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Join the sassy and smart, Deborah Kagan, as she brings you thought provoking, juicy conversations that will make you laugh, expand your consciousness and even bring your sexy back. Each episode peels back the layers on what it means to live deeply connected to your spirit AND your sex. The end result leaves you inspired, informed and ready to rock your mojo.

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The Real Undressed with Deborah Kagan Deborah Kagan

    • Self-Improvement
    • 5.0, 53 Ratings

Join the sassy and smart, Deborah Kagan, as she brings you thought provoking, juicy conversations that will make you laugh, expand your consciousness and even bring your sexy back. Each episode peels back the layers on what it means to live deeply connected to your spirit AND your sex. The end result leaves you inspired, informed and ready to rock your mojo.

Click subscribe and #getundressed with us.
Want more -> http://www.therealundressed.com

    054.Ava Bogle: Normalizing Pleasure, Sex + the Power of the Clitoris

    054.Ava Bogle: Normalizing Pleasure, Sex + the Power of the Clitoris

    Ava Bogle is an LA-based writer, actor and filmmaker. Her one-woman show The Pleasure Project premiered at the Hollywood Fringe Festival then toured to Australia, New York, and San Francisco. Her solo directorial debut, Meryl F****n Streep, won Best Short Film at SF Indie Fest and Best Experimental Film at Lady Filmmakers Festival. As a comedian, she has appeared at The Comedy Store, Flappers, and The Viper Room. From writing a sex blog, to stand up and Moth-style storytelling events, to the films and theatre she creates, all her work explores themes of taboo sexuality, loneliness, desire, fantasy and obsession.  
    In this episode we speak about everything from:
    ~ what it’s like to grow up without sexual shame
    ~ does the G-spot exist and is it an extension of the clitoris
    ~ the surprising origin of the word pussy
    ~ the power of a woman and her sex
    ~ the affect of ancestral pain living through generations
    ~ modern day Goddess culture
    ~ dating and sex during Covid19
    ~ and much more!
     
    Connect with Ava Bogle
    Website | http://avabogle.com/
     
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      https://www.instagram.com/deborahkagan/
    Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mojorecoveryspecialist/
     
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    • 1 hr 4 min
    053.Please Don't Do This

    053.Please Don't Do This

    It’s Truth + Tequila Tuesday!
    This week's question: where are you judging? Really consider and look at this question. Truthfully, we all judge at certain times and moments, I mean, it's part of being human, but really look at when it comes to you and other women, where are the judgments, where are jealousies that are coming out sideways, which maybe come out as a judgment or an unconscious urge to gossip about someone. And I don’t mean gossip as in a way of, oh, did you hear XYZ is going on with this person, like a news update. I mean like gossip as in to tear somebody down gossiping.
    And I think it is very critical to pay attention and notice if the judgement shows up as inner dialogue or actual dialogue you're having with other people. And I think it’s equally critical, particularly right now since I've got caught wind, that there's this spike in women tearing down other women – because We don't have time for that. Right. We just don't have time for that.
    And hey, if you haven’t seen it, great. I'm so happy that it's not part of your purview. And yet it is happening. There's a there's a wave of it occurring. I've seen it mostly on social media, which is, you know, there's a breeding ground for everything on social media.
    So the #mojotruth for today boils down to this: be considerate and kind to yourself. from that space, you’ll have a reservoir of kindness towards others.
    When I speak about not denigrating or gossiping or speaking poorly of other women, I’m not suggesting it’s about liking or agreeing with everybody. What it's about is leading your life with your mojo, which includes kindness and compassion and recognizing that we're all in this together. We don't have to believe the same things, or do the same things or wear the same things. Right. You can be like, wow, that is so not a thing that I would ever wear or that is not a person I would ever necessarily hang out with. And I wish you well.
    I hope this #mojotruth stirs something in you. It really does come back to one of the main mojo principles which is: who are you BEING. And, who are you going to be about it even when you are in the face of, most especially when you are in the face of something that is either controversial or upsetting to you or the opposite of the way that either you think or like to live. Who are you going to BE about it in those moments.
    One of my spiritual teachers, Ram Das said something that gets reposted a lot and is relevant to todays’ #mojotruth, which is this: we're all just walking each other home.  And truly, We're all just walking each other home – let’s walk together with more kindness and love.
     
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    Remember, to have your question considered for an upcoming Truth + Tequila episode,
    Go to therealundressed.com
    And click submit your Q on the Truth + Tequila image.
     
    The Real Undressed is here to inspire you to get free…in whatever way, shape or form that takes.
     
    If you’re digging the podcast, please take 60 seconds and subscribe on Spotify or Apple and leave a 5 star rating. And if you really want to let your mojo shine, leave a review. They make the world of difference in helping this show grow and reach the people who need it most.
     
    Make sure you tune in on Friday for a full episode with writer, actor and filmmaker and creator of the Pleasure Project, Ava Bogle.
     
    As always, thanks for getting undressed with me.

    • 7 min
    052.Heather Carter: Mermaids, Universal Beings + Living Honestly

    052.Heather Carter: Mermaids, Universal Beings + Living Honestly

    Heather Carter has lead a wild and adventurous life. Having traveled all over the world as a professional dancer and explorer and connecting with several sacred sites and learning indigenous ways through her own self discovery and working with native peoples, she has come to know her soul’s path is the path of her heart.
    She has had life long mystical, multi-dimensional and deeply moving experiences with benevolent and malevolent energies and beings. Through years of reconciliation and healing, she understands that her life is a co-created agreement with all her experiences.
    She currently resides on The Big Island of Hawaii with her amazing husband and life partner Ted.
    She swims as a mermaid daily, connects with the land, mountains, sea and Pele and considers herself a “Natural Woman”.
     
    In this episode we speak about everything from:
    ~ spirit and extra-terrestrial visitations
    ~ remembering past lives  
    ~ the benefit of deep diving into your passions
    ~ following your path + speaking brutal honesty
    ~ what happens when you ignore your inner knowing
    ~ connecting with the conscious beings of the universe
    ~ meeting with mermaids and creatures of the sea
    ~ why it’s not always a good thing to help wildlife
    ~ the benefits of being in relationship with nature
    ~ and much more!
     
    Connect with Heather Carter
    IG | https://www.instagram.com/mermaid_9/
    Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/heatherdcarter
     
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    Turn your fear into Faith.
    Your Stress into Serenity.
    Your Anxiety into Assurance.
    Your Misfortune into Mojo.
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    Connect with Deborah
    Website | http://therealundressed.com/
    Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/therealundressed/
      https://www.instagram.com/deborahkagan/
    Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mojorecoveryspecialist/
     
     
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    Additional Resources
    http://www.takeastandevent.com/
    Gahl Sasson, episode 44
     

    • 1 hr 19 min
    051.Fear of a Woman's Power

    051.Fear of a Woman's Power

    It's Truth + Tequila Tuesdays!
    Quickie update on these episodes. I love and continue to welcome your questions for episodes.
    AND I’ll also be mixing the episodes up with straight up thoughts, inspiration and #mojo truths. Think of Tuesdays as your Undressed cocktail always ready for a good time.
    Remember, to have your question considered for an upcoming Truth + Tequila episode,
    Go to therealundressed.com
    And click submit your Q on the Truth + Tequila image.
    The Real Undressed is here to inspire you to get free…in whatever way, shape or form that takes.
    If you’re digging the podcast, please take 60 seconds and subscribe on Spotify or Apple and leave a 5 star rating. And if you really want to let your mojo shine, leave a review. They make the world of difference in helping this show grow and reach the people who need it most.
    Make sure you tune in on Friday for a full episode the one and only, Cosmic Soul Journeyer + Mermaid, Heather Carter.
    As always, thanks for getting undressed with me.

    • 5 min
    050.Anita Teresa: Sex, Pleasure and Eros—Medicine for Mind, Body and Soul

    050.Anita Teresa: Sex, Pleasure and Eros—Medicine for Mind, Body and Soul

    Anita Teresa is an integrative health & sexuality educator with a background in Clinical Social Work, Mind-Body Therapies, Performing Arts, and Somatic Movement Education. She was a Heath Educator in the Department of Integrative Health Programs at NYU Hospital for nearly five years, and is the founder of The Sex & Medicine Summit, an education platform reaching tens of thousands of health and wellness professionals globally.
     
    In this episode we speak about everything from:
    ~ the radical act of pleasure as medicine
    ~ ancient spiritual practices that support aging gracefully
    ~ how our literal gut affects health and intimacy with a partner
    ~ the surprising connection between the vagina and brain
    ~ Evangelical Sunday service as an erotic experience
    ~ the path the Priestess (history and what it means in the modern world)
    ~ the value of slowing down and opening to pleasure
    ~ honoring one another’s life force and how that can transform the workplace (and your personal life)
    ~ the empowering context of bringing your power from the bedroom to the boardroom
    ~ and much more!
     
    Connect with Anita Teresa
    Website | https://www.facebook.com/sexandmedicinesummit
     
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    Turn your fear into Faith.
    Your Stress into Serenity.
    Your Anxiety into Assurance.
    Your Misfortune into Mojo.
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    Connect with Deborah
    Website | http://therealundressed.com/
    Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/therealundressed/
      https://www.instagram.com/deborahkagan/
    Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mojorecoveryspecialist/
     
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    Additional Resources
    Bernini’s Sculpture: The Ecstasy of Saint Teresa

    • 1 hr 2 min
    048.Roni Zulu: Spirit, Tattoos, Sex Magic and Trusting Your Path

    048.Roni Zulu: Spirit, Tattoos, Sex Magic and Trusting Your Path

    Roni Zulu is a true powerhouse and original. He was born in Bowling Green, Kentucky; shortly thereafter, his family relocated to Terre Haute, Indiana and his teenage years were spent in Sarasota, Florida.
    Artistically, he was attracted to and influenced by the old masters, he was also drawn to the bizarre side of the surrealist movement; the two strong influences are evident in his work to this day.
    After his education at Ringling School of Art & Design and relocating to Los Angeles, his endeavors became engrossed in the direct participation and study of tribal and indigenous cultures around the globe; particularly their rites, sacred tattooing, rituals and arts.
    Zulu has given lectures and demonstrations at the Boston Museum of Art, Los Angeles Craft & Folk Art Museum, UCLA Art Departments, Disney Studios, The Thinkery Austin, the Ministry of Arts in Tahiti, the Tribal Council of Samoa, The History Channel, various TV and literary media and many other institutions of the arts.
    HE says, “Each and every one of us are unique with an often untold story; my paintings tell that story. My work is a mirror of who we are and to celebrate and be fascinated with ourselves and the world we live in."
     
    In this episode we speak about everything from:
    ~ how learning about the spirit of animals kickstarted Roni’s spiritual path and connected him to his ancestors
    ~ the genesis of finding his tattoo path (and it’s deeply rooted in spirit)
    ~ finding your sacred mark, which he calls your ‘inner tattoo’ and how it’s part of the mind, body, spirit connection
    ~ building integrity and a moral compass as part of your karmic path
    ~ Roni’s massive game changing moment that connected him to universal truth and power (and it includes a hot dog stand)!
    ~ playing with energy and using it proactively
    ~ recognizing your call, rejecting it and coming full circle to own it fully
    ~ the simple truth of nature and how it informs everything, including your pleasure and happiness
    ~ exploring THE MORE of sex and how can you tap into layers of conscious creation during love making (think sex magic)
    ~ and much more!
     
    Connect with Roni Zulu
    Website |   www.ronizulu.com
    Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/zulutheartist/
     
    *****
     
    FREE GUIDED BREATH TECHNIQUE
    Turn your fear into Faith.
    Your Stress into Serenity.
    Your Anxiety into Assurance.
    Your Misfortune into Mojo.
    www.therealundressed.com/breathe
     
    *****
     
    Connect with Deborah
    Website | http://therealundressed.com/
    Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/therealundressed/
      https://www.instagram.com/deborahkagan/
    Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mojorecoveryspecialist/
     
    Subscribe to The Real Undressed Podcast
    iTunes | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-real-undressed-with-deborah-kagan/id1494643770
    Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/1eOQaw6kryBsXo7Jb6qEnv
     
    Please remember to:
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    Additional Resources
    Sex, Sorcery, and Spirit: The Secrets of Erotic Magic by Jason Miller
     

    • 1 hr 26 min

Customer Reviews

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53 Ratings

53 Ratings

Tony Maree Torrey - Speaker ,

Smart and sassy results in great wisdom

The thing I love about this podcast is the willingness to be open about topics that most of us are fascinated by but sometimes feel embarrassed to talk about. Deborah Kagan and her guests do that for us and in doing so give much needed permission for us to explore our own authenticity at a deeper level.

Mermaid Heather_9 ,

Fab Podcast!

I’m loving this amazing podcast!
Great, creative and heartfelt conversations with an array of interesting peoples.
Deborah asks wonderful and thoughtful questions and creates a sacred space to delve deep.
Highly recommend!

Ljgrisso ,

Discovering New Peeps

I’ve been following Deborah’s work with her mojolicious living for a few years, so it’s a real treat to see her launching this podcast and getting to hear interviews with all the fascinating people she hosts about whom I would probably not otherwise ever know.

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