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The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is hosted by Roy Biancalana, a certified relationship coach, three-time #1 best-selling author and nationally-recognized expert in the field of attraction and conscious relationships. His podcast is devoted to supporting single people in their desire to attract a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship. The perspective shared is a mindful or conscious perspective on life, love and the pursuit of intimacy.

Roy does not focus much on telling single people where to go, how to approach or what to say to a potential partner. Rather, he focuses on helping people identify and let go of the barriers, blockages and self-sabotaging patterns that keep them single. Roy's work and this podcast are in alignment with the advice given from the famous 13th century mystic poet, Rumi, who said, "Your task is not to seek love, but instead to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast Roy Biancalana

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The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is hosted by Roy Biancalana, a certified relationship coach, three-time #1 best-selling author and nationally-recognized expert in the field of attraction and conscious relationships. His podcast is devoted to supporting single people in their desire to attract a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship. The perspective shared is a mindful or conscious perspective on life, love and the pursuit of intimacy.

Roy does not focus much on telling single people where to go, how to approach or what to say to a potential partner. Rather, he focuses on helping people identify and let go of the barriers, blockages and self-sabotaging patterns that keep them single. Roy's work and this podcast are in alignment with the advice given from the famous 13th century mystic poet, Rumi, who said, "Your task is not to seek love, but instead to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

    The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 2: The Decision—The Moment Your Spiritual Journey Begins

    The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 2: The Decision—The Moment Your Spiritual Journey Begins

    “Pain is a portal to profound spiritual growth,” says our host, Roy Biancalana. He shares that there is a moment in every person’s life, a dark-night-of-the-soul type moment, where we realize that the well from which we’ve been drinking is dry.
     
    It’s at this crucial moment that our spiritual journey CAN begin. We can recognize that our strategies for happiness haven’t worked (and will never work), and in that moment of despair, we can begin an honest search for answers.
     
    In this, the second episode of a 5-part series, you will receive a profound insight into yourself, one that will launch your spiritual journey and change your life forever.
     
    You will learn…
    ·      the single recognition that starts the spiritual journey;
    ·      the real reason people seek relationships, success, fame or beauty;
    ·      why attraction, manifestation and getting what you want is overrated;
    ·      what your life purpose has been;
    ·      and much, much more!
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.
     
    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

    • 1 hr 9 min
    The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 1: The Description—What is Awakening & Why You Should Be Interested

    The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 1: The Description—What is Awakening & Why You Should Be Interested

    Many think that spiritual awakening leads to a boring life, one of abstaining and renunciation. They fear it means never having any fun and sitting on a cushion all day saying goofy words like, “Om” and “namaste”.
     
    But in this 5-part series, you’ll learn that the opposite is true. In fact, our host, Roy Biancalana, says enlightenment leads to a life of engagement, playfulness, and authenticity, a life where the past is powerless, loneliness disappears, and drama ends.
     
    In this first episode of the series, you’ll discover not only what spiritual awakening is, but you will embark on the greatest journey of all—the discovery of who you truly are.
     
    You will learn…
    ·      how spiritual awakening is tragically misunderstood;
    ·      the drastic difference between personal growth and spiritual awakening;
    ·      the simplest definition of enlightenment;
    ·      12 reasons to be interested in spiritual awakening;
    ·      …and much, much more!
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.
     
    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

    • 1 hr 3 min
    Roy's Rants (Vol. 2): 4 Things Single People Rarely Do and it Makes Roy’s Head Explode

    Roy's Rants (Vol. 2): 4 Things Single People Rarely Do and it Makes Roy’s Head Explode

    Roy is back with another epic rant! The first time Roy unloaded (episode #136), he ranted about things that drive a conscious relationship like himself insane.
     
    In this episode, which might feel like someone waking you up out of a deep sleep by dumping a bucket of cold water on your head, Roy rants about 4 things that surprise and confuse him, things that just don’t make sense. People say they want to attract a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship and yet they don’t do the very things that are needed to make it happen. It leaves Roy shaking his head.
     
    Don’t miss the playful and powerful episode.
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.
     
    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

    • 1 hr 4 min
    Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 6 Masculine vs. Feminine

    Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 6 Masculine vs. Feminine

    To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren’t.
     
    So, in this episode, Roy discusses MASCULINE and FEMININE. These energies (they aren’t genders) hold the key to attraction, chemistry, and a great sex life!
     
    But balance is not the goal as it has been in the other episodes in this series. Rather, the goal here is how to magnify your lead energy and diminish the other. It’s a fascinating topic and one you don’t want to miss.
     
    You will learn…
    …what masculine and feminine mean in a relationship context;
    …what the toxic masculine and toxic feminine are and how to tell them apart;
    …how and why we can end up in “the friend zone”;
    …how to make sense of the trans/gender controversy;
    …how to display your masculine or feminine in an irresistible way;
    …and much, much more!
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.
     
    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

    • 1 hr 8 min
    Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 5: Selfish vs. Unselfish

    Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 5: Selfish vs. Unselfish

    To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren’t.
     
    So, in this episode, Roy discusses SELFISH and UNSELFISH. Separately, they are both true—we need to value our needs, but we also need to consider others—but together they seem contradictory, or at least it looks that way. But listen in and you will learn the critical life skill of finding the balance between the two.
     
    You will learn…
    …why unselfishness comes back to bite you;
    …that narcissists and empaths are basically the same person and equally dysfunctional;
    …why compromise is not a value of healthy relationships;
    …how to shift a win/lose dynamic to a win/win dynamic;
    …and much more!
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.
     
    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

    • 58 min
    Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 4: Judgement vs Discernment

    Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 4: Judgement vs Discernment

    To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren’t.
     
    So, in this episode, Roy discusses JUDGMENT and DISCERNMENT. Being wise and discerning keeps us from experiencing heartache and pain, but how is that different from being judging or judgmental? How do we discern and not judge? Listen in and you will learn the critical life skill of knowing the difference between the two.
     
    You will learn…
    …what makes judgement different than discernment;
    …3 reasons why we are judgmental and how to stop;
    …3 ways we can growing in wisdom and discernment;
    …and much more!
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.
     
    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

    • 1 hr 1 min

Customer Reviews

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32 Ratings

32 Ratings

MyMountainPeace ,

The heart of what really matters

I was never much for podcasts until I came upon Roy Biancalana. I loved his Quantum Insight series from earlier this year, and have been hooked ever since! Roy melds the insights he has gained from over 20 years of relationship coaching and from consciously living his own life, with the truths and teachings of other wise and evolved teachers (Michael Singer and David Deida come to mind.). This is not a podcast about how to be, what to say, where to go in the dating/relationship world but rather a reminder that only when we come from a place of mindfulness, authenticity and conscious awareness do we find and keep everlasting love. (it ’s always an inside job!!). Roy gives practical advice and insights with clarity, grace and humor.

Catheist ,

BEST DATING ADVICE PODCAST!!!

Over the past 2-3 years I have been listening to a LOT of relationship and dating advice coaches and they have all been tremendously helpful, but Roy is on another level. By listening to him and by taking his advice my personal growth journey has turned into a spiritual journey which has so deeply changed my life and I am so happy with myself and my life that I no longer feel I "need" a relationship (but I am open to it still lol). Roy gives great advice on how to be okay with and love YOURSELF FIRST, how to be a great communicator, how to navigate the stages of relationships, and more! Roy led me to finally start Sam Harris' meditation course which is AWESOME, David Deida who is mind blowing and most importantly MICHAEL SINGER who has literally changed my entire outlook on life as well as everyone I share his books and teachings to as well! If I decide to hire a coach it will definitely be Roy and in the meantime thank you so much Roy, and I love your Chicago accent it feels like I am back home!! 😘😘😘♥️💕

3xdamages ,

Roy is a fount of wisdom

Roy takes the great wisdom from Buddhism, philosophy, religion, mindfulness, etc. and applies it to the process of dating and relationships. If you’re willing to do the work you will see the results.

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