262 episodes

Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;) They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast Nick and Amy with The Ultimate Intimacy App

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.6 • 106 Ratings

Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;) They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com

    259. Want Deeper Passion? 30 Very Intimate Questions To Ask Your Spouse And WHY To Ask These!

    259. Want Deeper Passion? 30 Very Intimate Questions To Ask Your Spouse And WHY To Ask These!

    As we often discuss, many couples find it challenging to openly communicate their feelings, desires, fears, and life goals to each other. In this episode, we aim to make this process easier by exploring 30 intimate questions designed to cover both emotional and physical intimacy in your marriage.
    Bringing up difficult questions with your spouse can be uncomfortable, as you may fear rejection or confusion about the source of your thoughts. However, by listening to this podcast together and discussing these intimate questions, we believe it can be transformative for your relationship.
    Join us for this insightful podcast as we explore these intimate questions and strengthen the bond in your marriage.

    If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

    WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

    The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

    The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

    Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

    If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

    • 33 min
    258. Why It Is The Lower Desire Spouses Responsibility To Fix The "I Don't Want/Like To Have Sex" Problem. Or Is It?

    258. Why It Is The Lower Desire Spouses Responsibility To Fix The "I Don't Want/Like To Have Sex" Problem. Or Is It?

    Disclaimer: This topic and episode are for couples in loving, respectful, and healthy relationships, but where the lower desire spouse isn't interested in sexual intimacy.
    We receive many messages from lower desire spouses who express sentiments like, "Our relationship is great, but my wife just doesn't like (or want) to have sex. She tells me no, or just to 'deal with it.'" We hear statements like this all the time.


    This is saddening because it isn't the high desire spouse's fault, yet they are told to just "deal with it" as if it is their fault or something is wrong with them for desiring sexual intimacy with their spouse. They are the ones who have to endure because their spouse is just "not in the mood."


    Now, of course, we are talking about couples in loving and respectful marriages. If there are deep issues in the marriage causing a spouse not to want to be intimate, then we totally agree that things need to be resolved. However, the majority of messages we receive are from high desire spouses who state that their lower desire spouse just doesn't enjoy (or want) sex, and therefore has cut it off from the higher desire spouse.


    In this podcast episode, we discuss the factors that may cause a spouse not to have sexual desire and why it is the low desire spouse's responsibility to address the "I don't want to have sex" issue. This is sure to be a controversial topic and episode, but it needs to be addressed. Before passing judgment, listen to the podcast and hear the reasons why we feel this way, and let us know what you think.

    If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Discover why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and given it such high ratings and reviews!


    WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

    The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

    The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

    Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

    If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

    • 39 min
    257. What Does It Really Mean To "Submit" To Your Husband (Or Wife) In Marriage

    257. What Does It Really Mean To "Submit" To Your Husband (Or Wife) In Marriage

    What does it truly mean to submit in marriage?

    We often address the significance of sexual intimacy in marriage through our videos, and we frequently encounter comments asserting that wives should be submissive and provide sex to their husbands, citing biblical references. However, is this interpretation accurate, or is it a misrepresentation of the biblical message?
    In this episode, we share our insights on the genuine meaning of submission in marriage and how it manifests in a healthy relationship. Join us as we dive into this topic and explore its nuances.

    If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

    WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

    The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

    The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

    Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

    If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

    • 33 min
    256. Rejection Really Hurts! A High Desire Wife Speaks Out About How Rejection Negatively Impacts Marriage

    256. Rejection Really Hurts! A High Desire Wife Speaks Out About How Rejection Negatively Impacts Marriage

    Have you ever felt the cold sting of sexual rejection from the one person who's supposed to desire you the most? It's a pain that many married individuals know all too well, yet it's a topic that often remains in silence. Couples don't and won't talk about it. And in many cases, if a spouse is getting rejected often, they will stop even trying because rejection is much more painful than not even trying.

    In this episode, we dive into this delicate subject, providing a safe space for exploration and healing. We share not only personal experiences, but the feelings of our listeners. The conversation confronts the impact of sexual rejection on self-esteem and so many other things in a marriage.

    If you are dealing with sexual rejection in your marriage, this is an episode you won't want to miss.

    If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

    WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

    The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

    The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

    Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

    If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

    • 37 min
    255. This Might Be One Of Our Most Simple, Yet Important Episodes Ever...

    255. This Might Be One Of Our Most Simple, Yet Important Episodes Ever...

    Words and phrases are VERY powerful and can often have life changing effects both good and bad depending on how we are using them. But can saying these 3 things to your spouse daily really transform your relationship?
    That answer is yes.. they can, and they will, and we talk about how and why!

    In this episode, Nick and Amy share 3 things that you should say to your spouse daily that will change everything. If there is an episode that can have the most impact on your relationship, this might be the one!

    If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

    WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

    The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

    The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

    Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

    If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

    • 24 min
    254. Building A Comprehensive Plan And Blueprint For A Successful Marriage

    254. Building A Comprehensive Plan And Blueprint For A Successful Marriage

    For many couples, they can envision what a "successful" marriage looks like for them, but they often don't know how to get there, or what tools or plans they need to follow to achieve it.

    imagine you were building a house. You have a picture of exactly what it looks like when completed, but imagine trying to build that house without any blueprint or plans! It would probably end up looking quite different than the picture, and lack a lot of things vital to the structure, integrity and foundation. Would it be able to weather the storms? Chances are without any plans or blueprints, you would be in trouble. It would not only most likely cost you a lot more money to build, but wouldn't end up how you envisioned.

    Marriage is no different! In marriage, it is important to have a blueprint (or plans) for where you want to get to as a couple, and your marriage, and a detailed plan as to "how" to get there, or "how" to build a stronger marriage.

    In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about how to build a blueprint for a successful marriage. It doesnt mean you wont have obstacles or problems along the way, but if you stick to your plan, you will achieve what you are building.

    If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!

    WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HERE

    The Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HERE

    The Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/

    Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.

    If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

    • 51 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
106 Ratings

106 Ratings

Rynobravo ,

Open, honest, and insightful

Nothing is more important to me than my relationship with my bride. I, however, am human and very fallable. Nick and Amy have helped me to open my mind to ways to improve my marriage and better understand my wife. This in turn has led to a closer bond and even more intimacy. I can’t recommend the show enough!

Jpl84629 ,

Absolutely Amazing

I’m fairly new to the podcast but so far I have really enjoyed the information and counsel that Nick and Amy share.

My wife and I have been married for 32years and have experienced our fair share of ups and downs. It is so good to hear or read the information and compare it to our own experience.

Keep up the good work!!

Neyney80 ,

Thankful

Thank you for putting out podcasts weekly. You help me want to be a better wife and keep working on intimacy with my husband.

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