Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

Christine Hassler

Christine Hassler provides you with practical tools and spiritual principles to help you overcome whatever obstacles might be holding you back. Each episode, Christine coaches callers live on the air offering them inspiration and guidance to heal their past, change their present and create what they really want. Topics include: relationships, career, health, transitions, finances, life purpose, spirituality and whatever else callers have questions about. Christine coaches "regular people" on problems – and opportunities - we all face. It's a show that reminds you that you are not alone, while also teaching things you can implement in your own life.

  1. When the Answer Is "I Don't Know" with Yasmine

    1D AGO

    When the Answer Is "I Don't Know" with Yasmine

    What if the most honest answer right now is… I don't know? In this thoughtful and vulnerable coaching session, Christine works with Yasmine, who is navigating uncertainty in her relationship. She deeply values the emotional connection she shares with her partner, yet finds herself triggered by his financial instability and questioning whether this is a deal breaker. Christine helps Yasmine explore something deeper than "Should I stay or should I go?" Instead of rushing toward certainty, they unpack the childhood programming around independence, financial security, and self-reliance that may be shaping her attraction and her fear. The conversation opens a powerful invitation: sometimes clarity doesn't come from forcing a decision — it comes from doing the inner work and tolerating the discomfort of not knowing yet. If you're in a situation where there are many positives but one lingering concern, this episode will help you understand how uncertainty can actually be a doorway to growth rather than a sign to panic.    Consider / Ask Yourself: Are you trying to force certainty in a situation that needs more time? Do you feel pressure to decide instead of permission to discover? Are childhood patterns influencing what feels like a "deal breaker"? Do you believe you have to rely only on yourself? Is your discomfort about the present situation — or about something older being triggered?   Key Insights and A-HAs: The discomfort of "I don't know" often reveals deeper soul lessons. Childhood beliefs like "I can only rely on myself" shape adult attraction patterns. Emotional safety and financial stability are different forms of security. Pressure to decide can block the clarity we're seeking. We often project unmet childhood needs onto our partners. Uncertainty with a regulated nervous system is growth.   How to Deepen the Work: Explore the belief: "I have to make it work on my own." Practice allowing support — even in small, everyday decisions. Notice when you are projecting past wounds onto your partner. Shift from asking "Is this it?" to "What am I learning here?" Allow yourself to sit in "I don't know yet" without rushing toward resolution.   Free Masterclass: Untangled Christine is teaching a free masterclass called Untangled, designed to help you rewire childhood programming and release patterns rooted in uncertainty and bracing. If you're ready to move from survival-based decision-making into conscious clarity, you can register or watch the replay at: christinehassler.com/untangled   Social Media + Resources:  Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler @ChristineHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!

    36 min
  2. Why Forgiveness Isn't Always the Anwser with Sylvie

    FEB 18

    Why Forgiveness Isn't Always the Anwser with Sylvie

    What if forgiveness isn't the next step? In this deeply honest coaching session, Christine works with Sylvie, who has been trying for years to reach forgiveness after a profound betrayal involving her ex-husband and a longtime friend. Despite therapy, spiritual work, and understanding that "forgiveness is for you," she finds herself stuck. Christine helps Sylvie uncover something powerful: sometimes forgiveness isn't blocked because we're not spiritual enough — it's blocked because we've skipped a step. When betrayal runs deep, especially when it touches childhood wounds of not being seen or valued, forgiveness may not be the first doorway. Confrontation, anger release, and self-advocacy might be. If you've ever tried to forgive but couldn't get there — or felt ashamed that you're still angry — this episode will help you understand why and what may actually need to happen first.  transcript   Consider / Ask Yourself: Is there someone you feel you "should" forgive but can't? Are you trying to spiritually bypass anger or confrontation? Do you avoid conflict, even when something deeply hurt you? Are you holding onto resentment because speaking up feels harder? Is there a clearing conversation you've been postponing?   Key Insights and A-HAs: Forgiveness is not condoning someone's behavior. Forgiveness is about releasing the beliefs and judgments keeping you stuck — not excusing the action. Sometimes the growth edge isn't forgiveness — it's confrontation. Anger is not unspiritual; it's information and energy that must be processed. Avoiding hard conversations can keep betrayal alive in the body. Peace often comes from self-advocacy, not silence.   How to Deepen the Work: Ask yourself if there is a conversation that needs to happen before you can move forward. Explore somatic or anger-release work to move stored emotion out of your body. Notice where you are confusing forgiveness with people-pleasing. Practice being a stand for yourself in small ways before having larger confrontations. Shift the goal from "forgiveness" to "peace and acceptance."   Free Masterclass: Untangled Christine is hosting a free masterclass called Untangled, designed to help you break out of childhood patterns and step into who you truly are — especially in this powerful Fire Horse energy cycle. This is an opportunity to create new momentum, untangle old emotional patterns, and strategically step into transformation. Register at: christinehassler.com/untangled   Social Media + Resources:  Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler @ChristineHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!

    31 min
  3. When Your Dreams Change — and So Do You with Drew

    FEB 10

    When Your Dreams Change — and So Do You with Drew

    What happens when the life you imagined no longer fits—and letting go of a long-held dream feels both heartbreaking and necessary? In this deeply reflective coaching session, Christine works with Drew, who is standing at a powerful crossroads after years of personal growth, healing generational patterns, and navigating trauma. Drew feels a strong, love-based call toward motherhood, yet grapples with grief over releasing an old vision of how her life "should" look. Living near family provides the support she needs, but also triggers fears of failure, regression, and giving up on herself. Christine introduces the framework of the Hero's Journey, helping Drew reframe her experience not as loss—but as completion, integration, and embodied wisdom. If you've ever felt torn between who you were becoming and who you thought you were supposed to be, this episode will help you trust the path unfolding beneath your feet and honor the version of yourself that is emerging now.   Consider / Ask Yourself: Have you been grieving a dream that no longer feels aligned—but still hurts to release? Do you judge yourself for not being where you thought you'd be by now? Are you confusing rest, integration, or returning "home" with failure? What part of you is afraid of going backward—and what is it trying to protect? Where might life be asking you to complete a cycle rather than push forward?   Key Insights and A-HAs: Letting go of a dream does not mean you failed—it may mean you completed the journey. Many of our deepest transformations follow the archetypal hero's journey. Grief and clarity can coexist; resolution doesn't erase sadness. Hypervigilance and overthinking are survival strategies, not character flaws. Embodiment—not mental certainty—is what brings peace in major life decisions. Returning "home" can be a resurrection, not a regression.   How to Deepen the Work: Reflect on where you may be in your own hero's journey cycle. Practice observing fearful or critical thoughts without believing them. Honor grief without rushing yourself to be "done" with it. Ask: What choice feels most supportive to my nervous system right now? Trust that clarity comes from commitment, not endless deliberation.   Sponsor: Austin Air Systems Christine is very intentional about air quality and trusts Austin Air Systems to keep her home safe and clean. Austin Air uses more combined HEPA and carbon filter material than any other purifier on the market, including medical-grade HEPA. Their filters last up to five years, are clinically tested, produce extremely low EMF, and are made with solid steel housing and non-toxic paint. Christine personally uses multiple Austin Air purifiers in her home and appreciates that they reduce allergens, VOCs, and pollution without connecting to Wi-Fi. Get 10% off your order at austinairsystems.com with promo code HASSLER10.   Social Media + Resources:  Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler @ChristineHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!

    34 min
  4. Honesty Is the First Form of Intimacy with Vanessa

    JAN 21

    Honesty Is the First Form of Intimacy with Vanessa

    In this candid and grounded coaching session, Christine works with Vanessa, who is navigating a season of major transition—emotionally, physically, and relationally. After a recent car accident, a job layoff, and re-entering the dating world, Vanessa finds herself at a powerful crossroads: learning how to speak honestly about concerns early in a relationship instead of withholding to protect someone else's feelings. Christine helps Vanessa see how "withholding" is often disguised as kindness, but actually blocks true intimacy. Together, they explore how unspoken concerns—especially around health, sleep, and long-term compatibility—can quietly erode connection if left unaddressed. The session becomes a masterclass in how to practice radical honesty with love, maturity, and self-responsibility. If you struggle to speak up in relationships, fear hurting others by being honest, or notice yourself over-adapting to keep the peace, this episode will help you understand why truth is not only necessary—but essential—for real intimacy.   Consider / Ask Yourself: Do you hold back concerns in relationships to avoid conflict or discomfort? Are you afraid that honesty might sabotage connection or intimacy? Do you notice yourself adapting or minimizing your needs early in relationships? Where might you be confusing caretaking with love? Are you dating (or partnering) with clear intention—or avoiding difficult conversations?   Key Insights and A-HAs: Withholding information is not kindness—it creates emotional distance. Honesty early in relationships prevents deeper confusion later. Boundaries are not about changing others; they're about honoring yourself. Emotional intimacy requires courage, not perfection. Speaking truth with love strengthens connection rather than destroying it.   How to Deepen the Work: Notice where you feel a "withhold" in your body—tightness, anxiety, or avoidance. Practice sharing concerns from a grounded, non-blaming place. Reframe honesty as an act of love rather than a risk. Ask yourself: If I don't say this now, how will it affect me later? Focus on breaking patterns of over-adapting or people-pleasing in relationships.   Coaching with Christine Christine has been coaching individuals for over 20 years and works with a small number of private clients at a time to provide deep, personalized support. If you feel called to explore coaching, email jill@christinehassler.com for more information.   Social Media + Resources:  Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler @ChristineHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!

    29 min
4.8
out of 5
1,612 Ratings

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Christine Hassler provides you with practical tools and spiritual principles to help you overcome whatever obstacles might be holding you back. Each episode, Christine coaches callers live on the air offering them inspiration and guidance to heal their past, change their present and create what they really want. Topics include: relationships, career, health, transitions, finances, life purpose, spirituality and whatever else callers have questions about. Christine coaches "regular people" on problems – and opportunities - we all face. It's a show that reminds you that you are not alone, while also teaching things you can implement in your own life.

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