Trying Not to Care

This is the only podcast I listen to I love Ashley so much! Any advice I need I go here 💗

I’m currently struggling going through a breakup, and I supposed part of the reason he left me was because I was entering a different phase of life. I got a job offer which I had been working towards for almost 3 years, and 3 days later of that happened, he left me. As much as I’d like to believe he was happy for me, I knew my progress reminded him what he was lacking. There were days I doubted myself if I shouldn’t have been successful? could that have saved my relationship if I stayed at my old job. As stupid as it sounds, it was the thoughts in my head. The episode reminds me that, at the end of day, it was about his insecurity that triggered the breakup, not me. Even if I stayed at the old job, there would be something else reminding him of his lacking. All I could do is to focus on myself with the hope and love for him that he could be also working on himself to become an “enough” version on his own (although I never thought that he wasn’t enough). This episode made me smile on the way to the office this morning. Thank you Ashley.

i love ashley sm and the episodes always make me feel better. would recommend omg <333