Living Deliciously Dabby Longlegs

I had the most heartwarming, thoughtful conversation with Laura Marie! Laura Marie makes zines like Trike Diaries and enjoys the intersection of disability and sexuality. She lives in community and helps run the Las Vegas Radical Mental Health Collective. She also does interfaith peace work and anti-nuclear work. Her ancestors were unjustly harmed in the Trinity bomb test in New Mexico. Laura Marie writes a lot and also enjoys making visual art, riding trike, ecstatic dance, and permaculture.   You can follow Laura Marie's work at:  https://www.listeningtothenoiseuntilitmakessense.com https://www.facebook.com/functionallyill https://www.instagram.com/xtrikeslutsx/

In this episode of my Gender Affirming Journey series, I share my experiences microdosing testosterone, what my goals are, why I prefer to use the gel as opposed to injection, and what changes I've noticed so far.  TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Intro 01:15 A lil PSA  02:00 My reasons for going on T  03:50 Why I chose to microdose 05:04 Why I chose gel for emotional and physical reasons 06:30 Finding the right dose for me 07:15 T and Anger (and how to cope in a healthy way) 08:58 Voice range 10:45 Hangry  11:52 Body Hair  13:04 Fears before going on T 13:52 Thoughts on receding hairlines 14:40 Increased seggs drive - and why you should pay for ethically sourced adult content!! ;)  16:00 Bottom Growth! - And a lil secret trick to increasing it 17:12 Why microdosing can be a great option for nonbinary folks.  You can also watch this episode on my youtube channel.  Follow my chaotic creative shenanigans on Insta @dabby.longlegs

In this episode I had the pleasure of interviewing Susana Banana! We talk about everything from being a looner, contortion, bdsm and more! Suzie is a fetish performer and sex worker who specializes in submission and balloons. She caters to a wide range of fetishes but balloons and BDSM are her true loves. She absolutely loves content creation and also does a lot of personalized services such as Individual camming and sexting sessions as well. Suzie is 25 and has been doing this for coming up nearing 3 years now.  You can support Susana Banana's work at Linktr.ee/SuzieBxxx

Almost half of y'all voted for this topic on my IG storytime against the toxic empathic massage story, so eat up baby birds! In this super petty story time rant, I share about a time I was in a looong car ride with someone with incompatible music tastes and who said some pretty rude things to me because of it. Needless to say, there was not another date after this. 



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StoryTime! In spirit of Mother's Day, the recent Roe v. Wade drama, and being 5 months post-op, I am sharing my story about my hysterectomy! I cover a LOT in this episode, so I included time stamps. I'll cover the many reasons I wanted a hysto, how I qualified to receive one despite being unmarried without children, what the surgery/recovery was like, and how my life has improved since having the procedure. You can watch this episode on youtube, and stay up to date with my shenanigans on Insta @dabby.longlegs. Thank you for supporting my work and listening to my stories. 
Time Stamps
Intro 0:00 - 3:00
Why I wanted a Hysto (Pregnancy phobia, Childfree, PMDD, Dysphoria) 3:00
11:00 How I qualified (My Talk with Dr, The Process,  Jupiter Magic to get my appointment, Keeping/Removing my Cervix, Keeping my Ovaries,) 
16:45
Prepping at home
 18:25 Pre op
20:12 TW True Crime Hospital Drama Moment
21:22 Operation Room
22:03 Post Op
25:40 Recovery + Rest
27:20 My Endometriosis Diagnosis 
33:01 My Life Now

Welcome to the traumedy hour, where I turn weird sh*t that happened in my life alchemy-like into funny storytelling. Well, kinda funny.  This is about the time where I was at a vulnerable place in my life and had a really weird experience with a masseuse who wound up displaying some traits that are often seen in toxic spiritual communities. I'm able to laugh at all this years later (hence the episode), but it's also important to talk about how to look out for these sorts of things when you're seeking healing services, especially while recovering from trauma.   



 You can listen to this episode wherever you stream podcasts from my show, Living Deliciously, and stay up to date with my creatively chaotic shenanigans on my instagram @ dabby.longlegs.  Thanks for your support!