Managing Money With A Neurodivergent Brain | For adults with ADHD, dyslexia, and dyspraxia | With Esther Bangura

Esther Bangura

I'm Esther Bangura the researcher behind the Neurodivergent and Money UK Survey 2025 and a late-diagnosed neurodivergent woman living with ADHD (predominantly inattentive type), dyslexia, and dyspraxia. For years, I was stuck in vicious cycles of debt, emotional overspending, and executive dysfunction. Today, by learning to manage money in a way that works with my brain instead of against it, I've been able to pay off debt, regulate my emotions, and finally budget in a way that actually sticks. This podcast is a space for late-diagnosed adults who are tired of financial advice that leaves them feeling ashamed, overwhelmed, or behind. Together, we'll explore the intersections of neurodiversity, diagnosis, adjustments, age, culture, work, career, business, education, race, and system barriers — because money doesn't exist in isolation, it's shaped by every part of who we are and the systems we live in. You can expect a blend of weekly episodes: some with just me sharing research and lived experience, and others with guests who bring powerful stories, insights, and tools. Here, you'll learn how to: -Build shame-free money systems that work with your brain -Reduce stress-spending and emotional money habits -Create stability and confidence in your finances -Navigate money with less overwhelm and more self-compassion -Feel confident to navigate your diagnosis or if you self-identify in the workplace -Thrive at work, studies and business as a Neurodivergent With 80% of neurodivergent adults overspending when stressed, 77% struggling to plan ahead, and 73% feeling shame or fear about money, this show reminds you that you are not alone — and it's designed with you in mind. Because you're not broken. You're just learning to manage money in a way that honours how your brain actually works. 📑Download Managing Money with a Neurodivergent Brain — UK Research 2025 https://www.estherbangura.com/neurodivergentandmoneyreport 💼 Connect with Esther: https://www.linkedin.com/in/estherbangura/ 🌐 More resources: www.estherbangura.com ⚠️ Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only. It does not constitute financial advice or provide regulated financial services.

  1. Money Avoidance: Why You Shut Down & How to Gently Restart

    13 HR AGO

    Money Avoidance: Why You Shut Down & How to Gently Restart

    If you freeze, shut down, or avoid your finances — even when you really want to get your money together — this episode will help you understand why. We break down the nervous-system patterns behind money avoidance and give you gentle, doable steps that help ADHD, dyslexic, and dyspraxic adults restart without shame, panic, or overwhelm. Perfect for neurodivergent professionals in the UK who want to feel calmer, clearer, and more in control of their money. Highlights Why you avoid money: The real reason your brain shuts down is nervous-system overload, not laziness or lack of discipline. The emotional weight of avoidance: How shame, past experiences, and ND burnout make money tasks feel "dangerous" to your brain. Executive-function fatigue: Why overwhelm, decision fatigue, and unclear tasks trigger financial freeze. Gentle restart steps: A calm-brain approach to restarting money tasks: tiny steps, 10-second visibility, and regulating before budgeting. Tools that actually work for ND adults: Mini money resets, anchoring tasks to regulated moments, and scripts that interrupt shame spirals. Links & Resources 📑 Free Neurodivergents and Money Report 2025: Download Managing Money with a Neurodivergent Brain — UK Research 2025 CTA — Take the Next Step If today's episode resonated with you and you're ready for personalised, shame-free financial support designed for ADHD, dyslexic, and dyspraxic adults… 👉 Join the waitlist for 1:1 coaching at estherbangura.com/waitlist Be the first to know when spaces open and get early access to tools that help you feel calmer and more in control of your money.

    31 min
  2. 14 HR AGO · BONUS

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  3. 11: Why Traditional Money Advice Doesn't Work for Neurodivergent Brains with Danielle Cudjoe-Michalski

    4 DAYS AGO

    11: Why Traditional Money Advice Doesn't Work for Neurodivergent Brains with Danielle Cudjoe-Michalski

    In this insightful episode, host Esther welcomes Danielle Cudjoe-Michalski, founder of Thinking Like Coach, to discuss why traditional money advice often fails neurodivergent adults. They explore the unique financial challenges faced by people with ADHD, dyslexia, dyspraxia, and other neurodivergent traits. Danielle shares her personal journey, practical strategies, and the importance of self-advocacy, community, and neuro-inclusive financial systems. The conversation is packed with actionable tips for managing money, building financial confidence, and navigating a world designed for neurotypical brains.   Highlights   Danielle's background and her journey into neurodivergent coaching Why standard financial advice doesn't fit neurodivergent minds The impact of executive function, energy, and emotional regulation on money management The importance of sensory experiences and digital vs. physical money How privilege and early financial education shape money habits The power of community, accountability, and safe spaces for financial growth Real-life examples of neuro-inclusive banking and communication The need for clear, accessible, and gamified financial tools Self-advocacy tips for dealing with banks and financial institutions Actionable steps for organizations to support neurodivergent adults Danielle's personal money management systems and strengths   Links & Resources   Connect with Danielle Cudjoe-Michalski on LinkedIn Follow Thinking Light Coach on Instagram: @thinkinglightcoach Danielle's Linktree: Linktree - Think Light Coach  UK Financial Conduct Authority: https://www.fca.org.uk/ Financial Ombudsman Service: https://www.financial-ombudsman.org.uk/ Money and Mental Health Policy Institute: https://www.moneyandmentalhealth.org/ Martin Lewis' Money Saving Expert: https://www.moneysavingexpert.com/

    1 hr
  4. 10: The Secret to Feeling in Control of Money When Your Brain Resists Structure

    10 NOV

    10: The Secret to Feeling in Control of Money When Your Brain Resists Structure

    In this episode, Esther explores the real secret to feeling in control of your money, especially if your brain resists structure. She explains why clarity and definition are more important than rigid systems, particularly for those with neurodivergent brains. Esther shares practical examples of how to turn vague money tasks into clear, visible actions, discusses insights from her 2025 UK Neurodivergent and Money Study, and offers a faith-based perspective on stewardship and clarity.    Highlights  The importance of reducing task ambiguity before trying to be consistent with money management How executive function challenges like task initiation and working memory affect financial habits Real-life examples of transforming vague financial goals into specific, actionable steps Research findings showing that most neurodivergent adults struggle with budgeting and planning ahead The coaching shift from asking how to stay consistent to defining what consistency looks like in visible steps A faith-based reflection on the value of clarity as the first act of stewardship A practical take-home challenge to rewrite one chaotic area of your finances into specific actions Invitation to Esther's twelve week one to one financial coaching programme for neurodivergent professionals starting in January 2026   Links and Resources  Esther Bangura's 1:1 ADHD and Neurodivergent Finance Coaching Waitlist: estherbangura.com/waitlist 📑 Free Neurodivergents and Money Report 2025: Download Managing Money with a Neurodivergent Brain — UK Research 2025 🌐 More resources: www.estherbangura.com

    7 min
  5. 09: The Hidden Cost of Overwhelm: How Stress Spending Starts For Neurodivergents

    7 NOV

    09: The Hidden Cost of Overwhelm: How Stress Spending Starts For Neurodivergents

    In this episode of "Managing Money with a Neurodivergent Brain," host Esther Bangura explores the crucial role of emotional regulation in financial decision-making for adults with ADHD, dyslexia, and dyspraxia. Esther shares research insights, personal stories, and practical strategies to help neurodivergent individuals manage money with more grace and less shame. The episode emphasizes that overspending is often a stress response, not a moral failing, and introduces rituals and tools to create a sense of safety and clarity before making financial decisions.   Highlights Emotional regulation is the foundation for effective money management, especially for neurodivergent individuals. Overspending is often a nervous system response to stress, not a lack of discipline. The "pause plan" is a practical tool to create space between the urge to spend and the action. Esther shares a personal story about using cash to manage spending urges during a difficult emotional period. The importance of supportive partners and creating barriers to impulsive spending. Three "calm brain money rituals": Breathe and sense cue (using breath and senses to ground yourself) Five-minute clarity audit (checking in with your current reality) Compassion check-in (naming and accepting your emotions) The concept of the "body budget"—managing your energy and emotions as part of financial health. Reflection questions to help listeners identify which ritual makes budgeting feel safer. Encouragement to start with one ritual and build consistency. Invitation to join Esther's coaching waitlist for personalized support.   Links and Resources Esther Bangura's 1:1 ADHD and Neurodivergent Coaching Waitlist: estherbangura.com/waitlist 📑 Free Neurodivergents and Money Report 2025: Download Managing Money with a Neurodivergent Brain — UK Research 2025 Book: How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain by  Lisa Feldman Barrett  Book: Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman 🌐 More resources: www.estherbangura.com

    23 min
  6. 08: When Life Hits Pause: What Burnout & ADHD Diagnosis Taught Me About Money and Self-Trust

    4 NOV

    08: When Life Hits Pause: What Burnout & ADHD Diagnosis Taught Me About Money and Self-Trust

    In this heartfelt episode, Esther Bangura shares her personal journey through burnout, diagnosis, and the lessons learned about money and self-trust. She opens up about the realities of living with ADHD, dyslexia, and dyspraxia, and how these experiences shaped her approach to rest, energy, and financial wellbeing. Esther explores the importance of honoring your body's natural rhythms, budgeting your energy, and building self-trust—especially when life forces you to pause. Highlights Burnout isn't a sign of failure—it's data your body is giving you about your limits. Rest is not laziness; it's a strategic part of sustainable living. When you're exhausted, you're more likely to make poor financial decisions and overspend. Self-trust is built slowly, by honoring your needs and boundaries. Budgeting your energy is just as important as budgeting your money. Honoring your natural rhythms, including your menstrual cycle, can be a game changer for wellbeing and finances. Why You Should Listen If you've ever felt overwhelmed, burnt out, or struggled to manage your energy and finances, this episode is for you. Esther's story offers validation, practical tools, and hope for anyone navigating life with a neurodivergent brain. You'll learn why rest is essential, how to listen to your body, and actionable steps to create a more sustainable, self-compassionate approach to money and life. 4 Steps to Create a Budget for Your Energy List your top energy expenses: Identify what drains you most—meetings, social events, chores, phone calls, etc. Add energy income: Note what restores you—prayer, naps, music, alone time, healthy meals. Create buffer days: Schedule lighter days after heavy ones. If Mondays are exhausting, avoid booking demanding tasks then. Check your emotional balance: Notice if you're overspending emotionally on people-pleasing or guilt, and set limits.   Links & Resources: 📑 Free Neurodivergents and Money Report 2025: Download Managing Money with a Neurodivergent Brain — UK Research 2025 Join my 1:1 Coaching waitlist: https://www.estherbangura.com/waitlist  🌐 More resources: www.estherbangura.com

    12 min
  7. 07: AI, Neurodiversity and Business, Thriving at Work and Beyond with Sarah Olaifa

    27 OCT

    07: AI, Neurodiversity and Business, Thriving at Work and Beyond with Sarah Olaifa

    In this insightful episode, Sarah shares her journey as a neurodivergent professional and how AI tools can transform neurodivergent work life. She opens up about the unique challenges she faced with Dyslexia and ADHD growing up, at work and in business. She offers practical strategies for leveraging technology to boost productivity, confidence, and career growth. Sarah discusses her favorite features from an AI tool 'Cognify Me' she is building for managing executive function, communication, and orgaisation, and provides encouragement for anyone seeking to thrive in their career while embracing their neurodivergent strengths. Cognify Me tool will both benefit employers and individual at large.    Highlights How AI bridges the gap for ND professionals: Sarah explains how specific AI tools can help neurodivergents manage overwhelm, stay organised, and communicate more effectively at work. How organisations can empower their employees with this particular AI tool. Real-world strategies for thriving at work: She shares actionable tips for using technology to support executive function, reduce stress, and advocate for your needs in the workplace. Business lessons from high-ticket coaching programs: Sarah opens up about her experiences investing in expensive business coaching programs, the challenges of finding genuine value, and the importance of due diligence. She shares practical advice for neurodivergent entrepreneurs on how to spot red flags, trust your instincts, and avoid costly mistakes when seeking support. Building a career and business on your own terms: Sarah reflects on the importance of self-acceptance, community, and finding the right tools to create a sustainable, fulfilling career as a neurodivergent adult. Links & Resources 📑 Free Neurodivergents and Money Report 2025: Download Managing Money with a Neurodivergent Brain — UK Research 2025 💼 Connect with Sarah Olaifa:  Email: hi@cognifyme.ai Instagram: @cognifyme LinkedIn: Sarah Olaifa  and Cognify Me Podcast: Divine Enigma podcast  (available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and other platforms) Letter of intent: Sign your interest here High-level pitch video:  Here's the video link: https://youtube.com/shorts/v65hJKrd9zk?feature=share Website/Landing Page: https://cognifyme.ai (currently a landing page, full website coming soon) 🌐 More resources: www.estherbangura.com

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I'm Esther Bangura the researcher behind the Neurodivergent and Money UK Survey 2025 and a late-diagnosed neurodivergent woman living with ADHD (predominantly inattentive type), dyslexia, and dyspraxia. For years, I was stuck in vicious cycles of debt, emotional overspending, and executive dysfunction. Today, by learning to manage money in a way that works with my brain instead of against it, I've been able to pay off debt, regulate my emotions, and finally budget in a way that actually sticks. This podcast is a space for late-diagnosed adults who are tired of financial advice that leaves them feeling ashamed, overwhelmed, or behind. Together, we'll explore the intersections of neurodiversity, diagnosis, adjustments, age, culture, work, career, business, education, race, and system barriers — because money doesn't exist in isolation, it's shaped by every part of who we are and the systems we live in. You can expect a blend of weekly episodes: some with just me sharing research and lived experience, and others with guests who bring powerful stories, insights, and tools. Here, you'll learn how to: -Build shame-free money systems that work with your brain -Reduce stress-spending and emotional money habits -Create stability and confidence in your finances -Navigate money with less overwhelm and more self-compassion -Feel confident to navigate your diagnosis or if you self-identify in the workplace -Thrive at work, studies and business as a Neurodivergent With 80% of neurodivergent adults overspending when stressed, 77% struggling to plan ahead, and 73% feeling shame or fear about money, this show reminds you that you are not alone — and it's designed with you in mind. Because you're not broken. You're just learning to manage money in a way that honours how your brain actually works. 📑Download Managing Money with a Neurodivergent Brain — UK Research 2025 https://www.estherbangura.com/neurodivergentandmoneyreport 💼 Connect with Esther: https://www.linkedin.com/in/estherbangura/ 🌐 More resources: www.estherbangura.com ⚠️ Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only. It does not constitute financial advice or provide regulated financial services.