The Intimacy Playground with EJ Love

EJ Love
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  • Sexuality
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An adventurous podcast for leaders, lovers and curious explorers who want to come alive and play in sex, intimacy and play! Through uncensored truth-telling, trauma-informed teachings, expert interviews and practices and games you can experiment with today, EJ Love shows you what’s possible to experience in intimacy, sex, relationships, self-expression & embodied leadership. This is for the ones who are hungry for more intimacy, more aliveness, more play, more fulfillment and freedom! This isn’t just a podcast you consume - it’s a playground you enter. So come play with us...

  1. 25 Jan

    16 - The Fear of Intimacy - [The Real Reason you Don't have the Intimacy you Want]

    Welcome to Season 2 where EJ explores the Fear of Intimacy and how it stops people from having the intimacy they really want! She shares how people struggle to know and ask for what they want and the stories and beliefs that keep people safe and in their comfort zone when it comes to intimacy. She also talks about the roles people play in relationships and the fears and shadows of intimacy that keep you playing out these disempowering roles. Lastly, she speaks to the sabotaging and avoidant behaviours that keep you stuck and how accountability is key to changing these behaviours! WAYS TO PLAY WITH ME - https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial  Join my Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/EJLovetribe/  Time Stamps:  10:30 The Fear of Intimacy: An Introduction 22:33 Exploring Barriers to Intimacy 34:24 Exploring Fears of Intimacy 34:41 Fear of Losing Freedom 37:32 Fear of Abandonment 39:44 Fear of Inadequacy and Rejection 42:52 Fear of Emotions and Vulnerability 45:22 Roles and Masks in Relationships 48:00 Uncovering Shadows 53:00 External Behaviors and Sabotage 59:24 Creating Safety and Accountability 01:02:01 Coaching and Training Opportunities Keywords:  conscious sex, embodied play, adult play, intimacy coaching, connection, intimacy, trauma, triggers, boundaries, consent, sex industry, demographics, connection, intimacy, relationships, Conscious Sexuality Experience Training, communication, intention, safety, nice guy, men’s work, masculinity.

    1hr 2min

  2. 18/07/2024

    15 - Inside the Life of a Conscious Male Escort with Ty Jones, George Goulburn and Tyler Banks

    In this episode, I have the pleasure of speaking with three male escorts who have all attended our Conscious Sexuality Experience training. I asked them all the most curious questions that people wanted to know about what it’s like being a male escort:  How did you get into the industry? Why do you do what you do?  What types of women book your services? What are they looking for?  How do you do this work when you have a partner?  What’s been some of your most memorable client experiences?  What kind of conscious sexuality experiences fo you offer your clients? How has this helped them?  We also chatted about how the Conscious Sexuality Experience Training has had a significant impact on their work, particularly in terms of educating their clients about their desires and boundaries and supporting them to feel loved and safe exploring their sexuality.  CURIOUS ABOUT OUR CONSCIOUS SEXUALITY IMMERSION AND TRAININGS?  For women’s only: https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/  For mixed gender: https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/mixedgender  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/conscioussexualitytraining  Join our Private Free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/986216238137858  Download the FREE Intimacy Playbook: https://www.ejlove.com/intimacyplaybook  CONNECT WITH THE MALE ESCORTS Instagram:   Ty Jones - https://www.instagram.com/tyjones_01/ , https://www.instagram.com/pleasureheals_/  George Goulburn - https://www.instagram.com/george_goulburn/,  Tyler Banks - https://www.instagram.com/tylerbanksesct/  Websites:  Ty - https://www.pleasureheals.com.au, https://ivysociete.com/escorts/profile/ty-jones  George - https://www.georgegoulburn.com/  Tyler - https://ivysociete.com/escorts/profile/tyler-banks  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on! Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Guests and the Importance of Healing Services in the Sex Industry 04:19 Personal Stories: How the Guests Entered the Industry 06:02 Motivations and Passion for Supporting Women's Healing and Growth 15:59 Why Women Book Male Escorts and the Types of Women They Serve 22:45 Creating a Safe and Healing Experience: Communication, Boundaries, and Trauma Response 26:07 Respecting Boundaries and Trauma Responses 27:43 The Importance of Connection and Intimacy 35:59 Standout Client Experiences 01:00:29 The Impact of the Conscious Sexuality Experience Training Keywords conscious sex, male escorts, healing, connection, intimacy, companionship, trauma, triggers, communication, boundaries, aftercare, boundaries, trauma responses, consent, sex industry, demographics, connection, intimacy, physical attraction, client experiences, relationships, Conscious Sexuality Experience Training, communication, intention, safety

    1hr 6min

  3. 20/09/2023

    13 - Porn Addiction and Trauma - the Impacts on Men's Brains, Sexual Performance and Intimate Relationships

    In this episode we cover:  1. How to know when watching porn has actually become an addiction  2. The real reason men can become so easily dependent on porn  3. The massive impacts porn dependency has on men’s brains, their sexual intimacy, performance and their relationships 4. How men can be re-traumatising themselves every time they watch porn   Join our 4 Week Men’s Sex Mastery Program that will help you heal porn addiction, rewire the neurological pathways of the brain and master your sexual energy - ⁠https://www.ejlove.com/menssexmasteryprogram⁠  Use code “100OFF” for a special $100 discount!  Learn more about all of our Conscious Sexuality Experience Trainings -  ⁠https://linktr.ee/csetraining⁠  Follow us on Instagram: Conscious Sexuality Training - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/conscioussexualitytraining⁠  EJ -  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial⁠  Anna - ⁠https://www.instagram.com/annamorrigan54⁠  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

    1hr 11min

  4. 29/07/2023

    12 - Men's Mother Wound and How it Sabotages Intimacy with Women

    In this episode EJ covers:  1. The Unconscious Unhealed Mother Wound Behaviours and How they Impact Men’s Relationships with Women  2. The 6 Different Mother-Son Dynamics that are Playing out Repeated Patterns in Relationships 3. How this Unhealed Wound Impacts Men’s Intimacy and can be a cause of ED, PE and how it can also Create Kinks and Fantasies that lead to Addictions 4. The Unconscious Loyalty Men have towards their Mothers that creates blocks to being available for & receiving love and having intimacy.  5. The Vital Piece of Men’s Initiation that is missing in most Men’s Work that will actually Heal this Mother Wound (and how I think women are here to help men with this) This is one you will not want to miss - be prepared to have your 👀 opened!  Check out our Mixed Gender Immersion where we will be taking men through this Healing and Separation Process - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/mgimmersion  Learn to facilitate this process for men at our Practitioner Training - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com.au  Discover all of our Events and Trainings -  https://linktr.ee/csetraining  Follow us on Instagram: Conscious Sexuality Training - https://www.instagram.com/conscioussexualitytraining  EJ -  https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

    1hr 15min

  5. 29/06/2023

    11 - That Time I Hired a Male Escort

    In this episode I share the amazing conscious experience I had with a male escort and answer so many of the questions that you had for me about this including: 1. Why I decided to Hire a Male Escort 2. How I found Him and Why I chose this Escort 3. What I wanted to get out of the experience 4. The juicy details of what happened and my reflections and learnings. 5. My personal recommendations of Conscious Male Escorts Check out our Mixed Gender Immersion - https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com/mgimmersion Learn more about all of our Conscious Sexuality Experience Trainings -  https://linktr.ee/csetraining Follow us on Instagram: Conscious Sexuality Training - https://www.instagram.com/conscioussexualitytraining  EJ -  https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial  Anna - https://www.instagram.com/annamorrigan54  PLAYLIST - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3DOTc7s3yyHk4zMg0rnxvu?si=V9fZghryRPyvuFg03_bIYA Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

    1hr 21min

  6. 08/05/2023

    10 - CSE - What is a Conscious Sexuality Experience? 

    In the sex industry you will hear the acronyms 'PSE' and 'GFE' which stand for Pornstar Experience and Girlfriend Experience respectively. 'CSE' is the new kind of experience - a Conscious Sexuality Experience - that is about to revolutionise not only the sex industry but the world and we are here to stand at the forefront of this revolution! In this very in depth episode we dive into what this means, how it will revolutionise the world and what you can experience in a CSE.  We have to remember that our sexual energy is our life force energy. It is so powerful that it creates life, but when correctly channeled it is a deeply vulnerable act which unites our body. our emotions and our spirit. When we add intention and awareness to our sexuality we move energy through our entire being. The result is a transformational and deeply healing experience. The unification of body, emotions and spirituality is a simple spiritual truth.  It was taught by sacred sex workers for thousands of years but was then buried by religion. It’s a truth that is still part of inner our knowing. We just need to go deep within ourselves to be reunited with what our bodies have always known.  This is what you becomes possible in a Conscious Sexuality Experience. Learn more about our Conscious Sexuality Experience Trainings -  https://linktr.ee/csetraining  Follow us on Instagram: Conscious Sexuality Training - https://www.instagram.com/conscioussexualitytraining  EJ -  https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial  Anna - https://www.instagram.com/annamorrigan54  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

    1hr 36min

  7. 01/05/2023

    09 - What is Conscious Sexuality?

    In this episode Anna and I share about: What Conscious Sexuality is NOT The importance of listening to our bodies and being aware of our sexual conditioning and trauma responses Establishing boundaries and consent and knowing what we want and how to ask for it Sex as a pathway for healing, growth and discovering and expressing more parts of ourselves Sex reflection conversations to deepen intimacy with others A juicy story where EJ allowed herself to be fully seen in her seductress!  Learn more about our Conscious Sexuality Experience Training -  https://www.conscioussexualityexperience.com  Follow us on Instagram: Conscious Sexuality Training - https://www.instagram.com/conscioussexualitytraining  EJ -  https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial  Anna - https://www.instagram.com/annamorrigan54  For all EJ’s current offers, events and trainings go to: https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

    54 min

  8. 11/04/2023

    08 - Conscious Dominance - Somatic Healing through Kink

    In this episode we share about:  Powerful Stories of Healing through Conscious Kink How Kink can be used to Somatically Move Energy through the Body and Brings our Focus to the Felt Sense in the Body Importance of Regulating the Nervous System in a Kink Experience Exploring the Fear of Humiliation and Working with it Somatically Exploring your Dominatrix Energy and Dominating Yourself Knowing What Fantasies are Real and which are Trauma-based Intrusive Thoughts Explore this for yourself in our Conscious Sexuality Experience Training - learn more here.  For all of my other current offers, events and trainings go to: ⁠https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial⁠  Follow and Message us on Instagram at @conscioussexualitytraining.  Thanks for tuning in, now let’s get turned on!

    1hr 3min
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An adventurous podcast for leaders, lovers and curious explorers who want to come alive and play in sex, intimacy and play! Through uncensored truth-telling, trauma-informed teachings, expert interviews and practices and games you can experiment with today, EJ Love shows you what’s possible to experience in intimacy, sex, relationships, self-expression & embodied leadership. This is for the ones who are hungry for more intimacy, more aliveness, more play, more fulfillment and freedom! This isn’t just a podcast you consume - it’s a playground you enter. So come play with us...

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