Save My Marriage Podcast

Aston and Adam Simmonds
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We’re not here just to “fix” marriages. We’re here to help high-achieving couples remember who they really are, individually and together. To shed the roles, the resentment, the silent suffering and rise into a relationship that’s deeply connected, passionately alive, and built on truth, trust, and team. We’ve lived the disconnect. We’ve hit rock bottom. We’ve sat on the edge of “too late.” But we also know what’s possible when two people choose to rise, together. This isn’t therapy. This is transformation. This is the new paradigm of marriage. This is the Save My Marriage Podcast. Hosted by Aston & Adam Simmonds, relationship coaches and founders of Save My Marriage School, this show delivers weekly real-talk episodes packed with stories, strategies, and step-by-step frameworks to help you: Rebuild trustRekindle connectionCommunicate without conflictOvercome resentmentAnd recreate a marriage you both love being inNew episodes every Tuesday . Submit your question: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com/podcast Learn more: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com Start listening now and discover what’s possible when you Recreate Your Relationship.

  1. 6 DAYS AGO

    The Mental Load Is Not the Problem (And Why Most Conversations Make It Worse)

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ "I realised if something happened to me… I wouldn't trust he could look after our kids." That was the wake-up call. Not a fight. Not a breakdown. Just a quiet, terrifying moment in the kitchen. And instead of blaming him… She asked herself: How did I create this? Because the mental load isn't just about tasks. It's about the dynamic you've both quietly built. Without even realising it. "It's not that he doesn't care. It's that you've made it so he doesn't need to." And that's the hardest truth to hear. But also the most freeing one. Because if you created it… You can change it. Not by doing more. By finally doing less.  Save this for the next time you feel like you're carrying it all alone. Share it with the woman who needs to hear this today. Full episode: "The Mental Load Is Not the Problem — And Why Most Conversations Make It Worse" is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #mentalload #marriagetalk #healingjourney #defaultparent #relationshipstruggles #viralreel #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #modernmarriage #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #marriagecoach #relationshipcoach #highperformers #powercouple #perthcouples #goldcoastcouples #australiacouples #couplesretreat #emotionalintimacy #fixyourmarriage #marriageproblems #loveafterpain #realconnection Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    31 min

  2. 27 APR

    Why Your Marriage Needs a Retreat (Not Another Counselling Session)

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ “Counselling didn’t fix it…” In Episode 36, we break down the truth most couples don’t want to hear: Why you can spend months… even years in counselling And still feel stuck in the same patterns “It’s not that you’re not trying hard enough… It’s that talking alone doesn’t change emotional patterns.” We share what actually shifts a relationship: Not more conversations But a different environment Real safety And doing the work in real time If you’ve been going in circles… Having the same arguments Feeling like nothing is changing This episode will show you a different way Save this for when you feel stuck Share it with your partner if you’re both trying… but not getting anywhere Full episode: “Why Your Marriage Needs a Retreat (Not Another Counselling Session)” is live now. Comment “episode 36” and we’ll send it to you #marriagetips #relationshipgrowth #marriagepodcast #relationshipadvice #emotionalconnection #marriagehelp #couplestherapy #relationshipstruggles #fixyourmarriage #relationshiphealing #modernmarriage #marriagegoals #communicationinrelationships #realmarriage #loveandconnection #workingonus #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #highperformercouples #powercouple #australiacouples #perthcouples #goldcoastcouples #viralreel #relationshipreset #deepconnection #intimacy  Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    29 min

  3. 21 APR

    8 Patterns Quietly Destroying Your Marriage

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ 👉 Book a Call: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session “We thought our partner was the problem…” But it wasn’t them. It was the pattern. The same fight. The same tension. The same feeling of going in circles… over and over again. “We see this every single day… couples stuck in patterns they don’t even realise they’re co creating.” The growth gap. The chaser and avoider. The over functioning and burnout. The roommate phase. The silent shutdown. None of these mean your relationship is broken. They mean you’re stuck in patterns you haven’t learnt how to see… or shift yet. And here’s the truth most couples miss: 👉 It only takes ONE of you to change the pattern. If you’ve been feeling disconnected… If you keep having the same arguments… If you’re starting to wonder “is this just how it is now?” This episode will wake you up. Save this for when you feel stuck. Share it with your partner… or someone who needs it. Full episode: “8 Patterns Quietly Destroying Your Marriage” is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #relationshippatterns #savemymarriage #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #coupleswork #marriagehelp #relationshippodcast #realtalk #communication #relationshipstruggles #healingtogether #modernmarriage #workingonus #savemymarriagepodcast  Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    36 min

  4. 13 APR

    The Manosphere Lied To You About Being a Man (And It’s Costing You Your Relationship)

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ “The manosphere lied to you about being a man… and it’s costing you your relationship.” In this episode, we break down the truth most men were never taught: The pressure to prove yourself. The mask of control, dominance, and “having it all together.” The quiet insecurity underneath it all. “Real masculinity doesn’t need to perform, control, or tear others down to feel powerful.” If you’ve ever felt confused about what it actually means to be a man… Or you’re in a relationship that feels disconnected, tense, or off… This episode will hit. Because the problem isn’t you. It’s the model you were given. Save this for when you need a reset. Share it with a man who needs to hear this. Full episode: “The Manosphere Lied To You About Being a Man (And It’s Costing You Your Relationship)” is live now. Link in bio. #masculinity #modernman #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #marriagehelp #marriageadvice #emotionalintelligence #menswork #selfleadership #personalgrowth #relationshipgrowth #intimacy #communication #healingjourney #couples #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast  Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    25 min

  5. 6 APR

    Why You Feel Misunderstood in Your Relationship & How To Fix It

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ 👉 Free Relationship Breakthrough Session Book Here: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session 👉 Recreate Your Relationship Retreat Check Here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ “We keep having the same argument… and getting nowhere.” That’s what most couples say before they realise the truth. You’re not actually arguing about the problem. You’re arguing because you don’t understand each other. In this episode, we break down why you feel so misunderstood in your relationship: The way men and women communicate differently. Why one of you shuts down… while the other keeps pushing. Why fixing the problem isn’t actually fixing the relationship. “Your differences aren’t the problem. Your inability to understand them is.” If you’ve ever felt like: “I’m not being heard” “They just don’t get me” “We’re speaking completely different languages” This episode will shift everything. Save this for your next argument. Share it with your partner. Full episode: “Why You Feel Misunderstood in Your Relationship & How To Fix It” is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #relationshipadvice #communicationinrelationships #emotionalconnection #relationshipgrowth #couplescommunication #marriagehelp #relationshippodcast #realtalk #relationshipproblems #workingonus #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast  Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    22 min

  6. 30 MAR

    Why Talking More Is Actually Making Your Relationship Worse

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ Book Your Breakthrough Session Here: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session “Talking more is actually making your relationship worse…” Most couples think they have a communication problem. They don’t. They talk more. They try harder. They say all the “right things.” And still… Nothing changes. “We kept having the same conversation… just in different ways.” The real problem? It’s not communication. It’s that it doesn’t feel safe to be honest. So you filter. You hold back. You walk on eggshells. Or you come in harder… and they shut down. And now you’re stuck in the same pattern… Just louder. If you’ve ever felt like: “Why are we talking so much… but getting nowhere?” This episode will hit home. Save this for the next time you’re stuck in the same argument. Share it with your partner… this could change everything. Full episode: “Why Talking More Is Actually Making Your Relationship Worse” is live now. Link in bio. #marriagehelp #relationshipadvice #communicationproblems #emotionalconnection #relationshippatterns #marriagepodcast #coupleswork #relationshipgrowth #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    21 min

  7. 23 MAR

    How to Rebuild Trust (Even After It’s Broken)

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ “Saying sorry isn’t what rebuilds trust…” In this episode, we break down what actually repairs a relationship after trust is broken: The avoidance The fear based decisions The patterns that keep repeating “It’s not the mistake that keeps hurting your relationship… it’s the lack of real repair.” If you’ve been stuck in the same argument  or feel like nothing is actually changing… This episode is for you. ❤️‍🩹 Save this for when things feel tense. Share it with your partner if you’re trying to rebuild. Full episode: “How to Rebuild Trust (Even After It’s Broken)” is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #relationshipgrowth #trustissues #emotionalconnection #marriagehelp #coupleswork #realtalkrelationships #healingtogether #communicationiskey #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    24 min

  8. 16 MAR

    How to Build Trust in a Relationship

    Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ Trust in a marriage rarely breaks in one big moment. It erodes in the small ones. The promise you didn’t follow through on. The truth you didn’t fully share. The conversation you avoided. “Trust isn’t built with words. It’s built through consistent actions.” In this episode we break down the 8 pillars of trust every relationship needs. If your partner feels like they can’t rely on you, trust is already eroding. The good news is it can be rebuilt. Save this for when you need the reminder. Full episode: “How to Build Trust in a Relationship” is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #relationshipadvice #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #marriagetalk #realtalk #workingonus #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast Work With Us Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ Free Resources: Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in Listen to all episodes on Audio: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds Support the Show If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

    21 min
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We’re not here just to “fix” marriages. We’re here to help high-achieving couples remember who they really are, individually and together. To shed the roles, the resentment, the silent suffering and rise into a relationship that’s deeply connected, passionately alive, and built on truth, trust, and team. We’ve lived the disconnect. We’ve hit rock bottom. We’ve sat on the edge of “too late.” But we also know what’s possible when two people choose to rise, together. This isn’t therapy. This is transformation. This is the new paradigm of marriage. This is the Save My Marriage Podcast. Hosted by Aston & Adam Simmonds, relationship coaches and founders of Save My Marriage School, this show delivers weekly real-talk episodes packed with stories, strategies, and step-by-step frameworks to help you: Rebuild trustRekindle connectionCommunicate without conflictOvercome resentmentAnd recreate a marriage you both love being inNew episodes every Tuesday . Submit your question: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com/podcast Learn more: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com Start listening now and discover what’s possible when you Recreate Your Relationship.

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  • Creator
    Aston and Adam Simmonds
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    165
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Save My Marriage Podcast
  • Show Website
    Save My Marriage Podcast

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