It's Complicated

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We talk about relationships, from start to finish. Share your experiences with us and allow us to share ours with you, so you can learn what not to!

  1. 12/08/2022

    It's Complicated Ep. 13 - Insecurities

    Today we talk about insecurities. All those little things you do and are that no one cares about but drive you crazy. Chat with us as we look into our own insecurities, why people get insecure, how to move past them, and the worst case scenarios for WHEN INSECURITIES GO WRONG.  P.S. For some of you this episode in not optional. We talking to you 🫵🏾

    41 min

  2. 01/08/2022

    It's Complicated Ep. 12 - Relationship Trauma

    Trigger warning. Some of you are going to have a hard time with today's episode. That's because today we talk about relationship trauma. Those deep-seated hurts that tend to rear their ugly heads at the worst times and always ALWAYS bring you out of your character. What do you do when you realize you might be dealing with some trauma? How do you manage it? And can you ever be trauma free? Chop it up with us, Lovers and Friends. This is a safe space!

    34 min

  3. 09/07/2022

    It's Complicated Ep. 11 - Cheating

    Aight. This is what a lot of you have been waiting for, or hiding from. Today we talk about CHEATING. You liars and cheaters out there, don't run from this. We gotta talk. Why do people cheat? What do you do if you get cheated on? Are Karrine Steffans (Superhead) and her husband still together? It'll make sense later in the episode 😂  Share your stories of cheating, whether it's cheating or being cheated on. And be honest. This is a safe space! 😁 ✌️

    50 min

  4. 27/06/2022

    It's Complicated Ep. 10 - Annoying Habits

    Alright Lovers and Friends,  You did it now. We're ticked. We're pissed. You did that thing that you do that we don't like, and now we're annoyed. It's okay. Everyone does it, and there's a way through this. Today's episode we talk about what happens when you annoy, or are annoyed by, someone you care about. What do you do if you're the annoying one? And how do you get through it?  P.S. the annoying thing you did was NOT sharing our podcast. Tell everyone!!!

    36 min

  5. 05/06/2022

    It's Complicated Ep. 9 - Love Languages

    Ever feel like the one you're with just isn't getting it? They not hearing what you try and tell them? Is there something that seems obvious to that is just going over their head? If this sounds familiar, you might just be suffering from not knowing each other's love language.  Today's episode we go over the 5 major love languages. What are they? How do you learn them? And what do you do if the communication just ain't there.  And heads up: a lot of the discussion centers on "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman.

    43 min

  6. 22/05/2022

    It's Complicated Ep. 8 - Toxic Relationships

    Have you ever been in a relationship and felt...not right? Something weird weighing you down but you can't figure out what? Have some ugly truths you know all about but don't wanna talk to your friends about? If that's the case, you might be in a toxic relationship. Today we talk about what that means, who's in one, how you might go about fixing one if you're so inclined, and how to get the hell out when all else fails.

    31 min

  7. 07/05/2022

    It's Complicated Ep. 7 - Friends With Your Ex

    Friends. Lovers. Newcomers to the podcast. What do you with do with your exes after one (or both) of ya'll is no longer a viable partner? Do you erase them from your past, never to be remembered? Do you leave them out in the world to dry, like a raisin in the sun? Or are you among those that choose to remain...friends with your ex?!  Cue dramatic music. Grab your drinks. Get comfy. We talk about post-relationship relationships and what that might mean for some of ya'll. Should you do it? What are the rules? What challenges should you expect to face in being friends with your ex? We talk about it all. And hey, maybe you can settle an argument for us.

    43 min

  8. 22/04/2022

    It's Complicated Ep. 6 - The Friendzone

    This episode is the reason we call ya'll Lovers and Friends 🤣. Today we talk about "The Friend Zone", that nebulous place where you find yourself from time to time without a clue. What are the rules? How did you get here, and HOW DO YOU GET OUT?! We talk about it all. But be warned, some of ya'll might not like what we come up with.

    44 min
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We talk about relationships, from start to finish. Share your experiences with us and allow us to share ours with you, so you can learn what not to!

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    The Black Collective NYC
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  • Episodes
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