Uncared For Lemonada

When you’re caring for an aging parent, you want the best care possible. But what does that care cost? And who pays for it? AARP’s caregiving expert Amy Goyer struggled financially to give her parents the best care possible and even ended up filing for bankruptcy. Despite this, Amy looks back on the joy of caregiving and celebrating the wins.

AARP has financial and legal resources for caregivers, including ways to protect your money while caring for a loved one or friend.

AARP also has information on how to find credit counseling here.

Join AARP’s Family Caregivers Discussion Group on Facebook.

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AARP’s National Family and Caregiving Expert Amy Goyer tells us why it’s important to talk to older loved ones early and often about how they want to age. And she gives us guidance on how to approach these hard conversations.

Poet and artist Yosimar Reyes moved home to take care of his grandmother during the pandemic. Sometimes he cries in his car from the stress and pressure of caregiving. But he also knows how lost he’d be without her. In this beautiful and honest conversation, Yosimar shares how he supports his 90-year-old grandmother – financially, mentally, and emotionally.

Learn more about Yosimar Reyes on his website and follow him on Instagram @yosirey.

This season of Uncared For is presented by the Commonwealth Fund, a nonprofit foundation making grants to promote an equitable, high-performing health care system.

Help others find our show by leaving us a rating and writing a review.

Follow SuChin Pak on Instagram @SuchinPak and Lemonada at @lemonadamedia across all social platforms.

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Click this link for a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this and all other Lemonada series: lemonadamedia.com/sponsors.

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Poet and caregiver Yosimar Reyes describes what it was like to have a rare night off and go on a date. When his date says Yosimar is “reserved” and not open about his life, Yosimar explains that all he wants is to enjoy the moment and not talk about caregiving.

When Jessica Guthrie became a caregiver at age 26, her life turned upside down. Her career, friendships, and love life went on the back burner as she prioritized caring for her mom, who has Alzheimer’s disease. Over nine years of caregiving, she’s faced burnout, medical racism, and the isolation of doing it all alone. But despite the challenges, Jessica finds power in the small moments she still has with her mom, and the community of Black caregivers she’s found on social media.  

Learn more about Jessica Guthrie at https://www.jessicacguthrie.com/ and follow her on Instagram @careercaregivingcollide.

This season of Uncared For is presented by the Commonwealth Fund, a nonprofit foundation making grants to promote an equitable, high-performing health care system.

Help others find our show by leaving us a rating and writing a review.

Follow SuChin Pak on Instagram @SuchinPak and Lemonada at @lemonadamedia across all social platforms.

Want to become a Lemonada superfan? Join us at joinsubtext.com/lemonadasuperfan.  

Click this link for a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this and all other Lemonada series: lemonadamedia.com/sponsors.

To follow along with a transcript, go to lemonadamedia.com/show/ shortly after the air date.
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Full-time caregiver Jessica Guthrie reflects on her mom’s advancing Alzheimer’s disease and the unique perspective she’s gained as someone who stepped away from her career and found a new calling in the caregiving space.