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The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.

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The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.

    When Words Wound: Dealing With Spousal Criticism in Front of the Kids

    When Words Wound: Dealing With Spousal Criticism in Front of the Kids

    Episode #815
    Have you ever found yourself baffled by your spouse's critical comments in front of your children? Wondering how to restore peace and assert your role in the family without escalating tensions?
    In this episode, we delve into the challenging dynamic of spousal criticism witnessed by children. We explores the painful realities behind these hurtful exchanges and offers actionable strategies for men to reclaim respect and harmony in their homes. Discover how to address the underlying issues, set clear boundaries, and foster a healthier family environment.
    Listen now to understand why these conflicts arise and learn effective ways to flip the script, ensuring you can confidently "re-sit on your throne" at home. This episode is not just about conflict resolution—it's about building a legacy of love and respect in your family. Tune in for a heartfelt and transformative discussion!
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    • 13 min
    Calculating Your Losses: What Inaction Really Costs

    Calculating Your Losses: What Inaction Really Costs

    Episode #814
    Are you tired of watching opportunities pass you by? Ever wondered what inaction is truly costing you, not just in business but in life?
    In this episode, Doug Holt dives deep into the concept of the "cost of inaction." Using compelling anecdotes and expert insights, he examines how failing to act can detrimentally impact various aspects of your life—from your relationships to your business ventures. Doug discusses how hesitation can be the biggest threat to progress and offers practical advice on how to evaluate and confront the costs associated with inaction.
    Whether it's the potential loss of business, the emotional toll of a failing marriage, or missed personal growth opportunities, this episode will make you reconsider the true price of staying in your comfort zone. Learn how to take decisive action and avoid the pitfalls of stagnation, ensuring you're not the one left with regrets. Join us for a candid discussion on making proactive choices that lead to a more fulfilled and successful life.
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    • 15 min
    No Laughing Matter: When Your Jokes Hurt More Than They Heal

    No Laughing Matter: When Your Jokes Hurt More Than They Heal

    Episode #813
    Ever wonder if your playful jabs at your partner are truly all in good fun, or if they might be causing more harm than good?
    In this episode, Doug Holt explores a critical aspect of relationships that many overlook—the impact of our jokes and teasing on our spouses. Whether it's a light-hearted comment about the dishes or a sarcastic remark in a social setting, the words we choose and the energy behind them can profoundly affect the emotional climate of our relationships.
    Doug shares personal anecdotes and insights from years of coaching, revealing how what's meant as bonding humor can sometimes alienate the ones we love most. He delves into the nuances of "reading the room," understanding the energy behind our words, and recognizing how these interactions can influence our spouse's feelings of safety and love.
    Listeners will come away with strategies to ensure their humor fosters connection rather than discord, emphasizing the importance of emotional awareness and the power of well-timed levity in building a loving and supportive marriage.
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    • 20 min
    Woman's POV: Choosing Sides-Navigating the Parent-Child Bond in Marriage

    Woman's POV: Choosing Sides-Navigating the Parent-Child Bond in Marriage

    Episode #812
    Are you navigating the complex dynamics of marriage and parenthood?
    In this episode of "The TPM Show," we're joined by special guest Erin, as we dive into the intricate relationship between spouses and their roles as parents. The discussion centers around a common issue many couples face—when one spouse feels sidelined in favor of the children.
    In this episode, Doug and Erin explore the biological and emotional changes that occur when becoming a parent, especially from a woman's perspective. They discuss how these shifts can lead to a spouse inadvertently seeking emotional fulfillment from their children, creating potential strains in the marriage.
    Listeners will gain insights into maintaining a healthy balance between their roles as partners and parents. They'll learn strategies for engaging in meaningful conversations that strengthen their marriage and set a positive example for their children.
    Tune in to understand how to navigate the parental roles in your marriage and protect the integrity of your relationship while fostering a nurturing environment for your children.
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    • 30 min
    Woman's POV: Change She Can't Believe-Decoding Distrust in Transformation

    Woman's POV: Change She Can't Believe-Decoding Distrust in Transformation

    Episode #811
    Have you ever wondered why changes in relationships often spark distrust, even if they're for the better? Why does transformation trigger fear, and how can we navigate the delicate balance of trust?
    In this episode of "The Powerful Man Show," we delve into the complex dynamics of personal change and its impact on relationships. Joined by the host's wife, Erin, they explore the woman's perspective on witnessing transformation, the tests of trust that follow, and the quest for emotional safety in partnerships.
    Erin offers unique insights into why women might distrust change in their partners and shares personal anecdotes to illuminate the struggles of accepting newfound stability. The discussion revolves around the importance of consistency, emotional safety, and the critical role of communication in reinforcing trust.
    Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the intricacies of trust, the challenges of maintaining changes, and practical advice on fostering a supportive and secure relationship dynamic. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationships through understanding and mutual respect.
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    • 28 min
    Woman's POV:Filling Your Cup Differently-Understanding the Gender Gap

    Woman's POV:Filling Your Cup Differently-Understanding the Gender Gap

    Episode #810
    Are you curious about the nuances between how men and women recharge and connect with their energies? Dive into a refreshing exploration of gender differences and the paths to revitalization in our latest episode of the TPM show.
    In this episode, we're joined by special guest Erin, who shares insights from a woman's perspective on the unique ways women fill their cup and embrace their femininity. Discover the profound differences in how men and women experience and manage their energies, and how understanding these distinctions can profoundly affect relationships.
    Erin elaborates on the role of supportive environments, the importance of alone time, and practical strategies men can employ to help the women in their lives thrive. From the significance of physical touch and emotional presence to the influence of hormonal cycles, this discussion unveils essential techniques for nurturing connection and well-being.
    Whether you're looking to deepen your relationship or simply expand your understanding of gender-specific needs, this episode offers valuable lessons in empathy, support, and love. Tune in to learn how you can better support the women in your life to reconnect with their true selves and enhance their overall happiness.
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    • 30 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
104 Ratings

104 Ratings

Tony K Chicago ,

Must listen to for any man in a relationship

This show is a must listen to! Every podcast has some useful and actionable information. Do it for you, for your spouse and for your kids! Stop making excuses for yourself!

Fresh2Envy ,

Devices issues

Mine is stuck on T3mu…I feel like I am competing with tech app & it’s so frustrating after 21 years.Thanks for your last episode imma play it for 2x so I don’t miss any of your insights.Thanks!

Review Bible is ,

Saved my marriag

The Powerful Man (TPM) movement saved my marriage. This podcast gives you some great tools, and you can go on to decide to go deeper into learning how to lead & love your family better with TPM. I highly recommend this podcast for married men.

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