Chaps Out

Men Coming Out Later in Life

UK-based podcast where men share their stories of coming out later-in-life. chapsoutpod.substack.com

  1. Coming Out at 67: Philip Nettleton | CHAPS OUT

    11 HR AGO

    Coming Out at 67: Philip Nettleton | CHAPS OUT

    Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of coercive control, blackmail, emotional abuse, mental health crisis and suicidal thoughts which some viewers may find distressing In this episode of #ChapsOut, host Grant Philpott is joined by Philip Nettleton who shares his story of coming out at 67 after decades in a heterosexual marriage. A secret relationship became a toxic situation involving coercive control, threats and blackmail that ultimately forced him out of the closet. Philip speaks candidly about the pressure of living a double life, the impact on his wife and family, reaching a mental health crisis, and the difficult process of rebuilding his life. An emotional, honest and ultimately hopeful conversation about identity, shame, love, loss and finally living authentically. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #Men #comingout #LaterInLife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #LGBTQPodcast #GayMen #ComingOutLaterInLife #AuthenticLiving Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    31 min
  2. Chaps Out Culture: Neil Delaney champions Stonewall (2015)

    5 DAYS AGO ·  BONUS

    Chaps Out Culture: Neil Delaney champions Stonewall (2015)

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture, host Grant Philpott is joined again by Neil Delaney who recommends Stonewall, the powerful historical drama inspired by the Stonewall riots. Neil reflects on how the film helped shape and inspire him after coming out, while exploring the real-life events on Christopher Street in 1969 that sparked the modern Pride movement. From police raids and oppression to the uprising led by members of the LGBTQ+ community fighting back against brutality and discrimination, this conversation looks at one of the most important moments in queer history. Neil also shares his emotional visit to the Stonewall memorial in New York and explains why the story still resonates today. If you enjoy this episode, subscribe, leave a five-star review, and check out Neil’s full interview on the main episode of Chaps Out. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #Stonewall #Pride #PrideMonth #LGBTQ #LGBTQHistory #QueerHistory #GayHistory #StonewallRiots #TheOriginsOfPride #PrideMovement #ChristopherStreet #QueerVoices #LGBTQCommunity #LoveIsLove #Podcast #FilmTok #MovieRecommendation #HistoryTok #ChapsOutCulture #Shorts Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    6 min
  3. Coming Out at 35: Neil Delaney | CHAPS OUT

    19 MAY

    Coming Out at 35: Neil Delaney | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant is joined by Neil Delaney who shares his honest and deeply personal coming out journey later in life. Growing up in the North of Scotland in the 80s, Neil struggled with his feelings for men while building a life with a wife and child. Neil also opens up about love, grief, and acceptance, reflecting on his late partner Terry, who helped him fully embrace his identity, and how family and community support can make all the difference. Whether you’re questioning your identity, navigating coming out later in life, or seeking inspiration and reassurance, Neil’s story is a powerful message for anyone on a similar path. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #Men #comingout #LaterInLife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #LGBTQPodcast #GayMen #ComingOutLaterInLife #AuthenticLiving Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    26 min
  4. Coming Out at 42: Ambrose King | CHAPS OUT

    12 MAY

    Coming Out at 42: Ambrose King | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of #ChapsOut, host Grant Philpott is joined by Ambrose King who shares his powerful story of coming out later in life after years of living under the pressure of family expectations, marriage, and tradition within the Traveller community. From becoming a husband and father to finally finding the courage to live authentically at 42, Ambrose speaks openly about shame, identity, rejection, self-acceptance, and what it truly means to start over. Honest, funny, emotional and ultimately uplifting, this is a conversation about finding freedom in being yourself- no matter how long it takes. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #men #comingout #laterinlife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #lgbtqpodcast #GayMen #bisexualmen #comingoutlaterinlife #authenticliving #LGBTStories #ComingOutStory #LateBloomer #AuthenticSelf #MentalHealth #GayUK #LGBTQPodcast #SelfAcceptance #Pride #ComingOutJourney #GayLife #PodcastClips #LGBTQCommunity #BeYourself #LifeStories #ComeDineWithMe Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    28 min
  5. Chaps Out Culture: Alex recommends Wildhood

    1 MAY ·  BONUS

    Chaps Out Culture: Alex recommends Wildhood

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture- the companion podcast to #ChapsOut- host Grant Philpott is joined again by guest Alex, who shares powerful LGBTQ+ film and TV recommendations that have shaped and inspired him. From the 2021 Canadian independent film, Wildhood- a heartfelt story of identity, love, and reconnecting with heritage- to classic series like Six Feet Under, exploring self-acceptance and complex relationships, this conversation dives deep into stories that resonate across the community.Alex also acknowledges the impactful EastEnders storyline between Christian and Syed which began in 2009 and reflected on cultural pressures, identity, and the very real consequences of living a life that isn’t true to yourself.It’s an honest, thoughtful chat about representation, Alex’s personal journey, and the media that helps us understand who we are.If you’re passionate about queer culture, LGBTQ+ history, meaningful conversations, or uncovering hidden cultural treasures, this episode is made for you. Subscribe to Chaps Out to catch new episodes and be part of these vital discussions. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/#LGBTQ #LGBTQPlus #QueerCulture #QueerVoices #Pride #LGBTQCommunity #QueerStories #RepresentationMatters #GayFilm #QueerCinema #IndieFilm #Wildhood #SixFeetUnder #EastEnders #TVRecommendations #FilmRecommendations #Podcast #PodcastClip #YouTubePodcast #ChapsOut #ChapsOutCulture #LoveIsLove #Identity #SelfAcceptance #QueerMedia Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    5 min

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UK-based podcast where men share their stories of coming out later-in-life. chapsoutpod.substack.com