What Nobody Tells Us Christie Bishop

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Parenting is an adventure filled with unexpected twists and turns. But what if you had a guide to help you navigate the complexities of raising a child? That's exactly what we dove into in our latest podcast episode with KJ Altoff, the director of content for Big Life Journal.
In this eye-opening conversation, we discuss the stigmatized topic of parenting challenges. KJ shares her personal journey and the mission of Big Life Journal, which provides resources to foster growth mindsets and resilience in children. From physical journals to a supportive community, they offer the dialogue and scripts parents need to empower their kids and themselves.
But it's not just about the tools. It's about the real, raw moments that all parents face. KJ opens up about her own struggles and the 'confessions' from other parenting experts at Big Life Journal. These stories resonate with anyone who's ever felt the weight of parental responsibility.
We explore the concept of 'reparenting' ourselves as we raise our children, a task that requires us to address our triggers and learn to regulate our emotions. KJ provides practical tips for managing the morning rush, dealing with tantrums, and the importance of repairing our relationship with our children after a conflict.
Listening to this episode is like having a heart-to-heart with a friend who gets it. KJ's vulnerability and expertise create a safe space for parents to learn and feel supported. If you're looking for guidance, inspiration, or just a reminder that you're not alone on this journey, this episode is a must-listen.
As KJ eloquently puts it, parenting is a rollercoaster that never ends. There will be highs and lows, but learning to support yourself and your child through those moments is what makes the ride worthwhile.
So, grab your headphones, find a quiet moment, and give this episode a listen. You might just find the encouragement you need to face your next parenting challenge with a little more grace and a lot more confidence. And remember, in the world of parenting, you're not just surviving—you're growing, learning, and, most importantly, you're not alone.
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In today's episode, we step into a world that's often left behind closed doors: the world of couples therapy. Vanessa Morgan, a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, joins me to unravel the mysteries and stigmas surrounding this form of therapy that's not just for rocky relationships, but also for those seeking to prevent issues in the first place.
Vanessa's approach is both eye-opening and comforting. She likens couples therapy to preventative medicine – something that equips you with tools for when times get tough. It's so much more than a business transaction, too; rather it is often a deeply intimate process in which a therapist has the privilege of helping people uncover the most delicate and valuable parts of themselves.
Throughout our conversation, we tackle the hard-hitting topics: the stigma around therapy, the importance of understanding attachment styles, and the tools for long-term relationship success. We also dive into how couples therapy can be a beacon of hope for parenting struggles, chronic illness, and major life transitions.
What makes this episode stand out is Vanessa's empathy, directness and passion for her craft. She demystifies the process of therapy, sharing a gold mine of insights for anyone looking to understand the complexities of human connections.
If you've ever wondered about couples therapy or felt alone in your relationship struggles, this episode is a must-listen. It's a reminder that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness, and that investing in your relationship is one of the most loving things you can do.
Vanessa's clients have told her that her approach is empathic, straightforward and insightful. You may be a good fit for Vanessa's counseling if you are self-reflective and highly motivated to discover how you are contributing to the current dynamics in your life. To Vanessa, therapy is so much more than a business transaction; rather it is often a deeply intimate process in which a therapist has the privilege of helping people uncover the most delicate and valuable parts of themselves.
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Learn more about Vanessa Morgan Contact Vanessa: vanessamorgantherapy@gmail.com | (949) 424-3226 Want to hear more? Check out all my episodes here. Want to see some of my Amazon faves? Check them out here. Vanessa's Book Recommendations:

Have you ever caught yourself sprinting on the treadmill of life, relentlessly chasing success, achievement, and societal validation, only to find yourself gasping for air, wondering if there's more to life than this relentless pursuit?
In this week's episode, I have the privilege of hearing from Jessica Joines, a former advertising executive who's intimately familiar with the burnout that comes from this endless chase. She shares her raw and enlightening journey from the depths of corporate exhaustion and alcoholism to the heights of finding her purpose and founding the Women's Purpose Community.
Jessica and I go deep into self-discovery and the elusive journey towards finding one's purpose. Her story is not just inspiring; it's a roadmap for those of us who feel lost, burnt out, and disconnected from our true selves. Her transformation is a testament to the power of listening to your heart and daring to believe in yourself.
The episode delves into the concept of ascension (not as complicated as it sounds), the importance of vulnerability, and the practical steps to uncover your soul's purpose. Jessica's insights, drawn from her own experiences and her book "Dare to Believe: 12 Lessons for Living Your Soul Purpose," offer a guide to navigating your journey of self-discovery.
If you're feeling stuck, questioning your purpose, or yearning for a deeper connection to who you really are, this episode is a beacon of hope. It will inspire you to take that leap of faith, trust the process, and most importantly, trust in yourself.
Remember, the dreams in your heart are there for a reason—they are what you're meant to do. Let Jessica's journey inspire you to start your own. Listen now and dare to believe in the power of your purpose.
Resources:
Learn more about Jessica Buy Jessica's book, Dare to Believe: 12 Lessons For Living Your Soul's Purpose Join the Women's Purpose Community Learn more about Christie Subscribe to WNTU weekly newsletter  
 

Dive into the beauty aisle with us in this week's episode of "What Nobody Tells Us," where we unpack the tween beauty product craze sweeping through the aisles of Sephora and beyond. I sit down with Natasha V. Glasgow, a licensed esthetician, beauty contributor and member of ELLE Magazine's Beauty Advisory Board, and mom to a 10-year-old daughter. Natasha's on a mission to demystify the skincare world for parents and their tweens, so let get to it.
With the rise of social media and peer influence, Natasha shares her firsthand observations from her undercover trips to Sephora, discussing the "smoothie" phenomenon, and the allure of brands like Drunk Elephant for the younger crowd. We tackle the hard-hitting topics: the product pitfalls that could harm developing skin, the financial pressures of keeping up with the Joneses, and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with tween self-discovery and self-care.
Natasha brings her expertise and a mother's touch to the conversation, providing practical tips on navigating this delicate terrain. From fostering open dialogue with your children about beauty and self-worth to identifying the skincare essentials that are truly age-appropriate, Natasha's guidance is a beacon for parents wading through the cosmetic chaos.
Whether you're a parent to a tween, or simply someone who cares about nurturing healthy self-esteem and body image in the younger generation, this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom, empathy, and empowerment.
Remember to share this episode with anyone navigating the tween beauty product phenomenon, and as always, don't forget to subscribe, rate and review wherever you listen. 
 
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In this week's episode, I sit down with Kismet Salem, a gifted energy healer and spiritual guide. We have a captivating discussion about how so many of us feel disconnected, numb, and just going through the motions in our modern lives. Kismet shares profound insights into "spiritual anatomy" and how unblocking our subtle energy channels can help reignite our spark and reawaken us to our truest selves.
She provides highly practical tips for "active meditation" that anyone can do, as well as simple ways I can start clearing out psychic clutter and negativity. Whether you embrace spirituality or just want to feel more alive and joyful again, this episode will inspire you to get your sacred flame burning brilliantly once more.
Time Stamps:
0:00 - 3:15 My introduction and overview of today's themes  3:15 - 6:22 Kismet's background and the work she does 6:22 - 11:35 Our discussion of "spiritual anatomy" - the subtle energy systems of the body 11:35 - 16:40 Signs that your spiritual anatomy may be blocked or stagnant  16:40 - 22:15 Kismet's approach to "active meditation" through movement, art, nature 22:15 - 26:20 Benefits of active meditation and reigniting your inner fire 26:20 - 31:00 The importance of clearing out psychic clutter and toxic energy drains 31:00 - 36:15 Kismet's parting insights & reminders for me to reawaken my spirit regularly References:
Chakra System Overview Article on Benefits of Meditation Book: Eastern Body, Western Mind by Anodea Judith Connect with Kismet:
Website: https://kismetsalem.com/
Instagram: @kismetsalem

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In this week's episode, I sit down with Aki Ito, award-winning chief correspondent at Business Insider, who recently published a fascinating article unraveling the complex and evolving topic of workplace loyalty, entitled The End of Workplace Loyalty - Why Work Feels So Broken Right Now, and How It Can Be Repaired. 
Whether you're a seasoned executive, a recent graduate, or somewhere in between, this episode offers a examination of what it means to be loyal in today's workforce and how we can collectively forge a new, more humane, and equitable contract for the future.
As we navigate the seismic shifts in employer-employee dynamics -- especially driven by the pandemic -- Aki sheds light on the sobering fact that the era where companies and employees were deeply committed to each other has now become a thing of the past.
We explore the history of workplaces, from the booming post-World War II era to present day, and how the once-sacred psychological contract between companies and their workforce is being rewritten. Aki's insights shed light on how different generations view loyalty, showing that it's not just about age but about everyone wanting respect and honesty in their work relationships.
We delve into the impact of technology, remote work, and the Great Resignation on the delicate balance of trust. Aki also explores the phenomenon of 'overemployment' -- aka working multiple full-time jobs at once -- and how the state of New York has established legislation against it. 
Tune in to this thought-provoking dialogue and join the conversation about the death and rebirth of workplace loyalty. And remember, if you're seeking guidance, whether in your career or caregiving journey, visit christiebishop.com for coaching opportunities that can support you on your path forward.
About Aki Ito:
Aki Ito is chief correspondent at Business Insider, where she covers the workplace and the economy. Her biggest features have reported on the salary transparency revolution, the rise and fall of hustle culture, the dangers that AI poses for workers, and the "overemployment" phenomenon. She has also written about the economy's tumultuous transition to remote and hybrid work, the Great Resignation's unintended consequences on salaries, the surge in warehouse employment, and the tech layoffs.
In 2022, Aki's story about recovering overachievers dialing back at work sparked the national firestorm over quiet quitting. That story, along with her feature about the end of hustle culture, won the National Press Club's award for cultural criticism and was a finalist for the Gerald Loeb Award in commentary. 
Aki's journalism has also won awards from organizations including SABEW, the New York Press Club, the San Francisco Press Club, the Institute on Political Journalism, the Webbys, the Northern California chapter of the Society for Professional Journalists, and the Society of Publishers in Asia.
Episode Chapters:
(00:00) Christie Bishop explores the death of workplace loyalty in this podcast
(07:24) Aki It's role at Business Insider
(08:26) Describing Aki's article about the death of workplace loyalty
(09:49) The psychological contract shapes expectations and behaviors between employers and employees
(11:19) Aki describes changes in expectations of workers vs. that of employers over 100 years
(21:21) Technology has changed the way employees view loyalty to their employers
(23:48) Research shows remote work reduces loyalty to employers and vice versa
(25:50) What was the impact of the great resignation on workplace loyalty
(29:40) The role of perks in terms of staying at a company
(32:41) Aki wrote an article about overemployment and its im