65 episodes

If you’re longing to hit the “reset button” on what it means to be a man in this world, you’re not alone. There is a growing movement of men who are evolving, redefining personal power, sexuality, success and boldly defining their manhood. As an internationally recognized speaker and coach, Destin inspires and motivates you to be a version of yourself you perhaps never realized was possible, while providing the tools to help you get there. He interviews leaders who have meaningful contributions to this conversation and offers his unique brand of personal evolutionary coaching on air. He brings 19 years of direct study, training and active life experimentation to help you have better sex, deeper connection to your masculine power and understand women and most importantly yourself like never before.

The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power & Success Destin Gerek

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.8 • 41 Ratings

If you’re longing to hit the “reset button” on what it means to be a man in this world, you’re not alone. There is a growing movement of men who are evolving, redefining personal power, sexuality, success and boldly defining their manhood. As an internationally recognized speaker and coach, Destin inspires and motivates you to be a version of yourself you perhaps never realized was possible, while providing the tools to help you get there. He interviews leaders who have meaningful contributions to this conversation and offers his unique brand of personal evolutionary coaching on air. He brings 19 years of direct study, training and active life experimentation to help you have better sex, deeper connection to your masculine power and understand women and most importantly yourself like never before.

    Pick a Side, Take a Stand w/guest Sanyika 'The Firestarter' Street

    Pick a Side, Take a Stand w/guest Sanyika 'The Firestarter' Street

    Whether we’re talking about COVID or the recent police brutality incident, we see a lot of energy flowing. Just turn on to the news or look around you! But, at the same time, we also see people trying to move on with their lives and pretend that nothing’s really going on. The Evolved Masculine, as we continue to learn about, is not like that. We know that he is a man of principles and values that he stands for. So join my guest Sanyika “The Firestarter” Street and me, as we talk about how to engage in the midst of this moment.
     
    Among many topics, we will get into: 
    Finding out the truth that there are no blacks and whites. Operating on non-negotiable commitments. Leaning into the discomfort. This is beyond quote cards and Facebook posts! How people are picking values as a business exercise and not willing to die for it.  Stepping into the fire. What does that mean? Do you want to be right or explore? Dealing with anger and judgment. Sanyika’s experience with difficulty finding employment because of his skin color and name! The real difference between Black Lives Matter and All Lives Matter.  Identifying your values at this point in time. Your belief can lead to actions that lead to a more significant impact!  
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    About Sanyika Street:
     
    Sanyika "The Firestarter" Street is a POWERHOUSE. He lights the FIRE in you so you can light up the world.
     
    He teaches people how to stop negotiating with themselves pick one path and go ALL IN, via his High-Performance Coaching Program, The All In Method. It's about living in the black and white, NO GREY.
     
    As High-Powered Storyteller & Speaker, Sanyika uses spoken word storytelling as an innovative method to tell stories for some of the biggest brands in the world. He's worked with Sony Playstation, FOX Network, The US Department Of Defense, Universal Music Group and INK Global.
     
    For more, you can reach the firestarter on IG @FirestarterLive~
     
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    You can find Sanyika Street on...
    Website: https://www.firestarterlive.com/
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/firestarterlive/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/firestarterlive/
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/firestarterlive/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVfP3vfLpsQsvu7U9Qzji1g
     
     
    You've seen the hashtag, now actually go check out the website:
    http://BlackLivesMatter.com
     
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    Facebook: http://facebook.com/DestinGerekProfile
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    Website: https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/
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    • 1 hr
    COVID, Plandemic, The Media, Fear, Manipulation, Awakening, & a Better World... w/guest Daniel Pinchbeck

    COVID, Plandemic, The Media, Fear, Manipulation, Awakening, & a Better World... w/guest Daniel Pinchbeck

    Conspiracy theories are thriving right now on social media about the current crisis. Why is there a massive distrust with both the government and mainstream media? What are we really to believe? And where do we go from here? Join my guest Daniel Pinchbeck and me as we talk about how humanity can move forward in these trying times and understand these events on a deeper level. Among many topics, we will get into: 
     
    How both the government and traditional mainstream media have lost the trust of so many millions of Americans, and what we can do about it. Which parts of the conspiracies are facts, and what is simply distraction?  COVID-19’s effect on the environment and the ideal ways to replenish the planet. The gifts of Trump-ism and concerns with the upcoming election. Finding ways to unify ideas and understandings. Why is it difficult for progressives to achieve the level of organization shown on the right? The world leaders being trapped in their egos and how egoic structures can be reprogrammed.  How can society accept and embrace the reality of psychedelic experiences? Are there actually there spiritual forces at play with what’s going on?  
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    About Daniel Pinchbeck:
     
    Daniel Pinchbeck is the author of How Soon is Now?, Breaking Open the Head, and 2012: The Return of Quetzalcoatl. He co-founded Evolver.net, Reality Sandwich, and his new online project Liminal.news
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    You can find Daniel Pinchbeck on...
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pinchbeckdaniel/
    Website: http://pinchbeck.io
    Blog: http://liminal.news/author/dpinchbeck/
     
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    Connect with Destin Gerek!
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine
    Facebook: http://facebook.com/DestinGerekProfile
    The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs & the One She Craves: http://evolvedmasculinebook.com/
    The Evolved Masculine Membership: http://evolvedmasculine.com/membership
    Website: https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/
    [FREE] The Evolved Masculine Blueprint: http://evolvedmasculine.com/blueprint
     
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    • 1 hr 11 min
    The Gender Revolution w/guest Terra Lyn Anderson (Ep. 062)

    The Gender Revolution w/guest Terra Lyn Anderson (Ep. 062)

    What do the terms gender, biological sex, and sexual orientation really mean? Have you thought about the pronouns you use? Why should we be programmed to think in black and white when we know that’s not the case? Join my guest Terra Lyn Anderson and me as we talk about redefining sex and the subtleties and differences within. This is such a great learning experience, and I wish that you learn with me on this episode. We will talk about:
     
    The establishment of connection simply through the use of appropriate pronouns. The understanding of the new generation with the use of non-binary vocabulary. Terra’s disagreement against this “binary” or “non-binary” mindset. Why can’t there be ways to define others like Terra in a specific way like “man” or “woman”? Historically-gendered roles. Is cooking a delicate thing even if knives and fire are associated with it? And more...  
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    About Terra Lyn Anderson:
     
    Terra Lyn Anderson MA, R-DMT, LPC-Intern, centers the queer, trans and non-binary community in their work as a diversity consultant and gender/sex therapist in Portland, OR. Terra is the owner and visionary of Embody Emerge, LLC, a training, consulting and counseling organization dedicated to ending gender and sexuality-based oppression through education and advocacy. Terra is a published author, certified sex coach, and erotic activist working passionately to support the LGBTQ+ community to access greater pleasure, fulfillment and connection by empowering the body as a guiding force for personal transformation. As a queer gender non-conforming femme, Terra pledges themself to a future where all bodies are free from social oppression to live and love in ways that truly celebrate the beauty in our differences.
     
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    You can find Terra Lyn Anderson on...
    Website: https://www.embodyemerge.com
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/embodyemerge/
     
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    Connect with Destin Gerek!
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine
    Facebook: http://facebook.com/DestinGerekProfile
    The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs & the One She Craves: http://evolvedmasculinebook.com/
    The Evolved Masculine Membership: http://evolvedmasculine.com/membership
    Website: https://www.evolvedmasculine.com/
    [FREE] The Evolved Masculine Blueprint: http://evolvedmasculine.com/blueprint
     
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    • 1 hr 26 min
    Mastering the Erotic Blueprints (Ep. 061)

    Mastering the Erotic Blueprints (Ep. 061)

    #061: Mastering the Erotic Blueprints


    What’s your Erotic Blueprint? Are you a Sensual? Energetic? Kinky? Sexual? or a Shapeshifter? And what does that even mean? Join my guest Master Erotic Blueprint Coach Ian Ferguson, and me as we talk about the nuances between these different ways of being sexually wired. These are like your personality types, but for your erotic being. 
    Among many topics, we will get into:
     
    Ian’s start from a failed, sexually unsatisfying marriage to an ownership of all of his desires and his authentic expression. Figuring out what your turn-ons and your turn-offs are Understanding the different erotic blueprints and how they can improve your sex life How to navigate being in relationship with a partner who has a different blueprint than you and more...  
    Take the Erotic Blueprint Quiz here! https://bit.ly/eroticblueprint-dg 





    About Ian Ferguson:


    Ian Ferguson is a Master Trainer of the Erotic Blueprint™ Methodology and co-founder of Jaiya, Inc., a company dedicated to radically transforming how society discusses and experiences sex. He is an international speaker who has appeared on top podcasts for Tony Robbins and media such as Good Morning America, VH1, Anderson Live and has been profiled in Details magazine. His mission, along with over 100 Certified Erotic Blueprint Coaches™, is to release shame around sex, helping people empower themselves to reclaim the pleasure and true erotic expression that is their birthright.



     
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    and Facebook: http://Facebook.com/DestinGerekProfile
     
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    http://EvolvedMasculineBook.com




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    • 57 min
    The Wildest Analogy for Finding Optimism in These Challenging Times (Ep. 060)

    The Wildest Analogy for Finding Optimism in These Challenging Times (Ep. 060)

    #060: The Wildest Analogy for Finding Optimism in These Challenging Times 


    While you’ve likely been inundated with Corona Virus stories and opinion pieces. I promise that you’ve never heard it explained quite like this before! COVID-19 has seemingly changed our world practically overnight. Why did this happen? Why now? WTF is going on?!? And where are things going? 
    Among many topics, we will get into:
     
    The string of crises that I experienced that brought my seven-year ‘Erotic Rockstar’ adventure to an end: a toxic relationship, a respiratory infection, an intestinal parasite, the abortion of a child that I wanted, my mother’s death, and 3rd stage adrenal exhaustion leaving me bedridden for months. All in the space of 1.5 years! How these wake up calls are that same thing that’s happening in our world today. We have to break free from our resistance in accepting that the life we have been living is unsustainable, coming to an end, and something new is wanting to come forward. Preparing for the future by honing your power and capacity, and with that the role that You can play in creating a new way of living.  

     
    👉Follow Destin Gerek on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/evolvedmasculine
    and Facebook: http://Facebook.com/DestinGerekProfile
     
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    http://EvolvedMasculineBook.com



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    • 49 min
    COVID-19: Transformational Growth in the Time of Great Crisis (Ep. 059)

    COVID-19: Transformational Growth in the Time of Great Crisis (Ep. 059)

    #059: COVID-19: Transformational Growth in the Time of Great Crisis
     
    In 2005, I went to New Orleans and Mississippi to volunteer in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina. I learned many powerful lessons from my time down there:
     


    Crisis brings out both the very worst and the very best in humankind. There were those taking advantage of the chaos for their own personal gain; and there were many more who were giving all they’ve got to be of support and service to total strangers.
      Some people lost everything they had materially (in Mississippi, coastal homes were swept into the sea leaving only a cement slab of a platform remaining), and some people’s homes were spared. Some people were devastated, and others were faring quite well through it all. Yet, it wasn’t the amount that was taken that made the difference, it was entirely the difference in mindset that they held. Those focused on all that was lost were miserable, and those that were grateful for their lives and/or their families felt renewed by this crisis.
      Which leads to: Crisis causes people to reassess their priorities as they come to see what really matters.


    And finally, times of crisis are incredibly fertile opportunities to create rapid, deep, and lasting transformational change; both in your own personal life, as well as, on a larger collective level.


     
    In this episode, I share my thoughts on the #COVID19 pandemic; the potent difference between isolation and solitude; and how we can use this global crisis to accelerate our own evolutionary growth and that of this planet’s.
     

     
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    http://EvolvedMasculineBook.com




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    • 44 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
41 Ratings

41 Ratings

KevinBurciaga ,

Men Should Listen to This

In an age when masculinity is seen as toxic, and masculine characteristics like independence, self-sufficiency, and being decisive are discouraged, it's refreshing to hear voices like Destin's. The interviews can be long but they're worth listening to. They cover a range of topics that would appeal to men.

JAVE1983 ,

Never again...

Came across this podcast after some research on teachers in this field and thought I’d give it a listen. I stuck it out to the end of an episode but my oh my was I frustrated and disappointed. If the podcast host just wants to listen to himself talk, then he shouldn’t bother to have guests on the podcast. The podcast consisted of him regularly interrupting his guest to make his own points and then becoming frustrated when the guest would try to interrupt him to correct his misstatements. He was unnecessarily combative and even rude. I was even more disgusted since it was an episode about feminism and yet he continued to interrupt and scold his female guest. I honestly can’t believe I even made it through the hour. I kept hoping it was going to get better, but it never did. I will never again spend my time listening to this podcaster or his other materials. Definitely do NOT recommend.

JesusBenNazareth ,

uniquely important! Stars out of five? 🔟!💯!

Miraculous! Priceless!