Sylvia's Voice

Sylvia Wolfer
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Sylvia’s Voice explores grief, neuroscience, mindfulness, nervous system regulation, and the human experience of learning how to keep living after loss. Hosted by Sylvia Wolfer, grief educator and creator of The Science of Grief, the podcast combines neuroscience-backed grief conversations with guided meditations in English, French, and German to help listeners reconnect with steadiness, presence, and emotional resilience. www.sylviawolfer.com

  1. The Science of Grief - Ep 8: Why You May Feel Disconnected From People After Loss

    3H AGO

    The Science of Grief - Ep 8: Why You May Feel Disconnected From People After Loss

    In this episode we explore why we may feel disconnected from others and also from ourselves when grief hits. Why can grief make conversations feel exhausting? Why do grieving people often withdraw socially, feel emotionallydisconnected, or struggle to relate to others after loss? In this episode of The Science of Grief, we explore the neuroscience, psychology, attachment dynamics, and nervous system changes that help explain why grief can profoundly affect connection, identity, social energy, and emotional capacity. This episode explores:• Why grief can create feelings of disconnection and loneliness• The neuroscience of attachment and loss• How the brain builds “maps” of the people we love• Why social interaction can suddenly feel exhausting• The relationship between grief, identity, and nervous system overload• Why grieving people often withdraw socially• Emotional safety and reconnection after loss• Why this experience is more biologically understandable than we may realise Referenced in this episode:• Mary-Frances O’Connor — The Grieving Brain• Research on attachment, bereavement, stress physiology, and nervous system regulation Website & articles:https://sylviawolfer.com/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/_sylvia_wolfer_grief_support/ LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/sylviawolfer/ Disclaimer:This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and does not replace medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice. If you are struggling significantly with your mental health, please seek support from a qualified healthcare professional

    9 min
  2. A personal note. Why I do this work and what got me here

    MAY 18

    A personal note. Why I do this work and what got me here

    In this conversation, I share the personal story behind why my work and this podcast exists. After losing my father and two brothers to sudden unexpected deaths, and more recently my mother, I became deeply interested in understanding what grief actually does tothe brain, body, nervous system, relationships, identity, and daily life. For years, for decades, I did ot realise the state i was in. Because I was functioning. Working. Showing up. Yet underneath, grief had quietly shaped far more of my inner world than I realised. In this episode, we explore:• How repeated loss shaped my understanding of grief• Why functioning and healing are not the same thing• How neuroscience helped me make sense of my experience• What grief does to the nervous system and body• Why understanding grief can soften shame• The connection between grief, movement, mindfulness, and emotional regulation• Why I created this podcast This podcast combines neuroscience-backed grief education, mindfulness, nervous system regulation, and grounded practical tools for people learning how to carry grief while still living real life. Website & articles:www.sylviawolfer.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/_sylvia_wolfer_grief_support/ LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/sylviawolfer/ Disclaimer:This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and does not replace medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice. If you are struggling significantly with your mental health, please seek support from a qualified healthcare professional.

    7 min
  3. The Science of Grief - Ep 7: Why Sleep Becomes Difficult During Grief

    MAY 14

    The Science of Grief - Ep 7: Why Sleep Becomes Difficult During Grief

    Why Sleep Becomes Difficult During GriefAnd why your body may feel exhausted, yet unable to switch off There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes with grief. You move through the day feeling heavy, foggy, depleted. Your body aches for rest. Yet the moment your head touches the pillow, your system seems to wake up instead. Your thoughts begin circling.Your chest tightens.Memories arrive uninvited.You feel exhausted all day, yet strangely alert at night. In this episode, we explore why grief can profoundly disrupt sleep, what is actually happening in the brain and nervous system when this occurs and what to do. This is not a personal failure.It is a deeply human and biological response to loss. In this episode, we explore: • Why grief often feels louder at night• How hyperarousal keeps the nervous system on alert• Why the brain replays memories, conversations, and “what ifs” at 2am• The role of attachment, emotional processing, and the grieving brain• Lisa Feldman Barrett’s concept of the “body budget” and why grief drains emotional capacity• Why sleep after loss is connected to safety, regulation, and nervous system steadiness• Gentle, body-based ways to support yourself when grief disrupts rest This episode is part of a weekly series exploring the neuroscience of grief. Drawing on research in neuroscience, psychology, attachment theory, and emotional regulation — including the work of Mary-Frances O’Connor, Lisa Feldman Barrett, Julia Samuel, George Bonanno, and others — this series aims to help make sense of grief in a clear, grounded, and compassionate way. If you’d like to go deeper into this work: 🌐 Explore my work:sylviawolfer.com 📩 Join my weekly newsletter:Weekly Grief & Neuroscience Newsletter 📱 Connect with me: Instagram:@sylvia_wolfer_grief_support LinkedIn:Sylvia Wolfer LinkedIn Disclaimer:This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and does not replace medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice. If you are struggling significantly with your mental health, please seek support from a qualified healthcare professional. Keywords:grief and sleep, grief insomnia, neuroscience of grief, grieving brain, nervous system grief, hyperarousal grief, sleep after loss, grief and the body, emotional regulation, bereavement and sleep, grief support, Mary-Frances O’Connor, body budget, Lisa Feldman Barrett, coping with grief, grief exhaustion

    21 min
  4. The Science of Grief — Ep. 6: Why certain songs, smells or places bring everything back (and what’s happening in your brain and body)

    MAY 6

    The Science of Grief — Ep. 6: Why certain songs, smells or places bring everything back (and what’s happening in your brain and body)

    Grief can feel confusing, disorienting, and at times even frightening.In this episode, I explain why certain songs, smells, or places can suddenly bring everything back, and what’s actually happening in your brain and body when this occurs.This is not a personal weakness. It is a biological process.Understanding this can bring a sense of clarity and steadiness in the middle of what often feels unpredictable.In this episode, we explore:• Why certain songs, smells, or places can trigger intense grief• What’s happening in the brain (associative memory networks, hippocampus, amygdala)• Why one small cue can activate an entire emotional landscape• How the body stores and retrieves grief through sensory experience• One grounded way to begin supporting yourself when memory feels overwhelmingThis episode is part of a weekly series exploring the neuroscience of grief.Drawing on research in neuroscience, psychology, and emotional regulation — including the work of Mary-Frances O’Connor, Lisa Feldman Barrett, Lisa Shulman, Julia Samuel, and others — this series aims to make sense of the lived experience of grief in a clear and grounded way. 🔹 If you’d like to go deeper into this work:🌐 Explore my work:https://sylviawolfer.com/ 📩 Join my newsletter for weekly insights:https://sylviawolfer.myflodesk.com/fkez3lwe4h 📱 Connect with me:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_sylvia_wolfer_grief_support/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sylviawolfer/ Disclaimer:This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and does not replace medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice. If you are struggling significantly with your mental health, please seek support from a qualified healthcare professional. grief and the brain, neuroscience of grief, grief triggers, sensory memory grief, associative memory, grief support, coping with grief, emotional regulation, continuing bonds, nervous system grief

    24 min

  5. MAY 4

    Guided Meditation for Self-Compassion | Learning to Treat Yourself with More Love

    In this guided meditation, you are invited to cultivate self-compassion by connecting with the love you already know how to give. Through gentle reflection, breath, and emotional awareness, this practice guides you to imagine how you would want the people you love most to feel about themselves, speak to themselves, and care for themselves. So often, we offer tenderness, patience, and encouragement to others far more easily than we offer it to ourselves. This meditation helps you turn that same warmth inward, softening self-criticism and reconnecting with a kinder inner voice. This self-compassion meditation is ideal if you are moving through grief, emotional overwhelm, self-doubt, stress, or a season of personal healing. It offers a quiet space to remember that the way you speak to yourself matters, and that compassion can become a practice you return to again and again. Created by Sylvia Wolfer, grief educator and mindfulness guide, this meditation blends grief support, neuroscience-informed reflection, mindfulness, and emotional healing. For more grief support, guided meditations, articles, and online courses, visit:www.sylviawolfer.com Follow Sylvia here:Instagram: @_sylvia_wolfer_grief_supportLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sylviawolfer/ If this meditation supports you, please follow the podcast, like this episode, and share it with someone who may need a softer moment with themselves today. Keywords: guided meditation, self-compassion meditation, mindfulness meditation, grief support, emotional healing, self-kindness, self-worth, nervous system regulation, meditation for grief, meditation for self-love, Sylvia Wolfer, Sylvia’s Voice, healing meditation.

    10 min
  6. The Science of Grief — Ep. 5: Why grief comes in waves (and feels so unpredictable)

    APR 29

    The Science of Grief — Ep. 5: Why grief comes in waves (and feels so unpredictable)

    Grief rarely moves in a straight line. It comes in waves. You can feel steady for hours, even days. You move through conversations, complete tasks, and begin to find some footing again.And then something shifts — a scent, a song, a familiar place — and the intensity returns, all at once. In this episode, I explain why grief feels so unpredictable, and what is actually happening in your brain and body when these waves arise. This is not instability. It is a biological process. Understanding this can bring a sense of steadiness in the middle of something that often feels chaotic. In this episode, you’ll learn: • Why grief comes in waves rather than following a linear path• How the brain continues to expect the person to be present• What “triggers” really are (and why they are not random)• Why grief is processed in fragments across different systems in the brain• A simple way to meet intense waves when they arise This episode is part of a weekly series exploring the neuroscience of grief, drawing on research from Mary-Frances O’Connor, Lisa Feldman Barrett, and Lisa Shulman, and more. At the centre of this episode is a key idea:the brain does not immediately update the loss.It continues to operate from an internal attachment map, expecting the person to still exist in your world. Each wave of grief is part of how that map slowly updates. If you want to go deeper into this work, you can explore my courses and resources on my website, or join my newsletter for weekly insights. Website: https://sylviawolfer.com/Newsletter: https://sylviawolfer.myflodesk.com/fkez3lwe4h “Grief does not obey your plans… and in that, it has a lot in common with love.”— Elizabeth Gilbert grief waves, grief triggers, neuroscience of grief, grief and the brain, attachment and loss, coping with grief, emotional regulation, nervous system grief Disclaimer:This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and does not replace medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice. If you are struggling significantly with your mental health, please seek support from a qualified healthcare professional.

    8 min

  7. APR 26

    Quiet Your Mind Before Sleep (Guided Meditation)

    Quiet Your Mind Before Sleep - A Gentle Practice to Close the Day The end of the day can be surprisingly busy. The body slows down, but the mind keeps going.Replaying conversations. Thinking ahead. Holding onto things that haven’t fully settled. This practice is a way to close the day gently. Not by forcing the mind to be quiet, but by giving it less to hold. By shifting attention into the body and the breath, the nervous system begins to downregulate. And when the body settles, the mind often follows. This is not about perfect sleep. It is about creating the conditions for rest. A simple transition from doing into being. — 🔗 Explore more of my work: https://sylviawolfer.com/📩 Join the newsletter: https://sylviawolfer.myflodesk.com/fkez3lwe4h📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_sylvia_wolfer_grief_support/💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sylviawolfer/

    16 min

  8. APR 19

    Calm Your Body in 5 Minutes - Box Breathing (Guided Meditation)

    Calm Your Body in 5 Minutes (Box Breathing for Overwhelm) There are moments where everything feels too much. Your breathing changes. Your body tightens. Your system speeds up. This is the nervous system shifting into a protective state. Box breathing is a simple, structured way to respond to that. By following a steady rhythm of inhale, hold, exhale, hold, you give your body a clear pattern to regulate itself. It brings a sense of order when things feel unsettled. A tool you can return to anytime you need to steady yourself. This is one of the simplest practices I recommend when emotions rise quickly and unexpectedly. — 🔗 Explore more of my work on my website: https://sylviawolfer.com/📩 Join the newsletter: https://sylviawolfer.myflodesk.com/fkez3lwe4h📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_sylvia_wolfer_grief_support/💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sylviawolfer/

    8 min
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Sylvia’s Voice explores grief, neuroscience, mindfulness, nervous system regulation, and the human experience of learning how to keep living after loss. Hosted by Sylvia Wolfer, grief educator and creator of The Science of Grief, the podcast combines neuroscience-backed grief conversations with guided meditations in English, French, and German to help listeners reconnect with steadiness, presence, and emotional resilience. www.sylviawolfer.com

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  • Creator
    Sylvia Wolfer
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    88
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Sylvia Wolfer
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    Sylvia's Voice

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