Life Beyond Labels

Kelsey O'Connor

Life Beyond Labels is a space to embrace all the qualities, emotions, and stories that connect us as humans—beyond the labels that often define us. We all have them: jobs, titles, roles in relationships, and other parts of our outer identity. But here, we’re digging into what it means to go beyond those labels and dive into topics that affect us and connect us, regardless of the labels we wear. Join Kelsey O’Connor as she shares insights from her own life and brings on guests for authentic conversations. Together, we’ll dive into stories and experiences that connect us as human beings, encourage us to live more openly, more authentically, and embrace who we are at our core!

  1. 5 MAY

    ALL IN: John Damon on Excellence, Showing Up, and Raising Your Standards

    In this episode of Life Beyond Labels, Kelsey sits down with entrepreneur, gym design expert, trainer, and overall top-tier human, John Damon, to explore what it truly means to pursue excellence in every area of life. From his journey of leaving a traditional career path to building high-performance gyms and training elite clients, John shares how intentionality, courage, and consistency have shaped both his success and his perspective on life. John dives into his core philosophies, including choosing excellence over significance, adopting a “Team Show Up” mentality, and living by the principle of “love and good information.” He also unpacks the importance of surrounding yourself with the right people, setting high standards, and having the courage to go all in on your goals. Whether you're striving to level up in your career, relationships, or personal growth, this episode offers powerful mindset shifts and practical insights to help you show up, stay resilient, and build a life aligned with your highest standards. What to Expect: Excellence > Significance: Excellence matters more than status or recognition.Showing up is the foundation of success in life and relationships.Saying “yes” can open doors you didn’t know existed.Growth requires stepping outside your comfort zone.The people you invite onto your “bus” shapes your life.“Love and good information” are essential for making better decisions.Mental toughness comes from knowing challenges are temporary.High standards create extraordinary results.Courage is built through preparation and action.The best individuals and teams are great problem solvers.Call to Action:Connect with John and explore his work in fitness, performance, and gym design, plus reflect on where you can start showing up more intentionally in your own life. Where to Find John: Website: johndamon.comInstagram: @johndamon | @thecavebyjohndamonYouTube: @thejohndamonTikTok: @thejohndamon Special Links:Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com. Let’s Connect! Socials: Instagram| TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6Website: kelseyoconnor.com Credits Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios productionFeatured on SportsE MediaMusic provided by YoKram: YouTube| Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic

    54 min
  2. 09/09/2025

    Athlete Advocacy with Dr. Scott Lynch

    In this episode of Life Beyond Labels, Kelsey talks with Dr. Scott Lynch, a former Director of Athletic Medicine at Penn State, who shares his story of advocating for athlete safety. Dr. Lynch discusses the challenges he faced in prioritizing player health over coaching pressures and the systemic issues in college sports. He emphasizes the importance of speaking up against unethical practices and proposes solutions for better athlete care, including independent oversight in sports medicine. This conversation highlights the need for a cultural shift in how athletes are viewed and treated, advocating for the prioritization of their well-being and safety. What to Expect: Lynch’s journey from being an elite Penn State wrestler, studying engineering, to pursuing medicine.Lynch emphasizes the importance of prioritizing athlete health over winning.There are solutions (such as third-party oversight) possible to create change.Lynch encourages players to speak up about their experiences.The conversation highlights the need for cultural change in college sports.Kelsey also shares her own experience with poor coaching behaviors, and they discuss how to move forward.Chapters:  00:00 Introduction to Dr. Scott Lynch 02:09 Journey from Wrestling to Medicine 06:21 Becoming Director of Athletic Medicine 12:40 Challenges and Pressures in Medical Decisions 25:04 Proposed Solutions for Athlete Safety 34:23 The Future of College Sports and Player Rights 35:37 Viewing Athletes as People: A Cultural Shift 38:54 Navigating Injury and Pressure in Youth Sports 44:06 The Decision to Pursue Legal Action 54:34 The Importance of Speaking Up   Call to Action: If you are an athlete witnessing or experiencing some of these issues, talk to someone you trust and don’t be afraid to speak up. Special Links:Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com. Let’s Connect! Socials: Instagram| TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6Website: kelseyoconnor.net Credits Life Beyond Labels is produced by QuietLoud Studios and featured on SportsE MediaMusic provided by YoKram: YouTube| Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic

    1hr 3min
  3. 02/09/2025

    Steve Whitsitt on Connection, Authenticity, and Life Beyond the Lens

    In this episode of Life Beyond Labels, Kelsey sits down with photographer Steve Whitsitt, who shares how his shyness inspired him to challenge himself and pursue photography as a way to connect with others. Steve reflects on his time in the military, the path that brought him into photography, and the personal growth he’s experienced along the way. Though he is often recognized for photographing icons like Michael and Janet Jackson, as well as major events like Woodstock and Lollapalooza, his story extends far beyond his work with celebrities. Steve emphasizes the importance of connection, authenticity, and self-acceptance in both art and life. Together, he and Kelsey explore the value of being present, building meaningful connections, and finding deeper fulfillment through serving others. What to Expect: Photography as a vehicle for connection.Self-acceptance is the foundation for genuine relationships.Remembering that everything in life, including success, is temporary.How authenticity disarms others and fosters trust.We are defined by who we are, not what we do.The richness of intergenerational relationships.Embracing the past for the lessons it provides.What to say when you don’t know what to say.How volunteering can provide purpose during transitions.Call to Action: Challenge yourself to connect with people, even if it’s outside your comfort zone. Curiosity creates connection! Where to Find Steve:  Website: https://www.spwhitsittphoto.com/ Special Links:Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com. Let’s Connect! Socials: Instagram| TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6Website: kelseyoconnor.comCredits Life Beyond Labels is produced by QuietLoud Studios and featured on SportsE Media.Music provided by YoKram: YouTube| Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic

    1hr 14min
  4. 15/07/2025

    5 FROGS: Brenda K. Reynolds on Navigating Life Transition Fog

    In this episode of Life Beyond Labels, Kelsey sits down with Brenda K. Reynolds—international coach, TEDx speaker, and author—about navigating major life transitions and building resilience in uncertain times. Brenda shares how various life events (an unexpected divorce, the 2008 financial crisis, sending children off the college, and others) were the catalyst for her work on “transition fog.” She shares how she learned to move forward when there was no clear roadmap, and how those experiences shaped her approach to helping others through change. Brenda also talks about her new transformational journal, 5 FROGS, which outlines the stages we go through during periods of transition and growth. Whether you're facing a career shift, personal change, or simply feeling stuck in the unknown, this episode offers actionable insights and inspiration to help you move through it with clarity and confidence. What to Expect in '5 FROGS: Brenda K. Reynolds on Navigating Life Transition Fog': Everyone experiences 'now what' moments in life.Sometimes, we just need our low beams to see what’s right in front of us.We can borrow confidence from others during tough times.Life is not linear; we leap back and forth through stages.Behind every “now what” is a “why not”.Our words can change the trajectory of someone's life.Call to Action: Listen to Brenda’s TEDX Talk and look up her 5 FROGS transformational journal! Where to Find Brenda:Website: https://www.brendakreynolds.com/Socials: @brendakreynolds Special Links:Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com. Let’s Connect! Socials: Instagram| TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6Website: kelseyoconnor.comCredits: Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios podcast and featured on SportsE Media.Music provided by YoKram: YouTube| Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic

    48 min
  5. 08/07/2025

    Struggle Into Strength: Tom Smalley’s story of resilience and life beyond OCD

    In this episode of Life Beyond Labels, Kelsey sits down with Tom Smalley, MS, CMPC, for a candid conversation about mental health, OCD, and turning pain into purpose. Tom opens up about his diagnosis with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and the impact it’s had on his life, including a time when he faced a toxic environment and bullying from coaches. Tom shares how he took that struggle and turned it into strength: launching his own mental performance coaching practice, pursuing Olympic weightlifting, and becoming a successful speaker and advocate. Kelsey and Tom also dive into topics like therapy, faith, speaking, and people who have inspired them. If you're looking for real talk about mental health, resilience, and finding strength in your story, this one’s for you. What to Expect: This episode contains sensitive content including the mentioning of suicidal thoughts and mental health challenges. If you or someone you know are experiencing mental health challenges, please call the 988 Crisis Hotline or seek individual services from a professional.  What is Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)? The benefits and challenges of therapy Turning struggle into strengthHow to keep a “North Star” during challenging times Navigating toxic environmentsBecoming a speaker and advocate Why it is important to tell our stories Call to Action: Learn more about OCD at https://iocdf.org/ Where to Find Tom:  Website: https://www.struggleintostrength.com/  Socials: @s2sfof Special Links: Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com. Let’s Connect! Socials: Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6Website: kelseyoconnor.comCredits Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios production. Featured on SportsE Media. Music provided by YoKram: YouTube | Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic Disclaimer: The opinions expressed by the individuals in this episode are individual opinions and do not reflect the opinions of the International OCD Foundation or their respective professions. This content does not replace therapy or mental health services.

    47 min
  6. 17/06/2025

    A Sunshine State of Mind with Michele Doty

    In this deeply heartfelt episode of Life Beyond Labels, host Kelsey O’Connor sits down with longtime family friend, Michele Doty. Michele shares how her world shifted when she was diagnosed with stage four ovarian cancer, but how she continues to show up with honesty, gratitude, and joy. Rather than being defined by her diagnosis, she talks about holding onto her identity, finding meaning (and movement) in each day, and more about who she is as a loving mother, business owner, and radiant human being. What to Expect in 'A Sunshine State of Mind': It is important to find our choices within situations that feel so far out of our control.Staying positive doesn’t mean ignoring the negative feelings or hard days, it just means doing your best to choose to see the good as much as possible.It can be helpful to have safe conversations with loved ones, who may have a diagnosisor illness, about how they want to be helped. It is important to remember that their identity goes beyond their struggles and respect their autonomy.If you are able to move or exercise, it can be extremely helpful for mental health.Special Links:Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com. Let’s Connect! Socials: Instagram| TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6Website: kelseyoconnor.comCredits: Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios podcast. And Featured on SportsE Media. Music provided by YoKram: YouTube| Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic

    43 min
  7. 14/01/2025

    Embracing Unexpected Endings: Discovering Meaning in What Feels Like Failure

    Just because it ended differently than you expected doesn’t mean you failed. In this episode, we’re diving into navigating unexpected endings, especially when the ending feels like a failure. It’s hard to talk about what happens when the door shuts on a dream, goal, career, or relationship. What happens when you’ve done everything you can, but there’s no more pushing to be done? There is shame that can come with perceived failure, but this episode talks about radical acceptance and believing in the meaning of the journey, even when we don’t see it yet. With resilience, faith, and patience, every ending has the potential to lead to a full-circle moment just around the corner. What to Expect: Just because it ended differently than you expected, doesn’t mean you failed. Just because it ended differently than you expected, doesn’t mean it was a waste of time. Your full circle moment is possible and on the way. Radical acceptance can help in moving forward after setbacks.Believe that there is meaning in your experience. Special Links:Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com. Let’s Connect! Socials: Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6Website: kelseyoconnor.comCredits: Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios production. Featured on SportsE Media. Discover more at quietloudstudios.com.Music provided by YoKram: YouTube | Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic

    27 min
  8. 31/12/2024

    Beyond the Resolution: A Way to Stay Inspired All Year

    You know that feeling when you kick off the New Year with ambitious goals and an endless to-do list? Everything feels possible until life happens. One skipped step turns into two, and suddenly, you’re off track, wondering where the spark went. In this episode, Kelsey shares her personal New Year’s Eve practices, including TWO types of resolutions: writing vision letters to herself and creating ‘to-be’ lists alongside her SMART goals. She emphasizes that it is important to take action, but it helps when we can re-inspire our ‘why’ at any given time to stay motivated long after January. If you’re ready to transform your resolutions into lasting change, this one’s for you! What to Expect: The process of creating two types of resolution lists to achieve goals and stay inspired. It's important to reflect on motivation alongside goals.Daily actions should align with your vision for your life. You can kick-start your goals at any time!Self-reflection is key to creating the right goals and visions. The journey to becoming your best self is ongoing.Embrace the process of dreaming and taking action.Special Links: Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com. Let’s Connect! Socials: Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6Website: kelseyoconnor.comCredits: Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios production. Featured on SportsE Media. Discover more at quietloudstudios.com.Music provided by YoKram: YouTube | Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic

    20 min

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Life Beyond Labels is a space to embrace all the qualities, emotions, and stories that connect us as humans—beyond the labels that often define us. We all have them: jobs, titles, roles in relationships, and other parts of our outer identity. But here, we’re digging into what it means to go beyond those labels and dive into topics that affect us and connect us, regardless of the labels we wear. Join Kelsey O’Connor as she shares insights from her own life and brings on guests for authentic conversations. Together, we’ll dive into stories and experiences that connect us as human beings, encourage us to live more openly, more authentically, and embrace who we are at our core!