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two childfree pals who just won’t stfu about the DINK (dual income, no kids) lifestyle ✨ the #1 followed childfree & DINK podcast✨ subscribe to our Patreon for ad-free episodes, bonus episodes, and more: https://www.patreon.com/dinkypod/membership Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

  1. Regretful Parents: “I Thought Life Was Worth Living… Now I’m Not So Sure” | Reddit Stories (Ft. The Girl With The List!)

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    Regretful Parents: “I Thought Life Was Worth Living… Now I’m Not So Sure” | Reddit Stories (Ft. The Girl With The List!)

    What happens when parenting regret doesn’t go away… it just evolves?In this episode, Erika is joined by fellow childfree girlie Abby Porter (aka z00mie, aka “the girl with the list”)  to unpack a brand-new post from a parent whose regret has shifted from newborn exhaustion to something much heavier: existential anxiety, fear about the future, and the pressure of shaping a child’s entire life. We discuss: • Why regret can become more philosophical as kids grow • The crushing pressure parents feel to “not mess up” their children • Anxiety about AI, social media, and the modern world kids are growing up in • The myth that motherhood comes naturally • Why some people realize the realities of parenting too late • How comparison culture and mommy influencers make parenting harder • Whether thinking deeply about parenthood BEFORE kids could prevent regret TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Intro + Meet Abby Porter 01:00 How parenting regret changes over time 03:00 Fear of traumatizing your kids (even if you’re a good parent) 05:00 Generational patterns, anxiety, and breaking cycles 07:00 Parenting anxiety about the future, AI, and safety 09:00 “Philosophical garbage” — unpacking that take 12:00 When motherhood isn’t what you expected 14:00 The myth that parenting comes naturally 16:00 Social media, mommy influencers, and comparison 18:00 Kids, screens, and the “iPad generation” 21:00 Therapist advice: stop spiraling or think deeper? 23:00 Why these conversations matter BEFORE having kids 24:50 Comment reactions + final thoughts FOLLOW ABBY PORTER YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@z00mie  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@z00mie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/z00mi.e/ MORE FROM US Website: https://www.dinkypod.com/ Patreon: https://patreon.com/dinkypod  regretful parents podcast, parenting regret discussion, motherhood reality, childfree podcast, parenting mental health, motherhood expectations, modern parenting struggles, should I have kids, honest parenting talk, parenting anxiety, raising kids today, social media parenting pressure, AI future kids Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    27 min
  2. Regretful Parents: “My Kid Is Ruining My Mental Health” | Reddit Stories

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    Regretful Parents: “My Kid Is Ruining My Mental Health” | Reddit Stories

    In this episode, Erika and Kristen read and react to a viral post from Reddit about a parent struggling with a chronically unhappy, clingy, sleep-hating four-year-old — and the toll it’s taking on her mental health.From colicky babies to nonstop whining, sleep deprivation, and the reality of parenting advice that doesn’t always help, this conversation dives into the messy truth behind “it gets better.” Along the way, the hosts share personal stories, debate nature vs. nurture, question whether some kids are just born grumpy, and wonder if one tiny old-soul child simply belongs on a bench in New York complaining about life. They also discuss:What chronic sleep deprivation does to parentsWhy some kids always seem happier The pressure to follow perfect parenting adviceWhy “just take them somewhere fun” isn’t always helpfulWhether kids actually enjoy things like trips to London or seeing Big Ben (apparently not 😅)The overstimulation nightmare of kid-heavy spacesAnd a wild intergenerational daycare idea spotted on TikTokIf you’ve ever wondered what happens when parenting isn’t magical — this episode is for you. If you enjoy the show and want to support it, check out our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dinkypod Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    13 min

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    Regretful Parents: “I've Been Scammed” | Reddit Stories

    In this episode, Kristen and Erika dive into another brutally honest story from the Regretful Parents series — this time from a 39-year-old single mother by choice who spent thousands on fertility treatment… and now says she feels trapped, broke, constantly sick, and deeply regretful. If you’ve ever felt pressure from society, family, media, or your “biological clock” — this episode is for you. We’re talking about:The reality of being a single mom by choiceFertility treatment expectations vs. realityPostpartum depression & long-term mental health strugglesWhy parents say “it’s worth it” (even when it’s not)The myth of “you’ll have so much support”Constant illness after daycareWhy society pushes women toward marriage & motherhoodDisney, fairy tales, and lifelong conditioningMarriage propaganda & pronatalist cultureWhy antidepressants are often recommended to struggling parentsAnd the uncomfortable truth: what if you simply don’t enjoy parenting?Subscribe for More New episodes weekly on:Regretful parents storiesChildfree lifeMarriage realitiesWomen opting out of traditional pathsFinancial & emotional freedom without kidsLike, comment, and share if this episode resonated with you. Learn more about Dinky: https://www.dinkypod.com  Support the show on Patreon for bonus content: https://patreon.com/dinkypod Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    16 min
  4. Regretful Parents: “My ADHD Wife Isn't Fun Anymore” | Reddit Stories

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    Regretful Parents: “My ADHD Wife Isn't Fun Anymore” | Reddit Stories

    ⚠️ Content Warning: Discussions of parental resentment, mental health crises, and implied threats of violence. In this episode, Erika and Kristen dive a viral Reddit post from an Australian father overwhelmed by parenting two ADHD children with an ADHD spouse. What starts as complaints about mess, noise, and burnout spirals into resentment, misogyny, and an alarming confession.As two hosts with ADHD, we unpack the realities of living with ADHD and why so many parents seem shocked by… having to parent??? Along the way, we discuss weaponized incompetence, emotional labor, mental health stigma, ADHD medication debates, and why therapy is not optional when resentment turns dangerous. Learn more about Dinky: https://www.dinkypod.com  Support the show on Patreon for bonus content: https://patreon.com/dinkypod And until next time…Don’t get pregnant. 😌 Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome to the Regretful Parents series 00:17 – “Parenting with ADHD is pretty rough” (yeah… we noticed) 01:06 – ADHD, pregnancy, resentment & mood swings 02:20 – Corporate burnout, part-time work, full-time expectations 03:23 – Gentle parenting, authority, and medicating ADHD kids 04:19 – “If I’d known, I would’ve run the other way” 05:03 – Losing respect for a spouse & blaming medical misogyny 06:40 – “I don’t like my kids” (🚩🚩🚩) 07:36 – Messy houses, unrealistic expectations & parenting delusion 08:14 – “Why can’t they just be normal?” 09:11 – Health decline, resentment, and isolation 09:53 – The sentence that made everything terrifying 10:31 – Therapy is not optional 11:26 – Reddit comments that actually offer solutions 12:32 – ADHD discipline, structure & realistic expectations 14:20 – Autonomy, accountability & parenting resentment 15:24 – ADHD, ODD, and opting out of parenthood 16:02 – Final thoughts: the kids didn’t ask to be here Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    17 min
  5. What Is Project 2026? The New Right-Wing Blueprint For America

    10 FEB

    What Is Project 2026? The New Right-Wing Blueprint For America

    Want more exclusive content from Dinky? Join the Patreon!  Today, we’re talking about Project 2026.   Two years ago, we covered everything you needed to know about Project 2025, the dystopian right-wing plan from the Heritage Foundation that was largely considered the blueprint for the Trump administration’s first year back in office.  But the Heritage Foundation didn’t stop there — no, their nightmare for America knows no bounds. So today, we’re unpacking everything you need to know about Project 2026, their new plans for chaos and destruction.  SOURCES: Project 2025 architects lay out 2026 policy vision How much of Project 2025 has actually been accomplished this year? TRIPS: Artsy Adventure In Vietnam With Erika Lavender Dreams & Riviera Nights With Erika GET MORE FROM DINKY: Treat yourself to new merch!  Wanna get your finances in order? Use our link to sign up for a FREE 34 day trial of YNAB (You Need A Budget) and support the show. Wanna connect with us on social media? You can find us on Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and Threads at @dinkypod. Follow us on YouTube. If you have a question or comment, email us at dinky@dinkypod.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    1 h y 22 min

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    Regretful Parents: “My Life Was Taken From Me” | Reddit Stories

    ⚠️Content Warning: This episode discusses disability, regret, resentment, and medical trauma. Listener discretion advised. In this episode, Kristen and Erika dive into a post titled “I dislike my disabled child and I am ashamed.” Pulled straight from Facebook — where it racked up over 5,000 likes — this anonymous post opens up an uncomfortable conversation about parenthood, disability, genetic testing, medical gaslighting, caregiver burnout, and the realities no one prepares parents for. We react in real time to a mother describing life after learning her child will be profoundly disabled, require 24/7 lifelong care, and never be independent. From missed genetic diagnoses and a lawsuit, to rage, grief, resentment, and shame — this episode tackles the things parents aren’t allowed to say out loud. We also unpack: Medical gaslighting of women by doctors Society’s obsession with “perfect motherhood” How people are brutally cruel to regretful parents online The myth that “everything will work out”  If you’re childfree, on the fence, or questioning the fantasy version of parenthood society sells us, this episode is for you. More episodes, tours, and unfiltered chaos: DinkyPod.com Join our childfree community: patreon.com/dinkypod Take a trip with us: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/dinky-wxarg  Learn more about our podcast: dinkypod.com  Love ya. Don’t get pregnant. 💬 Join the conversation: Do you think parents are allowed to talk honestly about regret? Where is the line between truth and taboo? Keywords / SEO Tags: regretful parents, disabled child, caregiver burnout, medical gaslighting, regretful motherhood, childfree podcast, parenting regret, genetic testing failure, NIPT test lawsuit, disability and parenting, Facebook confession, honest parenting podcast, anti natalism, childfree by choice, Dinky Podcast Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    10 min
  7. Regretful Parents: “I've Always Loved Kids — I Just Hate My Own” | Reddit Stories

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    Regretful Parents: “I've Always Loved Kids — I Just Hate My Own” | Reddit Stories

    This one has a twist ending! In this episode of the Regretful Parents series, Erika and Kristen react to a Reddit post titled “I genuinely hate my baby.” What starts as a familiar story about parenting regret, sleep deprivation, and postpartum mental health quickly turns into total chaos when the hosts realize the post wasn’t written by a mother — but by a first-time father (FTF). This episode dives deep into the realities of new parent burnout, baby sleep training, cry it out (CIO) methods, and the crushing isolation that comes with being an expat parent with no support system. The Reddit post describes a 33-year-old parent with a 4.5-month-old baby who hasn’t slept more than two hours at a time, leading to severe mental health struggles, weight loss, emotional breakdowns at work, and intense regret over becoming a parent. Along the way, Erika and Kristen unpack: The emotional toll of sleep deprivation and newborn parenting Whether sleep training actually works or causes harm Why parenting forums are obsessed with acronyms (FTF, CIO, PLS, TCB… seriously, why?) The differences in how mothers vs fathers are treated when they struggle mentally How parental regret is discussed (or ignored) online Why so many overwhelmed parents turn to churches, daycare, or community support just to survive And how being child-free offers a radically different perspective on parenting culture This episode blends dark humor, brutal honesty, and social commentary while exploring topics like postpartum depression (PPD), parenting expectations, gender roles, and the myth that having children automatically brings fulfillment. If you’re interested in: regretful parents new parent mental health baby sleep training parenting regret stories child-free commentary Reddit parenting stories first time father struggles postpartum depression discussions …this episode is for you. 👍 Like, comment, and subscribe for more conversations about regret and choosing a childfree life. Join our childfree community: patreon.com/dinkypod Take a trip with us: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/dinky-wxarg  Learn more about our podcast: dinkypod.com  Love ya. Don’t get pregnant. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    15 min
  8. Regretful Parents: “Don't Do It, Unless...” | Reddit Stories

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    Regretful Parents: “Don't Do It, Unless...” | Reddit Stories

    In this episode, Erika and Kristen read and discuss a post from the Regretful Parents sub titled “Don’t Do It Folks.” The post details a chaotic day of parenting young children and offers practical advice for people who are considering having kids. Our conversation covers the realities of daily childcare, loss of free time, unequal caregiving labor, financial strain, and how resentment can build. We break down the post’s advice for fence sitters, including the importance of firsthand childcare experience, realistic expectations, financial support, and reliable help from partners or family. The episode also explores broader themes around decision-making, comparing parenthood to other long-term commitments people often underestimate. Listener comments from the subreddit add perspective on money stress, partner dynamics, and unmet expectations after having children. This episode is for fence sitters, childfree listeners, and parents looking for honest discussions about parenting, regret, and life choices. Topics discussed: Regretful Parents subreddit stories Parenting stress and burnout Fence sitting and deciding whether to have kids Childcare labor and resentment Financial pressure and parenting Childfree perspectives Keywords: regretful parents, parenting regret, fence sitter, childfree, deciding whether to have kids, parenting burnout, regretful parents subreddit, childfree podcast, parenting realities, DINK lifestyle Join our childfree community: patreon.com/dinkypod Take a trip with us: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/dinky-wxarg  Learn more about our podcast: dinkypod.com  Love ya. Don’t get pregnant. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

    13 min
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two childfree pals who just won’t stfu about the DINK (dual income, no kids) lifestyle ✨ the #1 followed childfree & DINK podcast✨ subscribe to our Patreon for ad-free episodes, bonus episodes, and more: https://www.patreon.com/dinkypod/membership Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dinky--5953015/support.

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  • Creador
    Dinky
  • Años de actividad
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodios
    125
  • Clasificación
    Explícito
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    © Dinky
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