Balanced Not Boring

Judy Daghestani (Laurus Organics) and Tamara Khoury (Teal Bakehouse)

Welcome to the Balanced Not Boring Podcast. A safe space where wellness entrepreneurs & cohosts, Judy Daghestani (Cofounder of Laurus Organics) & Tamara Khoury (Founder of Teal Bakehouse) talk about all things Mind, Body & Soul, live from Dubai. Stay tuned to hear from our balanced babe community, certified practitioners, doctors, healers and more, to learn how to live a realistic 80/20 in today's hectic pace. It's time to debunk 'wellness' and make it inclusive, as it was always meant to be ❤️ Follow us on TiktTok and Instagram at @balancednotboringpodcast

  1. Decluttering Your Home to Calm Your Mind: How Design, Color & Energy Affect Your Nervous System

    1 DAY AGO

    Decluttering Your Home to Calm Your Mind: How Design, Color & Energy Affect Your Nervous System

    This episode is brought to you by Aqua Aligner.  Use code BNB10 for 10% off on your next treatment. https://aquaaligners.com/ From spaces that look fine on the outside… to homes that quietly drain us the moment we walk through the door – this episode opens a conversation about clutter, design, and the nervous system in a world where our homes are doing more jobs than ever. Hosts Judy Daghestani and Tamara Khoury sit down with two women who approach space from very different but deeply connected angles: Reem Shakarchi, founder of Wallpaper Kids, and Salam Shaban, founder of The Tidy Mess and a Marie Kondo-certified decluttering and organization expert. Together, they explore how design, color, and clutter aren't just aesthetic choices – they're emotional ones. They dig into why letting go of things feels so hard, how visual noise dysregulates us without our realizing it, and why a space can look beautiful yet still feel heavy. This isn't a conversation about perfect homes or Instagram-worthy interiors – it's about creating spaces that actually support how you feel. We dive into:  – Why our homes feel heavier now than ever before  – How color, pattern, and visual rhythm affect mood and regulation  – The emotional psychology behind why we hold on to things  – How clutter carries energetic weight – and what that actually means  – Feng shui principles applied to real, lived-in family homes  – Design choices for children's spaces that support calm, not chaos  – Practical decluttering steps that create immediate emotional relief  – The difference between organizing for perfection vs. organizing for flow  – Keep, Release, or Rethink: a rapid-fire round on common household habits If this conversation resonated, share it with someone who needs permission to let go. 🎧 Listen on Apple, Spotify & YouTube @balancednotboringpodcast 🔁 Share with a parent or woman who needs better answers 🔔 Subscribe to Balanced Not Boring for real conversations about modern life, wellness, and womanhood Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro 01:08 – Sponsor Message 01:36 – Welcome & Why This Episode 02:00 – When Space Becomes Overloaded 02:35 – Guest Introduction: Reem Shakarchi 03:00 – Guest Introduction: Salam Shaban 03:35 – How Salam Got Into Decluttering 05:00 – Practical Influence & Lasting Systems 06:00 – How Reem Got Into Wallpaper Kids 08:00 – From Aesthetics to Emotional Safety 09:00 – How Motherhood Changed How Reem Sees Space 09:35 – Do Children's Spaces Shift Their Behavior? 10:10 – Emotional Safety, Trains & Bedtime Imagery 11:00 – Why Children Build Deep Connections With Their Spaces 12:15 – How Salam Integrates Color at Home 14:00 – Do Objects Hold Energy? 14:40 – How to Decide What to Keep vs. Let Go 17:20 – One In, One Out & Charitable Giving 18:30 – Buying Better After the Decluttering Exercise 19:20 – The Emotion of Holding On: Guilt, Identity & Fear 20:30 – When Kids Overconsume – and Why It's Often the Parents 23:00 – Does Your Home Feel Like a Sacred Space? 25:00 – Creating Zones & Boundaries Within the Home 28:30 – Why Adults Are Gearing Toward Minimalism 29:20 – Step-by-Step: How to Start When You're Overwhelmed 32:00 – Why Letting Go Is Emotionally Hard 33:15 – Does Every Space Need to Be Functional? 33:50 – The Dumping Room Debate 35:00 – When Partners Have Different Clutter Styles 36:15 – Spring Cleaning: Necessary Ritual or Old Myth? 38:00 – The Clutter Cycle & Mental Clarity 38:20 – Keep, Release, or Rethink: Overflowing Storage Bins 38:45 – Keep, Release, or Rethink: "Just in Case" Items 38:55 – Keep, Release, or Rethink: Kids' Artwork 40:20 – Keep, Release, or Rethink: Pinterest-Perfect Homes 41:05 – Minimalism vs. Maximalism – There's No One Size Fits All 41:30 – Keep, Release, or Rethink: Hand-Me-Downs 42:50 – Keep, Release, or Rethink: Sentimental Clutter 43:05 – Closing Reflections: Space as Nervous System Care 43:30 – Where to Find Reem Shakarchi & Salam Shaban 44:19 – Closing Notes & Outro

    44 min
  2. High-Achieving, Always On: How to Calm Your Nervous System w/ Constanze Witzel

    17 FEB

    High-Achieving, Always On: How to Calm Your Nervous System w/ Constanze Witzel

    From high-functioning burnout to quiet disconnection in the body, this episode explores why so many women feel “fine” on the outside, yet chronically tense, exhausted, or overwhelmed underneath. Hosts Judy Daghestani and Tamara Khoury sit down with Constanze Witzel, Frankfurt-born, Dubai-based trauma-informed somatic coach and breathwork facilitator, to unpack what nervous system regulation actually means, beyond trends, performative healing, or surface-level wellness. Together, they explore how stress, trauma, and modern life live in the body, why many women move through life in a state of functional freeze, and how true healing begins with safety, not force, discipline, or optimization. Constanze shares her own journey through early instability, modeling, and spiritual bypassing, and explains why embodiment, gentleness, and awareness are the missing pieces for many high-achieving women. This conversation reframes healing as a process of listening rather than fixing and offers grounded tools that can be integrated into real life, not just retreats or perfect routines. In this episode, we explore: – What the nervous system really is and how it shapes daily life – Somatic healing vs performative wellness trends – Why women burn out in their 30s despite “doing everything right” – Functional freeze, over-stimulation, and chronic tension – The role of safety in trauma-informed healing – Why intensity (ice baths, forceful breathwork) can backfire for women – Somatic breathwork explained in plain language – Micro practices that support regulation in work, family, and relationships – Technology, AI, and why human presence still matters At its core, this episode is a reminder that your body isn’t broken, it’s responding intelligently to the world around you. Healing doesn’t require becoming someone else. It starts with remembering how to feel safe inside yourself. If this conversation resonates, share it with a woman who needs permission to slow down without guilt. 🎧 Listen on Apple, Spotify & YouTube @balancednotboringpodcast 🔁 Share with a parent or woman who needs better answers 🔔 Subscribe to Balanced Not Boring for real conversations about modern life, wellness, and womanhood

    1h 5m
  3. The “Forever 35” Face: Aesthetic Medicine, Aging & Losing Ourselves” w/ Dr. Dany Touma

    2 FEB

    The “Forever 35” Face: Aesthetic Medicine, Aging & Losing Ourselves” w/ Dr. Dany Touma

    From filters that turn faces into templates… to procedures that promise “fixes” instead of understanding – this episode opens a conversation about aesthetics, aging, and identity in a culture where women feel pressure to look forever 35. Host Judy Daghestani sits down with Dr. Dany Touma, a US-trained, board-certified dermatologist and laser surgeon, to unpack the rise of esthetic medicine, the psychology behind “tweak-ments,” and why wanting to look good doesn’t have to mean losing yourself in the process. They explore how social media and technology distort our perception of beauty, why so many people regret being “overdone,” and how true expertise can make the difference between aging well and erasing individuality. This isn’t a debate about whether cosmetic work is right or wrong – it’s a conversation about context, safety, and self-connection. If you’ve ever felt torn between embracing aging and keeping up with unrealistic standards, this episode offers nuance instead of judgment. We dive into: – The cultural shift toward cosmetic enhancement – Filters, AI, and why beauty feels more performative – How medical expertise changes safety + results – Identity loss from look-alike trends and over-filled faces – Why some people reverse cosmetic work – What “aging well” actually looks like – Boundaries, pressures, and choosing for yourself At its core, this episode reframes aesthetic medicine as a tool – not a mandate – and invites women to make informed, aligned decisions rather than reactive ones. If this episode resonates, pass it to someone navigating the noise around beauty, aging, and modern aesthetics. 🎧 Listen on Apple, Spotify & YouTube @balancednotboringpodcast 🔁 Share with a parent or woman who needs better answers 🔔 Subscribe to Balanced Not Boring for real conversations about modern life, wellness, and womanhood

    1h 9m
  4. Reclaim Your Energy, Mood & Metabolism: Understanding Perimenopause w/ Tina Chagoury

    22 JAN

    Reclaim Your Energy, Mood & Metabolism: Understanding Perimenopause w/ Tina Chagoury

    From the quiet changes most women never see coming… to the confusion that gets mislabeled as stress or “just life” – this episode unpacks what perimenopause actually is, and why it deserves better language than fear or silence. Host Tamara Khoury sits down with Tina Chagoury, a licensed clinical dietitian specializing in women's hormone health, to break down a transition that touches everything – energy, sleep, mood, metabolism, body composition – long before anyone calls it menopause.They explore how erratic hormones can look like anxiety, fatigue, inflammation, or stubborn weight gain, why so many women feel “off” in their mid-30s, and how to support the body without extremes, restriction, or fear-driven nutrition. The message here isn’t decline – it’s clarity, context, and compassion.If you’ve ever wondered why your body feels different despite nothing changing on the outside, this episode will make things make sense. We dive into:– What perimenopause actually is– The early signs nobody explains– Estrogen, progesterone & testosterone in plain language– Misdiagnosis & mental health during hormone shifts– Why blood sugar + muscle are major players for women 35+– The problem with “eat less, train more” culture– How to nourish instead of deplete– Why this phase isn’t the end – it’s an evolutionAt its core, this conversation reframes perimenopause as a second learning curve – one that becomes far less overwhelming when women are given information instead of fear.If this episode resonates, share it with a woman who deserves to feel informed, not blindsided. 🎧 Listenon Apple, Spotify & YouTube @balancednotboringpodcast 🔁 Sharewith a parent or woman who needs better answers 🔔Subscribe to Balanced Not Boring for real conversations about modern life,wellness, and womanhood

    43 min
  5. 19/12/2025

    Is This the Loneliest Generation Yet? An Honest Conversation on Modern Loneliness

    Is this the loneliest we’ve ever been? In this cozy, honest episode, Judy and Tamara reflect on modern loneliness — the kind that exists even when you’re constantly connected, scrolling, and “keeping up.” We talk about how social media quietly reshapes our capacity for friendship: how being inundated with information, updates, and comparison can leave us emotionally maxed out — with less energy for real connection. From friendship changes in our 30s, to motherhood, to connection fatigue, to the loss of spontaneity, this conversation is for anyone who feels close to people online… but far from them in real life. Maybe connection doesn’t need to be constant.Maybe it just needs to be real. 🎧 Share this episode with someone you miss — or comment “Friend” and we’ll send it your way. Chapters 00:00:00 – Welcome to Balance Not Boring & today’s topic 00:00:20 – Are we more connected yet lonelier than ever? 00:01:45 – The loss of spontaneity & unannounced visits 00:04:15 – Why phone calls feel draining in modern life 00:07:28 – Ambition, FOMO, and the nonstop pace of adulthood 00:10:46 – Community, neighbors, and why village life disappeared 00:13:25 – Childhood friendships vs friendships in your 30s 00:16:20 – Social media, overstimulation, and emotional burnout 00:19:32 – Disconnection, virtual friendships, and growing isolation 00:22:34 – Tech, the future, and longing for a slower life 00:25:22 – Burnout, boundaries, and protecting your energy 00:27:34 – Accepting changing friendships as you grow 00:30:45 – Letting go, maturity, and emotional vs logical thinking 00:33:10 – Being your own best friend and narrowing your circle 00:36:12 – How this friendship and podcast came together 00:36:58 – Final reflections on evolving friendships & priorities

    37 min
  6. 09/12/2025

    Take Back What’s Yours: Forget Brain Fog & Reboot Your Energy, Hormones + Metabolism with Tonie-Maria

    Welcome back to Balanced Not Boring 🎙️ A wellness podcast that keeps things real, relatable, and science-backed. We’ve talked about gut health before — but today, we’re uncovering one of the most misunderstood topics in women’s wellness: the gut-hormone connection. Ever feel like you’re eating healthy, working out, and sleeping okay... yet still feel bloated, tired, or off? You’re not imagining it. Your gut could be sending signals about your hormones; and today, we’re decoding what that means. Joining us is Tonie-Maria Abi Nader, Registered Dietitian & Nutritionist, mom of two, and founder of Generation H. Tonie helps women simplify nutrition, balance their metabolism, and build sustainable habits that actually work. ✨ Tune in to learn: -How your gut impacts your hormones & mood -Why “doing everything right” might still not work -Signs your metabolism needs a reset -How to eat and live in sync with your body Because balance isn’t built in a smoothie — it’s built in how you eat, sleep, move, and recover. Chapers: 00:00 Episode Introduction 00:45 Sponsor Message – Generation H 02:00 Welcome to Balanced Not Boring 02:40 Toni Maria Story and Gut Health Journey 07:00 Gut Health Basics Explained 12:00 Daily Habits for Better Digestion 17:00 Blood Sugar and Energy Control 22:00 Protein, Snacks and Meal Timing 27:30 Leaky Gut and Inflammation 32:00 Supplements You Actually Need 37:00 Food Myths Debunked 42:00 Best Foods for Gut Healing 47:00 Generation H – Brand Story 50:00 Generation H – Purpose and Vision 54:30 Final Advice and Wrap Up 🎧 Listen now on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcasts @balancednotboringpodcast Episode sponsored by @generationh.ae (www.generationh.ae); your easy one stop shop for healthy eats pre approved by TONIE herself! #guthealth #hormonebalance #balancednotboring #podcast #womenshealth #nutrition #metabolism #bloating #energy #wellnesspodcast #generationH #uaepodcast #dubaiwellness

    1h 3m

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Welcome to the Balanced Not Boring Podcast. A safe space where wellness entrepreneurs & cohosts, Judy Daghestani (Cofounder of Laurus Organics) & Tamara Khoury (Founder of Teal Bakehouse) talk about all things Mind, Body & Soul, live from Dubai. Stay tuned to hear from our balanced babe community, certified practitioners, doctors, healers and more, to learn how to live a realistic 80/20 in today's hectic pace. It's time to debunk 'wellness' and make it inclusive, as it was always meant to be ❤️ Follow us on TiktTok and Instagram at @balancednotboringpodcast