49 episodes

Created by certified sex coach and educator Sara Tang, this podcast features intimate conversations about navigating sex in the modern world. On this frank, informative and lighthearted show, we tackle the taboos that many people commonly experience around sex. Expect banter and open hearted discussions between the hosts and their guests, as we dish up inspiration around how to get Better in Bed.

Featured as the Best Sex Podcast on Esquire, The Guardian and more! Tune in now at http://sarasense.com/podcast.

Better in Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast Sara Tang, Sex Coach

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.3 • 82 Ratings

Created by certified sex coach and educator Sara Tang, this podcast features intimate conversations about navigating sex in the modern world. On this frank, informative and lighthearted show, we tackle the taboos that many people commonly experience around sex. Expect banter and open hearted discussions between the hosts and their guests, as we dish up inspiration around how to get Better in Bed.

Featured as the Best Sex Podcast on Esquire, The Guardian and more! Tune in now at http://sarasense.com/podcast.

    Practicing Mindful Masturbation

    Practicing Mindful Masturbation

    How can you be more mindful with masturbation?
     
    Mindfulness has taken off as a wellness practice in recent years, yet most people don’t generally think of using it in the context of masturbation.

    Mindful masturbation is all about reconnecting with yourself and focusing on what makes you feel good. The practice encourages everyone to slow down, become conscious of pleasure and explore the body more holistically, instead of just focusing on the g******s.

    On this episode, Sara and co-host Prescott invite Singaporean sexuality and intimacy coach Gabriel / “Pothos” (https://www.sensualmassageart.com/) to talk about the benefits of mindful masturbation, and how to get started with the practice. 
     
    While having a quick orgasm solo can be efficient and convenient, we share how mindful masturbation can bring benefits such as enhanced pleasure, increased sexual confidence, and a release of performance anxiety.
     
    We also discuss how sex journals, fantasising and even porn watching can all be used as tools to discover more about our sexuality, if we use them mindfully.
     
    Finally, Gabriel takes Sara and Prescott through a short, 10 minute guided meditation (for masturbation) demonstration on air, which listeners can follow along to too.
     
    If you’re hoping to gain a deeper understanding of your sexuality the practice of mindful masturbation, this episode will offer you all the tips, insights and guidance you need.
     
     
    Get bonus content and support us on Patreon http://patreon.com/betterinbed  
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    Detailed show notes for this episode here http://sarasense.com/podcast

    • 1 hr 3 min
    Sex FAQs - How Do I Build My Sexual Confidence?

    Sex FAQs - How Do I Build My Sexual Confidence?

    What helps you build sexual confidence? Sex is a vulnerable act, and fear and self-doubt can often arise in situations where things don’t go according to our expectations.   On this thoughtful FAQ episode, Sara and relationship coach, Valentina Tudose from Happy Ever After (https://happyeverafter.asia/) answer your most pressing questions around building sexual confidence. Topics on this episode include:  
    How do I feel sexy in my body after a double mastectomy for breast cancer? How can I stop being anxious about my small penis size? I’ve noticed a pattern in my relationships that sex with my partner usually stops after 1-2 months of dating. How can I overcome feeling undesirable? I suffer from vaginismus and have low sexual confidence. How can I stop worrying that my partner isn’t getting the intimacy he craves? How can I be more confident around initiating sex?  
    Throughout the episode, we offer countless tips on how to make the shift from performative sex to pleasurable sex. Anyone can be sexually confident, but it does take practice, care and patience.
     
    At its core, sexual confidence is about feeling comfortable in your body, knowing you deserve pleasure and being able to articulate what you enjoy.
     
    Learning to accept and be grateful for our bodies as “good bodies” can make a huge impact on our perception of any sexual situation, and help to boost our sexual confidence.
     
    Identifying our desires (and fears) and then discussing them openly with our partners can also help to prevent our negative self-talk from taking over in the moment.
     
    Sex is as much of a mental activity, as a physical activity. So start building your sexual confidence by tuning into this episode!



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    • 40 min
    Threesomes, Foursomes & Moresomes with Vonny Lang

    Threesomes, Foursomes & Moresomes with Vonny Lang

    Is three always a crowd? Apparently not when it comes to group sex encounters - since studies say that having a threesome is one of the most popular sexual fantasies.    On this episode, Sara and co-host Jannus sit down with model and sexy lifestyle events host Vonny Lang (http://instagram.com/vonnylang), to chat about our personal experiences around group sex.

    We explore the different benefits and dynamics of group sex, and why its such a common fantasy. We also discuss the common fears that people may have when approaching group sex, and how to overcome them.   
    We give guidance around how newbies can bring up a group sex fantasy to a partner and navigate their first group sex encounter at a play party or a sex club. 
     
    This episode will inspire you and give you some useful tips if you’re figuring out how to have a sexy, fun, drama-free threesome (or moresome) of your wet dreams!
     
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    • 1 hr 13 min
    Sex FAQs - How do I Open My Relationship?

    Sex FAQs - How do I Open My Relationship?

    Curious to try an open relationship, but don’t know quite where or how to start?  
    On this episode, Sara chats with relationship coach Valentina Tudose (http://happyeverafter.asia) to answer your most common questions about open relationships, such as:
     
    What basic ground rules should I set if I’m just starting out with open relationships How can I handle my intense attraction to a new lover since I started to open my relationship with my spouse? I want to have an open relationship, but how do I manage my jealousy? How do I bring up an open relationship to a partner that has been previously unreceptive?  
    Some ground rules that Valentina and I discuss for an open relationship include: prioritizing your partner, having regular check-ins, communicating your needs with compassion, and a strong commitment to radical honesty.
     
    We also share tips around managing jealousy and how when used constructively, jealousy can be a useful tool to help us address issues and get what we need.
     
    We also offer reminders and tips for couples who are in the process of opening up their relationship to think about it as if they're embarking on a joint adventure or an exciting journey together. 
     
    If you're interested in open relationships, we suggest bringing up the conversation regarding your values and beliefs around non-traditional relationship models early in the dating process to avoid a future mismatch and heartbreak.
     
    This episode is a must-listen if you and/or your partner are curious about non-monogamy or trying to work up the courage to open your relationship.
     
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    Detailed show notes for this episode here.

    • 44 min
    Sex FAQs - Performance Anxiety & Penis S.O.S.

    Sex FAQs - Performance Anxiety & Penis S.O.S.

    Ever been in a sexual situation where your - or your partner's - penis wasn't doing exactly what you wanted it to do? 
     
    Penis issues are incredibly common, yet they are often accompanied by stress, fear, anxiety, and shame. The penis-owner can feel like a failure, and they can make sex a task instead of a pleasure.
     
    That’s why Sara and Jeff Abraham, CEO of sexual health company Promescent (http://promescent.com) sit down and answer your most pressing penis questions on this Sex FAQs episode. Topics include:
    How do I overcome performance anxiety? What can I do to keep my erections strong with age? How can I last longer during sex? How can I improve my male masturbation sessions?  How do I maintain an erection with condoms?  What if I struggle to ejaculate during sex?  
    Sara and Jeff shed some light on the causes of common penis issues, and talk about what to do if, or when, things go south in different situations.
     
    Penis challenges are very common, and they don’t have to signal the end of your sex life. After all, there’s so much more to sex than just erections and ejaculations, so shifting away from a penis performance mindset and finding creative ways to satisfy each other is key.
     
    As communication is the most important tool to solve any kind of penis issue, speak up and seek help with any challenge you may be experiencing. Ultimately, penis issues are nothing to be ashamed of. 
     
    Tune in to the episode to get tips on keeping your penis healthy and happy in any S.O.S situation. 
     
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    Detailed show notes for this episode here.

    • 52 min
    Self-Love is Sexy

    Self-Love is Sexy

    How does self-love help us have a better sex life?
     
    On this uplifting episode, Sara sits down with co-host and relationship coach Valentina Tudose of Happy Ever After to discuss the principles of self-love and how they apply to the bedroom.
     
    We start off with a definition of how self-love is about accepting and integrating all parts of ourselves, even the parts that we might ordinarily hide, reject or be ashamed of.
     
    When we love ourselves enough, we stop performing in the bedroom, we have more pleasure, and we give ourselves permission to fully express our sexuality.
     
    If you’re someone that’s looking to empower yourself with self-love in the bedroom and beyond, this episode will give you practical tips to change unhelpful narratives around sex, deal with your inner critic, fully express your sexuality and more!
     
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    • 1 hr 6 min

Customer Reviews

4.3 out of 5
82 Ratings

82 Ratings

Enchanted E ,

Informative, hot, and funny

Just what you want in a relationship with a podcast.

She pushes boundaries, is delightful, and intensely curious.

I want to keep listening and listening

Wil1234850628 ,

Everything gets better with Sara!

Ever since I have been listening to better in bed, my sex life has improved dramatically! Especially communication and being open with my partner. It has reached a new level! Her tips are easy to follow and make sense, even for someone like me :-) the guests she brings on are so fun! They live the lifestyle and can talk from first hand experience what works for them. Really having a fun time listening! Thanks Sara!!!

positively.psyched ,

Deeply honest, super fun, and truly liberating

Sara is leading such a crucial, long overdue conversation, especially here in Asia. I love how cosy yet illuminating every episode is, and how she’s normalising taboo topics that so many feel alone in. Sara, thank you for giving us all permission to celebrate our unique sexuality, and lead wildly pleasurable lives.

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