Feminist Wellness

Béa Victoria Albina
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You weren't born anxious, depleted, and second-guessing yourself. You were taught to be. The Feminist Wellness podcast is where nervous system science meets the truth nobody wants to say out loud: most of what you think is "self-care" is just performing wellness while your body stays stuck in survival mode. Host Béa Victoria Albina - NP, life coach, and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner - breaks down the codependent, perfectionist, and people-pleasing habits that keep you trapped in what she calls Emotional Outsourcing™: constantly looking outside yourself for permission, validation, and proof that you're enough. This isn't another show about bubble baths and boundaries. It's about understanding why your body says yes when you mean no, why rest feels impossible, and how to stop treating your own needs like an inconvenience. If you're done white-knuckling your way through life, performing okayness while feeling like you're constantly failing some invisible test, this show will help you see what's actually happening - and what becomes possible when you stop abandoning yourself to please everyone else. New episodes weekly. Start anywhere.

  1. VOR 1 TAG ·  BONUS

    Can You Be Codependent Without Trauma? + Why Noise Triggers Your Nervous System

    Tenderoni Hotline #29: Can you be codependent without trauma, and why does something as small as noise send your nervous system into overdrive? In this Tenderoni Hotline episode, we explore the reality that you do not need a dramatic or chaotic backstory to learn self-abandonment. Many of us grew up in loving, “normal” homes and still developed patterns of people-pleasing, overthinking, and emotional outsourcing because of the environments, expectations, and systems we were shaped inside of. This episode breaks down how codependent habits form through conditioning, nervous system wiring, and cultural forces like patriarchy, and why your body can still feel unsafe even when your mind knows you are okay. We also dive into the neuroscience of sound sensitivity and hypervigilance, unpacking why unpredictable noise can feel so activating and what your system is actually trying to do for you. You will learn practical, body-based and thought-based tools to begin shifting these patterns so you can feel more grounded, less reactive, and more connected to yourself. If you have ever felt exhausted from over-functioning, stuck in cycles of second-guessing, or confused about why you struggle despite having a “good” childhood, this episode will help you make sense of it with compassion and clarity. Got a question for the Tenderoni Hotline? Send it to me at: podcast@beatrizalbina.com Learn more about my courses and apply here: https://www.beatrizalbina.com/courses Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en "

    25 Min.

  2. VOR 6 TAGEN

    Self-Resourcing: The Path to True Interdependence (Part 2)

    #374: What if the reason your relationships feel so intense, fragile, or all-consuming isn’t because you care too much… but because your sense of safety is tied to them? And what if self-resourcing could actually deepen connections instead of taking them away? In this episode, I build on our conversation about self-resourcing and answer the big question so many people have: Does learning to have your own back mean you’ll need people less? Join me this week as I walk you through how emotional outsourcing shows up in relationships, why it creates anxiety and disconnection, and how self-resourcing shifts the entire dynamic. You’ll learn how self-resourcing creates the internal stability needed for true interdependence, not isolation. I also explore the difference between needing and depending, how urgency gets mistaken for love, and what it actually looks like to stay present, grounded, and connected without abandoning yourself. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://beatrizalbina.com/374 Order your copy of End Emotional Outsourcing here: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/ Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en Mentioned in this episode: Grab my book, End Emotional Outsourcing! Please support my new book, End Emotional Outsourcing, by ordering a copy and reviewing it on Amazon or GoodReads! You can leave a review even if you bought it somewhere else. Bring your screenshot to: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/ for gifts and raffle goodies. Thank you for helping this work ripple out. EEO Pre-Sale

    18 Min.

  3. 14. APR. ·  BONUS

    What to Do When Family Triggers Old Patterns

    Tenderoni Hotline #28: You’ve done the work. You’ve built self-awareness, learned how to regulate your nervous system, and started to trust yourself more deeply. Then you go home and suddenly you’re people-pleasing, over-functioning, and second-guessing everything again. If that feels familiar, this episode is for you. In this Tenderoni Hotline episode, we’re talking about what actually happens when you return to the environments that shaped your patterns and how to stay connected to yourself without self-abandoning in the process. This isn’t about being perfectly healed. It’s about shifting out of autopilot and into conscious, self-honoring choice. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “Why am I like this again when I’m around them?” this conversation will help you understand what’s happening beneath the surface and how to meet yourself with more compassion and clarity. Because healing isn’t just about who you are on your own. It’s about who you get to be in the spaces that once taught you to leave yourself behind. Got a question for the Tenderoni Hotline? Send it to me at: podcast@beatrizalbina.com Learn more about my courses and apply here: https://www.beatrizalbina.com/courses Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en

    18 Min.

  4. 9. APR.

    Self-Resourcing: What It Is & Why It’s Key to Healing Emotional Outsourcing (Part 1)

    #373: What if learning to take care of yourself didn’t make you more alone, but actually helped you feel more connected? In this episode, I unpack what self-resourcing really means beyond the buzzword and how it works in your nervous system. I explore why so many folks worry that focusing on themselves will lead to isolation, and why the opposite is actually true. Tune in this week to learn how self-resourcing builds nervous system capacity through somatic awareness, pendulation, and internal orientation. I’ll walk you through real-life examples of what it looks like in practice, how it interrupts emotional outsourcing patterns, and why it’s the foundation for true interdependence, not isolation. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://beatrizalbina.com/373 Order your copy of End Emotional Outsourcing here: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/ Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en Mentioned in this episode: Grab my book, End Emotional Outsourcing! Please support my new book, End Emotional Outsourcing, by ordering a copy and reviewing it on Amazon or GoodReads! You can leave a review even if you bought it somewhere else. Bring your screenshot to: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/ for gifts and raffle goodies. Thank you for helping this work ripple out. EEO Pre-Sale

    25 Min.

  5. 7. APR. ·  BONUS

    Why You Get Triggered When Someone Says “Calm Down” + Why Your Body Feels Sick Before a Call

    Tenderoni Hotline #27: Hello, my love. If you’ve ever been told to “calm down” and felt your anger spike instead of settle, or found yourself feeling anxious, nauseous, or completely overwhelmed at the thought of making a simple phone call, you are so not alone. In this episode, we gently unpack what is really happening in your body in those moments. We explore why “calm down” can feel so deeply invalidating, especially for those of us who were taught to shrink, soften, or second guess our emotions, and we look at why something as ordinary as a phone call can activate a full stress response, leaving your body feeling anything but okay. This is not about fixing yourself. It is about understanding yourself with more compassion. Because your reactions are not random. They are protective. They are intelligent. And they make sense. So take a breath, settle in, and let’s get curious together. You are safe. You are held. You are allowed to feel what you feel. Got a question for the Tenderoni Hotline? Send it to me at: podcast@beatrizalbina.com Learn more about my courses and apply here: https://www.beatrizalbina.com/courses Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en

    17 Min.

  6. 2. APR.

    Reclaim Rest: How to Rest When It Feels Unsafe (Part 2)

    #372: What if the reason rest feels so hard isn’t because you’re bad at it, but because your body has learned that rest is unsafe? What if slowing down doesn’t feel peaceful, but instead sparks anxiety, guilt, or that crawling-out-of-your-skin feeling? In this episode, I get into the real, practical side of rest, especially for those of us whose nervous systems have been shaped by emotional outsourcing. Last week, we explored why rest feels threatening. Now we’re focusing on how to actually rest in real life, when your body resists it. Because knowing you need rest and knowing how to rest are two completely different skills. Tune in this week to learn how to identify the type of rest your body actually needs, from physical and sensory to emotional and spiritual rest, and how to meet yourself there with small, doable practices. I’ll also walk you through what to do when rest brings up anxiety, guilt, or fear, and how to work with your nervous system so rest can start to feel safe, supportive, and truly restorative. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://beatrizalbina.com/372 Order your copy of End Emotional Outsourcing here: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/ Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en Mentioned in this episode: Grab my book, End Emotional Outsourcing! Please support my new book, End Emotional Outsourcing, by ordering a copy and reviewing it on Amazon or GoodReads! You can leave a review even if you bought it somewhere else. Bring your screenshot to: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/ for gifts and raffle goodies. Thank you for helping this work ripple out. EEO Pre-Sale

    29 Min.

  7. 31. MÄRZ ·  BONUS

    Emotional Outsourcing in Relationships: When Both People Do It + Reaching For Food After Healing

    Tenderoni Hotline #26: What happens when both people in a relationship are looking to each other for safety, reassurance, and a sense of “we’re okay”… but neither nervous system can consistently provide it? In this tender and honest episode, we explore the often unspoken dynamic of mutual emotional outsourcing, and why it can leave even the most loving relationships feeling intense, fragile, or stuck in cycles that don’t quite resolve. Together, we look at what it means to shift from codependency into true interdependence, not by becoming perfectly regulated, but by building a deeper, more reliable sense of safety within yourself while learning how to gently support one another. And we also turn toward a question so many of us carry quietly: why certain coping patterns, like reaching for sugar or food, can persist even after years of healing work. With compassion, nervous system insight, and a whole lot of permission to be human, this episode invites you to get curious about your patterns, soften the shame, and begin creating a little more space between impulse and choice. You are not broken. Your body is trying to care for you. And there is a way to meet it with more understanding, more steadiness, and more love. Got a question for the Tenderoni Hotline? Send it to me at: podcast@beatrizalbina.com Learn more about my courses and apply here: https://www.beatrizalbina.com/courses Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en

    18 Min.

  8. 26. MÄRZ

    Reclaim Rest: The Link Between Rest and Emotional Outsourcing (Part 1)

    #371: Do you feel like you’re constantly running on empty, struggling to find space for rest while the world around you keeps demanding more? It’s a common experience, and it’s often the result of emotional outsourcing. But what if rest could be the key to reclaiming your energy, your values, and your connection to what matters most? In this episode, I'm diving into the concept of rest as an essential practice, not just for recharging, but for healing. Rest is often misunderstood as a luxury, but it’s a vital part of maintaining our physical, emotional, and mental well-being, and for equipping ourselves to show up fully for the things we care about, especially in a world that constantly asks for more. Tune in this week to learn why rest feels so hard to access for many of us and how it connects to emotional outsourcing. We’ll also talk about why rest isn’t selfish, how it can improve your relationships, and the different types of rest that are vital to integrate into your life. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://beatrizalbina.com/371 Order your copy of End Emotional Outsourcing here: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/ Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en Mentioned in this episode: Grab my book, End Emotional Outsourcing! Please support my new book, End Emotional Outsourcing, by ordering a copy and reviewing it on Amazon or GoodReads! You can leave a review even if you bought it somewhere else. Bring your screenshot to: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/ for gifts and raffle goodies. Thank you for helping this work ripple out. EEO Pre-Sale

    17 Min.
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You weren't born anxious, depleted, and second-guessing yourself. You were taught to be. The Feminist Wellness podcast is where nervous system science meets the truth nobody wants to say out loud: most of what you think is "self-care" is just performing wellness while your body stays stuck in survival mode. Host Béa Victoria Albina - NP, life coach, and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner - breaks down the codependent, perfectionist, and people-pleasing habits that keep you trapped in what she calls Emotional Outsourcing™: constantly looking outside yourself for permission, validation, and proof that you're enough. This isn't another show about bubble baths and boundaries. It's about understanding why your body says yes when you mean no, why rest feels impossible, and how to stop treating your own needs like an inconvenience. If you're done white-knuckling your way through life, performing okayness while feeling like you're constantly failing some invisible test, this show will help you see what's actually happening - and what becomes possible when you stop abandoning yourself to please everyone else. New episodes weekly. Start anywhere.

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  • Erstellt von
    Béa Victoria Albina
  • Jahre aktiv
    2019 - 2026
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