As I Live and Grieve®

Kathy Gleason, Kelly Keck - CoHosts
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It’s time for grief to come out of the basement, or wherever we have stuffed it to avoid talking about it. When you suffer a loss you need support, comfort, and a safe place to heal. What you are experiencing is painful but normal, unique but similar, surreal but very, very real. As grief advocates we understand and want to provide support, knowledge and comfort as you continue to live and grieve. Host, Kathy Gleason; Producer, Kelly Keck. www.asiliveandgrieve.com

  1. 15.07.2025

    Embracing Grief Through Spiritual Formation

    Send us some LOVE! The journey through grief often challenges our deepest spiritual beliefs. When devastating loss shatters our world, many find themselves wrestling with profound questions about meaning, purpose, and connection. What happens when our faith feels broken alongside our hearts? Becky McCoy knows this territory well. After losing her husband while eight months pregnant with their second child, she embarked on a decade-long journey of rediscovery—not just of herself, but of her spiritual foundations.  This conversation explores how spiritual formation offers pathways through grief that honor our full emotional experience. Becky shares how healthy anger acknowledges the wrongness of our loss, while teaching us that not all suffering has meaning or cause. This perspective liberates us from the exhausting cycle of guilt, shame, and self-blame that often accompanies grief. We delve into practical spiritual practices—from traditional meditation and prayer to creative expressions like storytelling and art appreciation—that help us process grief in body, mind, and spirit.  For anyone questioning their faith after loss or seeking deeper meaning in their suffering, this episode offers compassionate guidance. Whether you're drawn to traditional spiritual practices or searching for new ways to connect with yourself and something greater, Becky's insights illuminate how spiritual formation can transform grief's darkness into unexpected wisdom. Contact: www.asiliveandgrieve.com info@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve YouTube:  asiliveandgrieve TikTok: @asiliveandgrieve To Contact Becky: Becky Mccoy's Website Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Threads Credits:  Music by Kevin MacLeod  Copyright 2020, by As I Live and Grieve The views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.

    32 Min.

  2. 08.07.2025

    When Little Hearts Break

    Send us some LOVE! Sarah Mayfield brings a uniquely powerful perspective to the conversation about children's grief – she's both a former elementary school counselor and a bereaved mother who watched her four-year-old son navigate the sudden loss of his younger brother. When Sarah's 18-month-old son Elliot died unexpectedly in his sleep, she faced not only her own devastating grief but also the challenge of helping her living son Bradley understand and process what had happened. Despite her professional background, nothing had prepared her for guiding a child through sibling loss while managing her own raw emotions. What makes this episode particularly valuable is Sarah's candid sharing about the realities of childhood grief. She challenges the well-meaning but dismissive comments like "he's too young to remember" or "kids are resilient" that often minimize children's grief experiences. Instead, she offers practical insights about using direct language, answering repeated questions with patience, and creating meaningful rituals that honor the person who died. Sarah's experience led her to write "The Sure Thing," a beautiful children's book that illustrates how a child can continue to "live that love" for a sibling who has died. Beyond the touching story itself, the book provides valuable resources for grieving families, including 30 suggested activities for honoring lost loved ones and templates for children to express their feelings. Perhaps the most comforting message Sarah shares is that while the trauma of loss may diminish with time, the love never does.  Contact: www.asiliveandgrieve.com info@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve YouTube:  asiliveandgrieve TikTok: @asiliveandgrieve To Reach Sarah: https://www.livethatlove.com/ Credits:  Music by Kevin MacLeod  Copyright 2020, by As I Live and Grieve The views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.

    34 Min.
  3. Grow In Your Grief

    01.07.2025

    Grow In Your Grief

    Send us some LOVE! When was the last time you found yourself in a safe space to talk about grief? In this heartfelt conversation, Kathy welcomes back Nick Gaylord, host of "Our Dead Dads" podcast, for a candid exploration of grief community and the transformative power of shared stories. Nick opens up about creating his unconventionally-named podcast after his father's death left him struggling with unexpected anger and communication challenges. Despite seeking therapy himself, he recognized how many people lack access to professional grief support due to financial barriers or societal stigma. His solution? Build a platform where anyone could find connection through honest grief conversations without judgment or cost. The discussion takes a powerful turn when Nick shares insights from his most impactful interviews—conversations with Gabby Petito's parents and Sandy Hook father Robbie Parker. These stories highlight how public tragedies create additional layers of grief, yet also showcase the resilience of those who transform devastating loss into meaningful action. Nick's upcoming participation in the Gabby Petito Foundation's charity golf event demonstrates how grief communities extend beyond podcast conversations into real-world connection and purpose. Perhaps most revealing is Kathy's personal evolution with death conversations. She recounts arranging "escape calls" to avoid her mother's funeral planning discussions, only to later find herself hosting a grief podcast after gradual exposure through hospice work transformed her relationship with mortality. This journey from avoidance to advocacy perfectly captures why these conversations matter—they create safe spaces for others still struggling to face their grief. Both hosts emphasize that grief isn't something we can outrun or drink away—it must be processed and moved through. As Nick poignantly puts it, "If we're going to jump off the cliff into the abyss, then let's all hold hands on the way down."  Contact: www.asiliveandgrieve.com info@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve YouTube:  asiliveandgrieve TikTok: @asiliveandgrieve To Reach Nick: Website:  http://www.ourdeaddads.com E-mail : ourdeaddadspodcast@gmail.com   Credits:  Music by Kevin MacLeod  Copyright 2020, by As I Live and Grieve The views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.

    37 Min.

  4. 24.06.2025

    Widows Who Wine

    Send us some LOVE! When Pam Baker's husband John was diagnosed with glioblastoma, an aggressive form of brain cancer with no cure, their lives changed forever. For three years, she navigated the complex terrain of caregiving for a terminally ill spouse while raising four children, including two with cystic fibrosis. The journey transformed her understanding of grief and ultimately sparked a mission to create spaces where widows could genuinely connect. "I didn't fit in the single women scene because they're talking about how much they hate their ex-husbands, and I didn't really fit in the couple scene because I'm like a third wheel," Pam explains. This realization led her to create Widows Who Wine (W-I-N-E), a community that started with a simple Facebook post and has grown to nearly 350 members. Unlike traditional grief support groups, which Pam found often kept people stuck in their grief, her community focuses on building friendships and finding joy while acknowledging the shared experience of loss. The concept proved so successful she's developed an app to help widows connect across geographic boundaries. During our conversation, Pam shares the deeply personal coping mechanisms that helped her survive, including late-night crying sessions to specific songs that allowed her to empty her emotional "rain barrel." We explore the myth that anticipatory grief makes post-death mourning easier, the challenges of raising children through loss, and how Pam channeled her experience into practical resources like her book "Where's the Key to the Safe" and podcasts that preserve authentic stories of loved ones. Connect with Pam at widowswhowine.com, find her app in major app stores, or read her book "Where's the Key to the Safe" available on Amazon. Her story reminds us that while grief never truly leaves us, we can learn to live alongside it in ways that honor our losses while creating space for new connections and even joy. Copyright 2020, by As I Live and Grieve The views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.

    34 Min.

  5. 21.06.2025

    How the Living Can Help the Dead

    Send us some LOVE! What happens when we die? And more importantly, what happens when souls get stuck between worlds? In this mind-expanding conversation, metaphysical author Tina Erwin pulls back the veil between life and death, sharing profound insights gained from helping thousands of ghosts cross over. Drawing from her experiences as a naval officer who delivered death notifications and her own psychic abilities, Tina reveals the physics of death with remarkable clarity. When her six-year-old niece died suddenly, Tina's understanding of the afterlife transformed from theoretical to deeply personal. She explains how many souls, particularly children, accident victims, and those who die by suicide, often don't realize they've died and remain confused in what she calls the "fourth dimension" – a transitional space between our physical world and the light beyond. The stories Tina shares are both heartbreaking and healing: a producer killed in a car accident who can't accept her death because of pending appointments; a little girl who follows different children home from school seeking connection; and infants who remain with their mothers or siblings, causing unexplained sensations of "not being alone" in their bodies. Most powerfully, Tina explains how anyone can help their departed loved ones cross over through what she calls "The Crossing Over Prayer" – no medium required. This compassionate act not only helps the deceased but often brings tremendous healing to those left behind. When a ghost crosses over into the embracing light, both the departed soul and those still grieving experience a profound shift. As Tina puts it, "It's not quantifiable, but something changes." Whether you're a skeptic or a believer, this conversation connects the dots between physics, spirituality, and the human experience of grief. By understanding what happens after death, we can transform our relationship with loss and perhaps find new ways to help those we love – even beyond the veil. Visit GhostHelpers.com to access Tina's books, the Crossing Over Prayer, and resources to help both you and your loved ones find peace. Contact: www.asiliveandgrieve.com info@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve YouTube:  asiliveandgrieve TikTok: @asiliveandgrieve To Contact Tina: Tina Erwin's Website Youtube LinkedIn Credits:  Music by Kevin MacLeod  Copyright 2020, by As I Live and Grieve The views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.

    30 Min.

  6. 17.06.2025

    It's Okay to Laugh

    Send us some LOVE! Have you ever felt guilty for laughing while grieving? That moment when humor breaks through your sorrow, and you wonder if it's okay to smile? Nancy Weil, with over 18 years in grief support, joins us to explore why these moments aren't just okay—they're necessary for healing. Nancy shares the science behind laughter's healing power during grief: it boosts our depleted immune systems, reduces stress hormones, and improves memory retention when we're struggling with "grief fog." But beyond the physiological benefits, laughter serves as a momentary respite, bringing us into the present when grief typically has us looking backward with regret or forward with fear. As Nancy explains, "When we laugh, we're here now and we get relief for a moment." The conversation flows naturally into the importance of storytelling and creating rituals. Nancy encourages grievers to collect and share stories about their loved ones—not just the milestone moments, but the small, everyday details that truly capture who they were. These stories become treasured inheritances for future generations and help us process our grief by celebrating the fullness of our loved ones' lives. Similarly, personal rituals—whether visiting a gravesite, baking a favorite recipe, or simply raising a cup of coffee in remembrance—provide meaningful ways to honor our connections. Throughout the episode, host Kathy shares her own experience of laughing spontaneously during her husband's funeral when a friend placed a cup of Tim Horton's coffee on the podium—a meaningful symbol of their daily ritual together. This moment of unexpected joy amidst profound grief perfectly illustrates Nancy's message: grief contains multitudes of emotions that can coexist, sometimes in the same moment. Nancy concludes with her motto, "You don't have to grieve alone," and invites listeners to join her free online grief support group. In community, what seems unbearable becomes bearable as we hold space for each other's pain and, sometimes, unexpected moments of joy.  Contact: www.asiliveandgrieve.com info@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve YouTube:  asiliveandgrieve TikTok: @asiliveandgrieve To Contact  Nancy: Email: nancy@nancyweil.com Website: thelaughacademy.com Credits:  Music by Kevin MacLeod  Copyright 2020, by As I Live and Grieve The views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.

    30 Min.

  7. 14.06.2025

    The Alchemy of Loss

    Send us some LOVE! What happens when we finally stop running from our grief and instead learn to metabolize it? Grief Tender, Ayla Casey, joins us for a soul-nourishing conversation about reclaiming our power in the face of profound loss. At the heart of this episode lies a revolutionary perspective: our grief, when properly tended, can transform into nourishment rather than remain as pain. Casey eloquently describes how "healing begins within," drawing a powerful parallel between physical wound healing and emotional recovery. Just as a wound must heal from the inside out to prevent infection, our grief requires acknowledgment at its core before authentic healing can occur. The concept of "metabolizing grief" emerges as a centerpiece of our conversation. Casey explains that grief lives in our bodies and, like food, must be processed to provide sustenance. When we create space for our grief to move through us rather than becoming stagnant, it can transform into other expressions of love—whether through advocacy, creative endeavors, or deeper human connection. Many of us have unconsciously "outsourced our power" by numbing or masking our emotions, especially during difficult seasons of caregiving or loss. Casey shares her personal journey of maintaining self-care practices like yoga and journaling while supporting her husband through terminal cancer. These weren't luxuries but necessities that enabled her to remain present through his illness and her subsequent grief. For those feeling stuck or uncertain how to move forward, Casey offers a refreshing invitation: be curious. There's no one-size-fits-all approach to grieving, but there are countless modalities and practices available to explore. Whether through professional support, community connection, or personal rituals, the path forward becomes clearer when we listen to what our bodies and hearts truly need. Reach out to Ayla at hello@alchemyforhumanhearts.com to learn about her 90-day mentorship program, end-of-life doula services, or her special workshop for listeners called "The Return Session" focused on reclaiming your personal power during grief. Contact: www.asiliveandgrieve.com info@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve YouTube:  asiliveandgrieve TikTok: @asiliveandgrieve To Contact Ayla: Ayla Casey's Website Instagram LinkedIn Reddit Substack Credits:  Music by Kevin MacLeod  Copyright 2020, by As I Live and Grieve The views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.

    29 Min.

  8. 10.06.2025

    Reliving His Story

    Send us some LOVE! The space between devastating loss and finding meaning again often seems impossible to navigate. Steve Gamlin takes us on his extraordinary journey through that landscape after suddenly losing his wife Tina in December 2023 while traveling abroad. With remarkable candor and unexpected moments of joy, Steve reveals how their 17.5-year love story continues beyond physical separation. What makes this conversation truly special is Steve's ability to intertwine heart-wrenching grief with profound gratitude. He shares how Tina had gently prepared him for her passing, saying "I'm going first because I don't want to be here without you." Even as he processed the shock of her sudden death, Steve discovered how she'd already been his "blue-eyed angel" - leaving him with exactly what he needed when he found himself alone in a foreign country. The emotional centerpiece of their story involves sticky notes - the small, everyday expressions of love they exchanged throughout their relationship. After Tina's passing, Steve discovered she'd kept every single one he'd written her. He transformed these treasured mementos into a framed collage, creating both a tribute and a tangible connection to their enduring bond. Steve explains how visualization techniques helped him process grief and find direction when everything seemed lost. His approach focuses not just on material goals but on emotional wellbeing, core values, and meaningful connections - elements that become even more crucial when navigating loss. He offers practical insights for listeners struggling to recognize signs from loved ones who have passed, encouraging us to quiet the analytical mind and simply be present to the nudges and coincidences that might actually be something more. Contact: www.asiliveandgrieve.com info@asiliveandgrieve.com Facebook:  As I Live and Grieve Instagram:  @asiliveandgrieve YouTube:  asiliveandgrieve TikTok: @asiliveandgrieve To Contact Steve: Steve Gamlin's Website Facebook Twitter / X Pinterest Youtube Instagram Credits:  Music by Kevin MacLeod  Copyright 2020, by As I Live and Grieve The views expressed by guests are their own and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent.

    31 Min.
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It’s time for grief to come out of the basement, or wherever we have stuffed it to avoid talking about it. When you suffer a loss you need support, comfort, and a safe place to heal. What you are experiencing is painful but normal, unique but similar, surreal but very, very real. As grief advocates we understand and want to provide support, knowledge and comfort as you continue to live and grieve. Host, Kathy Gleason; Producer, Kelly Keck. www.asiliveandgrieve.com

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