WhatFriendsDo: Kitchen Chats

Aimee Kandrac
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When a major life event occurs, you call your friends and you gather in the kitchen to provide support, share stories, create nourishment, and start to get life taken care of. The Kitchen Chats podcast is all about those moments. On each episode WhatFriendsDo CEO Aimee Kandrac and a guest sit down in her kitchen to share actionable, accessible advice that can help you, your friends, and your family navigate the difficult times in life when you may not know what to do next. You'll get ideas for how to help someone in your own life who may be struggling, and we'll destigmatize asking for help when you're the one in a tough situation.

  1. 05/05/2025

    Navigating the Quiet House: Empty Nests and Solo Living

    This episode of Kitchen Chats features host Aimee Kandrac and her friend Shannon Cohen discussing the multifaceted experience of empty nesting and living alone. They share their personal journeys of navigating the transition as their children went off to college, highlighting the initial strangeness of a quieter house and the adjustment to new routines. The conversation touches on relatable topics such as the changed grocery shopping habits, the shift in knowing their children's whereabouts, and the challenge of moving from active parenting to a more supportive role. Aimee and Shannon also delve into the social dynamics of being in a different life stage than some friends, the unique experience of adult children returning home, and practical tips for those newly navigating an empty nest or solo living. These tips include managing phone settings for emergencies, establishing emergency contact protocols, understanding legal documents like medical power of attorney, and navigating college-related access. They also explore the spectrum of ongoing parental involvement and share humorous anecdotes about the differences in moving their children into college. Ultimately, the episode offers a warm and insightful look at the adjustments, challenges, and unexpected perks of this significant life transition, emphasizing the importance of self-care and community support.

    39 min

  2. 19/03/2025

    Retreating after a major event

    Host Aimee Kandrac and Dr. Samantha Franklin about the importance of allowing oneself to retreat after major life events. Here's a breakdown of the key themes and points discussed: Key Themes: The Validity of Retreating: The episode emphasizes that it's perfectly acceptable and often necessary to withdraw from social interactions after experiencing significant life changes. Dr. Franklin, a self-proclaimed introvert, explains how retreating provides comfort, control, and a space for emotional regulation. The hosts discuss how major life events can make individuals feel as though their lives have stopped, while the world around them continues, leading to feelings of isolation and a need to retreat. Communication Challenges and Boundaries: The conversation addresses the difficulties of communicating personal struggles and the importance of respecting boundaries. They discuss the challenges of sharing sensitive information, the potential for gossip, and the need to be selective about who one confides in. The hosts highlight the importance of being honest about one's needs and limitations, and the validity of saying "no" to social engagements. Supporting Others in Retreat: The episode provides practical tips for supporting individuals who are retreating, such as sending thoughtful text messages, delivering porch drop-offs, and respecting their need for solitude. They discuss the importance of being mindful of boundaries and avoiding unsolicited advice or intrusions. The hosts emphasize the value of simple gestures, such as sending books or gift cards for massages, as ways to show support without overwhelming the individual. Grief and Emotional Processing: The conversation touches on the nature of grief, acknowledging that it can arise from various life events, not just death. They discuss the importance of allowing oneself and others ample time to grieve and process emotions. The hosts share personal anecdotes about the difficulties of navigating social interactions while grieving. The importance of listening: The importance of listening to the verbal and non-verbal cues of others. The importance of whole body listening. The importance of boundaries: Respecting others boundaries. Creating and maintaining personal boundaries. Key Points: Retreating is a valid coping mechanism for dealing with major life transitions. Communication after traumatic events can be difficult. Respecting boundaries is essential for supporting those in retreat. Simple gestures of support can be highly meaningful. Grief is a complex and individual process. The importance of self care. The importance of not taking things personal. This detailed summary captures the essence of the podcast episode and its valuable insights into navigating major life transitions.

    41 min

  3. 25/02/2025

    The Importance of Team

    This conversation between Aimee and Charlie explores the importance of teamwork during major life transitions. Here's a summary of their discussion: Teamwork Beyond Sports: While the concept of a team is often associated with sports, they emphasize its relevance in navigating life's challenges. Just as a race car driver relies on a pit crew, individuals facing transitions need a support system. Defining Your Team: They discuss the different roles people play on your team, from close family and friends to professionals like doctors or therapists. The team can also include unexpected individuals who offer support in surprising ways. The Importance of Asking for Help: They acknowledge the difficulty of asking for help, often due to feelings of vulnerability or fear of rejection. They stress that allowing others to help is beneficial for both the giver and the receiver. Giving Others the Opportunity to Help: They highlight the importance of being specific when asking for help and recognizing the unique gifts and talents of those in your support system. This allows people to contribute in ways that are meaningful to them. The Role of Grief in Seeking Help: They explore the connection between grief and the reluctance to ask for help. Grief over the loss of a previous life, independence, or capabilities can make it harder to reach out. Practicing Asking for Help: They suggest that practicing asking for help in small ways can make it easier to do so during larger crises. Just as athletes train for competition, individuals should practice building and utilizing their support system. Unexpected Support: They share stories of receiving help from unexpected sources, emphasizing the importance of being open to support from various avenues. Vulnerability and Connection: They discuss the vulnerability involved in asking for help and the importance of fostering strong connections with others to build a reliable support network. Kitchen Moments: They define "kitchen moments" as significant conversations that take place in an intimate setting, often involving difficult or life-changing news. Charlie shares his "kitchen moment" of receiving his diabetes diagnosis. This conversation highlights the value of community, vulnerability, and recognizing the interconnectedness of human experience when navigating life's inevitable transitions.

    44 min

  4. 19/02/2025

    The Multifaceted Nature of Grief

    This podcast episode of Kitchen Chats explores the multifaceted nature of grief, emphasizing that it's not solely tied to death but arises from various life transitions like divorce, empty nesting, or even positive changes. Host Aimee Kandrac and guest, Ashley Parsons, discuss how the commonly referenced "five stages of grief" are often misapplied and can make people feel like they're grieving incorrectly. They highlight that grief and joy can coexist, and asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. The conversation offers practical advice for supporting someone grieving, stressing the importance of empathy, active listening, and respecting individual grieving processes. They suggest offering concrete help, like cooking or running errands, and acknowledge the vulnerability involved in both needing and offering support. Ultimately, the podcast encourages listeners to expand their understanding of grief, embrace its complexities, and prioritize self-care while navigating life's inevitable changes.

    42 min

  5. 11/02/2025

    The Emotional Toll of Moving

    This conversation between two friends, Aimee and Kristi, delves into the emotional and practical aspects of moving. This conversation provides a comprehensive overview of the many facets of moving and offers practical advice for both those who are moving and those who want to support them. Emotional Attachment to Homes: They emphasize the strong emotional connections people have with their homes, filled with memories and personal significance. This makes moving a complex process, even when it's desired. The Difficulty of Purging: Letting go of possessions, especially when tied to loved ones who have passed, is emotionally taxing. Christy shares her experience with her grandmother's belongings and the challenge of deciding what to keep and what to discard. The Importance of Empathy and Patience: They stress the need for empathy and patience when supporting someone who is moving. Recognizing that everyone processes change differently and at their own pace is crucial. Practical Ways to Help: They brainstorm specific ways to assist someone moving, including: Physical Help: Packing, cleaning, decluttering, moving plants, staging the home for sale. Emotional Support: Listening to stories, offering encouragement, providing a sounding board for frustrations. Practical Support: Providing gift cards for meals, setting up utilities in the new home, cleaning the refrigerator in the new home and stocking it with essentials, providing a "first night" kit with basic supplies. Financial Support: Offering advice on financial decisions related to the move. Understanding Different Types of Movers: They discuss the various emotional states of people moving. Some are excited, some are reluctant, and others are grieving the loss of a loved one. Tailoring support to the individual's needs is key. The Importance of Asking Specific Questions: Instead of a general "Let me know if I can do anything," they recommend offering concrete suggestions for help. This makes it easier for the person moving to accept assistance. Offering Help Multiple Times: Recognizing that needs change throughout the moving process, they suggest checking in with the person multiple times, even if they initially decline help. Avoiding Unhelpful Actions: They caution against bringing more physical items to someone who is already in the process of decluttering. The Value of Shared Experiences: Sharing personal anecdotes of moving can help the person feel less alone and provide practical tips. Seeking Advice from Others: They suggest consulting with people who have experience with moving or similar life transitions for guidance on how to best support the person.

    52 min

  6. 03/02/2025

    The complexities of divorce

    This is a powerful conversation about the complexities of divorce and the importance of support systems. Here are some key takeaways: The Emotional Toll: Divorce is a deeply emotional experience, often involving grief, sadness, anger, and feelings of rejection. The Impact on Social Life: Navigating social interactions after separation can be challenging. People often feel the pressure to explain their situation while simultaneously wanting to protect their privacy. The Importance of Support: Friends and family play a crucial role in providing emotional support. Checking in regularly, offering practical assistance, and creating safe spaces for emotional expression are invaluable. Supporting Children: Children are significantly impacted by divorce. Parents need to be mindful of their children's feelings and provide them with emotional support and stability. Communication and Boundaries: Open and honest communication with friends and family is essential. Setting boundaries and communicating your needs regarding information sharing is crucial. This conversation highlights the importance of empathy, understanding, and compassion when supporting someone going through a divorce. It emphasizes the need to be mindful of the emotional impact on both the individual and their children.

    47 min

  7. 27/01/2025

    The First Person I Called

    This is a fascinating conversation between two sisters! Here's a summary of their discussion: The Impact of Major Life Events: They delve into the emotional and practical challenges of navigating significant life transitions, such as a cancer diagnosis, divorce, and the subsequent emotional and social isolation. The Role of Support Systems: Stephanie emphasizes the importance of trusted confidantes and the delicate balance of offering support while respecting boundaries. They discuss the concept of "kitchen counter" vs. "sidewalk" relationships, highlighting the varying levels of intimacy and information sharing. Communication Strategies: They explore communication strategies, such as "invisible ink" messages and prepared responses to unexpected questions, to navigate social interactions during difficult times. Supporting Children: They discuss the importance of providing emotional support to children during parental separation and encouraging them to build their own support networks. Self-Care: The sisters emphasize the importance of self-care and prioritizing one's own well-being, drawing parallels to the airplane safety instructions of putting on your own oxygen mask first. This conversation offers valuable insights into the complexities of navigating major life transitions, the importance of strong support systems, and the power of open and honest communication.

    47 min

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    Major Life Transitions

    Kitchen Chats is a podcast where friends come together to support each other through major life transitions. This season, host Aimee Kandrac shares her own experiences with personal challenges, including: Empty nesting: Dealing with the emotional impact of her youngest child leaving for college. Health concerns: Discovering a potential tumor and undergoing surgery. Divorce: Unexpectedly separating from her husband. Moving: Selling her family home after the separation. Aimee emphasizes that while these events were incredibly difficult, she ultimately found healing and happiness with the support of her friends. She describes the metaphor of a broken bowl being mended with gold, symbolizing how her friends helped her rebuild her life. The podcast aims to provide listeners with insights into navigating challenging life transitions and encourages them to support their own friends during difficult times. Key takeaways: Friendship is crucial: The importance of supportive friends during life's challenges. Healing takes time: Acknowledging that recovery from significant life events is a process. Hope for the future: Even after difficult experiences, it's possible to find happiness and rebuild.

    6 min
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When a major life event occurs, you call your friends and you gather in the kitchen to provide support, share stories, create nourishment, and start to get life taken care of. The Kitchen Chats podcast is all about those moments. On each episode WhatFriendsDo CEO Aimee Kandrac and a guest sit down in her kitchen to share actionable, accessible advice that can help you, your friends, and your family navigate the difficult times in life when you may not know what to do next. You'll get ideas for how to help someone in your own life who may be struggling, and we'll destigmatize asking for help when you're the one in a tough situation.

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  • Creador
    Aimee Kandrac
  • Años de actividad
    2022 - 2025
  • Episodios
    34
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