The Sovereign Man Podcast

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The Sovereign Man Podcast

“A real man is sovereign over his own life. He takes full responsibility for becoming a better man, and owns his own successes and failures. But he also understands the value of being a part of a band of brothers, the kind that have his back, and he can call at 3 AM if he’s stuck in a jail cell, because they’ll come and get him. He understands that just like a wolf pack, the strength of the pack is the wolf, and the strength of the wolf is the pack.” — Nicky Billou Welcome to the Sovereign Man Podcast where we have the conversations that matter to you as a man, and inspire you to become the best version of yourself. You’ll learn from the best business, career, financial, relationship, and mans skills experts from around the world. The Sovereign Man Podcast is for motivated men like you who want to win in today’s world. We equip you to become better in every area of your life from establishing mastery over yourself, to defining your purpose, strengthening your family and your relationships, becoming a better leader, and learning man skills. Each week I have real, unscripted conversations with real men, successful men, and men who give a darn.

  1. EP184: Steve Richmond - Why Gentle Parenting Sucks!

    3 DAYS AGO

    EP184: Steve Richmond - Why Gentle Parenting Sucks!

    "Gentle parenting is this new age thing where parents try to be friends with their children as opposed to being parents. And some of them have this mix of a little bit of trying to be the parent and the friend, which is a little bit confusing to children because they don't know who's who at different times." For decades, parenting has drifted toward a softer, more "gentle" approach, where discipline is frowned upon, and kids are treated more like emotional equals than growing humans who need guidance. While the intent may be noble, the reality is that structure, discipline, and even a little rough-and-tumble play are essential for developing strong, capable adults. The problem isn't just that kids lack discipline; it's that they lack clarity. When fathers fail to step into their role as leaders and instead play the role of "buddy," they leave their children without the critical framework needed to navigate the real world. Parenting is about preparing, not pampering. Steve Richmond pulls no punches when discussing the long-term consequences of today's parenting trends. He challenges the modern obsession with self-esteem over self-worth and participation trophies over earned victories. He highlights the importance of setting clear boundaries, letting boys test their limits, and ensuring that fathers actually parent instead of playing support act to their children's whims. He makes the case that without strong father figures enforcing discipline and structure, we're raising a generation that will struggle with confidence, responsibility, and resilience. Steve Richmond is a seasoned expert in fatherhood, personal development, and masculinity. With years of experience coaching men and helping families find balance, he believes in reclaiming the lost art of fatherhood. His work focuses on helping men step back into their roles as leaders in their households, instilling discipline, responsibility, and a healthy respect for life's hard-earned lessons. Books Mentioned: 1. "The Boy Crisis" by Dr. Warren Farrell • https://www.amazon.com/Boy-Crisis-Boys-Struggling-About/dp/1942952716 2. "The Road Less Travelled" by M. Scott Peck • https://www.amazon.com/Road-Less-Traveled-Timeless-Traditional/dp/0743243153 Learn more and connect: https://www.steverichmond.ca/ You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    46 min
  2. EP183: Steve Taylor - How Bad Do You Want It?

    FEB 13

    EP183: Steve Taylor - How Bad Do You Want It?

    "There's no secret. It takes just exactly what you've always heard it takes, hard work and discipline, and you miss out on drinking and partying and all of that, at least to a certain degree, if you want to get what you want." Achieving greatness isn't about wanting it—it's about proving it through action. Most men settle for average, but the few who embrace discomfort and discipline rise above. This episode dives into what it takes to truly commit, push past limits, and build the mindset that separates contenders from pretenders. If you're not willing to sacrifice for your goals, you'll always fall short. Today's guest proves that age is no excuse. Starting bodybuilding at 57, he faced failure, doubled down, and won his IFBB Pro Card at 60. His journey is a testament to resilience, proving that mastery comes from consistency, discipline, and an unshakable work ethic. Steve Taylor is a professional IFBB bodybuilder and coach who defied expectations by achieving elite status later in life. Now 69, he continues to train, compete, and inspire men to take full ownership of their health, strength, and success. Learn more & connect: https://www.instagram.com/steve.taylor.ifbbpro/ You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    52 min
  3. EP182: Huds & The Wingman | Why Failure Is The Best Teacher

    FEB 12

    EP182: Huds & The Wingman | Why Failure Is The Best Teacher

    "The best mentors I've ever had always told me about their failures." Failure isn't just a misstep; it's a choreographer of growth and change. Faceplants, blunders, and spectacular miscalculations are less about defeat and more about refinement. Think of failure as that brutally honest friend-- uncomfortable, yes, but invaluable. Real growth rarely comes from a flawless victory; it thrives in the aftermath of our most humbling defeats, where we sift through the rubble for lessons sharper than any polished success. Our guests, Huds and Wingman, co-founders of the Men of Now community, share raw, unfiltered stories of personal challenges that became pivotal turning points in their lives. From navigating toxic relationships to facing legal and financial struggles, they reveal how these experiences catalyzed their growth. They discuss the importance of mentorship, community, and accountability—highlighting that true wisdom often comes from the willingness to confront uncomfortable truths, both from within and from the people who care enough to call you out. Huds and Wingman are two of the three co-founders of the Men of Now community. They're dedicated to helping men become the best versions of themselves through mentorship and personal development. Huds' journey into men's work began after overcoming profound personal struggles that reshaped his outlook on life, while Wingman stumbled into the space through mentorship and a knack for guiding others. They bring complementary skills and a shared passion for fostering growth, resilience, and authentic masculinity. Learn more & connect: Look to Men Of Now on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you listen to your podcasts. 1. Books by Rollo Tomassi - The Rational Male https://a.co/d/7dcFnkq 2. Corey Wayne - How to Be a 3% Man https://www.understandingrelationships.com [https://www.understandingrelationships.com/] 3. Athol Kay - The Mindful Attraction Plan https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00B4GQ8OW You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    57 min
  4. EP181: Adam Allred - Make America Sane Again!

    JAN 29

    EP181: Adam Allred - Make America Sane Again!

    "Men need to get their house in order. This isn't a female issue—it's a masculine issue right now." In a world that seems intent on erasing traditional masculinity, the need for strong, purpose-driven men has never been greater. The modern narrative has left many men struggling to define their roles, disconnected from their inherent strengths, and unprepared to face life's challenges. The solution lies in reclaiming the values of resilience, responsibility, and community, which have long been at the heart of what it means to be a man. Men need to rediscover their purpose, rebuild their tribes, and stop letting societal pressures dilute their potential. Drawing from decades of experience mentoring young men, our guest, Adam Allred, identifies how societal narratives have stripped men of the framework they need to thrive. He emphasizes that many young men today lack the tools to face adversity because they've been conditioned to avoid it. He explores the devastating consequences of fatherless homes, the erosion of male mentorship, and the societal shift that isolates men from their tribes. Yet, his insights aren't just critiques—they're a call to action. By reconnecting with other men, embracing responsibility, and prioritizing their roles within families and communities, men can reclaim their strength and purpose. Adam is a seasoned entrepreneur, sales expert, and advocate for modern masculinity. With over 20 years of experience training and mentoring thousands of young men in the high-pressure world of door-to-door sales, he's seen firsthand the struggles and triumphs of building resilience. Today, he uses his platform to inspire men of all ages to reject societal narratives that weaken them and embrace the values of strength, leadership, and purpose. Learn more and connect: • The End of Woman [https://a.co/d/4ECxhFd] by Carrie Gress • Jordan Peterson's talks on the patriarchy and masculinity @AdamAllredOfficial You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    56 min
  5. EP180: Brad Huebner - Why The Skilled Trades Are A Great Money Making Opportunity For Men

    JAN 22

    EP180: Brad Huebner - Why The Skilled Trades Are A Great Money Making Opportunity For Men

    "We're in the middle of a contracting gold rush. There's a massive gap in labor, and it's an incredible opportunity for men who are willing to put in the work." Let's face it—the world doesn't need another guy with a useless degree and a pile of student debt. Enter Brad Huebner, a Marine-turned-construction-business-coach, who's here to talk about the ultimate cheat code for men looking to level up: the skilled trades. Forget the suits and ties; we're talking hammers, saws, and a golden opportunity to rake in six, seven, or even eight figures. In this episode, Brad breaks down why the "contracting gold rush" is the hottest ticket in town and how men can cash in big time. Brad keeps it real as he explains how the trades aren't just a career choice—they're a lifestyle upgrade. Whether you want to clock in, collect six figures, and call it a day, or build a multi-million-dollar business empire, the trades have a path for you. Plus, Brad throws in some sage advice about mindset, personal growth, and avoiding the negativity vortex that is the news cycle. This episode is a masterclass in turning sweat equity into financial freedom and personal fulfillment. Brad Huebner is a Marine veteran, skilled trades expert, and business coach who helps contractors build profitable businesses while maintaining their sanity. With years of experience swinging a hammer and scaling companies, Brad's mission is to help men create wealth, stability, and a damn good life through the trades. Learn more & connect: * Brad Huebner's website https://www.teamhandy.com/ * Book: Mindset by Carol Dweck https://www.amazon.ca/dp/0345472322?ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_7FJ8MVX2708M9YM25WE4_1&skipTwisterOG=1&bestFormat=true&newOGT=1 * The Bible * The Last Law of Attraction Book You'll Ever Need To Read: The Missing Key To Finally Tapping Into The Universe And Manifesting Your Desires by Andrew Kap https://a.co/d/8NFuPbF * The Hoffman Process https://a.co/d/6GIEOUv You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    39 min
  6. EP179: Brunson & Cameron Smith - A Real Life Study Of The Father Son Relationship

    JAN 17

    EP179: Brunson & Cameron Smith - A Real Life Study Of The Father Son Relationship

    "Often people that really know what's going on are the ones that say, 'Who knows?' Something my dad's not saying is that, he's had he's had 15 kids." In this episode of the Sovereign Man Podcast, we dive into a powerful father and son relationship with Cameron and Brunson Smith. Cameron drops some dad-level wisdom, reflecting on his own fatherhood journey and why showing up, dishing out life advice, and sticking to timeless principles is the ultimate dad trifecta. Meanwhile, Brunson takes us behind the scenes of growing up as one of 15 siblings (yes, 15!)—explaining why his dad deserves a medal. Together, they prove that masculinity isn't just a buzzword—it's an art form in action. Guest Bios: * Cameron Smith: A father of 15 and a man of wisdom, Cameron embodies dedication, resilience, and a passion for teaching life's lessons through actions and analogies. * Brunson Smith: The second oldest of 15 siblings, Brunson brings perspective on navigating life as part of a large family and shares insights from his father's influence and his own journey. Books and Links Mentioned: 1. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey: https://www.amazon.ca/Habits-Highly-Effective-People-Anniversary/dp/B086D4R6ZD 2. The Book of Mormon: https://www.amazon.ca/Book-Mormon-Another-Testament-Christ/dp/038551316X 3. Loving What Is by Byron Katie: https://www.amazon.ca/Loving-What-Four-Questions-Change/dp/1400045371 4. The Last Law of Attraction Book You'll Ever Need by Andrew Kap: https://www.amazon.ca/Last-Law-Attraction-Book-Youll/dp/1948336082 5. The 3% Man by Corey Wayne: https://www.amazon.ca/How-Be-3-Man-Winning/dp/0692552669 6. Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert Heinlein: https://www.amazon.ca/Stranger-Strange-Land-Robert-Heinlein/dp/0441790348 7. The Great Patriot Buycott Book by Wayne Allyn Root and Nicky Billou: https://www.amazon.ca/Great-Patriot-Buycott-Book-Companies/dp/195210699X You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    45 min
  7. EP178: Jamie Lima - Don't Do It Alone - The Shitstorm That Is Divorce

    JAN 11

    EP178: Jamie Lima - Don't Do It Alone - The Shitstorm That Is Divorce

    "There are so many dudes out there that need the help of people like myself and other therapists and divorce coaches, and they don't pick up the phone, they don't ask for the help because everybody has John Wayne syndrome." Divorce isn't just a legal process; it's a complete upheaval of your emotional, financial, and mental worlds. The truth is, most people walk into it underprepared, thinking they can "figure it out" as they go. That's a mistake. Divorce demands strategy, whether it's navigating the legal complexities, dividing assets, or recalibrating your life after the dust settles. Smart planning—think prenups, financial foresight, and clear boundaries—can save you from unnecessary heartbreak and financial ruin. The core lesson? Treat your divorce like a high-stakes business deal—leave emotion at the door, and always come prepared with a team of experts. Our guest for this episode is a financial expert who turned his own painful divorce into a mission to help others. After navigating an $85,000 divorce battle, he realized the importance of preparation, prenups, and knowing when to call in reinforcements. His business specializes in the financial nuances of divorce—alimony, child support, asset division, you name it—and he urges men to ditch the "John Wayne syndrome" of doing it alone. The takeaway is clear: whether you're considering a divorce, going through one, or reflecting on the past, the right support can transform a personal disaster into a manageable challenge. Jamie Lima: With over 20 years of financial planning expertise, Jamie is the founder of Woodson Wealth Management and Allegiant Divorce Solutions. After experiencing a difficult divorce firsthand, he pivoted to help others avoid the financial and emotional traps he encountered. Based in San Diego, Jamie's companies serve clients across the U.S., specializing in divorce financial planning, retirement strategies, and asset management. His work ensures that clients are equipped to make informed decisions during life's toughest transitions. Learn more and connect: • Woodson Wealth Management [https://www.woodsonwm.com/] • Allegiant Divorce Solutions [https://allegiantds.com/] You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    34 min
  8. EP177: Matt Hallock The Masculine Presence

    JAN 1

    EP177: Matt Hallock The Masculine Presence

    Are you still the man your wife fell in love with, or have you lost yourself along the way? For many men, life's challenges—whether in relationships, work, or personal growth—can lead to losing a sense of identity. Confidence fades, attraction dwindles, and the connection in marriage weakens. Have you ever felt like you've become a shadow of who you once were, constantly seeking validation or struggling to rekindle the spark in your relationship? You're not alone. Life has a way of throwing curveballs that test a man's confidence and purpose. Whether it's the weight of chronic stress, relational disconnection, or societal pressures, it's easy to feel stuck and unsure of how to reclaim the man you were made to be. But here's the good news: Change is possible, and it starts with rediscovering your inner compass. Learn what it truly means to rise from rock bottom and rebuild your identity as a man. We explore the weight of losing yourself in a marriage, the critical distinctions between sacrifice and compromise, and the importance of living by your principles. If you're navigating disconnection in your relationship or trying to reignite your confidence, gain practical insights to help you reclaim your masculinity, embrace your purpose, and become the man you're meant to be. mentioned: The DNA of a Man [https://www.amazon.com/DNA-Man-God-Given-Masculinity-Rebuilds/dp/1734114622] (available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and more) You're invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you're there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

    31 min
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“A real man is sovereign over his own life. He takes full responsibility for becoming a better man, and owns his own successes and failures. But he also understands the value of being a part of a band of brothers, the kind that have his back, and he can call at 3 AM if he’s stuck in a jail cell, because they’ll come and get him. He understands that just like a wolf pack, the strength of the pack is the wolf, and the strength of the wolf is the pack.” — Nicky Billou Welcome to the Sovereign Man Podcast where we have the conversations that matter to you as a man, and inspire you to become the best version of yourself. You’ll learn from the best business, career, financial, relationship, and mans skills experts from around the world. The Sovereign Man Podcast is for motivated men like you who want to win in today’s world. We equip you to become better in every area of your life from establishing mastery over yourself, to defining your purpose, strengthening your family and your relationships, becoming a better leader, and learning man skills. Each week I have real, unscripted conversations with real men, successful men, and men who give a darn.

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