The HSP and Neurodivergent Podcast with Julie Bjelland Julie Bjelland, LMFT
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Ranked top 5% most followed and shared podcast globally. Empowering the highly sensitive and neurodiverse. Sharing all the ways you are needed and valuable in the world. As a sensitivity and late diagnosed autism in women expert, psychotherapist, and founder of the online Sensitive Empowerment community, my mission is to help you reduce the challenges of having a sensitive nervous system so you can access your many gifts and thrive to your fullest potential. See show notes at HSPpodcast.com. Explore all my HSP resources at www.JulieBjelland.com or SensitiveConnection.com
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The Hidden World of Autistic Women with Julie Bjelland, LMFT
Episode Summary:
In this episode of the HSP and Neurodivergent podcast, psychotherapist Julie Bjelland delves deep into the hidden world of autistic women, aiming to illuminate the unique challenges and strengths that have not been well understood until now. A significant focus is placed on the reality that many autistic women remain undiagnosed, often due to the subtle and internalized nature of their experiences.
Julie shares profound insights from her personal journey and professional assessments, emphasizing how these experiences can profoundly impact personal identity and societal interaction. The discussion explores the concept of the "supercomputer brain" that many autistic women possess, which allows them to rapidly process enormous amounts of information and maintain an intense focus on subjects of interest. This capability, however, is often accompanied by a challenging mismatch between their intellectual ambitions and physical energy levels, a disparity that can lead to significant frustration and burnout.
The discussion also addresses the necessity for adaptive environments that cater to the unique needs of autistic women—spaces where they can control sensory inputs and manage their energy more effectively. Julie discusses the societal pressures that lead to masking, where autistic women feel compelled to hide their true selves to fit into societal norms, which can diminish their sense of self-worth and lead to isolation.
Throughout the episode, Julie advocates for a greater understanding and acceptance of the differences that autistic women face. She invites listeners to join her Autistic Women's Group, providing a platform for connection and mutual support, and shares resources and courses designed to help manage energy and prevent burnout.
This enlightening discussion seeks to educate and empower listeners by validating the experiences of autistic women, encouraging them to embrace their unique attributes without shame. By exploring the hidden world of autistic women, Julie Bjelland helps to foster a community where autistic women can thrive by being their authentic selves.
Key Points Discussed:
Supercomputer Brain: Autistic women often possess a high intelligence that allows them to process vast amounts of information quickly and have an intense focus on a wide range of topics.
Energy and Ambition Misalignment: A recurring theme among autistic women is the mismatch between physical energy levels and mental ambitions, leading to frustration and burnout.
Feeling Flawed and Different: Many autistic women feel flawed from childhood due to societal expectations, leading to feelings of isolation and the need to mask their true selves.
Emotional and Sensory Regulation Challenges: Autistic women often face significant challenges with emotional expression and sensory overload, which can result in misunderstandings in personal relationships.
Communication and Social Preferences: Clear, direct, and honest communication is preferred, and many autistic women value deep connections with a few people over larger social groups.
Importance of Alone Time: Alone time is crucial for autistic women to recharge and manage their sensitivities, emphasizing the need for self-care without guilt.
Invitation to Join the Autistic Women's Group: Julie invites listeners to join her Autistic Women's Group for support and to share experiences, with links provided in the show notes.
Resources Mentioned:
Autistic Women's Group (Free group inside the private Sensitive Empowerment Community). Join Here
The HSP & Neurodivergent Toolbox Course
Sensitive Empowerment Community
Website Links:
Autistic Resources: Quiz, Research, Assessment, Consultations
Julie’s Website
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Highly Sensitive, Autistic, or both? Understanding the Differences with Julie Bjelland, LMFT
In this episode, I discuss the differences that set autism apart from high sensitivity, particularly in women. I highlight the outdated diagnostic criteria for autism and the misdiagnosis or lack of diagnosis in many women. We'll explore the unique characteristics of autistic women, such as the challenges of masking, the need for solitude, and the intense sensitivity across multiple senses. I also emphasize the importance of self-compassion and acceptance for autistic individuals and the need for a neurodiverse society.
Resources Mentioned
Assessments and Consultations with me: https://www.juliebjelland.com/consultations-with-julie
Stay updated! Join my free newsletter https://www.juliebjelland.com/newsletter
Product Recommendations: https://www.juliebjelland.com/sensory-friendly
Sensitive Empowerment Community SensitiveCommunity.com (Join my Autistic Women's Group within the community too!)
Autism Resources (including free Autism Quiz, Assessment and Consultation Info, Research, Surveys, and Education) AutisticHSP.com
Recommended Resources: HSPcourses.com
Brain Training Course to reduce anxiety, overwhelming emotions, and the fight/flight/freeze over-activation
HSP & Neurodiverse Toolbox Course, I share how I balance my nervous system.
Blooming Brilliantly Course: Learn self-love and self-compassion.
Your Self-Discovery Journey: Spend time with me and others learning who we are and what we need at this stage of life
Grow a Heart-Centered Business as an HSP or Autistic Individual. We do things differently!
Key Points:
Many individuals who identify as highly sensitive may actually be autistic, prompting updates to sensitivity quizzes.
Autistic women face hidden challenges.
Many of us have feelings of being different and flawed.
Autistic women require solitude to reduce overstimulation and restore energy.
We tend to experience heightened sensitivity across multiple senses, which can be intense.
We prefer communicating honestly and directly, valuing clarity.
Accepting an autism diagnosis can lead to reframing experiences and self-compassion.
Social gatherings, sudden changes, and small talk can be challenging.
Repetitive movements serve as a way to soothe and focus, with fidget tools aiding in this.
Written communication may be preferred and eye contact can feel intense and overwhelming.
Managing emotions, especially when fatigued, is challenging.
We experience high empathy.
Building a neurodiverse society that celebrates differences is vital for our well-being.
Themes:
Unveiling the Hidden Challenges Faced by Autistic Women
Navigating Intense Sensory Sensitivity in Autism
Understanding Autism in Highly Sensitive Women
Unique Special Interests Among Autistic Individuals
Overcoming Challenges Stemming From a World Not Setup for Us.
Sound Bites
Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Change in Podcast Title
01:21 Understanding Autism in Highly Sensitive Women
08:06 The Importance of Solitude and Alone Time
15:00 Navigating the Intense Sensory Sensitivity of Autism
25:27 Reframing Experiences and Finding Self-Compassion
28:23 Challenges in Social Gatherings and Small Talk
33:22 Creating a Neurodiverse Society that Celebrates Differences
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Episode 188: Growing a Business to Support Our Creativity with Neurodivergent Artist, Eli Trier
Eli is known for her vibrant use of colour with multiple mediums including acrylic, gouache, ink, pastel, colour pencil, and collage, and as a highly sensitive artist with autism, Eli's work often reflects in-depth emotional themes.
Her work has been featured in public exhibitions and private collections all around the world and she has also mastered the art of showcasing her studio, drawing, painting and creating on video.
Eli is on a mission to help artists make money from their art or craft, grow a collector base, grow a business without sacrificing studio time and feel really good about selling their work.
The interview features
How Eli came to start a business for her art?
How being neurodivergent influences her business and creativity?
Ways to look after your nervous system when creating and running the business.
Tips and hints for sounding more 'natural' and confident when making video.
Creating a studio and work environment that is efficient and an inspiration to work in.
Exploring the integral nature of business and marketing.
Learn more about Eli Trier (website)
Take a tour of Eli's studio (You Tube video)
Keep In Touch — ELINOR TRIER (elinortrierstudio.com)
Elinor Trier Studio | Helping artists & creatives to think like entrepreneurs | Patreon
Andrea Weber is the Business Group and Events Co-ordinator for the Sensitive Empowerment Community and founder of Expansive Happiness®. Andrea provides encouragement and practical strategies for environmental sensitivity management through her self-paced program, articles and posts, helping people navigate the day to day challenges of emf, chemical and mold sensitivity.
A love of writing and editing has led to the provision of these additional services for highly sensitive people.
Learn more and join our Heart-Centered Business Group
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Empty Nest, Menopause, and Autism: A Journey from Darkness to Self-Discovery
In this episode, I take you on a deeply personal journey through some of the most challenging phases of my life. I open up about the experience of facing an empty nest, the physical and emotional upheaval brought on by menopause, and the profound insights I gained from understanding how autism impacts me and others who are sensitive. These challenges led me through some dark times, prompting a pivotal moment of self-reflection and a strong commitment to prioritizing my health. This wasn't just about my physical well-being but about embarking on a path of self-discovery and acceptance. By embracing changes and committing to learning more about my internal world, I discovered the nuances of autism and how it resonates with the experiences of sensitive individuals like myself. This episode is more than a story of personal struggle; it's a testament to the power of resilience, the importance of health, and the journey toward understanding myself on a deeper level.
Resources Mentioned in Episode
The HSP Podcast: HSPpodcast.com
Updated Sensitivity Quiz: SensitivityQuiz.com
Autism Quiz, Education, Assessments & Consultations: AutisticHSP.com
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Considering Self-employment with Career and Business Coach, Val Nelson
In this insightful presentation, Val discusses how highly sensitive people are making self-employment a viable option.
Val addresses the 3 main concerns for people considering self-employment:
Money
Marketing
Energy
Practical strategies are given to break things down into manageable steps, including letting go of all the ‘outside noise’, tuning in to what feels good, and creating that heart-to-heart connection.
How we use energy as highly sensitive people is paramount to our well-being and sense of purpose and alignment. Val discusses her own experiences and the importance of visibility, collaboration, and referral. A lot can be learned from the Q&A included in the presentation.Val Nelson is a career and business coach for introverts and highly sensitive people (HSPs) who want meaningful work without the overwhelm. She enjoys helping people clarify their career or self-employment decisions. As an introvert and HSP herself, she used to think self-employment was not for her, yet now enjoys a thriving business and has learned to navigate the myths around what is possible. She believes strongly that living your true purpose is a practical possibility. She helps people through coaching, her small groups, her courses, and her blog. Learn more at ValNelson.com
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Family Wellbeing: Decluttering & Designing a Life Where Everyone Can Thrive with Rebecca Rushdy
Being an HSP is a blessing, but it can also be exhausting, so a decluttering approach centered around energy management, self-compassion, and gratitude is exactly what we need, and we can create space and opportunities for growth by clearing physical and emotional clutter.
Learn how decluttering as a family can cultivate mindfulness and confidence in kids and be a tool to deepen relationships and create more harmony at home.
Meet our Guest Speaker
Rebecca Jo Rushdy guides fellow HSPs & Empaths to declutter their hearts, minds, and homes into sanctuaries that spark joy and flow. She was the first platinum KonMari Consultant in Malaysia and in Edinburgh, where she is currently based with her husband and two daughters. You can learn more about Rebecca and her work by visiting www.sparkjoyandflow.com
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