48 episodes

In this new original series from Somethin' Else, Claudia Winkleman and Professor Tanya Byron identify struggles faced by real-life parents and family members by inviting them in and hearing their story, in a one-time unscripted session with a real person. Claudia listens in to the conversation to discover how Tanya begins to unlock the story behind the issue and help find solutions.

With topics ranging from parental estrangement, gender identity, domestic violence, trauma, inheriting mental health issues, family dynamics after cancer and raising a severely disabled daughter, How Did We Get Here? is a passionate, insightful and moving experience with clear outcomes to each episode.

This podcast doesn’t tell people how to raise their children, or reconnect with family members, rather it helps people understand why, as perfectly competent adults, they can’t put into practice what they know they should do.

Each episode passes on useful links and contacts which listeners can find in the programme notes.

This is a Somethin' Else production.

How Did We Get Here‪?‬ Real Life Stories

    • Education
    • 4.9 • 65 Ratings

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In this new original series from Somethin' Else, Claudia Winkleman and Professor Tanya Byron identify struggles faced by real-life parents and family members by inviting them in and hearing their story, in a one-time unscripted session with a real person. Claudia listens in to the conversation to discover how Tanya begins to unlock the story behind the issue and help find solutions.

With topics ranging from parental estrangement, gender identity, domestic violence, trauma, inheriting mental health issues, family dynamics after cancer and raising a severely disabled daughter, How Did We Get Here? is a passionate, insightful and moving experience with clear outcomes to each episode.

This podcast doesn’t tell people how to raise their children, or reconnect with family members, rather it helps people understand why, as perfectly competent adults, they can’t put into practice what they know they should do.

Each episode passes on useful links and contacts which listeners can find in the programme notes.

This is a Somethin' Else production.

Listen on Apple Podcasts
Requires subscription and macOS 11.4 or higher

    Claudia Winkleman on the joy of imperfection - How to Fail with Elizabeth Day

    Claudia Winkleman on the joy of imperfection - How to Fail with Elizabeth Day

    Claudia Winkleman is a broadcaster who feels like your best friend - whether she's co-hosting Strictly Come Dancing, fronting her Saturday morning BBC Radio 2 show or sending shivers down your spine as the presenter of The Traitors. And now, for our season finale, she joins How to Fail to talk about her hatred of perfect, her distaste for exercise, her introversion and her failure to live in the present. Plus: struggles with sleep, the invaluable lessons her parents' taught her and why Rembrandt (as seen with minus 15 eyesight) might be her forever style icon.



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    • 1 hr
    Introducing: It’s Not You, It’s Them…But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

    Introducing: It’s Not You, It’s Them…But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

    Introducing...It’s Not You, It’s Them…But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain

    In her brand-new podcast, Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.

    It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!

    Listen every Monday, Wednesday and Friday wherever you get your podcasts.
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    • 2 min
    Season 1 & 2 Guests Revisited: Prof Tanya asks Jack if he's made contact with his father & whether a long-term relationship is more feasible for Sally

    Season 1 & 2 Guests Revisited: Prof Tanya asks Jack if he's made contact with his father & whether a long-term relationship is more feasible for Sally

    In this third bonus episode of How Did We Get Here? Tanya catches up with two more of our previous guests from Season 1 and 2, to see how things have moved on since they last spoke and what they have learned in the process.

    First we hear from Jack, our first ever episode. He was estranged from his father and was thinking about reconnecting. Listen back to Jack’s episode from Season 1 here:
    https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/my-distant-father/id1491735705?i=1000527123924

    We’ll also hear from Sally, who found it hard to make a relationship last more than 18 months. She realised that a key moment in her life had changed her forever and needed to move on. Listen back to Sally’s episode from Season 2 here:
    https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/my-long-term-relationships-dont-work/id1491735705?i=1000521783165

    If you have been affected by any of the issues discussed in this episode please see below for information about further support and advice.

    To find help via talking therapies you can either go to your GP or the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) bacp.co.uk or bps.org.uk - they should be HCPC registered.

    Other helpful organisations:
    NHS - www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/mental-health-helplines
    SAMARITANS - www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan or call 116 123
    MIND - www.mind.co.uk
    NSPCC - www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe
    WELLDOING - www.welldoing.org
    NICE - www.nice.org.uk/guidance
    Anxiety UK - www.anxietyuk.org.uk

    How Did We Get Here? is a Somethin' Else Production.

    If I'm Not Thin I'm Not Successful

    If I'm Not Thin I'm Not Successful

    Bea is an achiever in all areas of her life apart from one. She feels that until she is slimmer, she hasn’t achieved everything she set out to do. 



    If you have been affected by any of the issues discussed in this episode please see below for information about further support and advice. 



    To find help via talking therapies you can either go to your GP or the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) bacp.co.uk or bps.org.uk - they should be HCPC registered. 



    Other helpful organisations:


    NHS - www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/mental-health-helplines


    SAMARITANS - www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan or call 116 123

    MIND - www.mind.co.uk


    NSPCC - www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe


    WELLDOING - www.welldoing.org


    NICE - www.nice.org.uk/guidance


    Anxiety UK - www.anxietyuk.org.uk



    Find the transcript for episode 12 here: somethin-else.github.io/transcripts/hdwgh/episode3_12.txt 



    How Did We Get Here? is a Somethin' Else Production. 



    If you're interested in taking part in future episodes of "How Did We Get Here?", please email describing your issue to how@somethinelse.com. 


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    • 51 min
    Grieving Multiple Losses

    Grieving Multiple Losses

    Isla has suffered more deaths in her family than most people deal with in a lifetime. 



    She finds it impossible to process what has happened and needs a way out of the pain. 



    If you have been affected by any of the issues discussed in this episode please see below for information about further support and advice. 



    To find help via talking therapies you can either go to your GP or the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) bacp.co.uk or bps.org.uk - they should be HCPC registered. 



    Other helpful organisations:


    NHS - www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/mental-health-helplines


    SAMARITANS - www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan or call 116 123

    MIND - www.mind.co.uk


    NSPCC - www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe


    WELLDOING - www.welldoing.org


    NICE - www.nice.org.uk/guidance


    Anxiety UK - www.anxietyuk.org.uk



    Find the transcript for episode 11 here: somethin-else.github.io/transcripts/hdwgh/episode3_11.txt 



    How Did We Get Here? is a Somethin' Else Production.  



    If you're interested in taking part in future episodes of "How Did We Get Here?", please email describing your issue to how@somethinelse.com. 




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    • 50 min
    Keep Myself to Myself

    Keep Myself to Myself

    George was a fireman for the RAF in Iraq and Afghanistan. After his tour of 2007, he came back a different person and has found it hard to reintegrate into society. 



    If you have been affected by any of the issues discussed in this episode please see below for information about further support and advice. 



    To find help via talking therapies you can either go to your GP or the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) bacp.co.uk or bps.org.uk - they should be HCPC registered. 



    Other helpful organisations:


    NHS - www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/mental-health-helplines


    SAMARITANS - www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan or call 116 123

    MIND - www.mind.co.uk


    NSPCC - www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe


    WELLDOING - www.welldoing.org


    NICE - www.nice.org.uk/guidance


    Anxiety UK - www.anxietyuk.org.uk



    Find the transcript for episode 10 here: somethin-else.github.io/transcripts/hdwgh/episode3_10.txt



    How Did We Get Here? is a Somethin' Else Production.  



    If you're interested in taking part in future episodes of "How Did We Get Here?", please email describing your issue to how@somethinelse.com. 




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    • 53 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
65 Ratings

65 Ratings

RedFragel ,

Great Pod cast

I binged listened to the whole 3
Seasons what a wonderful Show.

Tez & Jules ,

Please do more

This is just the best podcast with such helpful information on so many ways we can all find peace and joy in our lives. I love the warmth and care - with little touches pf humour. Thanks, ladies. You are both a breath of fresh, insightful air.

HAPP inc ,

Brilliant Insightful & Hope Inspiring!

Please do more seasons🙏🏽! I discovered the podcast just after returning to Melbourne in March last year from the UK, at the very beginning of the pandemic, so at a very stressful period. Looking back & forwards at this time of insecurity and fear of the future I have found this podcast really comforting… it will make every listener feel that they are not alone, it inspires true empathy and hope in dark times especially from the point that Tanya & Claude both make in each episode: that nothing is truly broken and that deep down we all have the innate ability to heal from all sorts of traumas we just need a bit of help from time to time… keep up this excellent work girls! ❤️ Helen ( still in lockdown in Melbourne Australia)

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