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This show provides tools and resources for marriage improvement, hosted by Marriage Educator + Mental Health Advocate Christ-Lynn Smith, MA. She discusses various topics in marriage like communication, sex, intimacy, finances, commitment, and many more. This podcast is a bridge between the everyday couple and therapist & current love experts. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/blackmarriagetherapy/support

Black Marriage Therapy Black Marriage Therapy

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    • 4.8 • 56 Ratings

This show provides tools and resources for marriage improvement, hosted by Marriage Educator + Mental Health Advocate Christ-Lynn Smith, MA. She discusses various topics in marriage like communication, sex, intimacy, finances, commitment, and many more. This podcast is a bridge between the everyday couple and therapist & current love experts. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/blackmarriagetherapy/support

    How To Heal Men's Trauma

    How To Heal Men's Trauma

    In this episode, Junior and Dr. Jared Kiddoe teach men how to deal with the pressing issue of healing Black men's traumas in America.

    Listen to Learn:

    *Working definition for mental health & trauma

    *Why is addressing trauma so hard for black men? (including how men typically respond)

    *How men can process their trauma

    Lets us acknowledge your experience and empower you with the tools to support your mental health.

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    TalkSpace: ⁠https://www.talkspace.com/⁠

    CBT Thought Diary: ⁠https://cbtthoughtdiary.com/⁠


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    • 49 min
    How To Be Honest

    How To Be Honest

    Show  Notes

    This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/BLACKMARRIAGE and get on your way to being your best self.

    In this episode, we talk about why honesty matters in relationships and what honesty looks like in marriagek. We discuss the journey to being completely honest, even though it's hard. We look at why we sometimes don't tell the truth, whether it's to protect our partner's feelings or because we're scared of how they'll react. We share practical tips for having tough conversations honestly and kindly, without expecting anything in return. Tune in to learn how to build trust and openness in your relationship and how to respond honestly when talking with your spouse.

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    CBT Thought Diary: https://cbtthoughtdiary.com/

    Libby Audiobook Library: https://www.overdrive.com/apps/libby/




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    • 43 min
    25 Years of Marriage: Transitions & Resilience

    25 Years of Marriage: Transitions & Resilience

    This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/BLACKMARRIAGE and get on your way to being your best self.

    Today, we're chatting with Sean and Lanette Reed, a couple who've been married for 25 years. They're here to share their experiences and offer advice on navigating tough times in marriage. From dealing with doubts to finding balance and staying resilient, they'll share practical tips and stories to help couples strengthen their relationship. Get ready for an episode filled with laughter, encouragement, and useful advice for building a lasting partnership.



    Guest Info

    Find Sean & Lanette Reed: Website

    Sean and Lanette Reed Instagram:  Instagram

    Marriage In Transition: Book

    Lintree: All Links



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    TalkSpace: https://www.talkspace.com/

    CBT Thought Diary: https://cbtthoughtdiary.com/

    Libby Audiobook Library: https://www.overdrive.com/apps/libby/


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    • 52 min
    The Power of Community for Your Marriage

    The Power of Community for Your Marriage

    This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/BLACKMARRIAGE and get on your way to being your best self.

    In this episode, we will be discussing the power of community for your marriage. This is often a pillar we don't discuss because we are often taught the “us against the world mentality”. While we agree with guarding your marriage with vigor I believe it is essential that we learn to put our marriage into healthy community environments so that we can thrive. In this episode we will discuss what community is and isn’t, why community is important, and  how to build a strong community for your marriage while guarding your marriage.



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    Libby Audiobook Library: https://www.overdrive.com/apps/libby/


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    • 33 min
    The "Love Triangle" Theory

    The "Love Triangle" Theory

    In today's episode, we're going to dive into the topic of love using Robert Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love as our guide. This theory breaks down love into three main parts: intimacy, passion, and commitment. By understanding these components, we hope to unravel the complexities of romantic connections and shed light on the different forms love can take. I'll also share some personal stories and observations I've gathered from talking to various couples. These real-life experiences will help us explore the diverse ways people express and experience love. Lastly, we'll offer some practical tips and advice based on both research and personal insights. 

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    Sternberg Theory: Find out More!

    Psychologist Explains (Video):  Sternberg Theory

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    Z-Library: Digital Library


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    • 21 min
    Attachment Styles in Marriage

    Attachment Styles in Marriage

    This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/BLACKMARRIAGE and get on your way to being your best self.

    In this episode, we're diving into the world of attachment styles – the unique ways we connect with others, influenced by our early relationships. We'll explore why knowing about attachment styles matters for building strong relationships and sharing our own stories to help you understand their impact. Whether it's feeling secure in closeness, worrying about being left, or preferring independence, we'll break down how these styles shape how we love. Join us for practical tips and advice to navigate attachment styles, helping you create deeper, more satisfying connections in your life.

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    Attachment Style Quiz: Quiz

    Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT: Wired for Love (book on attachment)

    Amir Levine M.D, Rachel Heller M.A: Attached (book on attachment)

    Therapy for Black Men: Find a Therapist

    Therapy for Black Girls: Find a Therapist

    TalkSpace: https://www.talkspace.com/

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    Libby Audiobook Library: https://www.overdrive.com/apps/libby/

    Z-Library: Digital Library


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    • 35 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
56 Ratings

56 Ratings

T. Brooks ,

relevant and necessary!

I have been listening to this podcast and it's amazing how many open, honest, and vulnerable moments are shared. The information presented is easily digestible and applicable in real life situations. I want to make it clear that this podcast is not a replacement for therapy, but as someone who has experienced therapy and advocates for mental health, I appreciate the value this podcast adds. It makes it a little bit easier for me to navigate the world.

J.Artis ,

Grounded in Truth and Reflection

As I was looking for a podcast that could be helpful for someone after divorce this podcast has been an amazing resource. It has allowed me to examine my previous marriage with an objective lens. It has helped me to understand more about me and work on me as I prepare for my next relationship. My favorite episodes is when Christ-Lynn and Junior are on together. I am looking forward to the continued growth as you are sewing into the lives of so many. I have of course been sharing the pod!!

Katterine D. ,

Every Conversation is Transformative

Truth ✔️~ Honesty ✔️~Transparency ✔️~ Resources ✔️☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾
This podcast is life changing and I can’t wait to see and hear more from @blackmarriagetherapy (IG)

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