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I'm Jennifer Kaylo, host of The Open Bedroom podcast. A Dog Mom. Human Boy Mom. Life partner to Scott. Multi-million dollar revenue generator. Podcast host. Certified sex and relationship coach specializing in helping couples open their relationships, conscious uncoupling, and online dating in open relationships. Common themes include open relationships, swinging, polyamory, online dating and Tinder, and sex. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

The Open Bedroom Podcast Jennifer Kaylo

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I'm Jennifer Kaylo, host of The Open Bedroom podcast. A Dog Mom. Human Boy Mom. Life partner to Scott. Multi-million dollar revenue generator. Podcast host. Certified sex and relationship coach specializing in helping couples open their relationships, conscious uncoupling, and online dating in open relationships. Common themes include open relationships, swinging, polyamory, online dating and Tinder, and sex. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

    EP#148: Orgasms and Sexual Biohacking with Susan Bratton

    EP#148: Orgasms and Sexual Biohacking with Susan Bratton

    Sensual Awakening (00:00:02) Susan Bratton tantalizes us with her journey to sensual awakening, sharing her intimate experiences with trauma, abuse, and sexual health challenges.

    Product Tease (00:01:03) Jennifer Kaylo spills the tea on her steamy encounters with Susan Bratton's line of sexual wellness products, diving into their delicious uses and benefits.

    Sultry Introduction (00:05:46) Susan Bratton makes her grand entrance, as Jennifer Kaylo can barely contain her excitement to dive into a juicy discussion about orgasms and sensual awakening.

    Susan's Sensual Journey (00:06:29) Susan Bratton bares her soul, revealing her personal journey through traumatic experiences, sexual struggles, and the sizzling transformation of her sex life.

    Transformation and Titillation (00:10:23) Bratton gets candid about how therapy, personal growth, and erotic education workshops ignited the transformation of her sexuality.

    The Sexy Side of Education (00:11:35) Bratton underscores the importance of erotic education, workshops, and techniques in elevating satisfaction, intimacy, and pleasure to new heights.

    Bratton's Passionate Mission (00:13:46) Bratton shares her fervent mission to spread sexual education and pleasure techniques worldwide through her company, Personal Life Media.

    Jennifer's Awakening (00:16:20) Jennifer Kaylo opens up about her own sensual awakening journey and the electrifying impact it had on her relationships and pleasure perception.

    Diving into Sexual Biohacking (00:18:57) Bratton introduces the tantalizing concept of sexual biohacking, exploring its role in optimizing sexual health and vitality through various steamy techniques and treatments.

    Blood Flow and Erect Fun (00:25:09) A steamy discussion on the importance of blood flow for achieving full erectile function, and how foreplay and pleasuring can enhance that delicious flow.

    Orgasmic Activation and Biohacking Toys (00:26:31) An exploration of orgasmic activation, the use of sexual biohacking toys, and the concept of a pleasure protocol to elevate sexual experiences to new peaks.

    Enhancing the Experience (00:30:20) A deep dive into the regenerative and enhancement aspects of sexual biohacking, including vulva and penis pumping to reverse atrophy and amplify sexual pleasure.

    Biohacking Challenges and Triumphs (00:32:18) Personal tales of the challenges and triumphs in the world of sexual biohacking, including maintaining that sizzling sexual vitality as the years go by.

    Orgasmic Cross Training (00:35:26) An introduction to the concept of orgasmic cross training and the diverse array of orgasmic experiences, activating different pleasure zones for ultimate ecstasy.

    Starting Your Biohacking Journey (00:40:05) A discussion on when people typically start their sexual biohacking journey, the lack of awareness among doctors, and how to access tantalizing information on the topic.

    Intimate Connection and Longevity (00:44:18) An explanation of how intimate connection can boost longevity, including the release of feel-good hormones, benefits for cognitive function, and overall health.

    More Sensual Resources (00:47:36) Details on where to find more steamy content and resources related to sexual biohacking, including websites, social media, and newsletters.



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    • 49 min
    EP#147: Monogamish vs. Fully Open Relationships

    EP#147: Monogamish vs. Fully Open Relationships

    Realization of being Semi-Open (00:01:25) Jennifer reflects on realizing her relationship with Scott is semi-open, leading to a shift in perspective.

    Understanding Semi-Open Relationships (00:03:52) Jennifer discusses the concept of being semi-open and the distinctions between fully open, semi-open, and monogamous relationships.

    Fully Open Relationships (00:05:05) Jennifer explains the dynamics of fully open relationships, including hierarchical and non-hierarchical arrangements, and examples from the swinger community.

    Semi-Open Relationships (00:08:30) Jennifer explores the dynamics of semi-open relationships, including soft and hard swapping, occasional dating outside the primary relationship, and ethical non-monogamy.

    Engaging with Listeners (00:12:00) Jennifer invites listeners to share their relationship dynamics and engage with the podcast, encouraging likes, follows, and reviews.

    Closing Remarks (00:12:48) An unnamed speaker encourages listeners to like, subscribe, and share the podcast, inviting topic suggestions and promoting open conversations.


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    EP#146: How to Have a Healthy Divorce with Coach Lindsey Hall

    EP#146: How to Have a Healthy Divorce with Coach Lindsey Hall

    Introducing Lindsey Hall and Her Journey (00:00:02) Lindsey introduces herself as an intimacy and empowerment coach, discusses her decision to leave her corporate job, and shares her mission to help women deepen their intimacy and live joyfully.

    Jennifer Kaylo's Introduction and Coaching Offer (00:00:22) Jennifer introduces herself and her coaching services, focusing on open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling.

    The Importance of Conscious Uncoupling (00:02:20) Jennifer and Lindsey discuss the significance of conscious uncoupling and the impact it has on co-parenting and maintaining a friendly relationship with an ex-partner.

    Navigating Divorce and Co-Parenting (00:05:36) Lindsey shares her experience of navigating divorce with her ex-partner, discussing the challenges and emotional struggles they faced during the process.

    Staying Friendly with the Ex-Partner (00:11:38) Lindsey explains how she maintained a friendly relationship with her ex-partner, emphasizing the mantra "we are friendly not friends" and setting boundaries.

    Supporting Each Other and Creating Unique Structures (00:18:22) Jennifer discusses the importance of supporting each other post-divorce and shares her and her ex-husband's unique approach to visitation and legal arrangements, emphasizing the significance of envisioning the desired outcome for the family.

    Conclusion (00:21:29) Lindsey reflects on the similarities in their approach to divorce and co-parenting, highlighting the importance of creating their own schedule and ignoring societal expectations.

    Navigating Co-Parenting Schedules (00:21:59) Discussion about the 2-5-5 co-parenting schedule, finding balance, and creating a visitation structure that works for both parents.

    Creating Own Visitation Schedule (00:22:56) The process of creating a visitation schedule without professional help, deciding on a fair arrangement, and navigating interactions with the ex-partner's new relationship.

    Taking Steps for Future Relationship (00:24:04) Making efforts to build a friendly relationship with the ex-partner for the sake of shared events and future plans.

    Staying True to Your Own Path (00:25:18) Emphasizing the importance of following one's heart, choosing a different path from societal norms, and prioritizing what feels best for the individual situation.

    Coaching and Support for Divorce (00:26:11) Discussion about a coaching program for conscious uncoupling, the benefits of seeking support early in the divorce process, and finding a divorce coach.

    Connecting with the Guest (00:27:04) Information about where to find the guest, her social media handles, website, and podcast on YouTube, as well as the opportunity to hire her for coaching.

    Closing Remarks (00:27:51) Encouragement for audience engagement, sharing the podcast, and leaving comments for future episode topics.





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    • 28 min
    EP#145: How-To: Hot Wax Play

    EP#145: How-To: Hot Wax Play

    One day I decided to check out the local BDSM group, and attended a Munch (think... BDSM people out in the "Wild" having a Vanilla meetup).



    One of the men at my table told us about his hot wax art, and showed me a beautiful picture he'd taken of a cherry blossom he made on a woman's back.



    I immediately knew this was a type of sensual play that Scott and I would both like!



    I asked if I could hire him for a night of learning how to do hot wax, so Steph joined us for a delicious night of sensation play.



    Today, I'm teaching you how to choose the best wax for the temperature play that you'll like, how to make hot wax candles, and how to drizzle this yumminess all over your partner, then take it off (my favorite part! Feels so good).



    Don't forget to grab the free guide below with links to all of the products I use (they're all on Amazon!).



    Setting the stage (00:01:21) Introduction to hot wax play, witnessing it at a party, and the sensual and meditative experience.

    Types of wax (00:03:49) Different kinds of wax, their effects on the skin, and recommendations for purchasing wax and wicks.

    Preparing the candles (00:05:58) Instructions for making hot wax portable candles, including the type of containers, wicks, and additional items like clothespins.

    Artistic wax play (00:06:55) Using crayons and essential oils for artistic and sensual wax play, and the safety considerations for the wax and oils.

    Melting the wax (00:08:46) Methods for melting the wax, including using a ceramic pot and mason jars, and the importance of safety precautions.

    Preparation for wax play (00:12:00) Preparation for applying hot wax, including the use of massage oil, spatulas, and eye masks for protection.

    Positioning and warming up (00:17:12) Preparing the person for wax play, including warming them up with a sensual massage and positioning on the massage table.

    Testing the Wax Temperature (00:21:16) Discussion on testing the wax temperature and adjusting the height of candle drips for desired wax temperature.

    Applying the Wax (00:22:20) Instructions on starting with less sensitive areas and gradually moving to more sensitive areas, as well as playing with colors.

    Removing the Wax (00:23:18) Demonstration of removing the wax in a slow, sensual manner, and the aftercare process involving wiping off oil and wax residues.

    Post-Play Activities (00:25:22) Exploration of post-play activities, including snuggling, watching a show, or moving into sexual intimacy.

    Conclusion and Podcast Promotion (00:26:30) Final thoughts on hot wax play and a promotion for the Open Bedroom Podcast.



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    • 27 min
    EP#144 Why You Might Hate Oral Sex with Sierra & Jen

    EP#144 Why You Might Hate Oral Sex with Sierra & Jen

    Mental and Physical Connection to Pleasure (00:00:01) Discussion about losing touch with feeling oneself and the mental and physical connection to pleasure.

    Introduction to Open Bedroom Podcast (00:00:38) Jennifer Calo introduces the Open Bedroom Podcast, her coaching topics, and the importance of conscious uncoupling.

    Challenges with Achieving Orgasm (00:02:21) Exploring the challenges women face in achieving orgasm without a vibrator and the importance of partner involvement.

    Building Trust and Safety for Oral Sex (00:07:48) The significance of trust and safety for women to enjoy oral sex and the importance of partners being prepared and considerate.

    Different Perspectives on Oral Sex (00:11:38) Sierra and Jennifer share their different views and experiences with oral sex, including power dynamics and preferences.

    Exploring Oral Sex Techniques (00:17:26) Sierra discusses her preferred oral sex techniques, emphasizing power dynamics, communication, and partner involvement.

    Evolution and Improvement in Sexual Experience (00:24:15) The importance of evolving and improving sexual experiences, including addressing discomfort and working on personal growth.

    The giver's perspective (00:24:30) The intimacy and pleasure of giving oral sex, and the importance of desire and chemistry in a relationship.

    The receiver's struggles (00:27:41) Challenges for women in receiving oral sex, including hygiene concerns and being present in the moment.

    Hygiene and self-care (00:28:06) The importance of proper vulva care, hygiene, and self-confidence in oral sex experiences.

    Enhancement products and communication (00:32:14) Use of clitoral and G-spot enhancement creams, and the significance of communication in sexual experiences.

    Conclusion and future conversations (00:34:17) The importance of communication in sexual relationships, and the role of coaches in facilitating discussions about intimate topics.

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    • 36 min
    EP#143: Why Women Choose Non-Monogamy with Mark Allen

    EP#143: Why Women Choose Non-Monogamy with Mark Allen

    Watching Partner with Another (00:00:01) Exploration of feeling love, empathy, and turned on by partner's intimacy with others.


    Women's Empowerment and Non-Monogamy (00:02:09) Discussion on the reasons women seek non-monogamy and its effects, introducing Mark's experience.


    Challenges in Relationship (00:02:36) Mark shares his wife's transformation and challenges in embracing non-monogamy.


    Exploring Non-Monogamy (00:07:38) The couple's transition to swingers and the impact on their relationship.


    Discovering Swinging Lifestyle (00:11:17) The couple's journey into non-monogamy, including their first experience at a clothing-optional resort.


    Freedom in Non-Monogamy (00:16:19) The concept of being a "free agent" and the energy of consent and freedom in non-monogamous relationships.


    Meeting Unmet Needs (00:18:46) Mark's unmet needs for variety and novelty in sexual experiences before embracing swinging.


    Dirty Talk and Reliving Experiences (00:19:16) The speakers discuss the impact of dirty talk and reliving sexual experiences on their relationships.


    Observing and Learning from Group Events (00:20:16) The benefits of observing and learning from group events in open relationships are discussed.


    Deepening Relationships with Other Couples (00:21:47) The speakers talk about deepening relationships with another couple, including regular communication and support.


    Exploring Sexual Variety and Novelty (00:23:23) The experience of exploring sexual variety with different partners and the impact on relationships is discussed.


    Dynamic Changes and Relationship Evolution (00:30:03) The conversation shifts to how dynamics can change and evolve within open relationships over time.


    Negotiating Boundaries and Communication (00:33:59) The importance of negotiating boundaries and communication in open relationships is highlighted.


    Navigating Open Relationships (00:35:19) The speakers provide advice on navigating open relationships, addressing potential overwhelm and finding what feels right.


    Women's Choice in Ethical Non-Monogamy (00:36:08) The original intent of discussing women's choice in ethically non-monogamous relationships is briefly mentioned.


    Women's Empowerment in Ethical Non-Monogamy (00:36:19) Women's perspective on ethical non-monogamy as a journey of sexual exploration and emotional enhancement in relationships.


    Communication and Processing in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:37:10) The impact of open communication and processing time on non-monogamous relationships over a span of five years.


    Post-Event Processing and Communication (00:38:25) The process of discussing experiences and feelings with a partner after non-monogamous events, including validation and comfort.


    Emotional and Sexual Connection in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:41:41) Differences in motivations for men and women in choosing non-monogamous relationships, focusing on emotional and sexual connections.


    Benefits and Enrichment in Open Relationships (00:42:44) The unexpected benefits of enhanced communication and closeness in open relationships, contrary to common misconceptions.


    Layers of Intimacy in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:43:45) The multi-layered intimacy experienced in non-monogamous relationships, including emotional, sexual, and shared experiences.


    Vulnerability and Depth in Open Relationships (00:47:23) The vulnerability and depth experienced in open relationships, including discussions about difficult topics and emotional support.
    Communication and Attraction in Open Relationships (00:49:53) The level of open communication and sharing attraction in open relationships, emphasizing human nature and emotional connection.


    Non-Monogamy Resources and Masterclass (00:50:41) Information about non-monogamy resources and upcoming masterclass series for those interested in exploring open relationships.

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    • 53 min

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