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The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is hosted by Roy Biancalana, a certified relationship coach, three-time #1 best-selling author and nationally-recognized expert in the field of attraction and conscious relationships. His podcast is devoted to supporting single people in their desire to attract a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship. The perspective shared is a mindful or conscious perspective on life, love and the pursuit of intimacy.

Roy does not focus much on telling single people where to go, how to approach or what to say to a potential partner. Rather, he focuses on helping people identify and let go of the barriers, blockages and self-sabotaging patterns that keep them single. Roy's work and this podcast are in alignment with the advice given from the famous 13th century mystic poet, Rumi, who said, "Your task is not to seek love, but instead to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast Roy Biancalana

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The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is hosted by Roy Biancalana, a certified relationship coach, three-time #1 best-selling author and nationally-recognized expert in the field of attraction and conscious relationships. His podcast is devoted to supporting single people in their desire to attract a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship. The perspective shared is a mindful or conscious perspective on life, love and the pursuit of intimacy.

Roy does not focus much on telling single people where to go, how to approach or what to say to a potential partner. Rather, he focuses on helping people identify and let go of the barriers, blockages and self-sabotaging patterns that keep them single. Roy's work and this podcast are in alignment with the advice given from the famous 13th century mystic poet, Rumi, who said, "Your task is not to seek love, but instead to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

    Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 4: Judgement vs Discernment

    Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 4: Judgement vs Discernment

    To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren’t.
     
    So, in this episode, Roy discusses JUDGMENT and DISCERNMENT. Being wise and discerning keeps us from experiencing heartache and pain, but how is that different from being judging or judgmental? How do we discern and not judge? Listen in and you will learn the critical life skill of knowing the difference between the two.
     
    You will learn…
    …what makes judgement different than discernment;
    …3 reasons why we are judgmental and how to stop;
    …3 ways we can growing in wisdom and discernment;
    …and much more!
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.
     
    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

    • 1 hr 1 min
    Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 3: Compassion vs Responsibility

    Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 3: Compassion vs Responsibility

    To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren’t.
     
    So, in this episode, Roy discusses COMPASSION and RESPONSIBILITY. Separately, they are both true—compassion and forgiveness are necessary but so is responsibility and accountability—but together they seem contradictory, or at least it looks that way. But listen in and you will learn the critical life skill of finding the balance between the two.
     
    You will learn…
    …why relationships are often co-dependent and dysfunctional;
    …the “equation” for creating healthy, supportive relationships;
    …how the dark sides of compassion and responsibility often manifest;
    …the process of strengthening your “heart” or your “hammer”;
    …and much more.
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.
     
    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

    • 59 min
    Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 2: Thinking vs Feeling

    Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 2: Thinking vs Feeling

    To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren’t.
     
    So, in this episode, Roy discusses THINKING and FEELING. Separately, they are both true—thoughts are important, but so are emotions—but together they seem contradictory, or at least it looks that way. But listen in and you will learn the critical life skill of finding the balance between the two.
     
    You will learn…
    …why EQ and IQ are both necessary for a happy life and love life;
    …if you are a “Sheldon” or a “Penny” and why that’s dangerous;
    …the critical relationship skill of celebrating and appreciating differences;
    …why thoughts, emotions and instincts can’t be trusted individually;
    …what it means to have a “whole-body YES!”;
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.
     
    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

    • 58 min
    Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 1: Acceptance vs. Action

    Making Sense of Life's Contradictions, Pt. 1: Acceptance vs. Action

    To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren’t.
     
    So, in this episode, Roy discusses ACCEPTANCE and ACTION. Separately, they are both true—we need to accept reality, but we also need to take action—but together they seem contradictory, or at least it looks that way. But listen in and you will learn the critical life skill of finding the balance between the two.
     
    You will learn…
    …that acceptance and action are not contradictory but complimentary;
    …how to make the best choices and decisions;
    …why acceptance rather than shame or anger is the best motivation for change;
    …how to find that grounded, centered place within which leads to the best action;
    …and much, much more!
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.
     
    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

    • 1 hr
    Michael Singer on How to Stay Centered in a Chaotic World

    Michael Singer on How to Stay Centered in a Chaotic World

    Let’s face it: relationships can be a source of great frustration. People do and say things that trigger intense reactions within us, and all too often, because we don’t know how to handle those feelings, we react in ways that make it worse. We’ve all been there.
     
    In this episode, Roy shares a talk given by his favorite spiritual teacher, Michael Singer. In his down-to-earth, practical style, Michael goes into detail describing the skill that we all need to develop if we want to stay centered when we’re triggered or when experiencing inner turbulence.
     
    You will learn…
    ·      how and why we get triggered and what happens inside us;
    ·      why it’s so important to learn how to not react to the inner turbulence;
    ·      the two strategies we can use to let go and not make matters worse;
    ·      and much more!
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    For more talks by Michael Singer: www.tou.org 
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.
     
    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

    • 56 min
    The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 7: Your STRATEGY Makeover

    The Pursuit of Intimacy: A Practical Guide and a Complete Makeover so That You Can Find Your Life Partner in 2024, Pt. 7: Your STRATEGY Makeover

    There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to “attract lasting love,” yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more.
     
    In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you’ll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life and perhaps experience a complete makeover, which will finally allow you to have success in your pursuit of intimacy.
     
    In this episode, which is the final installment of a 7-part series, Roy addresses our STRATEGY.
     
    In this episode, you will learn…
    ·      a practical 6-step strategy for finding a life partner;
    ·      a new strategy from Seinfeld’s “George Costanza”;
    ·      new perspectives on online dating
    ·      fresh, risky ways of meeting new people;
    ·      how trust plays a critical role in finding a partner;
    ·      and much more!
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.
     
    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

    • 56 min

Customer Reviews

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32 Ratings

32 Ratings

MyMountainPeace ,

The heart of what really matters

I was never much for podcasts until I came upon Roy Biancalana. I loved his Quantum Insight series from earlier this year, and have been hooked ever since! Roy melds the insights he has gained from over 20 years of relationship coaching and from consciously living his own life, with the truths and teachings of other wise and evolved teachers (Michael Singer and David Deida come to mind.). This is not a podcast about how to be, what to say, where to go in the dating/relationship world but rather a reminder that only when we come from a place of mindfulness, authenticity and conscious awareness do we find and keep everlasting love. (it ’s always an inside job!!). Roy gives practical advice and insights with clarity, grace and humor.

Catheist ,

BEST DATING ADVICE PODCAST!!!

Over the past 2-3 years I have been listening to a LOT of relationship and dating advice coaches and they have all been tremendously helpful, but Roy is on another level. By listening to him and by taking his advice my personal growth journey has turned into a spiritual journey which has so deeply changed my life and I am so happy with myself and my life that I no longer feel I "need" a relationship (but I am open to it still lol). Roy gives great advice on how to be okay with and love YOURSELF FIRST, how to be a great communicator, how to navigate the stages of relationships, and more! Roy led me to finally start Sam Harris' meditation course which is AWESOME, David Deida who is mind blowing and most importantly MICHAEL SINGER who has literally changed my entire outlook on life as well as everyone I share his books and teachings to as well! If I decide to hire a coach it will definitely be Roy and in the meantime thank you so much Roy, and I love your Chicago accent it feels like I am back home!! 😘😘😘♥️💕

3xdamages ,

Roy is a fount of wisdom

Roy takes the great wisdom from Buddhism, philosophy, religion, mindfulness, etc. and applies it to the process of dating and relationships. If you’re willing to do the work you will see the results.

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