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The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is hosted by Roy Biancalana, a certified relationship coach, three-time #1 best-selling author and nationally-recognized expert in the field of attraction and conscious relationships. His podcast is devoted to supporting single people in their desire to attract a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship. The perspective shared is a mindful or conscious perspective on life, love and the pursuit of intimacy.

Roy does not focus much on telling single people where to go, how to approach or what to say to a potential partner. Rather, he focuses on helping people identify and let go of the barriers, blockages and self-sabotaging patterns that keep them single. Roy's work and this podcast are in alignment with the advice given from the famous 13th century mystic poet, Rumi, who said, "Your task is not to seek love, but instead to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast Roy Biancalana

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The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is hosted by Roy Biancalana, a certified relationship coach, three-time #1 best-selling author and nationally-recognized expert in the field of attraction and conscious relationships. His podcast is devoted to supporting single people in their desire to attract a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship. The perspective shared is a mindful or conscious perspective on life, love and the pursuit of intimacy.

Roy does not focus much on telling single people where to go, how to approach or what to say to a potential partner. Rather, he focuses on helping people identify and let go of the barriers, blockages and self-sabotaging patterns that keep them single. Roy's work and this podcast are in alignment with the advice given from the famous 13th century mystic poet, Rumi, who said, "Your task is not to seek love, but instead to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

    The Intersection of Spirituality & Sexuality: A Talk by David Deida

    The Intersection of Spirituality & Sexuality: A Talk by David Deida

    Our host, Roy Biancalana, has had many “mentors from afar,” including Eckhart Tolle, Michael Singer, Jim Dethmer and Sam Harris. But perhaps the mentor that’s had the most impact on Roy and his work is David Deida.
     
    David Deida is widely considered THE leading expert in the world when it comes to sexual polarity and masculine/feminine dynamics. (He charges $85,000 a day to speak at corporate events!)
     
    In this episode, Roy shares a live talk Deida gave where he clearly articulates his perspectives on men, women, attraction and the intersection of spirituality and sexuality.
     
    This is one of the powerful things you’ll ever hear. Don’t miss it!!
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    David Deida's Website: https://deida.info/
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    • 1 hr 13 min
    Let's Talk About Attachment Styles (and How to Transcend Them)

    Let's Talk About Attachment Styles (and How to Transcend Them)

    You’ve probably heard of the three Relationship Attachment Styles: Anxious, Avoidant & Secure. It’s a new theory that describes an old problem: Most of us are either afraid of being alone (anxious), afraid of being close (avoidant) or in very rare cases, comfortable with either.
     
    In this episode, Roy breaks each style down in detail. But more than that, he helps the listener identify their “style” and why the anxious style attracts the avoidant style, and vice versa.
     
    Though not many of us relate in the “secure” way, Roy says we can all get there—and this episode will show you how.
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    • 1 hr 2 min
    A Single Woman's Biggest Challenge: The Most Important Thing a Woman Needs to do in Her Search for a Partner

    A Single Woman's Biggest Challenge: The Most Important Thing a Woman Needs to do in Her Search for a Partner

    There are a lot of challenges women face and feel in their search for a life partner, but in this episode, the host, Roy Biancalana, identifies a woman’s BIGGEST challenge.
     
    And the best part is, he not only identifies the challenge, but he also shows women exactly what to do about it. The premise is simple: If women work through their biggest challenge, they will allow themselves to attract lasting love.
     
    However, as you’ll hear in the episode, Roy encourages men to listen too because the more they know what a woman’s challenge is the better prepared they are to connect with her in a healthy way.
     
    Women, men… whoever! Don’t miss this episode…or the last one!
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    • 1 hr 11 min
    A Single Man's Biggest Challenge: The Most Important Thing a Man Needs to do in His Search for a Partner

    A Single Man's Biggest Challenge: The Most Important Thing a Man Needs to do in His Search for a Partner

    There are a lot of challenges men face and feel in their search for a life partner, but in this episode, the host, Roy Biancalana, identifies a man’s BIGGEST challenge.
     
    And the best part is, he not only identifies the challenge, but he also shows men exactly what to do about it. The premise is simple: If men work through their biggest challenge, they will allow themselves to attract lasting love.
     
    However, as you’ll hear in the episode, Roy encourages women to listen too because the more they know what a man’s challenge is the better prepared they are to connect with him in a healthy way.
     
    Men, women… whoever! Don’t miss this episode…or the next!
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    • 53 min
    The Birthday Battle (Roy's Birthday Edition)

    The Birthday Battle (Roy's Birthday Edition)

    Since this podcast originally dropped on Roy’s birthday (April 25), he’s devoted this episode to discussing the very common but very powerful feelings that can arise around birthdays.
     
    So, whether you’re turning 30 and you thought your career would have taken off by now, or if you’re turning 40 and you thought you’d have started a family by now, or if you’re turning 50 and having a midlife crisis because it feels like you’re living someone else’s life, or if you’re just feeling old and past your prime, this podcast is sure to offer help.
     
    If you like your next birthday to feel happy rather than helpless, don’t miss this episode.
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    • 55 min
    Wisdom for "The Search": How Looking for a Partner is Like Looking for a House

    Wisdom for "The Search": How Looking for a Partner is Like Looking for a House

    When this podcast was recorded, Roy and his wife, MaryMargaret, were looking for a new place to live. And as they searched for a house, Roy noticed how similar it is to searching for a partner. Roy felt like he was “single” again, searching for the “one.”
     
    In this episode, Roy shares what we can learn about our search for a partner from his search for a house. He points not so much to the desired outcome (the right partner or house), but more to how we are going about the search itself. You’ll learn that either search can be done from fear and scarcity or trust and abundance.
     
    If you’re searching for your life partner, don’t miss this powerful, creative episode.
     
    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
     
    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
     
    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
     
    Roy’s 3 Books:
    ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
    ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
    ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
     
     
    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
     
    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    • 46 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
24 Ratings

24 Ratings

polinasolda ,

So powerful! One of the best!

Roy offers such a deep and unique perspective. I love his original ideas and conscious approach to finding love. He zooms in on what really matters -the person who’s looking for love - not other things. His counter intuitive strategy is life changing. Absolutely love it. Polina Solda

RedWing918 ,

Expanding your Dating Knowledge

What I have learned the most from Roy is how many things go into dating and relationships that you wouldn't expect. You'll be opened up to deeper levels of understanding that will hopefully translate to improving your life.

Party Day ,

Life-Changing Podcast

If you are ready to do the work to make positive changes in your life, this podcast is for you! It is about your relationships with other people but, perhaps more importantly, your relationship with yourself. Roy is very direct and to the point. This is a MUST LISTEN if you want improve your life and your relationships with others!

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