258 episodes
Sex for Saints Amanda Louder
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- Health & Fitness
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4.8 • 338 Ratings
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As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!
In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.
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How Style Helps Your Confidence in the Bedroom - An Interview with Sheri Brasier
In this episode, I’m talking to Sheri Brasier about how to gain more confidence in the bedroom. Sheri is a life and style coach which means that she empowers women to have great style and in turn gain confidence. In our discussion, we talked about how to improve how you look at yourself in order to improve how you feel about yourself and sex. This really is an interesting discussion on style and how it makes us feel. Listen in and tell me what you think.
You can find Sheri on:
Instagram
Facebook
Her website
Her podcast: Creating Unshakable Self Confidence
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How to Add Role-Play Into Your Sexual Repertoire
In this episode, I’m speaking with Katie Runyan of Faithful Fling, a subscription role-playing website. We talk about how to easily add role-play into our marriages. This is such a fun episode! Katie talked about how she created her business because it’s what she was looking for when they first started role-playing. Listen to this episode, and then sign up for a free fling.
Katie resides in Kansas City, Missouri with her husband and four children who have all flown the coop! She’s left with an empty house but not an empty marriage yet she spends a lot of time begging them to come home for the weekend! You can find her outside doing a lazy run, visiting local donut shops, taking naps or with her nose in a book.
In the Spring of 2022 she finally took the leap and started her own business where she creates role-play dates for you and your spouse to do together, so Katie is the role-play expert! She named her website Faithful Fling because all of her role-play scenarios will be just between you and your spouse, hence the Faithful part, and she named these fun role-play dates “Flings” because she wanted to apply a fun and flirty word for your role-play date night. She loves what she does and can’t wait for the moment when Faithful Fling becomes a common name for date night!
Katie is a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints who encourages everyone to embrace their God-given sexuality, improve their intimacy and connection with their spouse and learn to have fun in the bedroom! She’s been married for 24 years and they still date each other every week.
You can find her:
On Instagram
On her website
Or email her at katie@faithfulfling.com
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Taking Things To The Next Level ||Embracing You! Teaser||
Rather than dwelling on the questions your brain is offering to you, answer them. Thoughtfully think about them and answer them. You have the answers already inside of you. I’m so excited to share this teaser from my subscription podcast with you. In this episode, I talk to Jen and Floyd about taking things to the next level. I’ve been working with them for a couple of years now and the change has been amazing. But now they’re ready to go to the next level with their sex life. Listen in to see what that means for them and what questions they have as they do it. Are you ready to go to the next level?
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How Can I Get My Wife to Develop Her Sexual-Self?
How do I get my wife to develop her sexual self? That is probably one of the most common questions I get from husbands. This question makes the assumption that if I just say the right thing in the right way their eyes will be opened and all will be right in my world. But that is not usually the case. And what it actually ends up doing is creating more unhealthy pressure. So, how do you create healthy pressure? Listen to this episode to find out.
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Consenting to Unwanted Sex: An Interview with Dr. Cami Hurst
In this episode, I’m speaking with Dr. Cami Hurst about her research into consenting to unwanted sex. This research is ground breaking in understanding why so many middle aged women have no libido. I am so happy to be able to share both what she found in her research and also what to do about it.
Cami Hurst, LAMFT, is a sex and relationship therapist in Meridian, ID. Cami operates a private practice offering therapy, coaching, and online small group education. She is a founder and current President of the Idaho Association of Sexual Health Professionals (ISHP). She holds a PhD in Clinical Sexology and a Master’s Degree in Marriage, Couple, and Family Therapy. Cami is passionate about helping couples and individuals improve their sexual health.
You can find the slides that we reference in the show here.
Find Cami on:
Her website - https://camihurst.com/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.camihurst/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/camijill/
Her podcast, Sex Therapy 101 - https://camihurst.com/sex-therapy-101-podcast
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A Transactional versus Relational Marriage
My clients often have transactional relationships with their spouses without even realizing it. In this episode, I want to explain what a transactional marriage is, why we don’t want it and what we want instead. I was recently reminded that people often think of our relationship with our Heavenly Father as transactional when all He wants is a relationship with us. As we pattern our lives after our Heavenly Parents, we can come to realize that the relationship is the most important part of our marriages as well. Let’s talk about transactional vs relational marriages.
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Customer Reviews
I Listen Every Week!
Great podcast! Great ideas and great advice!
Rules vs self governance
Thank you for your refreshing views. I just finished listening to episode 237 - Modesty & The For Strength of Youth. I hope that these types of conversations start happening more frequently in the church. I was raised in a shame culture that was based on the established rule mindset of the church. At one point I even left the church due to the extensive rules that seemed unnecessary, but I eventually came back. For most of my adult life, I have had facial hair and still get asked when I will shave to meet the “rules”. I also wear a cross necklace that has deep meaning to me, but also get comments on it being inappropriate. Even in my sex life with my wife we spent many years having the same type of sex because of “rules”. I finally realized the difference between cultural norms and actual doctrine and am much more happy with who I am. We have a better, more honest and accepting marriage. I have also been able to raise my kids to understand the principle of agency and the difference between what is doctrinal and what is mere opinion (although my adult daughters get accused of being feminist by some of their priesthood leaders for having a more open minded view. I just tell them to tell the leaders that they learned it from their feminist father!). Thank you for sharing your ideas.
One side of the story
Understandably focused on women’s perspectives and their needs from men. Discusses freely and frequently how men traumatize and condition women intentionally and unintentionally, but rarely if ever mentions how men are also “traumatized” and “conditioned” by women—intentionally and unintentionally.
Additionally, the regular condescending remarks about those who don’t possess certificates of paper saying coach, therapist, or doctor is naive and/or ignorant. Some of the wisest people I know in many facets of life aren’t recognized by formal organizations as “certified.” Some of the worst advice and information have been perpetuated by “certified professionals.” I gave 2 stars because my wife is a fan. My wife’s 5 stars have to count for something.