Fine, I'll Talk About It

Danielle Young

Fine, I'll Talk About It is a mental health, spirituality, and culture podcast hosted by Danielle Young — where we say the quiet parts out loud about the topics most people avoid. From toxic positivity and religious trauma to modern dating, healing, burnout, social issues, and everything in between — this show tackles the taboo, uncomfortable, and controversial conversations that challenge the norm. No politics, no fake spirituality, just honest dialogue about what's happening in the world, in our minds, and in our lives. If you're tired of surface-level conversations and want truth with personality, this is the place. New episodes every Monday & Thursday.

  1. 17 HRS AGO

    You Didn't Fail Because You Stayed with Dr. Rita Renee

    Content note: This episode discusses childhood sexual abuse and domestic violence. Most people don't want to talk about domestic violence. It's uncomfortable. It's heavy. It's the thing survivors are taught to stay quiet about for everyone else's sake. This episode is for the women who've been there. Danielle sits down with Dr. Rita Renee, founder of Ultimate Powerhouse Coach and Powerhouse Speakers Unmute. Dr. Rita is a TEDx speaker, author, and corporate healthcare leader who helps women come off mute emotionally, spiritually, and vocally. She is also a domestic violence survivor. Dr. Rita spent 16 years in a marriage that included emotional abuse, deception, and bleach in her contact solution. She left with what she could fit in storage. She slept on family floors. She moved to a new state. And she rebuilt. What she shares in this conversation is the part nobody tells you. Leaving is the beginning, not the end. ABOUT DR. RITA Dr. Rita Renee is an International Keynote Speaker, TEDx Speaker, author, and corporate healthcare leader with 35 years in nursing, including 21½ years in national corporate leadership. As the founder of Ultimate PowerHouse Coach, she equips women to “come off mute” by reclaiming their confidence, voice, and God-designed identity. A survivor of childhood molestation and domestic violence, she speaks boldly about healing, resilience, and leadership with integrity. Dr. Rita blends faith, strategy, and authenticity to help women transform silence into strength, purpose, and influence in every room they enter. Connect with Dr. Rita Renee: Website: www.drritarenee.comInstagram: https://instagram.com/drritarenee https://instagram.com/drultimatepowerhousecoachFacebook: https://facebook.com/DrRitaReneeUltimatePowerHouseCoachLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/drritareneeYouTube: https://youtube.com/@drritarenee Connect with Danielle: Website: inspiredactionwellness.comInstagram: @inspiredactionwellnessBook: From Surviving to Thriving: A Journey Beyond TraumaIf you're working through trauma stored from domestic violence or childhood abuse, Somatic EMDR sessions are open. This work helps the body process what the mind has held onto so the memories lose their charge and you can move forward. Learn more at inspiredactionwellness.com. Resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE), or text START to 88788, or chat at thehotline.orgRAINN (sexual assault): 1-800-656-4673 (HOPE)If you're in immediate danger, call 911

    43 min
  2. 3 DAYS AGO

    The Part of You That You Left Behind with Kate Bares

    Most people don't want to admit they carry shame. It's the thing we hide. The thing we bury. The reason we stay too long, settle for less, and abandon ourselves to keep the peace. In this episode, Danielle sits down with Kate Bares, creator of the Soul Integration Method, to talk about what's actually underneath the patterns we keep repeating. Kate spent almost a decade in a covert narcissistic relationship. She did the trauma work. She thought she was back. Then the panic attacks started. What she found is what most people miss in their healing. The shame was already there long before the relationship. And until she reclaimed the part of herself she'd left behind to survive, she couldn't fully come home. In this conversation, Kate and Danielle get into: Why shame is the root of most self-abandonment patternsThe difference between shame and guilt, and why one is healthy and one is notWhat "you're out of runway, turn around" really meansHow childhood interpretations get rooted in the nervous systemWhy healing isn't linear and never wasCo-regulating with the part of you that's still stuck in timeReaction versus response, and what shifts when your adult self walks back into the roomIf you've done the trauma work and still feel stuck, this one is for you. Kate A. Bares is a transformational guide, founder of The Center for Well Being of Austin, and creator of The Soul Integration Method™ - a unique process that helps people reconnect with their authentic Self after emotional trauma, betrayal, or burnout. For over 30 years, Kate has guided women (and a few brave men) to move beyond survival patterns of anxiety, codependency, and self-doubt - and into the freedom of living true to who they are. Her work blends grounded psychology, soul wisdom, and intuitive energy healing into a gentle, powerful path home to the Self. Connect with Kate: https://www.thecenterforwellbeing.com https://www.instagram.com/soulintegrationmethodhttps://www.facebook.com/kateabares.soulConnect with Danielle: Website: inspiredactionwellness.comInstagram: @inspiredactionwellnessBook: From Surviving to Thriving: A Journey Beyond TraumaReady to work directly with your stored trauma? Somatic EMDR sessions are open. Learn more at www.inspiredactionwellness.com/somatic_emdr

    55 min
  3. 7 MAY

    Trauma Recovery: Why "Fine" Isn't the Goal

    If you've done the trauma work, gotten to a place where life feels "fine," and quietly wondered if this is really it, this episode is going to crack something open. Kate Shipp is a holistic trauma specialist, international bestselling author, certified yoga therapist, and one of my former yoga teachers. She's spent over 14 years helping people transform trauma, stress, and survival patterns into safety, self-trust, and freedom. She's also walked her own journey through complex developmental trauma, a mental health break in 2016, and the loss of her dad, and she came out the other side with a clear message: don't settle for fine. In this conversation we get into what it actually takes to move past survival mode and into a life that feels good. Kate shares how she built what she calls a "false sense of safety" for years, why true safety is intrinsic and lives inside your nervous system, and the lightning-strike moment in Scotland that woke her up to how much more was available. We talk about the integration of Eastern and Western medicine, why no single modality is "the answer," what a joy trauma response is, and the tiny moments that signal your nervous system is finally regulated enough to feel good things. We also get into the question that changed how Kate works with clients: not just what happened to you, but what didn't happen for you. That one will sit with you. About Our Guest Kate Shipp is an Authentic Life Strategist, Holistic Trauma Specialist, and International Best-Selling Author devoted to helping others remember their wholeness. With over 14 years of experience integrating yoga therapy, neuroscience, somatics, energy medicine, intuitive development, and Integral Breath Therapy, she guides individuals in transforming pain into purpose and fear into freedom. Creator of The Shipp Method™ of Trauma Recovery and co-founder of Choose Happy Travels, Kate leads retreats and programs that awaken joy, authenticity, and divine connection. Her work is rooted in love, compassion, and the sacred light that lives within us all. Connect with Kate: www.kateshipp.com instagram and FB @kateshipp333 Substack - The Lightning Path About Your Host Danielle is a domestic violence survivor, Master Certified Life Coach, Somatic EMDR trained, Certified Nervous System Trainer, Certified Self-Inquiry Coach, and trauma-informed yoga teacher with 15+ years of experience. She helps women heal from trauma, rebuild confidence, and create emotional independence. Through Inspired Action Wellness, social media, and speaking engagements, she provides tools and strategies for women to break free from survival mode and take control of their lives. You can find her at: www.inspiredactionwellness.com or IG: @inspiredactionwellness Copyright & Legal Disclaimer All content in this podcast episode is the intellectual property of Danielle Young and Fine, I’ll Talk About It, unless otherwise stated. This episode is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, mental health, legal, or professional advice. Views and opinions expressed by guests do not necessarily reflect the views of the host. Listener discretion is advised. Any actions you take based on this content are done at your own risk. Unauthorized reproduction or distribution is prohibited. Keywords trauma recovery, healing, nervous system, emotional safety, self-discovery, joy, grief, relationships, mental health, holistic therapy

    1hr 10min
  4. 5 MAY

    Compare, Despair, Repeat: How Social Media Hijacks Your Self-Worth

    We are not supposed to talk about this. That social media is making us miserable. That it's affecting our mental health. That we're outsourcing our self-worth to an algorithm and calling it a Tuesday. In this episode, I sit down with Mari Wuellner — founder of The Crew Life and a multi-business owner who took a three-month social media sabbatical last summer and came out the other side with some uncomfortable truths. We talk about what actually happens when you cut the cord. The withdrawal symptoms (yes, they're real). The faux loneliness that disappears the second you start having actual coffee with actual humans. The "in-between moments" we've trained ourselves out of — the grocery line, the red light, the wait at a restaurant — that we now reflexively fill with scrolling because we've forgotten how to just be. We get into the compare-and-despair loop, the way the algorithm decides your worth on any given day, and the racket of "everyone's an expert now" (yes, we drag Mel Robbins, you're welcome). We talk about hate comments, body comments, and the desensitization that happens when the algorithm serves you a puppy video, then a grandpa with a baby, then a woman being murdered in the street. And we talk about what to do about it. Not in a perfect, Pinterest, ten-step-system way. In a real way. If you've felt like social media is doing something to you and you can't quite name it, this one's for you. About Mari Mari Wuellner is a feisty entrepreneur, multi-business owner, and founder of The Crew Life Coaching Collective. She opened her insurance agency in 2008, growing it to $3MM in annual premium, and launched her coaching practice in 2017. After her kids kept saying "don't post it," Mari took a 3-month social media sabbatical that revolutionized how she shows up in business and life.Now she helps women design lives they actually want to live—not just perform online. Mari is married to Tom, mom to three kids, real estate investor, podcaster, and avid traveler who believes in living on purpose, not by default. Connect with Mari: Instagram: @mariwuellnerThe Crew Life: www.thecrewcc.com Connect with Danielle: Instagram: @inspiredactionwellnessWebsite: inspiredactionwellness.com Copyright & Legal Disclaimer All content in this podcast episode is the intellectual property of Danielle Young and Fine, I’ll Talk About It, unless otherwise stated. This episode is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, mental health, legal, or professional advice. Views and opinions expressed by guests do not necessarily reflect the views of the host. Listener discretion is advised. Any actions you take based on this content are done at your own risk. Unauthorized reproduction or distribution is prohibited.

    50 min
  5. 28 APR

    Finding Your Purpose: Why Your Job Isn't It & How to Live Full Out

    Are you confusing your job title for your life's purpose? In this episode, I sit down with Tanesha L. Moody — ICF certified coach, keynote speaker, and founder of Full Out Coaching — for a real conversation about what life purpose actually is, why so many of us are walking around feeling lost, and how to start living what she calls "full out." Tanesha shares her own journey from professional dance and theater, into corporate leadership at Salesforce, Marriott, Disney, and Under Armour, into a layoff that sent her to Costa Rica to learn Spanish and figure out her life. That unraveling is what eventually built the Ignis framework she now uses with her clients to help them find, name, and live their purpose. We get into the difference between your purpose and your assignments, why "that couldn't be me" from the people around you might actually be confirmation you're on the right path, and how to reframe rejection so it stops gutting you every time it shows up. We talk about being multi-passionate, the trap of attaching your identity to your job, and what it really takes to stop "marking it" through your life and start showing up performance-quality. If you've ever felt stuck between assignments, paralyzed by fear of picking the wrong direction, or unsure what your gifts even are — this episode is going to give you a real starting point. About Our Guest Tanesha L. Moody is a speaker, certified coach, and founder of Full Out Coaching, a women- and minority-owned empowerment company. With a background spanning Broadway's First National Tour of Mean Girls and global leadership roles at Salesforce, Disney, Under Armour, and Marriott, she equips leaders and teams to navigate feedback, rejection, and reinvention with clarity and courage. Through her signature C.L.E.A.R. Method (Clarify Your Purpose, Live Your Values, Embrace Your Identity, Align with Courage, and Ripple Your Impact), Tanesha guides people to live, lead, and thrive Full Out—anchored in purpose, grounded in values, and built for lasting impact. Connect With Tanesha Website: https://www.taneshalmoody.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taneshalmoody LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/taneshalmoody/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@taneshamoody?_t=ZT-8ydM2tTOmJ3&_r=1 Full Out Fridays Newsletter: https://full-out-fridays.beehiiv.com/ IGNIS - Find, Name, and Live Your Purpose: https://www.taneshalmoody.com/ignis-framework For More Episodes: https://fineletstalk.riverside.com Copyright & Legal Disclaimer All content in this podcast episode is the intellectual property of Danielle Young and Fine, I’ll Talk About It, unless otherwise stated. This episode is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, mental health, legal, or professional advice. Views and opinions expressed by guests do not necessarily reflect the views of the host. Listener discretion is advised. Any actions you take based on this content are done at your own risk. Unauthorized reproduction or distribution is prohibited.

    48 min
  6. 28 APR

    Trauma Healing: Why Your Coach Must Do Their Own Inner Work First

    What if the coach you just paid thousands of dollars to has never actually done their own healing work? In this episode, I sit down with Jacquie Grillon — trained counselor, speaker, and healer — for an honest conversation about what real trauma healing looks like, and why so many people in the coaching, therapy, and healing space haven't done the inner work they're asking you to do. Jacquie shares her journey from addiction and recovery into counseling, the moment she found a therapist who could actually hold space for her (because she'd done her own work), and why she avoided "mommy daddy work" for years before realizing it was the only road that led back to herself. We get into the parts of the wellness and coaching industry no one wants to talk about — paying thousands for someone to tell you what you already know, the death of mentorship, "post and pray" social media coaching, cult-like online followings, and the way surface-level guru content can actually re-traumatize you while wrapping it in a bow. If you've ever felt burned by a coach, frustrated by performative healers, or like you're stuck in a cycle of seeking help that never quite lands — this one's for you. In this episode, we cover: Why finding a therapist who's done her own work changed everythingThe difference between holistic healing modalities that give temporary relief vs. life lessons that require deep inner workHow to spot a coach with great marketing but no substanceWhy "post and pray" is not a business strategyThe death of real mentorship and why everything got monetizedHow surface-level personal development content can re-traumatize youWhat it really means to hold space — and why most people can'tConfidence on camera, online trolls, and the courage to put your message out anyway About Jacquie Jacquie Grillon is a speaker, facilitator and guide whose work blends radical resilience, deep healing and the unapologetic act of choosing yourself. Having rebuilt her life more than once, she speaks from lived experience with humor, depth, and a fierce sense of compassion. Jacquie leads talks, workshops, and retreats that help people come home to themselves, communicate more honestly and lead with soul. Connect with Jacquie at www.Jacquieinspires.com About Your Host Danielle is a domestic violence survivor, Master Certified Life Coach, Somatic EMDR trained, Certified Nervous System Trainer, Certified Self-Inquiry Coach, and trauma-informed yoga teacher with 15+ years of experience. She helps women heal from trauma, rebuild confidence, and create emotional independence. Through Inspired Action Wellness, social media, and speaking engagements, she provides tools and strategies for women to break free from survival mode and take control of their lives. You can find her at: www.inspiredactionwellness.com or IG: @inspiredactionwellness Copyright & Legal Disclaimer All content in this podcast episode is the intellectual property of Danielle Young and Fine, I’ll Talk About It, unless otherwise stated. This episode is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, mental health, legal, or professional advice. Views and opinions expressed by guests do not necessarily reflect the views of the host. Listener discretion is advised. Any actions you take based on this content are done at your own risk. Unauthorized reproduction or distribution is prohibited.

    59 min
  7. 20 APR

    Psychics, Reiki & the Year That Broke Us

    Psychic medium and Reiki master Jackie Ortez joins Danielle for a conversation that refuses to stay on topic — in the best way. They start with the alternative therapy world: what Reiki actually is, why readings are for confirmation not fortune-telling, and why even Jackie goes to other psychics when she needs answers (because we're all biased about our own lives). From there: astrology compatibility, the year of the snake shedding its skin, and why 2025 broke damn near everyone — including Jackie, who got five weeks of shingles trying to push through it. She shares her prediction that 2026 is the rebuild, possibly the collapse-and-reset of the United States at its 250th anniversary, and why the destruction had to happen before anything new could grow. They also get into the Diddy documentary, the falling of false idols, victim shaming on juries, and why social media is a void most of us need to climb out of. Jackie's take: informed, not immersed. If you've ever paid $90 for a reading just to walk out thinking I already knew that — this one's for you. About Our Guest Jackie Ortez is a psychic/medium, reiki master who believes that everyone deserves to heal and have a great life. She guides her clients to not only explore their dreams, but also to release what is holding them back. With her no nonsense delivery of information, her readings and sessions are for those who will receive them and are ready to step into their new life! Connect with Jackie Healingandguidancebyjackie.com Instagram.com/healingguidancejackie Instagram.com/thehealingbitchpodcast Thehealingbpodcast@gmail.com About Your Host Danielle is a domestic violence survivor, Master Certified Life Coach, Somatic EMDR trained, Certified Nervous System Trainer, Certified Self-Inquiry Coach, and trauma-informed yoga teacher with 15+ years of experience. She helps women heal from trauma, rebuild confidence, and create emotional independence. Through Inspired Action Wellness, social media, and speaking engagements, she provides tools and strategies for women to break free from survival mode and take control of their lives. You can find her at: www.inspiredactionwellness.com or IG: @inspiredactionwellness Copyright & Legal Disclaimer All content in this podcast episode is the intellectual property of Danielle Young and Fine, I’ll Talk About It, unless otherwise stated. This episode is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, mental health, legal, or professional advice. Views and opinions expressed by guests do not necessarily reflect the views of the host. Listener discretion is advised. Any actions you take based on this content are done at your own risk. Unauthorized reproduction or distribution is prohibited.

    46 min
  8. 16 APR

    ADHD & High Sensitivity: Break Free From Stigma & Own Your Strengths

    What if the traits you've been told are "too much" are actually your greatest assets? In this episode, author and creative strategist Marcus O'Dea shares his journey from surviving a toxic upbringing and addiction to reframing his ADHD and high sensitivity as superpowers. Marcus breaks down the stigma around neurodivergence, introduces his "80 HD" framework (80 high-definition channels of creative flow), and explains how slow-motion multitasking helps him thrive without forcing himself into neurotypical molds. If you've ever felt broken for being sensitive or scattered, this conversation will shift how you see yourself—and give you permission to work with your brain, not against it. About Our Guest Marcas P. O'Dea is a highly-sensitive, deeply creative human who has spent a lifetime turning his traits into a superpower. Rejecting the labels of curse or deficit, he has reframed his sensitivity and ADHD as "80 HD"—80 High-Definition channels of creative flow. An acclaimed author, artist/designer, and book publicist for bestselling authors, Marcas’s career is a testament to thriving within this unique high-definition perspective. He serves as a Community Manager for Noble-Manhattan Global and is the Director of Strategic Partnerships with the International Association of Creative and Performing Artists. Connect with Marcas: https://marcaspodea.com https://substack.com/@marcaspodea https://bsky.app/profile/marcaspodea.bsky.social https://www.instagram.com/marcas_p_odea/ https://www.facebook.com/MarcasPODea2004/ https://medium.com/@marcas.p.odea_55316 About Your Host Danielle is a domestic violence survivor, Master Certified Life Coach, Somatic EMDR trained, Certified Nervous System Trainer, Certified Self-Inquiry Coach, and trauma-informed yoga teacher with 15+ years of experience. She helps women heal from trauma, rebuild confidence, and create emotional independence. Through Inspired Action Wellness, social media, and speaking engagements, she provides tools and strategies for women to break free from survival mode and take control of their lives. You can find her at: www.inspiredactionwellness.com IG: @inspiredactionwellness Copyright & Legal Disclaimer All content in this podcast episode is the intellectual property of Danielle Young and Fine, I’ll Talk About It, unless otherwise stated. This episode is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, mental health, legal, or professional advice. Views and opinions expressed by guests do not necessarily reflect the views of the host. Listener discretion is advised. Any actions you take based on this content are done at your own risk. Unauthorized reproduction or distribution is prohibited.

    49 min

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Fine, I'll Talk About It is a mental health, spirituality, and culture podcast hosted by Danielle Young — where we say the quiet parts out loud about the topics most people avoid. From toxic positivity and religious trauma to modern dating, healing, burnout, social issues, and everything in between — this show tackles the taboo, uncomfortable, and controversial conversations that challenge the norm. No politics, no fake spirituality, just honest dialogue about what's happening in the world, in our minds, and in our lives. If you're tired of surface-level conversations and want truth with personality, this is the place. New episodes every Monday & Thursday.