Life Uncut

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Talking all things love, life, lust, and a bunch of other stuff. Nothing is off limits in this podcast that navigates relationships and dating in the modern day. Brought to you by two bachelor finalists Brittany Hockley and Laura Byrne.

  1. 4 hr ago

    Offcuts: Men Are Ditching Deodorant, Michelle Obama's Empty Nest Truth & An Open Relationship Gone Wrong

    Hey Lifers! Welcome to Offcuts, your little snackkk to get you through to Monday!  Poppy is almost one (how?!) and Lola has entered a bold new era of toddler rage, informing Laura in no uncertain terms that she will, in fact, "kill her dead." Then it's time for our regular check-in on what men are doing to themselves online: this week it's "pheromone maxing" (also known as: refusing to wear deodorant), and a new frontier of self-grooming madness. We are begging them to stop. We also unpack a viral clip of Michelle Obama on her podcast IMO, where she got refreshingly honest about how she actually feels now that her kids have left home. Spoiler: she's thriving, not grieving and it's sparked a very real debate about who's "Team Barack" (misses the kids desperately) and who's "Team Michelle" (has never felt more free). Then, a Reddit thread that reads like poetic justice: a woman opens up her relationship at her boyfriend's request, racks up hundreds of dating app matches… while he gets zero. Naturally, he's furious. We close out with the most petty, most brilliant piece of revenge we've heard in a long time… a woman who signed her best friend's cheating ex up to 500 email newsletters, and we've got some upgrade ideas of our own. Keep your questions coming! Slide into the Life Uncut DMs at @lifeuncutpodcast on Instagram You can watch us on Youtube Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Hosted by Britt Hockley & Laura Byrne Produced by Lachy Pugsley Video Produced by Vanessa Beckford & Lachy Pugsley Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Offcuts: Men Are Ditching Deodorant, Michelle Obama's Empty Nest Truth & An Open Relationship Gone Wrong
  2. 1 day ago

    What We Get Wrong About ADHD, Masking & AuDHD - with Dr Kieran Kennedy

    Hey Lifers! ADHD has well and truly come into the spotlight in the last few years. Diagnoses have increased substantially in the past decade. But, this surge in diagnosis hasn't necessarily come with a surge in understanding; especially for women, who are so often missed, misdiagnosed, or told it's "just anxiety". So we've brought back one of Australia's most trusted voices on mental health and neurodiversity, consultant psychiatrist and TV doctor Dr Kieran Kennedy, to break it all down. Kieran is fresh off the release of his brand new book, This Explains Everything: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Navigating Adult ADHD, and he's here to unpack why so many women aren't diagnosed until their 30s, 40s or even 50s, what "masking" and "scaffolding" actually look like day to day, the difference between hyperactive, inattentive and combined ADHD, what AuDHD is, and why "high performing ADHD" might be one of the most misunderstood terms on the internet right now. We also get into ADHD burnout, the link between ADHD and disordered eating and substance use, the romanticised "superpower" side of ADHD on social media, and what steps to take if you think this conversation sounds a little too relatable. Kieran shares: Why ADHD in women is so often missed, and how it shows up differently to the "naughty kid in the classroom" stereotype What "scaffolding" really means, and the difference between adaptive and maladaptive coping What "high performing ADHD" actually is (and why the term can be misleading) The three types of ADHD - hyperactive, inattentive and combined What AuDHD (ADHD + autism) is, and why it's not a "made up" internet diagnosis The link between ADHD, dopamine seeking, disordered eating and substance use What ADHD burnout looks like versus everyday burnout Why women are diagnosed on average nearly 20 years later than men, and the role hormones, pregnancy and menopause play Options beyond medication The difference between masking in men and women TIMESTAMPS 0:00 — Intro & Kieran's most mortifying career story8:16 — How ADHD shows up differently in men and women10:55 — Scaffolding, masking & "high performing ADHD"17:16 — How ADHD is actually diagnosed (and the 3 types)23:19 — What ADHD looks like day to day (counting, parenting, forgetfulness)27:21 — Why women are diagnosed later: hormones, pregnancy & menopause30:28 — Treatment beyond medication, AuDHD & autism in adults38:13 — Burnout, dopamine seeking, myths & what to do next Follow Kieran on Instagram Grab Kieran's new book, This Explains Everything: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Navigating Adult ADHD:  Listen back to our first episode with Kieran (on binge eating) Listen back to our CLOUD mini-series  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    What We Get Wrong About ADHD, Masking & AuDHD - with Dr Kieran Kennedy
  3. 3 days ago

    Raygun's Redemption, Alix v Alex & WTF is Musk?

    Hey Lifers! Happy Wednesday! We’re fresh back from New Zealand (Queenstown luge races, ice-cold lake plunges and all) while Britt’s got her own laundry-based betrayal to deal with courtesy of Ben. We take a quick pause to give a shoutout to a very special dad in the Lifer family (Matt we’re looking at you), before answering Soph’s very real dilemma: How do you greet your friend’s partner for the first time without it turning into an awkward fist bump? Laura’s going rouge and talking Musk Sticks…Yep… Who actually knows what the flavour of Musk? This one will have you both concerned and intrigued. Then we get into it. First up, the Alex Cooper vs Alex Earle drama that's been simmering since 2022 finally got its reveal, and we unpack the uncomfortable footage, the question of who really owns your story once you've sat down for an interview, and why we'll never ask a guest to keep something in if they've asked for it to be cut. Then, the big one: Raygun. Her new Netflix documentary has reopened the conversation a year on, and we've got a lot of feelings. We get into vicarious embarrassment (yes, it's a real psychological phenomenon), the line between self-belief and delusion, the role her husband/coach played in it all, and whether the backlash really was about gender or something else entirely. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro: Britt's New Zealand trip, the Queenstown luge race & an icy lake plunge 8:41 - Life updates of a laundry disaster and a special award in Laura’s fam 13:42 - SOS: hug, handshake or kiss? How do I greet people?  16:58 - WTF is Musk… Laura wants a deep dive 20:24 - Alex Cooper vs Alex Earle: Who owns your story? 30:58 - Raygun's Netflix doco: Redemption arc, delusion, or was it not her fault? 47:45 - Suck and Sweet of the Week   Keep your questions coming! Slide into the Life Uncut DMs at @lifeuncutpodcast on Instagram You can watch us on Youtube Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Hosted by Britt Hockley & Laura Byrne Produced by Sophie Nathan Video Produced by Vanessa Beckford & Lachy Pugsley Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Raygun's Redemption, Alix v Alex & WTF is Musk?
  4. 5 days ago

    Ask Uncut: He Invited His Ex To Our Wedding & Secret Sibling Favouritism?

    Hey Lifers! Welcome back to Ask Uncut where we answer your deep, your dark and your burning questions! Today is one of those days where we got the giggles and boy this could be one of the greatest openers of all time. We go down memory lane and find out about Britt's grandma's backyard full of pigeons (we did not see that one coming). Vibes for the week:  Brittany – DentiPet dog toothpaste from Pet Barn   Laura – The easiest, most addictive cabbage salad recipe of all time (yes really)  LAURA'S SALAD RECIPE Shredded cabbage Rocket Mint Peas (defrosted, not cooked) Shredded parmesan  Fresh chilli Dressing: Whole lemon Olive oil Dijon mustard Crushed garlic Salt & Pepper Then we jump into your questions! Q1: I SAID MY EX'S NAME DURING SEX: Instead of correcting myself, I just kept going. He definitely heard it and it's been three weeks. Do I bring it up now or let it die? Q2: MY PARTNER WANTS HIS EX AT OUR WEDDING: They've stayed close since breaking up five years ago and are part of the same friend group. I don't know if I want her there. Should I ask him to not invite her? Q3: MY MUM KEEPS GIVING MY BROTHER MONEY: I only found out by accident. I've never asked for a cent, but apparently he "needs it more." Am I a bad sister for feeling some type of way about it? Q4: HOW DO I TELL MY BEST FRIEND HER CONTENT IS TOO OBVIOUSLY AI? Her home remodelling business isn't even showing real photos of their work anymore. How do we call this out without hurting her feelings (or her business)? Keep your Ask Uncuts coming! Just write to @lifeuncutpodcast on insta and pop "Ask Uncut" in the heading, we'll always keep you anonymous. Join the Facebook discussion group if you haven't already. And if you've got an accidentally unfiltered story or an Ask Uncut aftermath, slide into our DMs (we want the ending to our favourite stories!) YouTube Timestamps 0:00 — Intro: We lose the plot, rainbow Apple desktops & grandma's backyard pigeons 4:07 — Vibes of the week 9:25 — Q1 "I said my ex's name during sex... Should we talk about it?" 13:08 — Q2 "My partner wants to invite his ex to our wedding" 19:39 — Q3 "My mum keeps giving my brother money and I only just found out" 26:53 — Q4 "How do I tell my best friend her content looks too AI?" Keep your questions coming! Slide into the Life Uncut DMs at @lifeuncutpodcast on Instagram You can watch us on Youtube Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Hosted by Britt Hockley & Laura Byrne Produced by Sophie Nathan Video Produced by Vanessa Beckford & Lachy Pugsley Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Ask Uncut: He Invited His Ex To Our Wedding & Secret Sibling Favouritism?
  5. 4 Sept

    Offcuts: The Jet Ski Confession, A $11M Wedding Registry Scandal & Taking Your Bush To The Beach

    Hey Lifers! Welcome to Offcuts, the stuff that got left in the group chat because there just wasn't room for it in the main episode!  This week, our digital producer, Lachy, throws himself onto a live, in-person Love Is Blind-style dating show, and gives us the full debrief, jet ski confession included, plus the panicked moment he nearly sent an unsolicited message from the official Life Uncut Instagram account. Then we get into the internet's latest obsession: a woman who turned guests away from her "creative black tie" going-away party for showing up underdressed, sparking a debate on how strict is too strict when it comes to dress codes. We also unpack the backlash facing Annalynne McCord and Danny Cipriani, whose combined $11 million net worth didn't stop them itemising their wedding costs on a very public registry, right down to the $600 wedding cake. Then, a viral "5 hobbies you need for a balanced life" list sends Laura into a spiral about whether surviving the day counts as self-care, and we debate whether meditation really is the answer to everything (RIP Deepak Chopra's reputation). We close out bikini season-ready with a viral essay titled "I took my bush to the beach" and a very open conversation about pubic hair, laser regret, and who actually cares what's going on down there. Links: 5 Hobbies You’ll Ever Need https://www.instagram.com/reels/Da07uGbS1j0/ Bring your Bush to the Beach Article https://www.thecut.com/article/my-bush-at-the-beach-did-anyone-care.html Timestamps 0:00 — Lachy’s live dating show debrief: jet skis, red and green flags & an almost-sent nude text 12:43 — The viral "creative black tie" party where guests got turned away at the door 21:28 — The $11M wedding registry backlash 28:56 — The "5 hobbies you need" list that sent Laura into a rage spiral 40:44 — Bikini season: "I took my bush to the beach" Keep your questions coming! Slide into the Life Uncut DMs at @lifeuncutpodcast on Instagram You can watch us on Youtube Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Hosted by Britt Hockley & Laura Byrne Produced by Lachy Pugsley Video Produced by  Lachy Pugsley Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Offcuts: The Jet Ski Confession, A $11M Wedding Registry Scandal & Taking Your Bush To The Beach
  6. 3 Sept

    Starting Over At 36, Public Heartbreak and ‘Not Staying Stuck’ - Uncut with Rhi Disljenkovic

    Hey Lifers! Something we’ve spoken about a lot on this pod is how neither of us found the love we have now until we were well into our 30s. Every single day our DMs and inboxes are full of the same two questions. From women navigating the utter chaos of modern dating, wondering if they're doing it wrong, if they're too picky, if they've missed some invisible window. And from women sitting in relationships that are ‘fine’, not bad, just not right,  but worried about having to ‘start again’ when society is telling them the clock is ticking and beggars can't be choosers. We don't think it's crazy. We think knowing what you want, and refusing to compromise on it, might be the bravest thing you can do in your 30s. Which brings us to today's guest Rhi Disljenkovic. Many of us got to know Rhi when she turned up on our MAFS screens having already met the guy who was standing at the end of the aisle waiting for her. Rhi and Jeff left the experiment together. A few months ago, Rhi made the incredibly difficult decision to end her relationship with Jeff.In today’s episode, Rhi speaks about what actually happened behind the scenes, why she made the choice to leave a relationship that so many people online assumed was a fairytale, and what it's like restarting again in your mid-30s, in the public eye, while everyone else has an opinion. We get into the pressure of being an "inspirational" couple online, the difference between a bad relationship and a relationship that's just not right, the rumours she's had to sit with in silence, and why she's decided to start an egg freezing journey now. We chat: The sunk cost fallacy in relationships; do you settle, or start again? Whether Rhi and Jeff's shared history was picked up by producers, or pure coincidence The pressure of sharing a relationship online and feeling like a "fraud" Why she'd call it "a relationship that's just not right," not a bad relationship Boundaries she overlooked, and the rumours that were hardest to sit with Writing her breakup statement, and what it's like posting it knowing it'll be picked apart What life looks like for her now Her advice for anyone quietly questioning their own relationship You can find more from Rhi on her Instagram https://www.instagram.com/rhidisljenkovic/?hl=en Timestamps 0:00 — Intro: Rhi joins us to talk restarting in your mid-30s in public 5:08 — Rhi’s MAFS journey and their connection after the show 12:39 — Getting into the break up: wanting a future and feeling like a fraud 18:15 — Why it was "just not right," not bad, and how she chose to leave 25:17 — Writing the breakup statement and sitting with the rumours 30:01 — Choosing herself at 36, and starting her egg freezing journey Keep your questions coming! Slide into the Life Uncut DMs at @lifeuncutpodcast on Instagram You can watch us on Youtube Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Hosted by Britt Hockley & Laura Byrne Produced by Sophie Nathan Video Produced by Vanessa Beckford & Lachy Pugsley Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Starting Over At 36, Public Heartbreak and ‘Not Staying Stuck’ - Uncut with Rhi Disljenkovic
  7. 1 Sept

    A Prophet And The Influencer Who Got A Face Lift at 33

    Hey Lifers! Happy Wednesday! If anyone’s still sore from the Sydney Marathon, props to you we’re kicking off with why Laura will never be as good as you and a little throw back from veeeery early on in the pod (does anyone remember Britt’s marathon?) Plus we get into a random prophet "prediction" and unpacking the ultimate friendship litmus test that's been going around: Would you let your best friend babysit your kids?  Then the big one. After a Byron Bay influencer with 245k followers went public about her "mini" facelift at 33, we get into the convo we can't stop thinking about. Is it better for women to be completely transparent about the work they've had done, even if that means normalising facelifts at an age that once felt unthinkable? Or does that transparency tip into promotion, quietly telling a younger, audience that this is just what upkeep looks like now? And underneath all of it, the real question, how much of this is actually a choice, and how much is just the exhausting cost of trying to feel okay in your own skin after years of comparison culture, motherhood, and a beauty standard that keeps moving the goalposts younger. Plus of course of Suck and Sweet (which includes a huge career highlight hosting global superstar Alex Warren!!!!) YouTube Timestamps 0:00 — Intro: Marathons, Bob Cuts and a broken into Airbnb 7:20 — The Bondi Beach prophet who says Britt's joining the Marvel Universe 13:24 — The friendship "babysitter test": how do you know who your ride-or-die really is? 17:53 — Facelifts at 33: Unpacking the conversation and the shrinking cosmetic surgery age gap 40:19 — Suck and Sweet: The laptop lost everything + the Barbie Girl toddler moment 45:05 — Highlight of the week: Hosting Alex Warren!!! Listen to our episode with Alex Warren on Apple Spotify or Watch on Youtube Keep your questions coming! Slide into the Life Uncut DMs at @lifeuncutpodcast on Instagram You can watch us on Youtube Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Hosted by Britt Hockley & Laura Byrne Produced by Sophie Nathan Video Produced by Vanessa Beckford & Lachy Pugsley As always, tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    A Prophet And The Influencer Who Got A Face Lift at 33
  8. 30 Aug

    Ask Uncut: When Is Giving Your Number A Big NO, a $250K Fail & the Ex's Cat Who Won't Leave

    Welcome back to Ask Uncut where we answer your deepest, darkest and most burning questions! This week the Facebook discussion group has well and truly been lit up over one story in particular. When is shooting your shot absolutely not okay? Britt and Laura go head-to-head with veeery different opinions on this one that might even change your own mind. Vibes of the week: Britt:The Scream Murders: A True Teen Horror Story on Disney+/Hulu  Laura: Instagram Trial Reels (yes really) Then it's into your questions! Q1: IS IT OKAY TO GIVE YOUR NUMBER TO SOMEONE ON A DATE? The story that broke the Facebook group. A Lifer sitting near a couple on a clearly bad date wants to know if slipping her number to the guy is out of line. Britt and Laura go head-to-head on the etiquette of shooting your shot. Q2: HE BLEW HIS $250K INHERITANCE ON A CAMPER VAN & NOW HE WANTS TO MOVE IN, UNEMPLOYED. A Lifer's boyfriend quit his job, ditched his apartment and torched a quarter-million-dollar inheritance travelling... and now he's back, broke, and wants to move into her place while collecting unemployment benefits. Is this a dealbreaker? Q3: MY HUSBAND WON'T SUPPORT MY CAREER CHANGE. After a decade in healthcare, a Lifer found her true passion and was ready to retrain. Her husband shut it down over money. Britt and Laura weigh in on when it's worth the pay cut to chase what actually fulfils you. Q4: MY BOYFRIEND'S EX STILL HAS STUFF AT HIS HOUSE (INCLUDING HER CAT). Months after the breakup, his ex's jewellery, clothes, mugs and yes her actual cat are still scattered through his house, and she still has a key. Is it fair to ask him to finally clear it out? Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome back & the Facebook group drama that turned off comments 07:45 – Vibes of the week: The Scream Murders true crime doco and how Insta Trial Reels can help your brand grow 15.04  – Q1: Is it ever okay to give your number to someone on a date? 23:21 – Q2: Boyfriend blew $250K on a camper van, wants to move in unemployed 34:02 – Q3: Husband won't support her career change after 10 years in healthcare 42:47 – Q4: Boyfriend's ex still has stuff at his place including her cat See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Ask Uncut: When Is Giving Your Number A Big NO, a $250K Fail & the Ex's Cat Who Won't Leave

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Talking all things love, life, lust, and a bunch of other stuff. Nothing is off limits in this podcast that navigates relationships and dating in the modern day. Brought to you by two bachelor finalists Brittany Hockley and Laura Byrne.