Dying Your Way

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Dying Your Way explores the practical heart and soul of our greatest exit. You will hear from family members, carers and patients themselves with profound insights that will shine a light on this mortal experience. Join certified End of Life Doula as she speaks with experts in the field of death and dying as well as those who bravely share their personal stories as a real life experience. This is the conversation that looks at death in the way it should be…a courageous and sacred event. This is Dying Your Way Join the conversation on our FaceBook group, search for Dying your Way. Or to learn more or contact us go to www.dyingyourway.com.

  1. S4E31 - Encore - Carlos Pomeda on Death, Meditation, and the Journey of the Soul

    14 HRS AGO

    S4E31 - Encore - Carlos Pomeda on Death, Meditation, and the Journey of the Soul

    In this Encore episode of the Dying Your Way podcast, Claire O’Berry reconnects with Carlos Pomeda, a yoga teacher and practitioner of more than 40 years, and a scholar of Sanskrit and religious studies. This conversation is personal for Claire. In 2004, she and her mother took a course taught by Carlos called Karma, Death, and Dying, before her mother’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis. That teaching became a steady foundation through years of caregiving, and now, sixteen years later, the conversation continues. Together, they explore how cultural denial shapes our relationship with death, why acceptance can ease emotional suffering, and how meditation supports a shift from body-based identity toward inner awareness. Carlos also shares his perspective on karma, prana (vital energy), ritual, and “unfinished business,” along with research threads that many find compelling, including near-death experiences, hospice visions, and children’s reports of past-life memory. This is a thoughtful, grounding episode for anyone facing illness, grief, caregiving, or the simple human question of how to die well. Learn more about Carlos: pomeda.com 📬 Connect with Us: 💻 Website: https://dyingyourway.com 📧 Contact: info@dyingyourway.com 📱 Instagram: @dyingyourway 🗣️ Leave a comment, submit a topic, or tell us your story! 🙏 Support the Podcast: ✅ Subscribe — It’s free! 💬 Leave a review or comment 🔗 Share this episode with someone who needs it 👍 Hit that like button to help others find this space See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    36 min
  2. S4E30 - Encore Episode: Understanding VSED (Voluntary Stopping Eating and Drinking) with Judith Schwarz

    27 FEB

    S4E30 - Encore Episode: Understanding VSED (Voluntary Stopping Eating and Drinking) with Judith Schwarz

    In this Encore episode, Claire O’Berry speaks with Judith Schwartz, former Clinical Director of End of Life Choices New York, about VSED: Voluntary Stopping Eating and Drinking. This conversation offers a grounded look at what VSED involves, what supports are essential for comfort and safety, and why some people explore VSED when other end-of-life options are not available or accessible. Judith also discusses advance directive considerations, including documents designed to guide feeding decisions if a person later loses capacity. Resources mentioned End of Life Choices New York: VSED information and education Dementia Advance Directive and “Minimal Comfort Feeding” option Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking: A Compassionate, Widely Available Option for Hastening Death (Oxford University Press), edited by Timothy E. Quill, Paul T. Menzel, Thaddeus Pope, and Judith Schwarz Listener care note: This episode discusses end-of-life decision-making. If you feel distressed or at risk, please pause and contact local crisis supports or emergency services. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1 hr
  3. S4E29 - Encore Series - Stephen Jenkinson and the Work of Dying

    13 FEB

    S4E29 - Encore Series - Stephen Jenkinson and the Work of Dying

    In this Encore episode (recorded in 2020), Claire O’Berry speaks with Stephen Jenkinson about what we have lost culturally around dying, and what it might mean to recover death wisdom as a shared, communal responsibility. Together, they explore why older and vulnerable people are so easily dismissed, the difference between a “personalized” death and a communal one, and why the work of dying asks more of us than a preference list. Stephen also reflects on fear, medicalized dying, and the long shadow a death-phobic culture casts over how we live. Mentioned and recommended: Orphan Wisdom and the Orphan Wisdom School, Stephen’s home for teaching and writing. For your next listen: “Matrimony, Patrimony & the Village We Need” (Claire’s more recent conversation with Stephen). See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 1m
  4. S4E28 - Encore Episode: Dr. Marjorie Woollacott on consciousness, NDEs, and terminal lucidity

    25 JAN

    S4E28 - Encore Episode: Dr. Marjorie Woollacott on consciousness, NDEs, and terminal lucidity

    In this Encore episode of the Dying Your Way podcast, Claire O’Berry revisits a conversation with Dr. Marjorie Woollacott, world-renowned neuroscientist, tenured professor at the University of Oregon, and author of Infinite Awareness: The Awakening of the Scientific Mind. While Dr. Woollacott’s early academic work focused on rehabilitation neuroscience, her current work explores consciousness research and end-of-life phenomena that challenge strictly materialist assumptions, including near-death experiences, terminal lucidity, and the dreams and visions many hospice patients report near the end of life. This conversation invites listeners to set aside fixed beliefs about both science and religion and to listen with curiosity to the research, the clinical implications, and the human stories that continue to emerge. In this episode, we explore: Consciousness and the brain, including the “filter” hypothesis A near-death experience account that raises clinically relevant questions Terminal lucidity and why it matters for dementia, coma, and stroke care End-of-life dreams and visions, and what they may mean for comfort and fear reduction The implications for carers and clinicians supporting people who appear unresponsive Links and resources mentioned in the episode are included below. https://marjoriewoollacott.com/ https://dyingyourway.com/ https://galileocommission.org/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    32 min
  5. S4E27 - Encore Series — Molly Reynolds, David Gulpilil, and the Final Return to Country

    9 JAN

    S4E27 - Encore Series — Molly Reynolds, David Gulpilil, and the Final Return to Country

    In this Encore episode, Claire O’Berry speaks with Australian filmmaker Molly Reynolds, director of My Name Is Gulpilil, a documentary shaped around the final chapter of iconic actor and dancer David Gulpilil’s life. Together, Claire and Molly explore what David’s story reveals about mortality, culture, identity, and the deep human longing to return to our roots at the end of life. The conversation moves through Aboriginal perspectives on Country and kinship, the complexities of care and access, and the way film can hold both beauty and hard truth. Claire is resharing this conversation after recently watching Journey Home, David Gulpilil (narrated by Hugh Jackman), which tells David’s story of returning home and last wishes being honored. In this episode My Name Is Gulpilil and David’s life on screen and off Country, belonging, and the importance of being laid to rest on ancestral land How care systems can help, and how they can miss cultural realities The role of story, art, and memory in preparing for death Mentioned My Name Is Gulpilil (Molly Reynolds) Journey Home, David Gulpilil (narrated by Hugh Jackman) Films connected to David’s career and collaborations, including Walkabout, Storm Boy, The Tracker, Ten Canoes, Charlie’s Country, and Another Country See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    43 min
  6. S4E26 - Encore Series for the Holidays — Peter & Elizabeth Fenwick and The Art of Dying

    20/12/2025

    S4E26 - Encore Series for the Holidays — Peter & Elizabeth Fenwick and The Art of Dying

    In this Encore Series episode, recorded in 2020 during the height of COVID, Claire O’Berry and Terry Mepham speak with Dr. Peter Fenwick and his wife, Elizabeth Fenwick, from Scotland. Peter Fenwick, a renowned neuropsychiatrist and researcher, is widely known for his work exploring near-death experiences and what they may reveal about consciousness, dying, and the human experience at the end of life. Elizabeth Fenwick, a writer and long-time collaborator, brings clarity, warmth, and grounded insight to the conversation. Together, they authored The Art of Dying, the book at the heart of this episode. This conversation is also a living legacy. Peter died in November 2024, and we offer love and condolences to Elizabeth and to all who are missing him. In this episode, we explore: What first drew Peter into near-death experience research, and what changed his scepticism Deathbed visitors, end-of-life visions, and why they may matter deeply to the dying The role of curiosity as a powerful antidote to fear What preparation could look like, including repairing relationships and releasing old regrets Why death literacy may deserve a stronger place in medical education and community care Key moments include Peter’s simple invitation: “If you’re going to die, be curious,” and the reminder that we often talk about death as someone else’s story, not our own. Subscribe, share, and join us as we continue building death literacy from diagnosis through grief and bereavement. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    57 min
  7. S4E25 - Encore Series for the Holidays — A Conversation with Ken Ross

    05/12/2025

    S4E25 - Encore Series for the Holidays — A Conversation with Ken Ross

    As the holidays approach, many people feel the quiet resurgence of grief — memories growing louder, empty chairs at the table, and the tender ache of “what ifs” and “if onlys.” In this rerun episode, we revisit Claire’s conversation with Ken Ross, son of Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and Founder of the EKR Foundation. Together, they explore the true scope of Elisabeth’s pioneering work — beyond the five stages — into palliative care, hospice development worldwide, grief education, and her extraordinary legacy as a voice for the dying and those who love them. This episode is a grounding, compassionate companion for anyone navigating grief during the holiday season. In this episode: The real meaning behind the “five stages” Why Elisabeth stopped teaching the stages — and how media distorted them Her role in building hospices around the world Cultural barriers to palliative care and global end-of-life access Personal stories from Ken’s life with his mother How the EKR Foundation continues her mission today If this conversation brings you comfort, please subscribe for free on YouTube, Apple, or Spotify — and share it with someone who may need a gentle resource this season. Holiday Blessings from Dying Your Way — may you feel loved, supported, and never alone on your path. Learn more or enroll: https://www.dyingyourway.com/eol-trainingContact Claire: info@dyingyourway.com 📬 Connect with Us: 💻 Website: https://dyingyourway.com 📧 Contact: info@dyingyourway.com 📱 Instagram: @dyingyourway 🗣️ Leave a comment, submit a topic, or tell us your story! 🙏 Support the Podcast: ✅ Subscribe — It’s free! 💬 Leave a review or comment 🔗 Share this episode with someone who needs it 👍 Hit that like button to help others find this space See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    36 min
  8. S4E24 - Mindfulness, Preparation, and the Gift of Conscious Dying

    19/11/2025

    S4E24 - Mindfulness, Preparation, and the Gift of Conscious Dying

    In this Season 4 finale, Claire O’Berry reflects on a season filled with honesty, courage, and deep learning. Each solo episode this season served as a “Cliffs Notes” version of the Dying Your Way End-of-Life Training — a practical roadmap for anyone facing a chronic progressive illness or supporting someone through one. Claire also expresses deep gratitude to each guest interviewed this season. Their stories, insights, and lived experience expanded the teaching topics and grounded them in real human wisdom. Each module was followed by a guest who illuminated the theme through their own journey. This season — and all past seasons — will remain available, and Claire will be highlighting past interviews in the weeks and months ahead as we prepare for Season 5. Listeners are encouraged to subscribe, like, and comment to help spread the message of mindful dying and conscious living. This finale reviews the key lessons from Episodes 1 through 23:• Receiving a diagnosis• Building your end-of-life support team• Advance care planning• Understanding your disease• Aging in place• Legacy work• Funeral planning• Stages of dying• After-death care• The week of the funeral• Grief and bereavement Claire shares why preparation is the greatest gift we can give ourselves and the people we love — and invites listeners to take the complete Dying Your Way End-of-Life Training to create their own EOL plan. Learn more or enroll: https://www.dyingyourway.com/eol-trainingContact Claire: info@dyingyourway.com 📬 Connect with Us: 💻 Website: https://dyingyourway.com 📧 Contact: info@dyingyourway.com 📱 Instagram: @dyingyourway 🗣️ Leave a comment, submit a topic, or tell us your story! 🙏 Support the Podcast: ✅ Subscribe — It’s free! 💬 Leave a review or comment 🔗 Share this episode with someone who needs it 👍 Hit that like button to help others find this space See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    31 min
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Dying Your Way explores the practical heart and soul of our greatest exit. You will hear from family members, carers and patients themselves with profound insights that will shine a light on this mortal experience. Join certified End of Life Doula as she speaks with experts in the field of death and dying as well as those who bravely share their personal stories as a real life experience. This is the conversation that looks at death in the way it should be…a courageous and sacred event. This is Dying Your Way Join the conversation on our FaceBook group, search for Dying your Way. Or to learn more or contact us go to www.dyingyourway.com.

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