Ep 68: What’s The Vulnerable Support You Need? Button Downs And Basketball Shorts
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- Health & Fitness
How practiced are you at asking for support? How clear are you about the support you actually need? Many of us are conditioned to be good at giving help and offering it but not at receiving help or asking for it. Offering to give help and asking to receive help are doorways to deeper connection and intimacy. However, an overall imbalance in giving and receiving support can create depletion and stagnation of energy. Further, getting supported on a surface level is entirely different from on a deeper vulnerable level.
Vulnerability in asking for support
Being clear on what you need
Costs of not being supported
From fully supported in the womb to not needing full support afterwards
Shame and support
Expectations and independence
Self-judgment and judgment from others
Saying “Yes” to support
Simply sharing what you’re up to can invite support
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Connect with Jeff:
Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/
IG: @jeffmillercoaching
FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching
Connect with Tatsu:
Website: https://tatsuyafushimicoaching.carrd.co/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuya-fushimi-acc-0513a22/
IG: @tatsuyafushimi
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
How practiced are you at asking for support? How clear are you about the support you actually need? Many of us are conditioned to be good at giving help and offering it but not at receiving help or asking for it. Offering to give help and asking to receive help are doorways to deeper connection and intimacy. However, an overall imbalance in giving and receiving support can create depletion and stagnation of energy. Further, getting supported on a surface level is entirely different from on a deeper vulnerable level.
Vulnerability in asking for support
Being clear on what you need
Costs of not being supported
From fully supported in the womb to not needing full support afterwards
Shame and support
Expectations and independence
Self-judgment and judgment from others
Saying “Yes” to support
Simply sharing what you’re up to can invite support
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Connect with Jeff:
Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/
IG: @jeffmillercoaching
FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching
Connect with Tatsu:
Website: https://tatsuyafushimicoaching.carrd.co/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuya-fushimi-acc-0513a22/
IG: @tatsuyafushimi
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
29 min