The Openlove101 Show John & Jackie Melfi
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- Health & Fitness
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This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.
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Open Relationship Partner Permission and Consent
When it comes to consent, what's usually discussed is getting consent from the person with whom you would like to have a physical interaction.
What's not talked about as much is giving consent to your partner on what you're comfortable with them doing with others so that they don't cross any boundaries you may have.
The tricky part to this whole thing is doing it without being too controlling or possessive. After all, shouldn't each person have the right to their own body and actions? (You're not the boss of me!)
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Open Relationships and Playing With Couples
You know what they say, "The only thing constant is change."
And that includes playing with couples in our open marriage. How it started is not how it is today.
How we go about it. What we do while we're playing. The things we think about. The things we do with our partner. What's ok and what's not.
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The Ups and Downs of the Lifestyle: Cultivating Good Experiences
In this episode, John and Jackie explore the concept of transforming negative experiences in the lifestyle into valuable learning opportunities.
The conversation revolves around handling discomfort, setting boundaries, and fostering positive communication within the swinging community.
Reflecting on past experiences, Jackie shares personal insights on the significance of being an advocate for oneself. The discussion touches on the challenges of vocalizing boundaries and preferences, highlighting the evolution of communication skills over time. -
Open Relationship Advice: How To Handle Fear & Jealousy
Open Relationship Advice: How To Handle Fear & Jealousy
John and Jackie answer a follower submitted question in this week's episode!
Do you have any advice or techniques to help alleviate self-doubt and stress and is it common for the wife to take the leadership role in the lifestyle adventure?
Listen hear John and Jackie's answer!
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Navigating Friendships in Open Relationships
In this episode, John and Jackie delve into the intricacies of friendships when one person is in an open relationship.
Courtney shares her experiences as the friend in an open relationship, facing both positive and negative reactions from friends in monogamous relationships.
The conversation explores the dynamics, challenges, and societal perceptions surrounding open-relationships within friend circles. -
Threesomes are Amazing
Today we talk about threesomes because they are amazing! What guy (and even lots of gals) doesn't fantasize about a threesome experience?! In fact, it's one of the most popular ways to break into the lifestyle and we'll tell you why in our video!
Customer Reviews
Bad Medical Advice
They push their idea of a plant only diet early on, by citing non-peer-reviewed studies claiming it as a "sex tip". Maybe they have good info on others, but that's a huge red flag for any advice given.
Best Advice for All Stages
This podcast is by far my favorite of all the lifestyle podcasts. They are engaging and give excellent advice grounded in reality. Thank you