The Manspace

Dr. Matt Brown

A podcast for men who want to understand and improve themselves and their relationships, hosted by Dr. Matt Brown and Dr. Rob Porter and clinical therapist Mike Porter.

  1. May 27

    How Do I Stop Hiding?

    Send us Fan Mail That title too much for you spacemen? Well, don't worry--we're just as nonsensical in this episode as we are in every episode, with just a touch of meaningful thoughts. Listen in and be more vulnerable.  Keywords men's emotional health, vulnerability, emotional hiding, mental health, communication, relationships, self-awareness, coping mechanisms Key Topics Why men hide their feelings Patterns of emotional hiding in men Practical strategies to stop hiding and foster vulnerability sound bites "Trust and safety are key to opening up." "Expressing feelings reduces the need to hide." "Practice makes vulnerability easier." Chapters 00:00 Understanding Men's Hiding Behaviors 05:41 The Spectrum of Hiding and Coping Mechanisms 11:24 Understanding Emotional Hiding 14:25 The Complexity of Asking for Help 18:31 Patterns of Hiding and Coping Mechanisms 22:16 The Importance of Emotional Expression 29:18 Reframing Reactions and Building Confidence 35:15 Steps to Overcome Hiding and Embrace Vulnerability 44:49 IntroSHORT.mp4 resources Terry Real's Work on Emotional Connection - https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Terry+Real The Power of Vulnerability by Brené Brown - https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Brene+Brown+The+Power+of+Vulnerability Emotion Processing Techniques - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-moment-youth/201911/how-process-emotions-effectively Men's Emotional Health Resources - https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/publications/men-and-mental-health Effective Communication Strategies for Men - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/men-and-emotions/202001/men-need-know-how-ask-for-help Spread the word! The Manspace is Rad!!

    45 min
  2. May 13

    Why Don't I Enjoy the Things I Used To?

    Send us Fan Mail Spacemen, have you ever lost interest in some of your favorite things? Ever wonder why? Is it boredom? Maybe you've become boring? Maybe it's the meds you're taking? I don't know. Geez. We barely even know each other. But we'll still try to help you figure it out.  Keywords mindfulness, medication, hobbies, humor, relationships, self-awareness, mental health, emotional regulation, personal growth Key Topics The effect of mindfulness and medication on hobbies and interestsHow humor and social interactions are influenced by mental statesThe role of mindfulness in relationships and emotional expression Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 02:41 Reflections on Relationships and Past Experiences 05:44 The Impact of Fame and Wealth on Actors 08:38 Selling Out: The Ethics of Compromise 11:39 Mindfulness and Changing Interests 16:04 Mindfulness vs. Medication: A Deep Dive 18:41 The Role of Humor in Coping Strategies 21:30 Exploring the Impact of Mindfulness on Desires 24:29 Letting Go: The Transformative Power of Meditation 27:47 Reevaluating Relationships: Purpose and Values 30:45 Building Meaningful Connections: Humor, Sex, and Soda 41:59 IntroSHORT.mp4 Resources The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle - https://www.amazon.com/dp/1577314808 Mindfulness Meditation Resources - https://www.mindful.org/ Understanding Medication and Mental Health - https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/medication Spread the word! The Manspace is Rad!!

    42 min
  3. Apr 22

    Is It Okay To Correct My Friend's Parenting?

    Send us Fan Mail Spacemen, this is sort of a will-they / won't they episode. Except, should I / shouldn't I. Should you correct your friend's parenting? No. Don't be rude. Maybe see how hard they want to be good parents. And stop thinking you're so good at it. Keywords parenting, Star Wars, empathy, judgment, storytelling, therapy, parenting advice, pop culture, discussion, mental models Key Topics Parenting styles and their outcomesThe influence of childhood experiences on adult opinionsWhen and how to give helpful advice without judgment Sound Bites "Reframing creates space for helpfulness.""Judgment rarely leads to helpfulness.""Keep your advice brief and context-aware." Chapters 00:00 Star Wars: A Generational Perspective 04:49 The Canon Debate: Understanding Star Wars Lore 05:50 Critiquing Star Wars: Bad Writing or Nostalgic Enjoyment? 07:31 The Influence of Joseph Campbell on Star Wars 09:31 Directing Styles: One Take vs. Multiple Takes 13:36 Star Wars: A Love-Hate Relationship 13:45 Listener Engagement and Podcast Dynamics 20:18 The Right Way to Parent? 24:21 Judgment in Parenting 27:56 Context Matters in Parenting 33:27 Understanding Parental Stress 37:50 Empathy in Parenting Discussions Resources Star Wars Movies - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Star_Wars_series Joseph Campbell's Hero with a Thousand Faces - https://www.amazon.com/Hero-Thousand-Faces-Joseph-Campbell/dp/1577315936 The Mandalorian (Disney+) - https://www.disneyplus.com/series/the-mandalorian/3jLIGMDYINqD Andor (Disney+) - https://www.disneyplus.com/series/andor/3jLIGMDYINqD The Day of Disclosure Documentary - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1234567/ Spread the word! The Manspace is Rad!!

    47 min
  4. Apr 16

    How Can I Be More Mindful?

    Send us Fan Mail Namaste again, spacemen. Come center yourself in the lotus position and mindfully take in all that The ManSpace has to offer. Actually, don't do that. Mindfulness isn't only about sitting lotus and chanting. It's about learning to be present and being intentional about what you're doing. Maybe intentionally listen to this episode and then intentionally share it with your friends.  Keywords mindfulness, meditation, presence, daily life, Thich Nhat Hanh, mental health, simplicity, awareness, stress reduction, living in the moment Key Topics The essence of mindfulness and its impact on lifePractical tips for practicing mindfulness dailyThe role of awareness and non-judgment in mindfulness Takeaways Mindfulness is surprisingly simple but powerful.Slowing down enhances appreciation and reduces stress.Being present in mundane tasks increases life satisfaction. Sound Bites "When you burn them, they scream.""You're my time.""Pick a task and do it half speed." Chapters 00:00 Mindfulness and Awareness in Podcasting 01:18 Nature Observations: Spiders and Love Bugs 04:04 Cockroach Chronicles: A Personal Experience 06:18 TV Show Recommendations: Humor in Norseman 07:43 Exploring Book Choices: Shifting from Formality 09:58 Self-Help Books: A Critical Perspective 13:35 The Miracle of Mindfulness: An Introduction 13:42 The Simplicity of Mindfulness 15:08 Experiencing Life Fully 18:15 The Philosophy of Mindfulness 20:14 Finding Value in the Present Moment 22:36 The Miracle of Being Present 24:16 Mindfulness in Everyday Tasks 27:03 Slowing Down to Experience Life 31:18 Engaging Fully in Conversations 34:11 Making Every Moment Meaningful 40:32 Recognizing Choices in Time Management 41:48 Slowing Down for Clarity 45:08 Awareness Without Judgment Resources The Miracle of Mindfulness by Thich Nhat Hanh - https://www.amazon.com/dp/0807012394 10% Happier App - https://www.tenpercent.com/ Spread the word! The Manspace is Rad!!

    47 min
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A podcast for men who want to understand and improve themselves and their relationships, hosted by Dr. Matt Brown and Dr. Rob Porter and clinical therapist Mike Porter.

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