to conquer. https://drnae.com/run-like-hell-book/ (https://drnae.com/run-like-hell-book/) Follow us on: Instagram

    38 min
  5. 10/08/2024

    Navigating Career Loss or Changes and How to Find What You're Meant For with Tami Palmer

    In this episode Stacy and Lindsay welcome writer and career coach, Tami Palmer. Tami helps clients harness their natural strengths so they can make intentional career choices. She shares the importance of developing clarity in professional goals and how this results in alignment and purpose in our career. We explore:     -How much societal expectations and the conventional definition of “success”     influences us as we make educational and career choices.      -Why people quit bosses not companies and leave a job when unfulfilled.    -The importance of listening to your gut instinct.    -How she helps clients break patterns by teasing apart emotions from facts     when making career decisions.      -The way assumptions hold us back and the question (we love!) that she asks to     challenge them.      -Why she wishes we could all take a sabbatical from work and reflect on our future.      -The importance of clarity in goals and her belief that the universe responds to     specifics.      -The power of language and words that minimize our power.      -How stress in the workplace affects us.      -The grief that accompanies layoffs and terminations.      Take Two this week by being intentional and re-evaluating your to-do list. Ask…What on this list is serving you? What are you doing out of obligation or habit? And how will you feel after doing these things? Tami suggests that we take something off our to-do list that is not moving us forward, creating more room for the things that will.  https://greyzonementoring.com/greyzone-book/  Follow us on: Instagram

    42 min
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Licensed therapists Lindsay Fleming and Stacy McCarthy give realistic advice with cross-generational perspectives. Owners of the successful therapy practice, Main Street Counseling, Lindsay’s and Stacy’s combined areas of expertise range from teen issues and social media to parenting and life transitions. Their mental health media brand fosters a safe space for parents, preteens, and everyone in between to gain perspective and actionable insights while navigating life. Produced by Sara Press