Men Like Me

The Centre for Men & Families

Men Like Me is a podcast about the stories men rarely tell. Each episode features honest conversations with men willing to speak about the things we’re often taught to keep hidden—struggles with identity, relationships, failure, fatherhood, loneliness, faith, and finding our way through life’s turning points. Because behind the masks we wear, many of us are asking the same questions. Real men. Real stories. Real issues most people don’t talk about. cfmf.substack.com

Episodes

  1. Behind Closed Doors: A Man’s Experience of Domestic Violence

    30 MAR

    Behind Closed Doors: A Man’s Experience of Domestic Violence

    In this episode of Men Like Me, David shares a story he never thought he’d tell publicly—his experience of domestic violence as a man. What began as a young, hopeful relationship quickly became something far more complex, marked by pressure, confusion, and a growing sense that something wasn’t right. In this raw and confronting conversation, David opens up about the reality of living in a relationship where emotional and physical abuse were present, the silence that kept him stuck, and the weight of believing it was somehow his responsibility to hold everything together. This isn’t about comparison or blame. It’s about bringing into the light a side of the story that often goes unheard. It’s an honest reflection on shame, responsibility, and what it takes for a man to finally face the truth of what he’s living in. Chapters * 00:00 The Story I Never Thought I’d Tell * 02:49 How It All Began * 05:47 The Pressure to Stay the Course * 08:52 Hoping Marriage Would Change Things * 11:47 Living in the Chaos * 14:48 The Moment It Broke * 17:45 After It All Fell Apart * 20:33 Letting Go of Blame * 23:27 For the Blokes Who Are Still There * 26:29 Life on the Other Side Keywordsdomestic violence, male victims, emotional abuse, relationships, men’s mental health, shame, silence, trauma, healing, personal story, masculinity, support This Substack is reader-supported. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Thanks for reading! This post is public so feel free to share it. Get full access to The Centre for Men & Families at cfmf.substack.com/subscribe

    34 min
  2. The Secret Life of a Gambling Addict

    9 MAR

    The Secret Life of a Gambling Addict

    In our first episode of Men Like Me, Sean shares the story he hid for years—his struggle with gambling addiction. What started as a harmless thrill slowly turned into something that took hold of his life, bringing secrecy, shame, and consequences he never expected. In this honest conversation, Sean opens up about how addiction works its way into a man’s life, what it cost him, and the moment he knew something had to change. It’s a raw and powerful story about struggle, honesty, and the long road back. From Addiction to Recovery: Sean’s Journey In this conversation, Sean shares his journey of overcoming gambling addiction, celebrating 756 days of sobriety. He reflects on his early experiences with gambling, the escalation of his addiction, and the impact of mental health struggles. Sean emphasizes the importance of community support, therapy, and the role of shame in addiction. He discusses hitting rock bottom and the turning point that led him to seek help. Through his story, Sean offers valuable insights and advice for others facing similar challenges, highlighting the hope and support available in recovery. Chapters * 00:00 The Journey Begins: 756 Days of Sobriety * 02:59 The Escalation of Gambling: From Small Bets to Big Losses * 05:56 The Turning Point: Recognizing the Addiction * 09:00 The Illusion of Control: Trading Stocks and Gambling * 11:54 The Descent: Borrowing and Financial Struggles * 14:39 The Cycle of Shame: Hiding the Truth * 17:41 The Breaking Point: Seeking Help and Support * 27:46 The Power of Listening and Support * 32:17 Recognizing the Addiction * 35:05 Understanding the Deeper Issues * 42:26 Life After Gambling: A New Perspective * 51:38 Words of Wisdom for Others Facing Addiction Keywords gambling addiction, recovery, mental health, support, community, sobriety, shame, empathy, personal journey, therapy Get full access to The Centre for Men & Families at cfmf.substack.com/subscribe

    53 min
5
out of 5
8 Ratings

About

Men Like Me is a podcast about the stories men rarely tell. Each episode features honest conversations with men willing to speak about the things we’re often taught to keep hidden—struggles with identity, relationships, failure, fatherhood, loneliness, faith, and finding our way through life’s turning points. Because behind the masks we wear, many of us are asking the same questions. Real men. Real stories. Real issues most people don’t talk about. cfmf.substack.com