Whether it's with family, friends, colleagues, or romantic partners, the dynamics of human connection can be both enriching and challenging. In part three of this series "Better Together", Ps Janine Kubala delves deep into the art of establishing wise boundaries in relationships, drawing inspiration from timeless wisdom found in the Scriptures. We are created for relationships. From the very beginning of creation, God recognised that it was not good for us to be alone. We were designed for connection, both with one another and with our Creator. As we journey through life, amidst the priorities grabbing our attention, it's crucial to remember that at the end of the day, it's our relationships that truly matter. But navigating relationships isn't always smooth sailing. Conflicts inevitably arise, tensions flare, and emotions run high. Yet, as believers, we have access to a wellspring of wisdom from God Himself. As promised in James 1:5, God assures us that if we lack wisdom, we need only ask Him, and He will generously provide it without reproach. God established boundaries from the very beginning. Just as God separated light from darkness and land from sea, He calls us to establish healthy boundaries in our relationships. These boundaries serve as pre-decisions for navigating conflict, ensuring harmony and peace in our interactions. However, we have also been created with complex human emotions. We're not robots governed solely by logic; our feelings often hold sway over our actions. Yet, through self-reflection and reliance on God's wisdom, we can learn to discern when our emotions are leading us astray and we can learn to step back, remain silent, and seek rest when emotions run high, allowing space for clarity and reconciliation. When we focus on the desired outcome of our relationships, by envisioning where we want to be and seeking God's guidance, we can approach conflicts with humility and grace, aiming for resolution and restoration. By seeking God's wisdom, setting pre-decisions, and prioritizing reconciliation, we can navigate conflicts with grace and humility. Let us strive to cultivate relationships that honour God and bring mutual growth and flourishing. Listen to the podcast today, or you can watch our broadcast online, via our website: www.believe.church/services
