This is Me but its all about YOU

Tina Willis
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For women ready to rediscover their confidence, purpose and possibility. After 30+ years in corporate life, burnout and losing sight of who I was, I began a journey of personal growth, mindset transformation and reinvention. Each week we'll explore mindset, confidence, identity, freedom and what it takes to create a life you genuinely love. So grab a coffee and join me for honest conversations—because it's never too late to become the woman you were always meant to be. Tina xx

  1. 4 days ago

    🎙️𝐄𝐏𝐈𝐒𝐎𝐃𝐄 𝟐𝟑 - 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐃𝐢𝐝 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐁𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐀𝐛𝐨𝐮

    Do you remember being curious about absolutely EVERYTHING? As children, we asked questions, explored, experimented and tried things simply because they looked interesting. And then we grew up. Life became busy. Responsibilities took over. We settled into familiar routines. And somewhere along the way, many of us quietly stopped asking ourselves what else we'd love to discover. But who decided that curiosity has an expiry date? In Episode 23 of This Is Me... But It's All About YOU, Tina explores how our beliefs about ourselves can become invisible boundaries, why we sometimes confuse familiarity with fulfilment, and how we can rediscover the excitement of trying something new. From the labels we've carried since childhood to the belief that our best experiences might already be behind us, this is a warm, thought-provoking conversation about remaining open to everything life still has to offer. And no, you don't need to sell your house, move abroad or jump out of a perfectly functioning aeroplane! 😂 Sometimes rediscovering curiosity begins with something wonderfully small. YOUR ONE SMALL STEP Ask yourself: What have I always been curious about but never explored? What have I stopped doing that I used to enjoy? What is ONE new experience I could give myself in the next seven days? Remember, you don't need to be good at something to enjoy discovering it. TINA THOUGHT Your life isn't finished surprising you. Perhaps it's time you gave it the opportunity. If this episode resonates with you, follow the podcast, leave a rating and share it with someone who needs a little reminder that their next chapter can still be filled with discovery. 📖 Tina's book:This Is Me... But It's All About YOU — A 30-Day Mindset Journey Amazon: https://amzn.eu/d/0aIFJ05Q - UK Global Stores - https://rxe.me/3VL6NN New episodes every Monday. Believe. Grow. Choose YOU. ❤️ Tina x

    🎙️𝐄𝐏𝐈𝐒𝐎𝐃𝐄 𝟐𝟑 - 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐃𝐢𝐝 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐁𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐀𝐛𝐨𝐮

  2. 26 Oct

    🎙️ 𝐄𝐏𝐈𝐒𝐎𝐃𝐄 𝟐𝟐 - 𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐭… 𝐎𝐫 𝐘

    What if the future you're imagining is being limited by a past that no longer has to define you? Hello, hello, and welcome back to This Is Me... But It's All About YOU, with me, Tina Willis. ❤️ This week, we're talking about something we all possess, something we use every single day, and something I think we massively underestimate. Our imagination. Why is it so easy to picture what could go wrong, yet sometimes so difficult to imagine what could go wonderfully RIGHT? And why do we keep consulting our past experiences to decide what's possible for a future we haven't even lived yet? In this episode, I'm exploring how our inner world influences our outer experiences, why imagination is so much more than wishful thinking, and how we can begin creating a clearer mental picture of the person we're becoming. I'll also share a little of my own journey, from the familiar world of corporate life to imagining a future I hadn't yet experienced. Because sometimes we stay where we are simply because it's the picture we know best. But your past doesn't know everything you're capable of becoming. We'll finish with this week's One Small Step — The Future You Exercise, a simple way to start imagining what you'd genuinely love your life to look like twelve months from now. And today's Tina Thought? “Stop asking your past for permission to imagine a different future.” So grab your coffee, pop your headphones on, take me on your walk, and let's explore what's possible when we give our imagination a little more room. Because we're not bloody finished yet! 😂❤️ 📖 My book, This Is Me... But It's All About YOU — A 30-Day Mindset Journey, is available on Amazon: https://amzn.eu/d/0bdo9qO5 - UK Stores https://rxe.me/3VL6NN - Global Stores You can also watch the podcast on YouTube or listen on Apple Podcasts. Believe. Grow. Choose YOU. Tina ❤️

    🎙️ 𝐄𝐏𝐈𝐒𝐎𝐃𝐄 𝟐𝟐 - 𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐭… 𝐎𝐫 𝐘

  3. 19 Oct

    𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝟐𝟏 - 𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐓𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐈𝐦𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬? (𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭

    Who are you trying to impress? And perhaps the more uncomfortable question... What is it costing you? We spend so much of our lives wondering what other people will think. Are we successful enough? Are we doing enough? Are we too old? Will people approve? And sometimes, without even realising it, we begin making decisions based on an invisible audience rather than what genuinely makes us happy. In Episode 21 of This Is Me... But It's All About You, I'm exploring the pressure to impress, the expectations we inherit, and the difference between a life that looks wonderful from the outside and one that actually feels wonderful on the inside. I'm also sharing something personal. I've been guilty of this myself. Particularly when it comes to social media and wanting everything to look a certain way. But I'm learning that there's something far more valuable than looking as though you're enjoying your life. Actually enjoying it. ❤️ We'll talk about how our definition of success changes, why we sometimes feel the need to prove ourselves to people from our past, and how we can begin letting go of expectations that were never really ours. And in this week's One Small Step, I'll introduce you to The Nobody's Watching Test. One simple exercise. One revealing question. "What would I choose if I had absolutely nothing to prove?" Because maybe you don't need to impress anybody. Maybe you just need to start living a life that feels like yours. 📖 My book, This Is Me... But It's All About You — A 30-Day Mindset Journey, is available on Amazon: https://amzn.eu/d/0cdrfC9a - UK Stores https://rxe.me/3VL6NN - Global Stores I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode, so please follow the podcast, share it with somebody who might need this conversation, and leave a rating if you've been enjoying our time together. I'm Tina Willis. Believe. Grow. Choose You. ❤️

    𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝟐𝟏 - 𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐓𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐈𝐦𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬? (𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭

  4. 12 Oct

    🎙️ 𝐄𝐏𝐈𝐒𝐎𝐃𝐄 𝟐𝟎 — 𝐈 𝐍𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐋𝐘 𝐃𝐈𝐃𝐍’𝐓 𝐁𝐄𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐄 𝐇𝐄𝐑

    There is a version of me who nearly didn’t exist. Not because she wasn’t capable of becoming her... but because she was bloody terrified of becoming her. For Episode 20 of This Is Me... But It’s All About You, Tina Willis puts the usual full script aside and does something that perfectly reflects the conversation itself: she steps outside her comfort zone. This is a personal conversation about the woman Tina once was — capable, successful from the outside, working extraordinary hours and doing everything expected of her — while somewhere underneath it all, losing sight of herself. And then something changed. One decision led to another. And along the way she began meeting versions of herself she hadn’t known existed. Business owner. Speaker. Author. Podcaster. Music creator. Mentor. Not because fear disappeared. But because eventually she stopped allowing fear to make every decision. And that raises a much bigger question: Maybe you don’t need to know exactly who you’re becoming. Maybe you don’t need permission to want something different. Maybe you don’t have to hate your current life to know there is still more you want to experience. And maybe you’re not too late to meet another version of yourself. This episode includes a simple challenge: Finish this sentence: “The woman I haven’t met yet...” Who is she? What does she do? What has she stopped apologising for? What is she finally willing to try? And then ask yourself: What is ONE thing she would do this week? Because perhaps you don’t find the next version of yourself. Twenty episodes in, this one feels different. Less scripted. More vulnerable. More Tina. And perhaps that's exactly the point. 🎙️ This Is Me... But It’s All About You with Tina Willis📖 This Is Me... But It’s All About You — A 30-Day Mindset Journey https://amzn.eu/d/03qqJsjB - Amazon UK stores https://rxe.me/3VL6NN - Global Amazon Stores Maybe there are parts of you that you haven’t even met yet. ❤️ How many versions of YOU haven’t you met yet? MEET HER. You meet her every time you do something the old version of you was afraid to do.

    🎙️ 𝐄𝐏𝐈𝐒𝐎𝐃𝐄 𝟐𝟎 — 𝐈 𝐍𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐋𝐘 𝐃𝐈𝐃𝐍’𝐓 𝐁𝐄𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐄 𝐇𝐄𝐑

  5. 5 Oct

    🎙️ 𝐄𝐏𝐈𝐒𝐎𝐃𝐄 𝟏𝟗 — 𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐈𝐅 𝐈𝐓 𝐆𝐎𝐄𝐒 𝐑𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐓?

    What if I fail? What if they say no? What if I make a fool of myself? What if it doesn't work? We're incredibly good at imagining everything that could go wrong — and then calling it being realistic. But why is the negative outcome automatically the realistic one? In Episode 19 of This Is Me... But It's All About You, Tina turns those familiar two words — WHAT IF? — completely on their head. Because if something hasn't happened yet, failure is only one possible outcome. What if they say yes? What if you love it? What if you're actually good at it? What if the thing you're frightened to do becomes the thing you're most grateful you didn't walk away from? And here's another thought... What if part of you isn't only afraid that it won't work? What if you're also afraid that it WILL? Because success creates change too. This episode explores fear, uncertainty, self-rejection, courage, the fear of expansion and why we don't need to silence fear — we simply need to stop giving it every seat at the table. You'll also discover this week's One Small Step — FLIP THE WHAT IF — a simple way to challenge the future your fear has already written for you. This isn't about pretending everything will work perfectly. It's about remembering: 𝐅𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬𝐧'𝐭 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐞𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫.So if you're going to imagine a future that hasn't happened yet... don't only imagine the one that frightens you. Give possibility a seat at the table. ❤️ And ask yourself:𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐈𝐅 𝐈𝐓 𝐆𝐎𝐄𝐒 𝐑𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐓?🎙️ This Is Me... But It's All About You with Tina Willis📖 This Is Me... But It's All About You — A 30-Day Mindset Journey https://amzn.eu/d/06kRWqr8 - UK Amazon Store https://rxe.me/3VL6NN - Global Amazon Stores 💛 Believe. Grow. Choose You.

    🎙️ 𝐄𝐏𝐈𝐒𝐎𝐃𝐄 𝟏𝟗 — 𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐈𝐅 𝐈𝐓 𝐆𝐎𝐄𝐒 𝐑𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐓?

  6. 28 Sept

    𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝟏𝟖 | 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐃𝐢𝐝 𝐁𝐮𝐬𝐲 𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐚 𝐁𝐚𝐝𝐠𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐇𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐫?

    When did being busy become proof that we were doing life properly? We say it almost automatically: “I’m so busy.”“It’s manic.”“I haven’t stopped.” But what if there’s another side to busy that we don’t talk about enough? 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐟 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐰𝐞 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐛𝐮𝐬𝐲 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐞’𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐟𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐠𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭? In Episode 18, Tina explores the difference between a genuinely full life and using constant activity as a way of avoiding our own thoughts, feelings and questions. From 16 and 17-hour corporate days and the identity that comes from being “the capable one,” to our phones, scrolling, emails, chores and endless to-do lists — sometimes there is always something available to stop us from sitting quietly with ourselves. And perhaps underneath all that noise is a voice asking: Am I happy? Am I exhausted? What do I actually want? What am I trying to prove? Who am I when nobody needs anything from me? This isn’t about abandoning your responsibilities or deciding that being busy is bad. It’s about recognising the difference between moving towards something and running away from something. This week’s One Small Step — The Quiet 20 invites you to give yourself 20 minutes without anything to achieve and simply listen to what comes up. Because maybe the voice underneath all that noise isn’t your enemy.𝐌𝐚𝐲𝐛𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐞’𝐬 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. ❤️ Today’s Tina Thought: “Your worth isn’t measured by how exhausted you are at the end of the day.” 🎙️ This Is Me... But It’s All About You with Tina Willis📖 This Is Me... But It’s All About You — A 30-Day Mindset Journey Available on Amazon - https://amzn.eu/d/0eEOWxr0 - UK Store Available Globally - https://rxe.me/3VL6NN 💛 Believe. Grow. Choose You.

    𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝟏𝟖 | 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐃𝐢𝐝 𝐁𝐮𝐬𝐲 𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐚 𝐁𝐚𝐝𝐠𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐇𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐫?

  7. 21 Sept

    𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝟏𝟕 | 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐒𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐈𝐭 𝐅𝐨𝐫?

    What are you saving for “one day”? Maybe it's the expensive perfume, the good bottle of wine, the beautiful candle you refuse to light or those good towels nobody is actually allowed to use. 😂 But maybe there's something much bigger you're saving too... Your life. The trip you'll take someday.The hobby you'll return to someday.The dream you'll start someday.The time you'll finally make for yourself... someday. In Episode 17, Tina opens The Someday Drawer and explores how easily “not yet” can quietly become “never.” This isn't a conversation about being reckless or pretending responsibilities don't exist. It's about recognising when we've become so busy managing life that we've forgotten to experience it. You'll explore why we postpone joy, why we keep moving the finish line, what we're really waiting for when we say “I'll do it when I'm ready,” and one uncomfortable but important question: This week's One Small Step — Use the Good Stuff asks you to choose one thing you've been saving and use it. Then go deeper: What are you saving for someday in your LIFE? And what tiny step could bring a piece of it into today? Because ordinary days aren't simply the days between the important ones. Today's Tina Thought:“Stop saving your life for a special occasion. You are the special occasion.” 🎙️ This Is Me... But It's All About You with Tina Willis Book available on Amazon https://amzn.eu/d/04QFokFy - UK Stores https://rxe.me/3VL6NN - Global Stores 💛 Believe. Grow. Choose You. Who promised you someday? Maybe ordinary days ARE the important ones.

    𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝟏𝟕 | 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐒𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐈𝐭 𝐅𝐨𝐫?

  8. 14 Sept

    𝐄𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝟏𝟔 | 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐏𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐘𝐨𝐮

    𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮'𝐯𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫… 𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮? How much of your life have you spent waiting? Waiting for permission. Waiting for confidence. Waiting for circumstances to change. Waiting for someone to believe in you. Waiting for someone to choose you. Waiting for the elusive “right time.” In this episode of This Is Me... But It's All About You, I want to explore what happens when we stop waiting for something outside ourselves to change — and start recognising the power we already have within the things we can control. And no, this isn't one of those “just think positively and everything will be wonderful” conversations. 😂 Life happens. Loss happens. Things go wrong. People disappoint us. Circumstances can be unfair. Personal power isn't believing you can control everything. It's remembering that even when you couldn't choose what happened... there may still be something you can choose about what happens next. We'll talk about the waiting room of life, the difference between support and rescue, why you don't need to feel powerful to act powerfully, and something I call your Evidence File — the decades of proof you may have forgotten about showing just how much you've already handled. I'll also invite you to do something much quieter. To stand in front of a mirror. Look into your own eyes. And say: I'm sorry.Please forgive me.Thank you.I love you. Four simple phrases associated with a modern Ho'oponopono practice that create a moment of reconciliation, gratitude and compassion towards yourself. Because maybe taking your power back isn't about becoming somebody else. Maybe it's about finally standing beside the person you've been all along. Backing her.Trusting her.Forgiving her.Loving her.Choosing her. 👣 One Small Step: Ask yourself, “Where am I currently waiting?” Then identify ONE part of it that is within your control — and act on it. 💭 Today's Tina Thought: “Your power isn't in controlling everything that happens. It's in remembering you still get to choose what happens next.” And perhaps the person you've been waiting for... has been you all along. My Book This is Me but its all about YOU available on Amazon https://amzn.eu/d/0apHzF2t - UK stores https://rxe.me/3VL6NN - Global Stores 💛 Believe. Grow. Choose You.

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For women ready to rediscover their confidence, purpose and possibility. After 30+ years in corporate life, burnout and losing sight of who I was, I began a journey of personal growth, mindset transformation and reinvention. Each week we'll explore mindset, confidence, identity, freedom and what it takes to create a life you genuinely love. So grab a coffee and join me for honest conversations—because it's never too late to become the woman you were always meant to be. Tina xx

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