Conversations with Kristi

Kristi McVee

Welcome to Conversations with Kristi! 🎙️ Hosted by Kristi McVee, this podcast is your go-to resource for keeping parents informed and kids safe in today’s ever-changing world. Each episode, Kristi brings expert insights, real-world advice, and meaningful discussions on topics like child abuse prevention, online safety, child development, parenting tips, and much more. Whether you're navigating the challenges of parenting or simply looking for ways to protect and empower your kids, Conversations with Kristi has you covered. Tune in to stay ahead of the curve and ensure your child's safety and well-being. 👉 Subscribe now for new episodes and stay informed! #ConversationsWithKristi #ParentingTips #KidsSafety #CAPEAU #ParentingAdvice #ChildSafety #KristiMcVee

  1. Ep 63 Sometimes "just one more" is all we need with Brooke McIntosh

    29 APR

    Ep 63 Sometimes "just one more" is all we need with Brooke McIntosh

    In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi is joined by Brooke McIntosh - speaker, endurance runner, and founder of the Just One More movement - for a raw, powerful conversation about mental health, courage, healing, and the ripple effect of choosing to speak when silence feels safer. Brooke shares the deeply personal story behind her decision to run 14,000 kilometres around Australia - a journey born from suicidal ideation, unspoken trauma, and a life-changing car accident that forced her to confront the reality that she was not okay, despite appearing strong on the outside. Together, Kristi and Brooke explore how “just one more” - one step, one breath, one conversation - became a lifeline, not only for Brooke, but for countless people she encountered along the road. What began as a mission to spark conversation within FIFO, mining, and construction communities quickly revealed a much wider truth: mental health struggles do not discriminate. They exist everywhere - across families, generations, genders, and professions. This episode dives into the cost of emotional shutdown, the normalisation of masking pain, and how generational silence around trauma, addiction, and abuse shapes the way adults cope - or don’t cope - later in life. Brooke speaks candidly about childhood sexual abuse, substance use, shame, and the long-term impact of carrying stories alone for decades. Kristi and Brooke also reflect on the power of vulnerability to break cycles - from the unexpected moment Brooke’s father felt safe enough to say “I’m not okay”, to the way children who saw Brooke running began asking questions that opened conversations within their families. This is not a conversation about toughness or pushing through at all costs. It’s about courage, honesty, mental fitness, and choosing connection - even when it’s uncomfortable. Key Themes Covered Suicidal ideation and the turning point that saved Brooke’s life The meaning of Just One More as a daily practice Mental fitness vs mental health Why masking pain is so common - and so dangerous The ripple effect of courageous, vulnerable conversations Generational trauma, silence, and healing Childhood sexual abuse and delayed disclosure Addiction as a coping strategy for unprocessed pain Running as therapy, regulation, and trauma processing Listening to the body instead of pushing through it Breaking cycles for the next generation Why healing yourself can give others permission to speak Why This Conversation Matters So many people are surviving - not living. They show up, work hard, care for others, and appear “fine”, while silently carrying trauma, grief, shame, and exhaustion. This episode reminds us that strength is not found in silence or self-abandonment - it’s found in honesty, courage, and asking for support. Brooke’s story shows how quickly things can change when someone chooses to speak - and how one brave conversation can unlock many more. You don’t need to run around Australia to make a difference. Sometimes, just one more conversation is enough to save a life. About Brooke McIntosh - Just One More Brooke McIntosh is an endurance runner, speaker, and founder of the Just One More movement, using lived experience to spark honest conversations about mental health, suicide prevention, and emotional wellbeing. Through her run around Australia and her ongoing work in communities, schools, and workplaces, Brooke encourages people to build mental fitness, challenge silence, and remember that pain never gets the last say. Follow Brooke McIntosh on her socials: 👉 Instagram - Facebook Brooke McIntosh website: 👉 https://brookemcintosh.com.au/ Practical Support & Resources If this episode has brought up big feelings or difficult memories, Kristi offers trauma-informed education and resources to support healing, prevention, and connection. 🔗 Explore education and resources: 👉 www.kristimcvee.com  Resources include: trauma-informed education child safety and prevention resources guidance for courageous, supportive conversations tools to help adults respond calmly and safely to disclosure Content Warning This episode includes discussion of: suicidal ideation childhood sexual abuse addiction and substance use trauma and mental health challenges Some listeners may find this content confronting. Please listen with care and pause or step away if needed. Support Services (Australia) If you or someone you love needs support, help is available: Lifeline – 13 11 14 | lifeline.org.au Beyond Blue – 1300 22 4636 | beyondblue.org.au Kids Helpline (ages 5–25) – 1800 55 1800 | kidshelpline.com.au 1800RESPECT – 1800 737 732 | 1800respect.org.au If you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services.

    57 min
  2. Ep 62 The Value of a Gap Year with Dr. Justin Coulson

    15 APR

    Ep 62 The Value of a Gap Year with Dr. Justin Coulson

    In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi sits down with Dr. Justin Coulson to explore a topic that feels increasingly urgent for parents today: raising boys. Together, they dive into why so many young men are struggling to find their footing and what it actually takes to raise a generation that is resilient, purposeful, and grounded. Dr. Coulson shares his own "failure to launch" story-from failing school to a decade-long radio career before finding his true calling in psychology-and explains why the path to adulthood isn't a race. They unpack the "Hope Theory," the dangers of "vanity careers," and the power of "Autonomy Support," providing a roadmap for parents who want to move from controlling their kids to guiding them.   This is a candid, insightful conversation about shifting the narrative for our sons and helping them become men who make the people around them feel "safer and stronger". Content Covered in This Episode The "Crisis of Purpose": Why kids today have more freedom than ever but less direction and resilience.  Dr.  Coulson’s Journey: From the bottom 15% of his class to a PhD in psychology and the "Happy Families" brand.  The Value of the Gap Year: Why "earning and learning" through life experiences often leads to more success than rushing straight into university.  The 2026 Brain Maturity Update: New research suggesting neurological maturity may not occur until our early 30s.  Autonomy Support vs. Control: How to help kids "endorse" rules and values rather than just following them out of fear.  The Hope Theory: Breaking down the three essential pillars of hope: Goals, Pathways, and Agency.  Screen Time and Lost Potential: The neurological "hijacking" of our youth and how it impacts their ability to discover their values.  Healthy Masculinity: Defining a healthy man as someone who helps those around him feel safer and stronger.  The "Sunday Chat": A practical family ritual for discussing everything from consent to mental health.   Why This Conversation Matters We often expect too much from our little kids and not enough from our teenagers. As Dr. Coulson explains, our job as parents is not to slay the dragons for our children, but to prepare them to be "dragon slayers" themselves.  Many young men are failing to thrive because they lack a sense of worthiness derived from doing hard, productive things. By fostering "Autonomy Support," we can guide our children toward financial viability and personal fulfillment without resorting to "victimhood" or blaming external labels for a lack of progress. This conversation challenges parents to step up, have the hard conversations, and model the character we want our children to inherit.    About Dr. Justin Coulson Dr. Justin Coulson is one of Australia’s most trusted parenting experts. He is the co-host of Channel 9’s Parental Guidance, the host of the #1 parenting podcast in Australia (The Happy Families Podcast), and the author of 11 books. After a successful radio career, Justin returned to university as a mature-age student, earning first-class honors in psychology and a PhD. He is a father of six daughters and is dedicated to helping families flourish through evidence-based psychological principles. Connect with Dr. Justin Coulson:Website: www.happyfamilies.com.au   Podcast: The Happy Families Podcast New Book: "Boys" Dr. Justin Coulson’s latest book, "Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out," is a culmination of four years of work. It provides a framework for raising boys who are confident, kind, and capable of navigating the complexities of modern masculinity.  Pre-order Now: Pre-orders are critical for a book's success. You can pre-order your via the Happy Families website happyfamilies.com.au/boys-book-waitlist Practical Support & Resources  If this episode has inspired you to start more meaningful conversations with your kids, Kristi provides trauma-informed education and practical tools to help you guide them toward a life they can be proud of. 🔗 Explore education and resources:  👉 www.kristimcvee.com  Support Services (Australia) If this episode has raised difficult feelings or if you need immediate support: Lifeline – 13 11 14 | lifeline.org.au 1800RESPECT – 1800 737 732 | 1800respect.org.au Kids Helpline (ages 5–25) – 1800 55 1800 | kidshelpline.com.au If you are in immediate danger, contact emergency services (000).

    46 min
  3. Ep 61 The challenges parents face discussing tough topics with Kimberly King

    1 APR

    Ep 61 The challenges parents face discussing tough topics with Kimberly King

    In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi is joined by Kimberly King - author, educator, and founder of Tough Topics Mom - for a candid and deeply informative discussion on child safety, prevention, and fostering open communication with children. Kimberly shares her personal journey that led her to advocate for body safety, including a formative experience with her son that resurfaced memories from her own childhood. She reflects on the importance of early conversations about consent, boundaries, and safe adults, and how these conversations can empower children to recognize and respond to unsafe situations. Together, Kristi and Kimberly explore: the challenges parents face in navigating “tough topics,” the role of repressed memories in adult perspectives on child safety, and why prevention strategies are more effective when implemented early. They also discuss the unique risks posed by online spaces, how technology affects children’s development and safety, and practical tools for teaching kids about safe interactions in both real-life and digital environments. Through stories, practical advice, and evidence-based insights, this episode highlights how consistent, thoughtful conversations can make children less vulnerable to harm, support early disclosure, and strengthen parent-child relationships. Content Warning:This episode includes discussion of: Childhood sexual abuse Grooming behaviours Online safety risks Trauma and mental health challenges Some listeners may find this content confronting. Please listen with care and pause or step away if needed. Key Themes Covered: How early body safety education reduces risk and empowers children The importance of recognizing “safe” vs. “red flag” adults Practical strategies for having calm, ongoing safety conversations Online grooming, sextortion, and managing digital risks for children How parents’ past experiences shape their approach to safety Creating an environment where children feel heard and supported The role of consistent, intentional communication in prevention Why This Conversation Matters:Child sexual abuse and emotional harm thrive in secrecy and silence. Many parents want to protect their children but feel unsure how to start conversations about body safety or online risk. Kimberly’s insights provide practical strategies and encouragement for parents and carers to normalize these discussions, reduce vulnerability, and create safe spaces where children feel empowered to speak up. About Kimberly King:Kimberly King is an author, educator, and advocate for child safety. She is the founder of Tough Topics Mom, a platform offering guidance, resources, and support for parents navigating difficult conversations about consent, boundaries, and online safety. Her books, including I Said No and Body Safety for Young Children: Empowering Caring Adults, have been translated internationally and are used by families and educators worldwide to teach children about safety in an empowering, age-appropriate way. 🔗 Learn more about Kimberly King: 👉 www.toughtopicsmom.com 🔗 Tough Topics Mom Books: 👉 www.toughtopicsmom.com/books Practical Support & Resources:If this episode raises questions about supporting child safety, Kristi offers trauma-informed resources to help parents and carers:🔗 Explore tools and guides: 👉 www.kristimcvee.com Support Services (Australia): Lifeline - 13 11 14 | lifeline.org.au 1800RESPECT (sexual assault, domestic & family violence) - 1800 737 732 | 1800respect.org.au Kids Helpline (ages 5-25) - 1800 55 1800 | kidshelpline.com.au If you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services.

    49 min
  4. Ep 60 Your Baby Isn’t Giving You a Hard Time - They’re Having a Hard Time with Monique Christidis

    18 MAR

    Ep 60 Your Baby Isn’t Giving You a Hard Time - They’re Having a Hard Time with Monique Christidis

    In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi is joined by Monique Christidis - registered nurse, child health nurse of 30+ years, and founder of BaaBaa Baby - for a grounded, compassionate conversation about infant development, sleep, regulation, and the foundational role of connection from birth. Monique brings a wealth of clinical expertise alongside deep empathy for parents navigating the often overwhelming early years. Together, Kristi and Monique explore how babies communicate through behaviour, why crying is not manipulation but communication, and how understanding brain development can radically shift the way parents respond to sleep, distress, and big emotions. This episode gently challenges outdated behaviourist approaches to parenting and sleep, unpacking why concepts like “self-soothing” and “cry it out” can be misunderstood when we don’t fully understand infant brain development. Monique explains how safety, consistency, and presence support a baby’s nervous system - and how regulation always begins with the adult. Kristi and Monique also discuss the immense pressure placed on modern parents, the loss of the “village”, and how comparison culture and unrealistic expectations can leave parents feeling isolated, guilty, and exhausted. The conversation reinforces that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting - and that learning to trust your intuition is a powerful protective factor for both parents and children. This is a reassuring, science-informed, and deeply validating episode for parents, carers, and professionals - reminding us that connection, not perfection, is what children need most. Key Themes Covered Infant brain development and why the first years are about safety and survival Why babies cry - and why it’s communication, not manipulation The role of connection and co-regulation in sleep and emotional development How outdated parenting narratives can undermine parental intuition The impact of parental exhaustion, isolation, and comparison culture Why self-care and regulation in adults directly supports children Understanding sleep without shame, fear, or rigid rules Supporting children through distress rather than withdrawing connection Why there is no “one size fits all” approach to parenting How early connection builds resilience, confidence, and self-esteem Why This Conversation Matters Babies and young children rely entirely on safe, attuned adults to help them regulate, feel secure, and make sense of the world. When parents are overwhelmed, unsupported, or unsure - often due to conflicting advice or unrealistic expectations - it can erode confidence and connection. This episode reframes parenting through a trauma-informed, developmentally accurate lens, offering reassurance that responding with presence, curiosity, and compassion is not “spoiling” a child - it’s building safety. By understanding how children’s brains develop and how behaviour communicates need, parents can move away from fear-based approaches and toward connection-led care that supports both child wellbeing and parental mental health. About Monique Christidis - BaaBaa Baby Monique Christidis is a registered nurse and child health nurse with over 30 years’ experience supporting families. She is the founder of BaaBaa Baby, a private child health service in Western Australia, where she provides individualised support for families from birth to five years. Monique specialises in infant development, sleep, emotional regulation, and early attachment, offering practical, compassionate, and evidence-based guidance tailored to each family’s unique needs. Learn more about Monique and BaaBaa Baby:https://www.baabaababy.com.au   Instagram: @baabaababy Practical Support & Resources If this episode has raised questions about infant sleep, regulation, or building stronger connection with your child, Kristi offers trauma-informed education and practical resources for parents and carers. 🔗 Explore education and tools: 👉 www.kristimcvee.com  Resources include: connection-based parenting guidance child safety and prevention education tools to support calm, confident responses to children’s distress practical strategies grounded in child development and trauma-informed care Support Services (Australia) If parenting stress, exhaustion, or emotional overwhelm feels unmanageable, support is available: Lifeline - 13 11 14 | lifeline.org.au Beyond Blue - 1300 22 4636 | beyondblue.org.au PANDA (Perinatal Anxiety & Depression Australia) – 1300 726 306 | panda.org.au If you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services.

    1 hr
  5. EP 59 Why Connection Comes Before Protection with Neil Milton

    4 MAR

    EP 59 Why Connection Comes Before Protection with Neil Milton

    In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi is joined by Neil Milton - founder of The Table Talk Project, advocate, and survivor - for a powerful and deeply human conversation about connection, prevention, and the role safe relationships play in protecting children and strengthening families. Neil shares his lived experience of growing up without a voice at home, the long-term impact of childhood sexual abuse, and how unaddressed trauma shaped his relationships, sense of safety, and ability to ask for help. He reflects on how becoming a parent - and later recognising his own experiences as abuse - became a catalyst for creating spaces where children are heard, believed, and supported. Together, Kristi and Neil explore how everyday disconnection within families can increase vulnerability to harm, why children often communicate distress through behaviour rather than words, and how something as simple - and intentional - as sharing a meal can create profound protective factors. This episode unpacks how grooming can occur in plain sight, the dangers of “busy” culture, and why having a designated space for conversation matters. It also explores the ripple effects of connection - from improved mental health and resilience, to early disclosure of harm and strengthened family bonds. This is not about perfection.It’s about presence, prevention, and creating environments where nothing is off the table. Content Warning This episode includes discussion of: childhood sexual abuse grooming behaviours trauma and mental health challenges suicide and suicidal ideation family violence and relational harm Some listeners may find this content confronting. Please listen with care and pause or step away if needed. Support resources are listed below. Key Themes Covered How disconnection within families increases vulnerability to harm Why children often communicate distress through behaviour The lifelong impact of growing up without a safe voice How grooming can occur in everyday environments The protective power of connection and consistent presence Why “busy” culture can unintentionally silence children The role of shared meals in building trust and safety Supporting disclosure through calm, trauma-informed responses How prevention starts with small, consistent moments of connection Why safe relationships are a cornerstone of child protection Why This Conversation Matters Child sexual abuse and emotional harm thrive in silence, secrecy, and disconnection. Many parents and carers deeply care about protecting children but feel overwhelmed, unsure, or stretched thin. This episode reminds us that prevention does not require perfection, expertise, or constant vigilance - it requires presence, listening, and relationship. By creating regular opportunities for connection and normalising conversation, adults can interrupt grooming, support disclosure, and ensure children know they are not alone. Prevention is possible - and it begins with being heard. About The Table Talk Project The Table Talk Project is a family-centred initiative designed to help households create intentional spaces for connection through shared meals and guided conversations. By encouraging families to come together regularly and engage in meaningful dialogue, the project supports emotional wellbeing, strengthens relationships, and creates protective environments where children feel safe to speak. 🔗 Learn more about The Table Talk Project:👉Website: https://thetabletalkproject.org/ 👉Back at The Table Web App: https://thetabletalkproject.org/at-the-table/ 👉Latest Blog Post: https://thetabletalkproject.org/category/the-table-talk-news/ 👉Book our services: https://thetabletalkproject.org/speaking-engagements-and-presentations/ Practical Support & Resources If this episode has raised questions about how to build safer, more connected environments for children and families, Kristi has created practical, trauma-informed resources to support parents and carers. 🔗 Explore education and tools:👉 www.kristimcvee.com Resources include: conversation guides for families body safety and consent education tools support for calm, protective conversations without fear or overwhelm Support Services (Australia) If you or someone you love needs support, help is available: Lifeline - 13 11 14 | lifeline.org.au 1800RESPECT (sexual assault, domestic & family violence) - 1800 737 732 | 1800respect.org.au Kids Helpline (ages 5-25) - 1800 55 1800 | kidshelpline.com.au If you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services.

    54 min
  6. Ep 58 Supporting our neurodivergent families with Sharon Collon

    18 FEB

    Ep 58 Supporting our neurodivergent families with Sharon Collon

    In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi is joined by Sharon Collon - ADHD educator, coach, speaker, and founder of The Functional Family - for an honest and practical conversation about neurodiversity, online safety, learning differences, and what actually helps families thrive. Sharon is also host of the ADHD Families Podcast, where she supports parents navigating life with ADHD and other neurodivergent profiles. Having supported tens of thousands of families, Sharon’s work focuses on turning overwhelming information into clear, doable strategies. Together, Kristi and Sharon unpack what parents are truly crying out for - not more theory, not more labels - but practical tools that make everyday life easier. This episode weaves together neurodiversity, digital safety, emotional regulation, learning styles, rejection sensitivity, impulsivity, and body safety education - highlighting how prevention and support must be adapted for how children actually process the world. This is not a conversation about fear.It’s about understanding how your child’s brain works - and meeting them there. What This Episode Explores 1. The Reality of an ADHD Diagnosis Sharon shares her own journey of receiving her son’s diagnosis - including the overwhelm of being handed outdated information and left to figure it out alone. She explains why families don’t need more generic ADHD content online - they need: Clear, practical strategies Real-world application Emotional validation Support that reduces shame, not increases it 2. Processing Modalities: Why Talking Isn’t Always Enough Sharon explains that children process information in different ways, including: Conceptual (needing to understand why) Auditory Visual Verbal processing Emotional Intuitive Tactile (hands-on learners) When parents rely only on talking, many children simply don’t absorb the message - especially neurodivergent children. This becomes particularly important when teaching: Body safety Consent Online safety Social boundaries Risk awareness Kristi shares how role play - not just verbal instruction - helped her daughter internalise body safety rules. Sharon reinforces the importance of repetition and experiential learning over lecture-style conversations. 3. Online Safety, Gaming & Neurodivergence Kristi and Sharon have a grounded conversation about what’s actually happening in online spaces — especially for neurodivergent kids. They explore: Impulsivity and posting without thinking Dopamine-driven reward pathways How predators exploit attention and validation Difficulty reading social cues Why online interactions can feel safer than playground dynamics The very real impact of Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) Sharon strongly encourages parents to understand RSD - explaining that for many children with ADHD, rejection can feel like physical pain. Rather than banning technology outright, Sharon recommends: Curiosity over confrontation Coaching conversations (not interrogation) Moving gaming into shared spaces Researching games before approving them Using tools like Common Sense Media to review age-appropriateness Understanding that shame shuts down learning This episode reframes tech supervision as relationship-based guidance - not surveillance. 4. Social Skills & Emotional Safety Sharon explains that social skills are not intuitive for everyone - and many adults would benefit from explicit social skills training. They discuss: Why some children miss subtle social cues Why gaming environments can feel predictable and therefore safer The need for explicit teaching rather than assumption The importance of consent-based connection (including hugs) Regulation before conversation Kristi highlights something powerful: sometimes children - and adults - need a hug before they can process words. Key Themes Covered ADHD and late diagnosis Practical strategies over theory Processing modalities and learning differences Role play vs verbal instruction Repetition and retention Body safety education Online grooming risks Impulsivity and dopamine reward systems Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) Social skills development Curiosity-based parenting Regulation before correction Consent in everyday parenting moments Why This Conversation Matters Many parents feel: Overwhelmed Behind Outpaced by technology Unsure how to adapt for neurodivergent children This episode reminds us: Children don’t need perfect parents.They need informed, regulated adults who are willing to adjust their approach. When we understand how a child processes information, we can teach safety, boundaries, and skills in ways that actually stick. Prevention doesn’t start with fear.It starts with connection, repetition, and knowing your child’s brain. About Sharon Collon Sharon Collon is an ADHD educator, family coach, speaker, and founder of The Functional Family. She supports parents to move from confusion and overwhelm to clarity and confidence through evidence-informed, practical strategies. She is also the host of the ADHD Families Podcast, where she explores neurodiversity, regulation, parenting tools, and family wellbeing. Her work focuses on helping families: Understand ADHD beyond stereotypes Develop regulation skills Strengthen communication Build practical systems at home Support emotional and social development Create Your Family’s ADHD Roadmap – FREE Coaching WeekOne clear, tailored plan for your familyhttps://www.thefunctionalfamily.com/roadmap The ADHD Family Questhttps://www.thefunctionalfamily.com/questwaitlist The ADHD Families Podcasthttps://www.thefunctionalfamily.com/podcast Practical Support & Resources If this episode has raised questions about neurodiversity, safety education, or regulation, Kristi provides trauma-informed education and tools for families. 🔗 Explore resources:👉 www.kristimcvee.com Resources include: Body safety education Consent and protective behaviours tools Trauma-informed parenting guidance Support for calm disclosure conversations Support Services (Australia) If you or someone in your family needs support: Lifeline – 13 11 14 | lifeline.org.au Beyond Blue – 1300 22 4636 | beyondblue.org.au Kids Helpline – 1800 55 1800 | kidshelpline.com.au 1800RESPECT – 1800 737 732 | 1800respect.org.au If you are in immediate danger, contact emergency services.

    1hr 12min
  7. Ep 57 The Ripple Effect of Abuse with Rosalia Rivera

    4 FEB

    Ep 57 The Ripple Effect of Abuse with Rosalia Rivera

    In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi is joined by Rosalia Rivera - founder of Consent Parenting, consent educator, and survivor advocate - for a deeply important conversation about prevention, healing, and the responsibility adults hold in protecting children. Rosalia shares her lived experience of childhood sexual abuse and how becoming a parent resurfaced memories she didn’t yet have language for. Together, Kristi and Rosalia explore why so many parents avoid child safety conversations - whether through fear, overwhelm, or the belief that “this doesn’t happen in our family” - and how both avoidance and overprotection can leave children vulnerable. This episode unpacks how grooming operates in plain sight, why children communicate harm through behaviour, and how trauma-informed, age-appropriate conversations can dramatically reduce risk. It’s a hopeful, empowering discussion that centres education as a form of freedom - not fear. This is not about paranoia. It’s about prevention, connection, and courage. ⚠️ Content Warning This episode includes discussion of: childhood sexual abuse family and domestic violence grooming behaviours trauma responses online and peer-to-peer sexual harm Some listeners may find this content confronting. Please listen with care and pause or step away if needed. Support resources are listed below. Key Themes Covered Why “not my child” thinking places children at risk How unhealed adult trauma can impact prevention efforts Grooming behaviours in family, community, and online settings Why children often communicate harm through behaviour The importance of trauma-informed education for parents How consent, boundaries, and body safety protect all children Why silence and discomfort benefit offenders The long-term impacts of abuse when children are not believed How prevention protects children and prevents future offending Why normalising these conversations creates safer communities Why This Conversation Matters Child sexual abuse thrives in silence, stigma, and discomfort. Many parents avoid these conversations - not because they don’t care, but because they feel overwhelmed, triggered, or unsure where to start. This episode reminds us that education doesn’t create harm - it reduces it. By noticing behaviour, asking questions, and having ongoing, age-appropriate conversations, adults can interrupt grooming, support disclosure, and create environments where children feel safe to speak. Prevention is possible - and it starts at home. Practical Support & Resources If this episode has raised questions about how to start protective, trauma-informed conversations with children, Kristi has created practical tools to support parents and carers. 🔗 Explore resources and education: 👉 www.kristimcvee.com  Resources include: conversation guides for parents body safety education tools support for having calm, protective conversations without fear or overwhelm You can also explore Rosalia Rivera’s work at: 👉 www.consentparenting.com  Support Services (Australia) If you or someone you love needs support, help is available: Lifeline - 13 11 14 or lifeline.org.au 1800RESPECT (sexual assault, domestic & family violence) - 1800 737 732 or 1800respect.org.au Kids Helpline (ages 5–25) - 1800 55 1800 or kidshelpline.com.au If you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services.

    53 min
  8. Ep 56 When adults stay silent, kids pay the price with Andrew Goss

    21 JAN

    Ep 56 When adults stay silent, kids pay the price with Andrew Goss

    In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi speaks with Andrew Goss about the lifelong impact of childhood abuse - and the role silence, minimisation, and adult neutrality play in allowing harm to continue. Andrew shares his lived experience of family violence, sexual abuse (including female offending), and the repeated moments where warning signs were visible - but not acted upon. Together, Kristi and Andrew explore why children often try to communicate harm through behaviour, how grooming operates across different contexts, and why asking questions early can interrupt abuse before it escalates. This is not a sensational conversation. It’s a necessary one. ⚠️ Content Warning This episode includes discussion of: childhood sexual abuse family and domestic violence grooming behaviours trauma responses Some listeners may find this content confronting. Please listen with care and step away if needed. Support resources are listed below. Key Themes Covered Why silence and “staying neutral” is not harmless How children communicate harm through behaviour Grooming behaviours across male and female offending Why adults often dismiss or minimise warning signs The long-term impact of not being believed How early intervention can change outcomes Advocacy, boundaries, and choosing how to help safely Why This Conversation Matters Most abuse doesn’t continue because no one notices. It continues because adults feel uncomfortable asking questions - or assume someone else will act. This episode invites parents, carers, and professionals to reflect on the small moments where intervention matters, and how noticing, listening, and responding early can disrupt harm. Practical Support & Resources If this episode has raised questions about how to start calm, age-appropriate safety conversations with children, Kristi has created practical tools to support parents and carers. 🔗 Explore resources and education: 👉 www.kristimcvee.com  Resources include: conversation guides for parents body safety education tools support for having protective conversations without fear or overwhelm Support Services (Australia) If you or someone you love needs support, help is available: Lifeline – 13 11 14 or lifeline.org.au 1800RESPECT (sexual assault, domestic & family violence) – 1800 737 732 or 1800respect.org.au Kids Helpline (for young people aged 5–25) – 1800 55 1800 or kidshelpline.com.au If you are in immediate danger, please contact emergency services.

    52 min
4.7
out of 5
12 Ratings

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Welcome to Conversations with Kristi! 🎙️ Hosted by Kristi McVee, this podcast is your go-to resource for keeping parents informed and kids safe in today’s ever-changing world. Each episode, Kristi brings expert insights, real-world advice, and meaningful discussions on topics like child abuse prevention, online safety, child development, parenting tips, and much more. Whether you're navigating the challenges of parenting or simply looking for ways to protect and empower your kids, Conversations with Kristi has you covered. Tune in to stay ahead of the curve and ensure your child's safety and well-being. 👉 Subscribe now for new episodes and stay informed! #ConversationsWithKristi #ParentingTips #KidsSafety #CAPEAU #ParentingAdvice #ChildSafety #KristiMcVee

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