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UK-based podcast where men share their stories of coming out later-in-life. chapsoutpod.substack.com

  1. Coming Out at 33: Martin Walker | CHAPS OUT

    1 DAY AGO

    Coming Out at 33: Martin Walker | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of the Chaps Out podcast, host Grant Philpott is joined by guest Martin Walker who shares his Coming Out story- from his career at the Department for Work and Pensions to reinventing himself in his thirties as a film and TV location manager, briefly touching on his recent work including the BBC hit Amandaland. At the heart of the conversation, though, is Martin’s deeply personal story of coming out at 33- a decision that cost him his relationship with his mum for a time, but ultimately led to a stronger, more honest bond. He reflects on growing up in 80s and 90s Yorkshire under Section 28, navigating the rave scene as a form of distraction, and the quiet loneliness that eventually pushed him to face the truth. With refreshing honesty, he talks about fear, family rejection, self-acceptance, and the relief that followed finally living openly. It’s a candid, moving discussion about identity, resilience, and why, despite the risks, choosing yourself is always worth it. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #Men #comingout #LaterInLife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #LGBTQPodcast #GayMen #ComingOutLaterInLife #AuthenticLiving Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    38 min
  2. Chaps Out Culture: Adrian Smoothy recommends...Dating Amber and more

    5 DAYS AGO · BONUS

    Chaps Out Culture: Adrian Smoothy recommends...Dating Amber and more

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture, the companion podcast to Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott is joined again by guest Adrian Smoothy to explore queer stories and sounds that resonate. Adrian recommends the Irish coming-of-age film Dating Amber, a funny and heartfelt story about a gay teen and a lesbian teen who fake a relationship to survive the pressures of small-town expectations, capturing the raw fear of choosing between fitting in and being yourself. He also dives into the unexpected global impact of the hockey romance series Heated Rivalry, by celebrating the standout version of “All the Things She Said”, then rounding things off with upbeat remixes that re-imagine older tracks for new audiences, this episode is a joyful celebration of queer culture, from indie film to dance floor anthems via cult TV. If you’re passionate about queer culture, LGBTQ+ history, meaningful conversations, or uncovering hidden cultural treasures, this episode is made for you. Subscribe to Chaps Out to catch new episodes and be part of these vital discussions. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #ChapsOutCulture #queerculture #lgbtqfilm #chapsout #DatingAmber#HeatedRivalry #QueerTV #lgbtqpodcast #GayRomance #lgbtqstories #allthethingsshesaid #GayLoveStory #lgbtqcommunity Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    10 min
  3. Coming Out at 27: Adrian Smoothy | CHAPS OUT

    3 MAR

    Coming Out at 27: Adrian Smoothy | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, Grant Philpott speaks with Adrian Smoothy, a 57-year-old software consultant from Kent, about coming out later in life and the long road to living authentically. Growing up with no language or visible role models for being gay- and shaped by the fear-driven messaging of the 80s and 90s- Adrian stayed closeted into his late twenties, only coming out after moving to the United States and finally saying the words out loud to his boss following the sudden death of his father. He reflects on family expectations, internalised shame, briefly joining the armed forces when being gay could end your career, and the exhausting habit of constantly “reading the room.” But this is also a story of joy and second chances, from meeting his husband by chance at Gatwick Airport to embracing Pride, gay nightlife, and a life that feels honest at last. Thoughtful, funny and deeply reassuring, Adrian’s story is a reminder that it’s never too late to come out, that labels aren’t always simple, and that things can get better with time. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #Men #comingout #LaterInLife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #mentalhealth #LGBTQPodcast #GayMen #AuthenticLiving Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    39 min
  4. Chaps Out Culture: Peter Roberts recommends...

    27 FEB · BONUS

    Chaps Out Culture: Peter Roberts recommends...

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture, host Grant Philpott is joined by #ChapsOut guest Peter Roberts to discuss LGBTQIA+ TV, film and literature.Peter shares his thoughts on Heartstopper, Maurice, Beautiful Thing and Were the World Mine. The conversation also covers the French film Juste une question d'amour (Just a Question of Love). He emphasises the draw of romance, emotional connection, and representation in queer storytelling, as well as the publishing work of Pop'n'Olly who provide inclusive books to schools. www.popnolly.com This episode centres on one idea: it’s just a question of love. If you’re passionate about queer culture, LGBTQ+ history, meaningful conversations, or uncovering hidden cultural treasures, this episode is made for you. Subscribe to Chaps Out to catch new episodes to be part of these vital discussions and please rate and review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #culture #lgbtq #podcast #uk #british #men #queerculture #ChapsOut #popnolly Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    12 min
  5. Coming Out at 38: Peter Roberts | CHAPS OUT

    24 FEB

    Coming Out at 38: Peter Roberts | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott is joined by Peter Roberts, former primary school teacher, father of two, and husband, to talk about education, faith, family and coming out later in life. Peter reflects on 25 years in the classroom, the impact teachers can have, growing up under Section 28, coping with negative reactions within the Church, navigating sexuality within marriage, and building relationships after coming out. He also shares honest advice for anyone struggling with identity. A thoughtful conversation about regret, resilience and choosing to live truthfully. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #Men #comingout #LaterInLife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #LGBTQPodcast #GayMen #ComingOutLaterInLife #AuthenticLiving #gaychristian Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    49 min
  6. Chaps Out Culture: Norman Goodman recommends Bi Community News

    20 FEB · BONUS

    Chaps Out Culture: Norman Goodman recommends Bi Community News

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture, host Grant Philpott is joined again by #chapsout guest Norman Goodman who recommends Bi Community News, a quarterly magazine dedicated to bisexual people across the UK and beyond.Norman describes the publication as essential reading for anyone who is bisexual, especially those who are just coming out. With community listings, advice, personal stories, legal guidance, health awareness, adoption information, and features on bisexual lives, Bi Community News plays a vital role in increasing bisexual visibility and representation in a world where bi voices are often overlooked. The episode explores why bisexual representation matters, how media can help people feel seen and understood, and why having dedicated bi spaces is so important for mental health, connection, and confidence. Norman also shares his wider LGBTQ+ cultural highlights, including film recommendations and reflections on the power of storytelling to change lives. If you’re passionate about queer culture, LGBTQ+ history, meaningful conversations, or uncovering hidden cultural treasures, this episode is made for you. Subscribe to Chaps Out to catch new episodes and be part of these vital discussions.If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #culture #lgbtq #podcast #uk #british #men #queerculture #ChapsOut Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    10 min
  7. Coming Out at 69: Norman Goodman | CHAPS OUT

    17 FEB

    Coming Out at 69: Norman Goodman | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode, host Grant Philpott speaks with guest Norman Goodman who shares his inspiring story of coming out as bisexual at the age of 69. From decades of marriage to widowhood, Norman talks candidly about his struggles, self-discovery, and the courage it takes to live authentically. Hear how Norman found love with his partner Tony, navigated societal expectations, and became a voice for older LGBT+ adults. He discusses the importance of bisexual visibility, mental health, and reaching out for support, offering guidance to anyone exploring their own coming out journey.This episode is a must-listen for those seeking advice on coming out later in life, LGBT+ support, and embracing identity at any age. Whether you’re bisexual, gay, or an ally, Norman’s story shows it’s never too late to live openly, connect with the community, and find joy.Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #Men #comingout #LaterInLife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #LGBTQPodcast #GayMen #ComingOutLaterInLife #AuthenticLiving Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    40 min
  8. Chaps Out Culture: guest Dave Kenealy recommends 3 Gay True Stories

    13 FEB · BONUS

    Chaps Out Culture: guest Dave Kenealy recommends 3 Gay True Stories

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture, host Grant Philpott is joined by #ChapsOut guest Dave Kenealy who reflects on three powerful films based on true stories: Milk, The Matthew Shepard Story, and Boy Erased. Each film tells the story of a gay man whose life ended tragically- through violence, prejudice, or systemic harm- yet whose stories continue to matter. Dave explores why these lives should not be forgotten, what their stories reveal about intolerance, and how tragedy can still lead to awareness, change, and progress. This is a thoughtful conversation about legacy, injustice, parental responsibility, community, and the importance of standing up for the rights and dignity of others. If you’re passionate about queer culture, LGBTQ+ history, meaningful conversations, or uncovering hidden cultural treasures, this episode is made for you. Subscribe to Chaps Out to catch new episodes and be part of these vital discussions. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #culture #lgbtq #podcast #uk #british #men #queerculture #ChapsOut #milk #thematthewshepardstory #boyerased Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    14 min
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UK-based podcast where men share their stories of coming out later-in-life. chapsoutpod.substack.com

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  • Creator
    Men Coming Out Later in Life
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    20
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © ChapsOutPod
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    Chaps Out