Very Best of Living

Taylor Hartman
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Very Best of Living

Dr. Taylor Hartman, relationship expert and Psychologist, discusses key insights that he has made over his professional career on what makes successful relationships. His work The Color Code now called the People Code is a powerful agent for positive healthy relationships both personal and professional. 

  1. JUN 2

    Choose Your Hard

    What if the question isn't whether to choose an easy or difficult path, but rather which difficult path will lead to your greatest growth? Dr. Taylor Hartman tackles this profound question in a thought-provoking exploration of life's inevitable challenges and how we navigate them. Drawing inspiration from M. Scott Peck's "The Road Less Traveled" and its opening statement that "life is difficult," Dr. Hartman introduces a powerful framework through the refrain "Choose your hard." Marriage is hard. Divorce is hard. Choose your heart. Education is hard. Being uneducated is hard. Choose your hard. These paired statements reveal the truth that difficulty is inevitable, but the right kind of difficulty leads to growth, strength, and ultimately, joy. The conversation with colleague Cat Larson delves into why we often remain unaware of our dysfunctional patterns until they cause breakdowns in our lives. They discuss how modern therapy sometimes enables victimhood rather than building resilience, and how developing a clear moral definition helps establish boundaries that protect our wellbeing. Using the Color Code personality framework, Dr. Hartman explains how different personality types need to blend logic and emotion for balanced growth—teaching logical types to embrace feelings and emotional types to incorporate rational thinking. Perhaps most importantly, Dr. Hartman emphasizes that growth is sequential. The challenges we face in each life stage prepare us for greater responsibilities ahead. Those who avoid necessary difficulties find themselves unprepared when life inevitably presents bigger challenges. By choosing the "right hard" at each stage, we develop the strength to live fully and authentically. Ready to transform how you view life's difficulties? Listen now to discover how choosing the right challenges can lead to your most fulfilling life. Leave us a comment about which "hard choice" has led to your greatest growth! Take the Personality and Character Profiles at TaylorHartman.com. Send questions and comments to Taylor@TaylorHartman.com Or Cathy@TaylorHartman.com with “Podcast” in the subject line.

    34 min

  2. MAY 5

    Breaking Free From Your Past to Live Fully Now

    Ever wondered why some people achieve extraordinary success while others get lost in distractions? Dr. Taylor Hartman and Cat Larson unlock powerful insights about personal commitment and focus that could transform your approach to life's priorities. Drawing from an unexpected source—Elon Musk's ex-wife—they reveal how knowing what truly matters and quickly saying "no" to everything else creates the foundation for meaningful achievement. This clarity of purpose isn't just for tech billionaires; it's a principle that helped Dr. Hartman develop the Color Code personality system and can help you stay on track with your most important life goals. The conversation deepens as they explore character development across different personality types. Rather than merely understanding other personalities intellectually, truly "charactered" individuals actively incorporate strengths from all colors into their behaviors and perspectives. This multidimensional understanding gives what Dr. Hartman calls "second, third, and fourth sight"—a richer, more empathetic way of navigating relationships and personal growth. Perhaps most profound is their discussion about releasing the past. Whether you're holding onto trauma or past achievements, defining yourself by yesterday limits your growth today. Using an illuminating example from tennis champion Roger Federer, they demonstrate how letting go after each point—whether victory or defeat—allowed him to win 80% of matches despite winning only 54% of points. This same principle applies to anyone seeking freedom from limiting beliefs or experiences. Ready to clarify what truly matters in your life and develop the character needed to stay committed to your path? Listen now, and discover how understanding your core values can help you say "no" to distractions and "yes" to what truly fulfills you. Take the Personality and Character Profiles at TaylorHartman.com. Send questions and comments to Taylor@TaylorHartman.com Or Cathy@TaylorHartman.com with “Podcast” in the subject line.

    25 min

  3. APR 7

    True mental health requires accountability, not excuses.

    Dr. Taylor Hartman and Cat Larson explore the critical connection between mental health and personal accountability, challenging the notion that circumstances rather than choices determine our wellbeing. They discuss how society's increasing focus on comfort and validation has created a generation struggling with resilience and personal responsibility. • Busy people accomplish more while those with abundant time often struggle with motivation • Taking ownership of your life is the foundation of good mental health • Making excuses and shifting blame indicates deeper psychological issues • People seeking mental health often surround themselves with others who don't hold them accountable • Clean motives—aiming for mutual benefit in all interactions—are essential for wellbeing • Looking outward and helping others is more healing than endless self-examination • Comfort-seeking behaviors and excessive protection from parents can create fragility • Building resilience requires facing challenges rather than avoiding them • Common sense is the greatest gift in mental health but is often overlooked Fight for the right to be here and recognize that life's challenges are opportunities for growth, not proof that something is wrong. Take the Personality and Character Profiles at TaylorHartman.com. Send questions and comments to Taylor@TaylorHartman.com Or Cathy@TaylorHartman.com with “Podcast” in the subject line.

    25 min

  4. MAR 4

    Unlocking the Power of Emotional Bonds

    Ever felt lost in a sea of expectations, both personal and societal, not knowing which way to turn for true fulfillment? Join Dr. Taylor Hartman and Cat Larsen as they share stories of real people navigating life's trials, like a man wrestling with dissatisfaction in marriage and career. Dr. Hartman and Larson explore the essence of emotional connection and the struggles faced when it's lost, particularly the heart-wrenching choice of staying in a relationship for the sake of children. Discover insights about how past contentment can shape present decisions, and the necessity of finding new meanings after losing significant people in our lives. In our exploration of self-awareness, we unravel how different personality types—red, blue, white, and yellow—experience growth uniquely. Emphasizing vulnerability and discipline, we discuss the crucial need for aligning self-perception with reality through feedback from close relationships. This episode is a call to action, urging a commitment to intentional self-improvement without making excuses for stagnation. We set our sights on becoming more self-aware by 2025, and with gratitude, invite you to embark on this journey of self-discovery alongside us. Take the Personality and Character Profiles at TaylorHartman.com. Send questions and comments to Taylor@TaylorHartman.com Or Cathy@TaylorHartman.com with “Podcast” in the subject line.

    23 min

  5. FEB 3

    Revitalizing Relationships through Color Insights

    Discover the transformative power of relationships through the colorful insights of Dr. Taylor Hartman, as he joins us to explore his latest work, "Hartman Color Code for Couples." Through an engaging conversation with Cat Larsen, we unravel the profound dynamics of connection, decision-making, and intimacy, all viewed through the vibrant lens of color personalities. Dr. Hartman shares his passionate motivation behind the book, offering practical solutions for everyday relationship challenges. From understanding how the qualities you seek in a partner can shape your marriage, to learning how to be your best self for a healthier union, this episode promises enlightening discussions filled with real-life examples. Navigate the complex world of boundaries and communication in relationships with us. We'll highlight how recognizing and respecting differences can lead to deeply enriching partnerships, particularly when approached with openness and humility. Listen as Dr. Hartman reflects on a 50-year marriage, emphasizing the roles of commitment, positive communication, and growth in maintaining healthy connections. Learn how acknowledging your partner's strengths and practicing humility can create an environment of mutual respect and understanding. This episode is a treasure trove of insights for anyone seeking to nurture and evolve their relationships through the unique perspective of color blends. Take the Personality and Character Profiles at TaylorHartman.com. Send questions and comments to Taylor@TaylorHartman.com Or Cathy@TaylorHartman.com with “Podcast” in the subject line.

    27 min

  6. JAN 6

    Embracing Challenges to Rediscover Joy

    Have you ever wondered why joy often feels so distant as we grow older? Join me and my wonderful co-host Cat Larsen as we navigate the complex landscape of joy, especially during the dreary months of January and February. We categorize people into three groups: those who are dispirited by life's challenges, those who bounce back, and those who emerge stronger. An eye-opening exercise awaits you—listing the ten best and worst moments of your life. It’s a reflective practice that reveals surprising insights into how closely linked our highs and lows are, offering a roadmap to rediscovering joy and understanding our roles in both success and adversity. This episode also uncovers the transformative power of adaptation and growth. Inspired by a couple who turned their Jeep into a local adventure hub, we contrast their meaningful journey with my own superficial experiences to highlight how challenges can morph into profound learning opportunities. We dive into personality types, classified by colors, to explore how each adapts differently to change. Blues, for example, struggle with their quest for perfection, while reds and yellows adapt more swiftly. Drawing from Darwin’s theory of adaptation, we encourage embracing change as a vital survival trait, offering empathetic suggestions for those coping with trauma or chronic pain. In relationships, fostering empathy and gratitude is crucial, as illustrated through a humorous anecdote of a client’s frustration with her husband’s contradictions around weight loss. We discuss the delicate balance between empathy and giving straightforward advice, urging a shift from inward focus to an outward-looking perspective that enriches others’ lives. Channeling the wisdom of St. Francis of Assisi’s prayer, we stress the importance of understanding over seeking validation, advocating for resilience over self-protection. As we wrap up, we express heartfelt gratitude to you, our listeners, wishing you a joyous season and eagerly looking forward to our next reconnection. Take the Personality and Character Profiles at TaylorHartman.com. Send questions and comments to Taylor@TaylorHartman.com Or Cathy@TaylorHartman.com with “Podcast” in the subject line.

    32 min

  7. 12/02/2024

    Discovering Holiday Magic and Meaning

    Have you ever felt the warmth of gifting something truly special to a loved one? Join me and my towering friend, Cat Larson, as we take you on a joyful journey through our cherished holiday traditions. From the thrill of planning surprise trips to the heartwarming story of the green coat I saved up to buy for my mother, we explore the magic of the Christmas season. Cat shares a touching memory of receiving a hand-painted picture, reminding us all that the spirit of giving creates meaningful connections and unforgettable memories. The holiday season is not just about gifts and celebrations; it's also a time for introspection and growth. In an open conversation, we reflect on the power of forgiveness and how letting go of grudges can lead to personal freedom. I recount an unexpected gift from someone I once held a grudge against, which prompted a profound shift in my perspective. We discuss how understanding others' struggles can foster empathy and lead to a more compassionate life, highlighting stories of people who found peace through selflessness. As our festive discussion wraps up, we talk about the beauty of creating new holiday traditions, especially when circumstances change. Whether it's a sunny getaway or a cozy gathering at home, embracing new customs can bring joy and comfort. We also express our gratitude for reconnecting with our audience through the podcast, and hint at a special Christmas gift idea: the new book "Color Code for Couples." As we celebrate the season, we encourage you to cherish your traditions and perhaps even start new ones this year. Take the Personality and Character Profiles at TaylorHartman.com. Send questions and comments to Taylor@TaylorHartman.com Or Cathy@TaylorHartman.com with “Podcast” in the subject line.

    23 min

  8. 11/04/2024

    Embracing Diverse Personalities in Parenting

    Unlock the secrets of harmonious family dynamics with our insightful conversation featuring Dr. Taylor Hartman and Kat Larson. Discover how understanding your children's personalities through the lens of the color code can transform their formative years into a period of meaningful growth and connection. This episode promises to illuminate the powerful role parents play in nurturing their children's unique traits, even amidst the chaos of busy family life. Journey with us as we explore the art of parenting children of different color personalities. We tackle the complexities of raising assertive and strong-willed red children, offering practical strategies for setting boundaries and maintaining harmony without resorting to guilt trips. Dr. Hartman and Kat share personal stories and vital techniques on how to engage with these children intellectually, ensuring they feel heard and valued, while maintaining the balance of authority in the household. The conversation continues as we delve into the unique challenges of parenting blue, white, and yellow children. Learn how to nurture blue children's need for affirmation, engage white children's preference for independence, and manage yellow children's charismatic yet sometimes impulsive nature. Through heartwarming anecdotes and practical advice, we highlight the importance of understanding and appreciating these diverse personalities, ultimately fostering more supportive, joyful family interactions. Take the Personality and Character Profiles at TaylorHartman.com. Send questions and comments to Taylor@TaylorHartman.com Or Cathy@TaylorHartman.com with “Podcast” in the subject line.

    33 min
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Dr. Taylor Hartman, relationship expert and Psychologist, discusses key insights that he has made over his professional career on what makes successful relationships. His work The Color Code now called the People Code is a powerful agent for positive healthy relationships both personal and professional. 

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  • Creator
    Taylor Hartman
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2025
  • Episodes
    141
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Very Best of Living
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    Very Best of Living

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