No-Problem Parenting

Jaci Finneman

Parenting doesn't have to be a battle. Jaci Finneman shows you how to turn your parenting problems into "No Problem" and become the Confident Leader your kids crave you to be.

  1. EP 296 Pass the Test: Stay Steady When Kids Push Back

    2 DAYS AGO

    EP 296 Pass the Test: Stay Steady When Kids Push Back

    Your child may not respond the way you want right away. And that does not mean you failed. It also does not automatically mean that your child is being defiant or manipulative or trying to push your buttons. It means your child is responding the best way they know how in that moment. They might be testing. They might be stuck. They might not have the words for what they need. And they might be digging in their heels because they don't see another option. As the parent, that's not something to take personally. That's information. And leadership starts with how you respond to that information. Welcome to the No Problem Parenting podcast, where we help parents lead with confidence, clarity, and steadiness—especially when kids push back. This podcast is for parents doing real life with real kids: no perfection, no pretending, just practical leadership that works in real homes. Instead of chasing immediate compliance, aim for steady leadership: clear tone, clear words, and consistent follow-through. Keep the status quo—life keeps moving—set predictable expectations, and resist rescuing responsibility. Over time, consistent leadership helps kids manage discomfort, trust reliability, and change behavior. If you want quick phrases for these moments or deeper support to prepare for and survive meltdowns, click this link or find more resources at noproblemparents.com. When Your Kid Pushes Back, Say This No fixing, no fluff—just steady leadership for real kids and real homes.

    10 min
  2. 2 DAYS AGO

    EP 4 What is Reactive Attachment Disorder - Part 1

    Hello Parents! In today's episode, Part 1 - What is Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), I share how learning about the diagnosis in 1993 shifted my career path from serving children with special abilities to supporting kids with mental health diagnosis and their parents.  This episode just barely touches on the diagnosis and is definitely a brief introduction of what can happen when infants and toddlers experience early life trauma or separation from their primary caregivers. And, there are many children that have a rough start in life that do not develop these symptoms so this episode does not intend to diagnosis your child's behavior.    I'm sharing my experiences with the diagnosis in hopes that any parent (or child) that feels misunderstood, has tried everything, has been pushed to an emotional limit or has been blamed (or is shaming themselves) due to their child's behavior and/or how they are responding to their child's behavior; that they will find hope and support. In Part 2 I'll share more symptoms that children with Reactive Attachment Disorder or trauma disorders can display and I'll share a few tips and resources on how to respond to and help children who are truly afraid to trust their caregivers. When we seek first to understand why our children are behaving the way they are and when we prepare ourselves for "the worst", we can respond as the confident leaders our kids crave us to be.   To learn more about Reactive Attachment Disorder and to find clinical support for your child go to https://attach.org/ To learn more about how to become a No-Problem Parent™ go to No Problem Parents And please share this episode with the people in your community.  Too often children with this diagnosis appear to be just fine to their extended family and community while their parents are judged and looked down upon for how they discipline their kids.  Don't assume it is the parents fault, especially if you knew the parents to be kind and loving people before they had children.  Children with Reactive Attachment Disorder often reserve their toughest behaviors for their parents and can "hold it together" in front of others.  Parents raising these children need our support and understanding so please learn more about why the parent is frustrated or hurting and then support the child -  by supporting the parent.   Hugs and High Fives, Jaci

    25 min
  3. 06/11/2024

    EP 292: Break Free from Phone Distractions: Joey Odom on Building Healthier Tech Habits with Aro

    Welcome back to the No Problem Parenting™ Podcast!   In today’s episode, we’re talking about something that hits close to home for so many of us—our relationship with technology. I’m joined by Joey Odom, co-founder of Aro, who’s on a mission to help families build healthier tech habits. Joey’s story is one many parents will connect with: he missed his son’s first soccer goal because he was distracted by his phone. That missed moment sparked a major shift in how he approaches family time, inspiring him to create Aro—a platform that empowers parents and kids to set boundaries with technology, stay present, and strengthen their family bonds.   Joey’s journey with Aro, which he launched with his friend and co-founder, Heath Wilson, is all about helping parents lead by example. Since Aro's debut, thousands of families have adopted this approach to be more intentional with their screen time, modeling habits for kids that prioritize connection over distraction. Joey and I chat about how tech can impact our kids' mental health and family dynamics and the powerful ways we can keep tech from taking over.   You’ll also hear practical, down-to-earth tips on how to balance technology use at home without the guilt trips or unrealistic expectations. So, whether you’re trying to scale back on screen time yourself or you’re looking for ways to guide your kiddos, you’ll find plenty of encouragement and know-how in this episode.   Listen in and find out how to start creating more quality family time with Aro!   Become a No Problem Parent Today!

    35 min

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Parenting doesn't have to be a battle. Jaci Finneman shows you how to turn your parenting problems into "No Problem" and become the Confident Leader your kids crave you to be.