Surviving the Side Hustle

Rob Tracz

Welcome to "Surviving the Side Hustle," the ultimate podcast for balancing the demands of entrepreneurship with maintaining mental, physical, and emotional well-being. Hosted by Coach Rob Tracz, an expert in helping driven professionals achieve 'personal development for professional success,' this show is more than just storytelling—it's a masterclass in thriving amidst the entrepreneurial grind. Each episode features candid conversations with leaders who are rewriting the rules of entrepreneurship, sharing their unique stories, the creative solutions they're offering, and the everyday challenges they’re overcoming. Whether you’re a side hustler looking for your big break or an established entrepreneur seeking fresh perspectives, "Surviving the Side Hustle" provides valuable insights that resonate with the movers, the shakers, and everyone in between. Feeling burnt out and sidelining your own health? This podcast empowers you to overcome stagnation, build resilience, and optimize your life and business. We dive deep into your goals, identify obstacles, and share strategies to boost your energy, improve your strength, and keep the entrepreneurial grind enjoyable. Join us for inspiring stories, expert insights, and practical advice to help you look good, feel good, and do great things at every stage of your entrepreneurial journey. Let’s not just survive the side hustle—let's master it.

  1. 1 DAY AGO

    E186 - Lessons from Andre Carvalho: The Hidden Danger of Staying Comfortable

    Embracing Courageous Growth: When to Dismantle to Build BetterIn this episode, Rob Tracz explores the nuanced decision-making process behind knowing when to hold on or let go of what's working. Featuring insights from Andre Carvalho, a real estate investor and acquisitions expert, this conversation dives into how entrepreneurs can differentiate between reckless moves and courageous, strategic pivots. You’ll learn:Why successful entrepreneurs are willing to dismantle what's working for the sake of growthThe vital difference between courage and recklessness in business decisionsHow to prepare and plan for big moves without paralysisWhy a thriving partnership can become a barrier to personal developmentThe importance of treating business as a game rather than a relentless grindThe role of sales as a skill that compounds your overall leverage and growthHow to recognize the signs that "what's working" is actually holding you backTimestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: When to walk away from what works 00:30 - The entrepreneurs who reach higher levels are willing to dismantle what's working 01:00 - Andre Carvalho’s bold pivot from a successful real estate partnership 01:27 - The disciplined planning behind Andre’s big leap 01:56 - Making strategic bets vs. reckless moves 02:26 - The middle ground: pacing your transition thoughtfully 03:21 - Courage is a plan, recklessness is a feeling 03:51 - Examples of stress testing your business decisions 04:20 - The significance of preparation and deliberate flag-setting 05:19 - Overthinking can be a trap; balance planning with action 05:48 - The importance of knowing your direction before making big moves 06:18 - How what’s working can unintentionally hold you back 06:48 - The danger of comfort zones in partnerships and jobs 07:16 - Andre’s reason for leaving a profitable partnership 07:45 - Recognizing when stability is actually stagnation 08:14 - The destructive illusion of safety in systems that no longer serve growth 09:02 - The concept of sustainable growth and avoiding maintenance mode 09:31 - Rethinking sales: it’s just conversation and understanding 10:00 - The misconception of sales as pushy or manipulative 10:30 - Building relationships through real communication 11:00 - Andre’s strategy to master sales internally for leverage 11:30 - The importance of developing sales skills across all areas of life 12:24 - Moving from burnout to mastery by choosing the harder path 12:32 - How sales mastery is portable and highly valuable 13:00 - Treating business as a game rather than a war 13:29 - Shifting mindset: fun, curiosity, and playfulness boost performance 13:57 - The impact of mindset on decision-making and risk-taking 14:27 - Creating space for opportunities by releasing stress and fear 14:55 - Business is about playing; big risks become opportunities when approached with a game mindset 15:26 - The role of curiosity and relaxed energy in luck and success 15:55 - Your current self isn’t the same as the next level — what needs to change? 16:46 - Dismantling what's working to elevate your growth 17:15 - Follow Andre Carvalho’s journey and upcoming book, Deal Flow 17:44 - The advice: "Do it anyways" — start before you're ready 18:13 - Protecting yourself from imaginary failure guarantees real stagnation 18:41 - Take action with a plan, but don’t wait for fear to disappear 19:09 - Closing: Stay sharp, aligned, and keep Surviving the Side Hustle

    20 min
  2. 4 DAYS AGO

    E185 - The Secret to Scaling Without Reckless Risks with Andre Carvalho

    This episode features Andre Carvalho sharing his journey of stepping out of comfort zones, rebuilding after a successful partnership, and mastering sales and mindset in the real estate industry. It's a candid look at personal growth, strategic pivots, and living intentionally. KEY TOPICS The importance of obeying internal guidance and stepping out of comfort zonesAndre's start in business and the significance of long-term vision planningRisks involved in making bold career transitions, including cashing out savings and leaving stable jobsThe difference between courageous action and reckless behaviorThe power of journaling ideas and maintaining a flexible yet organized systemReasons for leaving a successful partnership to pursue personal growth and spiritual callingBuilding a new business solo versus with partners: challenges and opportunitiesDeveloping sales skills firsthand by engaging in the field to master storytelling and influenceThe misconception that sales is 'slimy'—it's primarily effective communicationThe significance of partnerships and choosing the right collaborators based on values and skill setsSetting ambitious financial goals: a million active income and a billion under management, and the importance of thinking bigThe mindset shift from viewing money as the goal to seeing it as a game or score TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Obedience and stepping out of comfort zones to unlock growth 02:47 - Introducing Andre Carvalho, real estate investor and acquisitions specialist 03:16 - Andre's vision to scale a seven-figure active income business 04:00 - The reset: leaving partnerships to pursue a higher purpose 04:14 - How Andre started in business and the importance of long-term vision 07:14 - The timeline and research involved before quitting the job 08:36 - Balancing courage with responsibility: planning versus recklessness 09:22 - The value of talking to professionals and testing ideas before full commitment 12:27 - Maintaining organization and reviewing journal entries regularly 13:29 - Techniques for capturing and developing ideas 15:15 - Simplifying journaling by focusing on ideas and goals 16:50 - The spiritual calling to elevate leadership through independence 17:19 - Reflecting on Tyler and Andre’s partnership growth 20:06 - Lessons from delaying decisions and the cost of inaction 21:00 - Growing alone versus with a partner: skills and leadership 22:28 - Why Andre emphasizes mastering sales on the frontlines 24:17 - Common misconceptions about sales and communication 25:16 - The simplicity of sales when aligned with belief in your product 27:43 - Why Andre aims for a billion in assets and a million active income 29:20 - Letting go of guilt and embracing adaptable goalsetting 30:43 - The value of transparency and honesty in commitments 33:14 - Strategic use of real estate for tax advantages and appreciation 35:29 - Viewing business and real estate as a game with scoring 36:20 - Keys for those in transition: commitment, exercise, and mindset 39:20 - Final advice: Just do it and take action without overthinking Connect with Andre Carvalho LinkedIn | Website

    41 min
  3. 8 MAY

    E184 - Lessons from Adam Willman: The Surprising Truth About Success

    n this episode, Rob Tracz explores the crucial questions entrepreneurs must ask themselves to align their pursuits with genuine fulfillment. Featuring insights from criminal defense attorney Adam Willman, the discussion covers how success can evolve, the importance of listening to your body's signals, and strategies for sustainable growth. Key Topics:The danger of chasing external definitions of success without reevaluationHow growth phases require redefining what success means for youRecognizing panic attacks and stress signals as valuable data, not weaknessThe importance of isolating what truly works in your businessThe myth of work-life balance versus the power of presenceUpdating your “Pirate’s Flag”: recalibrating direction seasonallyBuilding a business around core strengths and profitable client relationshipsThe significance of saying no to protect your capacity and focusPractical ways to stay present and cultivate mindfulness amid hustleReflecting on what you want your legacy to beTimestamps: 00:00 - Rethink success: Is what you're chasing truly what you want now? 00:31 - The entrepreneur's success myth and evolving priorities 01:01 - Adam Wilman's entrepreneurial backdrop and burnout experience 01:57 - Growing pains: Success that no longer fulfills 02:26 - Success frameworks: From zero to stable vs. from stable to fulfilled 03:14 - The importance of updating your definition of success 03:44 - How early success can expire and why recalibration is necessary 04:14 - From activity to fulfillment: Building purpose-driven success 04:39 - The danger of never updating your pursuit 05:10 - The “Pirate’s Flag” framework for directional recalibration 05:39 - Recognizing burnout signals as data 06:07 - Overcoming panic attacks through self-awareness and reflection 06:37 - Listening to your body's signals for sustainability 07:06 - Turning stress signals into actionable insights 07:36 - The value of "Isolate What Works" mentality 08:00 - Practical steps to streamline and focus your practice 08:57 - Protect your capacity: saying no to energy drainers 09:27 - Building a business around strengths and profitable clients 10:28 - Tolerance as a trap: the real cost of draining clients 10:55 - Capacity over revenue: why protecting your energy is paramount 11:25 - The true pace for sustainable growth 11:54 - The myth of work-life balance and embracing presence 12:22 - Cultivating presence: being fully present with loved ones 12:52 - The role of mindfulness and reflection in entrepreneurial life 13:22 - Your legacy: what truly matters in the long run 13:51 - Moving fast with purpose: speed without direction is aimless 14:07 - Reassessing your definition of success each season 14:36 - The importance of updating and recalibrating your goals 15:04 - Adam Wilman's path as a story of genuine connection and purpose 15:33 - Final reflections and advice: prioritize love and legacy 16:03 - Asking yourself: What do I want them to remember about this season? 16:32 - Wrapping up: stay aligned, stay present, survive the side hustle Resources & Links:Adam J. Willman Law OfficeNote: Prioritize ongoing recalibration over relentless hustle; true success is about sustainable fulfillment and presence.

    18 min
  4. 5 MAY

    E183 - From Grind to Grace: Difficult Questions to Ask for More Fulfillment with Adam Willman

    Discover how Adam Willman transitioned from relentless hustle to a more intentional, balanced approach to entrepreneurship and family life. In this episode, Adam shares his personal story of growth, the importance of reflection, and practical strategies for building a business aligned with core values and long-term vision.Main insights include: Adam Willman's background in law, entrepreneurship, and the motivations driving his initial hustleThe evolution from chasing income to prioritizing family, purpose, and personal growthThe role of athletic grit and resilience in entrepreneurship, and how they translate into consistent effortLessons learned about burnout, reflection, and the importance of mental health strategies like therapy and meditationPractical tips for refining business focus, saying no, and designing operations for efficiencyThe importance of support staff and delegation in balancing growth and personal prioritiesEnvisioning the future: from small practice to a larger operation, and maintaining a healthy work-life boundaryThe broader philosophy that family and purpose take precedence over relentless work Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to Adam Willman and his journey from hustle to intentionality 01:32 - Early motivations: wanting to be his own boss and the impact of family planning 02:47 - Transitioning from prosecutor to lawyer and building a flexible career 04:21 - The hustle and grind: lessons learned from years of relentless effort 08:22 - Parallels between entrepreneurship and financial investing strategies 09:32 - Redefining success beyond income: focusing on purpose and quality of life 11:43 - Strategies for networking, marketing, and building a practice from scratch 14:52 - The importance of reflection, setting boundaries, and finding what works 18:26 - Overcoming burnout: quitting alcohol, managing anxiety, and personal growth 22:28 - Shifting focus from external validation to internal fulfillment 23:27 - Future goals: scaling with support, refining work-life balance, and specialization 35:48 - The seasons of entrepreneurship: sprints, off-seasons, and reflection 36:39 - Defining core values and intentionally designing a life and business aligned with them 43:43 - Advice from the future: family first, passion, purpose, and intentional success Connect with Adam Wilman: FacebookWebsiteAdam@adamwillmanlaw.com This episode offers valuable insights for entrepreneurs at any stage seeking to build meaningful, sustainable success rooted in purpose and family.

    45 min
  5. 1 MAY

    E182 - Lessons from Steve DiNapoli: Why Hitting Small Wins Matters More Than Chasing a Big Number

    The Power of Grit: Building Resilience and Success in Business and Life This episode explores the true meaning of grit through the inspiring story of Steve DiNapoli, who transformed his legal and personal challenges into a foundation for relentless resilience and success. Discover practical insights on discipline, leadership, and the importance of small wins on the path to long-term growth. In this episode:The defining moment that reveals your true gritWhy discipline is more critical than talent or resourcesHow facing hardships can be the most valuable learning experienceThe correlation between physical work and mental toughnessPractical strategies for entrepreneurs to delegate and trust their teamThe evolution of success and why small wins matterAligning your identity with resilience, not just milestonesThe importance of building an undeniable reputation over being the smartestReal-world examples on sustainable business growthKey principles for surviving and thriving beyond the side hustleTimestamps:00:00 - Introduction: Why resilience matters when life challenges you00:15 - The moment that tests who you really are01:10 - Steve DiNapoli's story: From basement startup to regional leader02:08 - The role of discipline over motivation in tough times03:21 - The legal crisis and how Steve chose grit over fear04:32 - Developing an undeniable attitude: waking up at 4:30 am and outworking everyone05:54 - Grit is a decision, not a personality trait06:24 - Why facing your worst day creates your best future07:18 - How physical work sharpens mental performance08:55 - The fallacy of motivation and the power of discipline10:14 - Building a team that can run independently11:39 - Scaling your business by trusting others and letting go12:33 - Success is a series of small wins, not one big milestone13:09 - How redefining success helps sustain motivation14:33 - The importance of incremental growth for lasting success15:03 - Be undeniable, not just the smartest or the best15:32 - Practical steps for entrepreneurs to survive and thrive16:01 - Connect with Big East Labs for environmental consulting expertise16:31 - Reflecting on leadership that is rooted in heart and grit16:58 - Your challenge: what one word describes the legacy you want to leave?Resources & Links:Big East LabsSteve DiNapoli on LinkedInSteve DiNapoli on InstagramRemember, grit is a decision you make in the hardest moments. Build resilience by trusting the process, celebrating small wins, and staying undeniable. Stay sharp and keep surviving the side hustle.

    19 min
  6. 28 APR

    E181 - From Basement Startup to Leading Environmental Firm with Steve DiNapoli

    The Power of Discipline and Resilience in Entrepreneurship: Steve DiNapoli’s JourneyIn this episode, Steve DiNapoli shares his inspiring story of building a successful environmental consulting business through discipline, grit, and personal transformation. Discover how waking up at 4:30 AM, embracing challenges, and cultivating mental resilience propelled him through adversity and fueled growth. Key topics:How Steve started his business during the 2008 economic crashThe importance of consistency and steady progress in business buildingResilience through physical discipline: running at 4:30 AM to develop mental toughnessOvercoming setbacks: legal issues and turning obstacles into growth opportunitiesLeadership lessons: trusting and empowering your teamThe role of goal setting and evolving success metrics over timeStrategies for entrepreneurs feeling stuck: networking, discipline, and persistenceBuilding trust in yourself and others through consistent actionsThe mindset shift from “surviving” to “thriving” as your business grows Timestamps: 00:00 - Welcome and episode overview: building resilience in entrepreneurship 02:20 - Steve DiNapoli’s background and business start during a downturn 04:14 - The early challenges of launching a business amidst economic collapse 06:53 - The importance of steady habit-building and persistence 08:01 - Moments of doubt and mental resilience in tough times 10:44 - What separates successful entrepreneurs: grit and risk tolerance 13:29 - How physical discipline transformed Steve’s mindset and leadership 14:18 - Overcoming legal challenges through toughness and focus 16:41 - The role of physical activity in stress relief and decision-making 18:13 - Building leadership credibility through consistent effort 19:28 - Delegating trust effectively and empowering your team 22:58 - Embracing the discomfort of doing what sucks for growth 25:49 - Trust, failure, and developing leaders within your organization 30:01 - Strategies for entrepreneurs starting out and feeling stuck 34:49 - Continual growth, evolving goals, and adaptability in business 39:15 - Finding the right clients and building your brand 40:43 - Connecting with Steve and how to get in touch 41:33 - Steve’s vision of leading with heart and grit, leaving a legacy Resources & Links: Big East LabsLinkedIn

    43 min
  7. 24 APR

    E180 - Lessons from Brian Miller: The Simple Question That Leads Others to Own Their Solutions

    In this episode, Rob Tracz shares transformative insights from Brian Miller on how true leadership is about creating environments where others discover solutions on their own. Learn why being the smartest isn’t enough, and how cultivating ownership can elevate your team, business, and relationships. Main Topics:The misconception that being the smartest in the room equals influenceThe concept of ownership vs. motivation in team performanceHow environment and coaching evoke awareness and accountabilityThe importance of asking the right questions instead of giving solutionsCreating conditions that lead to self-discovery and sustainable growthIn this episode:Rob introduces Brian Miller, a veteran coach and leader, emphasizing his expertise in coaching and leadership influenceBrian explains the difference between telling people what to do and helping them think for themselvesThe metaphor of "nobody washes a rental car" illustrates the importance of ownership in behavior and resultsHow to shift from handing out solutions to fostering environments where individuals find their own answersThe role of internal accountability and environment design with simple tools, like water bottles, to encourage actionThe distinction between asking questions and evoking awareness that leads to self-insightStrategies for leaders and coaches to build conditions that naturally produce resultsTimestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Why influence matters more than being the smartest 00:28 - The trap of walking into a room and assuming you're the smartest 0:55 - Who is Brian Miller and his coaching background 1:47 - The importance of helping others think, not just tell them what to do 2:14 - People do what they tell themselves, not what you tell them 3:12 - The metaphor: nobody washes a rental car — ownership is key 4:11 - Building team ownership rather than just giving plans 5:40 - Coaching the person, not just solving the problem 6:10 - Self-awareness as the real growth lever 7:36 - Overcoming resistance by addressing what needs to grow within 8:07 - Rethinking accountability: environment over external pressure 9:38 - Using environment cues, like water bottles, for accountability 11:13 - The difference between asking questions and evoking awareness 12:38 - How great coaches help clients discover answers on their own 13:07 - Creating conditions instead of solutions for long-term results 14:23 - The core message: influence through environment and self-discovery Stay connected:To continue building your influence, visit p3leaders.com for leadership coachingExplore coach training at coachapproachministries.org

    18 min
  8. 21 APR

    E179 - The Surprising Power of Asking Better Questions in Leadership and Life with Brian Miller

    Explore how coaching transforms leadership, decision-making, and personal growth through effective questioning and mindset shifts. Join Rob Tracz as he interviews Brian Miller, president of Coach Approach Ministries, on the art of asking better questions, coaching vs. consulting, and building responsibility and confidence. In this episode:Brian Miller’s unexpected journey into coaching after a challenging leadership experienceThe mindset shift from giving advice to asking questions that evoke awarenessWhy coaching works where traditional advice and consulting often fail in today’s environmentThe importance of coaching the person, not just the problem, to foster responsibility and growthHow asking better questions unlocks creative options and reduces binary thinkingThe role of metaphors, visualization, and accountability in effective coachingThe differences between coaching, consulting, and counseling, and when to use eachThe impact of coaching on leadership, athlete training, and personal developmentPractical tips for managers and leaders to incorporate coaching principles in their communicationTimestamps:00:00 - Introduction to Brian Miller and his coaching background 01:10 - Why Brian entered coaching by accident during a leadership crisis 02:08 - How mindset shifts from telling to asking improve leadership effectiveness 03:34 - Moving from manipulation to empowering through coaching 04:17 - Key realization: people do what they tell themselves to do 05:01 - A personal story about leading with vision and the importance of inquiry 06:27 - The impact of coaching on team dynamics and decision-making 07:51 - Transition from problem-solving to coaching for awareness and responsibility 09:15 - How coaching adapts in today’s information-rich, remote environment 10:58 - The evolution from factory-line thinking to independent problem-solving 13:17 - The power of asking questions in sports and physical training 15:00 - Why coaching the person, not just the problem, leads to better outcomes 16:31 - Coaching as a tool for growth, not rescue, and avoiding enabling dependency 17:41 - Handling resistance to responsibility and building confidence 19:02 - The distinction between coaching, counseling, and consulting 20:56 - The stigma around coaching in organizations and how to reframe it positively 22:11 - Coaching the individual versus the problem, and fostering responsibility 24:24 - Using metaphors and visualization to address goals and fears 36:31 - The importance of personal accountability over external pressure 37:29 - Creative visualization techniques like water bottles for motivating action 40:09 - The art of evoking awareness versus interrogating 41:34 - The metaphor of apples on tree limbs for understanding issues 43:23 - How coaching enhances influence, leadership, and communication 44:30 - Resources for coaching certification and personal growth at P3Leaders.com & CoachApproachMinistries.org 45:19 - Reflection on leadership presence: honesty, listening, and truth-telling Resources & Links:P3 LeadersCoach Approach Ministries

    48 min

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Welcome to "Surviving the Side Hustle," the ultimate podcast for balancing the demands of entrepreneurship with maintaining mental, physical, and emotional well-being. Hosted by Coach Rob Tracz, an expert in helping driven professionals achieve 'personal development for professional success,' this show is more than just storytelling—it's a masterclass in thriving amidst the entrepreneurial grind. Each episode features candid conversations with leaders who are rewriting the rules of entrepreneurship, sharing their unique stories, the creative solutions they're offering, and the everyday challenges they’re overcoming. Whether you’re a side hustler looking for your big break or an established entrepreneur seeking fresh perspectives, "Surviving the Side Hustle" provides valuable insights that resonate with the movers, the shakers, and everyone in between. Feeling burnt out and sidelining your own health? This podcast empowers you to overcome stagnation, build resilience, and optimize your life and business. We dive deep into your goals, identify obstacles, and share strategies to boost your energy, improve your strength, and keep the entrepreneurial grind enjoyable. Join us for inspiring stories, expert insights, and practical advice to help you look good, feel good, and do great things at every stage of your entrepreneurial journey. Let’s not just survive the side hustle—let's master it.