It's a Mindset

Emma Lagerlow

It's a Mindset, the podcast where we embark on a transformative journey to enhance your worth, wealth, and well-being. In each episode, we explore the power of your mindset, featuring inspiring guest interviews, tips, and insights. Are you ready to dive in and discover that anything is possible when you put your mind to it?

  1. Episode 91: The Overachiever’s Reset: Redefining Success When Life Forces You to Stop with Fleur Marks

    1 DAY AGO

    Episode 91: The Overachiever’s Reset: Redefining Success When Life Forces You to Stop with Fleur Marks

    Have you ever been forced to stop… and realised the way you were living or working just wasn’t sustainable anymore? Like something in your life hit pause - and you were left questioning everything you thought success looked like? In this episode of It’s a Mindset, I’m joined by Fleur Marks - globally recognised leadership trainer, performance mindset coach and author of The Overachiever’s Reset. Fleur built a highly successful career over two decades in senior leadership, driven by ambition, high standards and relentless performance. But that same pace ultimately led to a life-threatening health crisis - what she describes as the “waiting room of death” - forcing her to confront the reality that the way she was succeeding was unsustainable. What followed wasn’t a step back from ambition… but a complete reset. In this deeply honest and powerful conversation, Fleur shares how she rebuilt her mindset, redefined success, and now helps high performers break free from the overachiever’s cycle - where self-worth becomes tied to achievement and external validation. I was deeply moved by Fleur’s strength of character and her ability to stay positive through such significant health challenges. This conversation is a reminder that true success isn’t about doing more - it’s about understanding what matters, and learning to lead and live in a way that supports both performance and wellbeing. Key Episode Takeaways: How Fleur navigated major health challenges and used them as a catalyst for change Why so many high performers are trapped in the “overachiever’s cycle” The power of radical self-acceptance in breaking free from relentless striving How believing you are enough could change everything - for you and those around you The importance of focusing on what’s in your control and consciously choosing your response About the Guest: Fleur Marks is a globally recognised leadership trainer, performance mindset coach and author of The Overachiever’s Reset. After two decades in senior leadership at WPP, a life-threatening health crisis forced her to stop and completely rethink how she was living and leading. Today, Fleur helps high performers break free from the overachiever’s cycle - where self-worth is tied to achievement - and supports them to lead with clarity, impact and sustainability, without sacrificing themselves in the process. Show Resources: Follow Fleur on Instagram - HERE Connect with Fleur on LinkedIn - HERE Check Out Fleur's Website - HERE Follow Emma, the Podcast Host on Instagram - HERE Join the Waitlist for The Next Chapter Collective - HERE If you LOVED this episode, make sure you share it on your Instagram stories and tag us @emmalagerlow and @fleurjmarks. Yours in Being Impactful, Emma. X.

    1hr 9min
  2. 28 APR

    Episode 90: From Breakdown to Breakthrough: The Power of Care in Life & Leadership with Graeme Cowan

    Have you ever gone through a really tough time… and wondered how you could ever come back from it - let alone use it to help others? In this episode of It’s a Mindset, I’m joined by Graeme Cowan - resilience expert, professional speaker, Board Director of R U OK?, and author of five books, including his latest, Great Leaders Care. Graeme shares his deeply personal story of experiencing a five-year episode of depression - a period his psychiatrist described as one of the most severe he had ever treated. What emerged from that time is not only a powerful story of recovery, but a mission to help others build resilience, improve wellbeing, and create meaningful change through conversation. Drawing on the insights behind Great Leaders Care, Graeme explores what it really means to lead with empathy, create psychologically safe environments, and support the people around us - whether at work, at home, or in our wider communities. Together, we explore how Graeme turned one of the most challenging periods of his life into a way to support others - particularly leaders - to create safer, more connected environments where people feel seen, heard, and supported. I was incredibly moved by Graeme’s vulnerability in sharing his story, and how he has transformed that experience into something so impactful. It’s a beautiful reminder that even in our hardest moments, there is the potential for growth, meaning, and contribution. This conversation highlights just how powerful a simple conversation can be - and how it can quite literally change a life. Key Episode Takeaways: How Graeme turned his personal experience of breakdown into a mission to support others Why great leaders prioritise care and create psychologically safe environments The power of humility in creating authentic connection and trust How one meaningful conversation can have the potential to change a life About the Guest: Graeme Cowan is a resilience expert, professional speaker and Board Director of R U OK?, where he has seen firsthand how simple conversations can lead to meaningful change. With a background in senior leadership roles at Johnson & Johnson, Pfizer and AT Kearney, Graeme’s work today is deeply shaped by his own lived experience. In 2000, he went through a five-year episode of severe depression — a period his psychiatrist described as one of the most challenging he had ever treated. From that experience, Graeme developed a powerful new perspective on resilience, wellbeing and performance, which now underpins his work with leaders and organisations around the world. He is the author of five books, including the internationally acclaimed Back From the Brink, and his latest, Great Leaders Care, which explores how empathy and care can transform leadership and workplace culture. Graeme has been described by the Australian Financial Review as a “resilience expert”, and is known for his authentic, relevant and thought-provoking style. Based in Sydney near Lane Cove National Park, Graeme enjoys spending time in nature, connecting with family and friends, and sharing ideas that spark conversations — because he believes those conversations have the power to change lives. Show Resources: Follow Graeme on Instagram - HERE Connect with Graeme on LinkedIn - HERE Check Out Graeme's Website - HERE Follow Emma, the Podcast Host on Instagram - HERE Join The Next Chapter Collective Waitlist - HERE If you LOVED this episode, make sure you share it on your Instagram stories and tag us @emmalagerlow and @graemecowan. Take Care, Emma. X.

    51 min
  3. Episode 89: The Perfect Parent Trap: From Control to Connection in Parenting with Lisa Taylor

    21 APR

    Episode 89: The Perfect Parent Trap: From Control to Connection in Parenting with Lisa Taylor

    Have you ever found yourself trying so hard to be a “perfect parent”… only to feel like it’s not quite working the way you expected? In this episode of It’s a Mindset, I’m joined by Lisa Taylor - family therapist, relationships consultant, speaker and founder of Strengthening Families Australia. With over 25 years of experience supporting families, schools and organisations, Lisa brings a deeply heart-centred approach to helping us understand the patterns that shape how we connect. Together, we explore what Lisa calls the “Perfect Parent Trap” - the pressure to get it right, to say the right thing, to respond perfectly - and how that can actually move us further away from the connection we’re really seeking. Instead, Lisa invites us to shift from control to connection, and to become more aware of the emotional imprints from our own upbringing - what she calls our heartprints - and how they influence the way we show up as parents today. This conversation really resonated with me on a personal level. Lisa and I are at a similar stage of parenting, and as fellow authors in the Expert Author Community, there was such a natural connection and shared understanding between us. I absolutely love the work she’s doing to support families, and the insights she shared - particularly around our own heartprints - were incredibly powerful. This is one of those episodes that gently invites you to pause, reflect and consider how you’re showing up in your closest relationships - not from a place of judgment, but from a place of curiosity and growth. Key Episode Takeaways: What the “Perfect Parent Trap” is and why trying to get it right can backfire How your own childhood “heartprints” shape the way you parent Why shifting from control to connection can transform your relationships The importance of presence - being where your body is - in creating deeper connection  About the Guest: Lisa Taylor is a family therapist, relationships consultant, speaker and founder of Strengthening Families Australia with over twenty-five years of experience walking alongside thousands of families, schools and organisations across Australia. Her heart-centred approach helps parents, educators and leaders strengthen relationships, heal generational patterns and transform how they connect with one another. She lives on the Bellarine Peninsula with her husband Chris, their three children and Faith, their golden retriever. Show Resources: Follow Lisa on Instagram - HERE Connect with Lisa on LinkedIn - HERE Check Out Lisa's Website - HERE Follow Emma, the Podcast Host on Instagram - HERE Join the Waitlist for The Next Chapter Collective - HERE If you LOVED this episode, make sure you share it on your Instagram stories and tag us @emmalagerlow and @lisataylor.au. Your in Conscious Parenting, Emma. X.

    56 min
  4. Episode 88: Creating Your Third Chapter with Robyn Greaves

    14 APR

    Episode 88: Creating Your Third Chapter with Robyn Greaves

    Have you ever wondered what comes next… when the life you’ve built no longer feels like the life you want? In this episode of It’s a Mindset, I’m joined by Robyn Greaves - a highly regarded career change specialist and coach who has worked across some of the world’s most recognised organisations including BHP, Apple, Woolworths and Westpac. Robyn brings a thoughtful, practical and deeply human approach to navigating career and life transitions, particularly in what she calls our “third chapter.” Together, we explore what it really means to step into this next phase of life - not as an ending, but as an opportunity to create something meaningful, fulfilling and entirely your own. This conversation resonated with me on such a deep level. The idea of a “third chapter” feels incredibly aligned with where so many of us find ourselves in midlife - reflecting, recalibrating, and asking bigger questions about who we are and how we want to spend our time. It’s also why I’m so passionate about the work I do and why I’m about to launch The Next Chapter Collective - a space designed to help you reconnect with who you are, what you want, and how to move forward with intention. If you’ve ever felt that quiet nudge that there’s more available to you… this episode will speak to you. Key Episode Takeaways: Why your “third chapter” (your 50s and 60s) can be one of the most powerful and fulfilling stages of life The importance of creativity and curiosity for healthy ageing and ongoing growth How this phase is less about achievement and more about contribution and meaning Why time isn’t as guaranteed as we think - and the importance of choosing how you want to spend it About the Guest: Robyn Greaves is a highly regarded career change specialist and coach with a background in senior leadership development and organisational change across BHP, Apple, Woolworths and Westpac. She is recognised for her thoughtful, practical and deeply human approach to late-career transition, helping experienced professionals create an epic third chapter. Show Resources: Connect with Robyn on LinkedIn - HERE Check Out Robyn's Website - HERE Learn More About Robyn's New Book, Your Third Chapter - HERE Follow Emma, the Podcast Host - HERE Join The Next Chapter Collective Waitlist - HERE If you LOVED this episode, make sure you share it on your Instagram stories and tag us @emmalagerlow. Yours in Your Next Chapter, Emma. X.

    58 min
  5. Episode 87: Listening to Your Body and Letting Yourself Off the Hook with Matt Sorensen

    7 APR

    Episode 87: Listening to Your Body and Letting Yourself Off the Hook with Matt Sorensen

    Have you ever felt like your body is trying to tell you something… but you’re too busy pushing through to actually listen? Or maybe you’ve been doing all the “right” things - exercising, eating well, showing up - yet something still feels off. In this episode of It’s a Mindset, I’m joined by Matthew Sorensen - a specialist in corrective exercise, strength and conditioning, manual therapy, counselling and lifestyle coaching, who takes a deeply integrative approach to health, performance and wellbeing. Matt designs personalised programs that support resilience, injury prevention and sustainable health, and his work goes far beyond the physical. With a background spanning nutrition, strength and conditioning, and advanced manual therapies, he brings a unique lens to understanding the body - not just as something to fix, but something to listen to. Matt and I actually met around 20 years ago at the gym, and it’s been intriguing to see how our paths have evolved in a similar direction - both of us becoming more curious about what really makes people tick, beyond the surface. In this conversation, we explore the deeper connection between body, mind and behaviour, and how so often what we’re experiencing physically is a reflection of something deeper. Matt also shares insights from his extensive work in CHEK therapy, his experience lecturing and educating others in the field, and the philosophy behind his books, including What Pain Is Telling You - Your Diagnosis Is Just the Symptom. This is one of those conversations that invites you to slow down, tune in, and reconsider the way you relate to yourself - not just physically, but emotionally and mentally as well. Key Episode Takeaways: What CHEK therapy is and how it looks at the body as an integrated system Why your relationship with yourself and your level of self-awareness underpins everything Why your “yes” has no value until you learn to say “no” The importance of letting yourself off the hook more often and listening to what your body actually needs About the Guest: Matthew is a specialist in corrective exercise, strength and conditioning, manual therapy, counselling, and lifestyle coaching. He designs personalised, integrative programs that support performance, resilience, injury prevention, and sustainable health. Alongside his clinical work, Matt lectures at governing institutes for Personal Trainers and Massage Therapists. He has developed and delivered multiple professional workshops and is the author of two books Show Resources: Follow Matt on Instagram - HERE Follow Matt's Podcast, The Body's Compass on Instagram - HERE Check Out Matt's Website, The Healing Hub - HERE Follow Emma, the Podcast Host on Instagram - HERE Join the Waitlist for The Next Chapter Collective - HERE Learn More About Emma's 1:1 Coaching - HERE If you LOVED the episode, make sure you share this on your Instagram stories and tag us @emmalagerlow and @mattsorensenhh. Yours in Listening to Your Body, Emma. X.

    1hr 1min
  6. Episode 86: Why Nothing Changes After You Read the Book (And What to Do Instead)

    31 MAR

    Episode 86: Why Nothing Changes After You Read the Book (And What to Do Instead)

    Have you ever read a book and thought… “wow, this is life-changing”… and then a week later, nothing actually changes? You feel inspired. Motivated. Clear. And then life gets busy again… and you find yourself right back where you started. In this episode of It’s a Mindset, I’m diving into why this happens - and more importantly, what it actually takes to move from insight into meaningful, lasting change. Because reading the book is one thing… but integrating it into your life is something else entirely. Key Takeaways: Why inspiration alone isn’t enough to create change The common pattern I see in women (and have experienced myself) when it comes to personal growth Why midlife is such a powerful opportunity to redefine what you truly want The importance of knowing your values and creating a life that actually reflects them How real transformation happens through reflection, conversation and support This episode is very close to my heart. When I wrote Worthy & Wealthy, my intention was never just to inspire - it was to help women actually create a more fulfilling, abundant life. But what I’ve come to realise is that insight doesn’t create change on its own. We need space. We need reflection. And often… we need support. That’s where the real shifts happen. An Invitation: This episode also marks the beginning of something new. If this conversation resonates with you, I’ve opened the waitlist for The Next Chapter Collective - a small, guided group experience designed to help you integrate these ideas and step into meaningful change. You can learn more and join The Next Chapter Collective here. Show Resources: Join The Next Chapter Collective Waitlist - HERE Learn More About Emma's Book, Worthy & Wealthy - HERE Follow Emma on Instagram - HERE If you loved this episode… Make sure you share it on your Instagram stories and tag me @emmalagerlow - I love seeing what resonates with you. You don’t need another book. You need a space to live what you’ve already learned. Yours In Your Next Chapter, Emma. X.

    17 min
  7. Episode 85: Rewriting Your Money Story with Jessica Brady

    24 MAR

    Episode 85: Rewriting Your Money Story with Jessica Brady

    Have you ever felt like you’re not as confident with money as you’d like to be… but no one ever actually taught you how? Or maybe you’ve found yourself focusing on the now - the bills, the holidays, the day-to-day - while quietly hoping the future will somehow take care of itself. In this episode of It’s a Mindset, I’m joined by Jessica Brady - money educator, former financial adviser and co-founder of Fox & Hare Financial Advice, who is on a mission to make money education more accessible, inclusive and aligned with the life you actually want to live. With over 20 years of experience in financial services, Jessica has worked with some of Australia’s biggest institutions including Macquarie Bank, Commonwealth Bank and Zurich Australia. She is also the co-founder of Ladies Talk Money, a platform designed to help women and non-binary people navigate a financial system that hasn’t always been built for them. Jessica’s approach is refreshingly honest and down-to-earth - cutting through the jargon and shame that so often surrounds money, and replacing it with practical tools, behavioural insights and real-life strategies. We also touch on her new book, Get Growing, which brings this philosophy to life - helping people clear out what’s holding them back and start building a future that feels financially secure, aligned and truly their own. I loved how comfortable Jessica is discussing money and finances - especially when it comes to unpacking the limiting beliefs so many of us carry. It’s a conversation that feels empowering, not overwhelming. If you’ve ever felt like money is something you haven’t quite figured out yet, this episode is for you. Key Episode Takeaways: Why making financial education more accessible is key to creating real change How women, in particular, carry limiting beliefs around money - and how to start shifting them The importance of creating harmony between your present lifestyle and future financial goals Why you are never too young - or too old - to start taking control of your finances About the Guest: Jessica Brady is a money educator, former financial adviser and co-founder of Fox & Hare Financial Advice, a B Corp-certified and award-winning financial practice. With over 20 years’ experience working with leading institutions including Macquarie Bank, CBA and Zurich, Jessica is passionate about making financial education more accessible, inclusive and aligned with real life. She is the co-founder of Ladies Talk Money, a platform supporting women and non-binary people to navigate money with confidence, and the creator of The Greenhouse, an online financial literacy program designed to empower people to take control of their financial future. Jessica is a sought-after speaker and media contributor, and the author of Get Growing, a practical and empowering guide to building wealth without shame or jargon. Show Resources: Follow Jessica on Instagram - HERE Check Out Jessica's Website - HERE Learn More About Jessica's New Book, Get Growing - HERE Follow Emma, the Podcast Host on Instagram - HERE Learn More About 1:1 Coaching with Emma - HERE Book a FREE Discovery Call with Emma - HERE If you LOVED the episode, make sure you share this on your Instagram stories and tag us @emmalagerlow and @jessbrady_financialadvice. Yours in Growing Your Wealth, Emma. X.

    1 hr
  8. Episode 84: Breaking the Silence on Menopause at Work with Karen Stein

    17 MAR

    Episode 84: Breaking the Silence on Menopause at Work with Karen Stein

    Have you ever been navigating big changes in your body and mind… while still showing up every day at work, expected to perform at your best? For many women, perimenopause and menopause arrive right in the middle of their most senior and demanding career years. Yet for decades it has been something we’ve quietly managed behind closed doors. In this episode of It’s a Mindset, I’m joined by Karen Stein, a menopause champion, executive and group coach, keynote speaker and award-winning author who is on a mission to change the way organisations understand and support women through this important life stage. Karen is passionate about being “MAD about menopause” - not in frustration, but in raising Menopause Awareness and Dialogue so workplaces become places where women can continue to thrive, lead and contribute at their highest level. Having gone through menopause myself, this conversation really resonated with me. Looking back, I often think how helpful it would have been to have more awareness and support around what was happening physically, mentally and emotionally. Instead of feeling like something you just have to push through, imagine if it was openly understood and supported. Karen is helping move the conversation from something private and invisible to something that leaders, organisations and colleagues understand as a business, leadership and wellbeing issue. We also explore Karen’s inspiring personal journey of studying later in life to become an executive coach, and how that decision opened up a deeply fulfilling new chapter in her career. If you’ve ever wondered how we can create more understanding, compassion and support around menopause - in workplaces and in relationships - this is such an important conversation. Key Episode Takeaways: Why perimenopause and menopause are workplace conversations we can no longer ignore How Karen is advocating for better awareness and support for women in organisations Why men also need to understand menopause - both as leaders and in their personal relationships Practical ways to start conversations about perimenopause and menopause at work How studying later in life and becoming an executive coach opened a deeply fulfilling new chapter for Karen About The Guest: Karen is a Menopause Champion, Executive & Group Coach, Keynote Speaker and Award-winning Author. She is on a mission to be MAD about menopause and support organisations in being the same! Karen does so through her focus in lifting the understanding and awareness of workplaces regarding perimenopause and menopause. She is sought after to help move the dial on understanding this life stage - moving it from a private issue, to one which is understood to impact leadership, business and wellbeing. Her second book which provides self coaching strategies to support women manage menopause in the workplace is due for release late next year. Show Resources: Connect with Karen on LinkedIn - HERE Follow Karen on Instagram - HERE Check Out Karen's Website - HERE Follow Emma, the Podcast Host on Instagram - HERE Learn More About 1:1 Coaching with Emma - HERE Book a FREE 30-Minute Call with Emma - HERE If you loved this episode, make sure you share it on your Instagram stories and tag us @emmalagerlow and @nerakniets. Yours in Advocating for Yourself, Emma.

    57 min
5
out of 5
26 Ratings

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It's a Mindset, the podcast where we embark on a transformative journey to enhance your worth, wealth, and well-being. In each episode, we explore the power of your mindset, featuring inspiring guest interviews, tips, and insights. Are you ready to dive in and discover that anything is possible when you put your mind to it?

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