PSR Podcast

Jonathan Daugherty
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Pure Sex Radio (PSR) seeks to help men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. Host, Jonathan Daugherty, has been working in sexual integrity ministry for over 20 years and brings his expertise and personal experience into each episode. Stephen Cervantes, aka Dr. Marriage, has over 30 years of counseling experience and provides daily thoughts for married men at DoctorMarriage.org. If you have questions, comments, or a suggestion for a topic, email us at psr@bebroken.org. Access video version on Vimeo.

  1. Three Principles Every Husband Can Use to Grow Emotionally & Spiritually with His Wife

    22 HRS AGO

    Three Principles Every Husband Can Use to Grow Emotionally & Spiritually with His Wife

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Stephen Cervantes to explore emotional and relational growth in marriage. Stephen shares three powerful principles for husbands:  Giving wives space to express emotions without jumping to solutions, Being a calm and reassuring presence to help regulate emotions, and Leading with humility to repair relationship ruptures.  Through personal stories and biblical wisdom, we unpack practical ways husbands can show up better for their wives. It's an honest, encouraging conversation that reminds us that strong marriages are built through patience, sacrifice, and Christlike love. For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Emotional and relational growth in marriage from a Christian perspective.Importance of allowing spouses to express emotions without interruption.Techniques for husbands to actively listen and engage during emotional conversations.The role of a husband as a calming presence to help regulate a wife's emotions.Strategies for creating a safe space for emotional processing in relationships.The significance of repairing relationship ruptures and managing conflict.The necessity of humility and ownership in resolving marital disagreements.The impact of forgiveness and reconciliation on marital intimacy.Encouragement to practice patience, humility, and sacrifice in marriage.The importance of continuous learning and growth in relationships. More Resources:How to Listen to Your Wife40 Days to Oneness by Stephen CervantesRelationship Talking vs. Business TalkingRelated Podcasts:Keys to Emotional Intimacy: Empathy, Attunement, and ResponsivenessMen's Emotional Self-Awareness Test4 Skills to Transform Your Marriage ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    28 min
  2. Fully Known, Fully Loved: Why Only God Can Meet Our Deepest Desires

    15 APR

    Fully Known, Fully Loved: Why Only God Can Meet Our Deepest Desires

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I sit down with Stephen Cervantes to explore the deepest desires of the human heart — to be fully known, loved, forgiven, enjoyed, and celebrated. We discuss how these beautiful, God-given desires can become problematic when we turn them into demands on other people.  While humans can love and forgive abundantly, only God can do so fully. We also reflect on how concepts like the Five Love Languages can unintentionally create unrealistic expectations in relationships. Ultimately, we're reminded that true fulfillment comes from delighting in God, who meets our heart's desires perfectly. For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Exploration of deep human desires: being fully known, loved, forgiven, enjoyed, and celebrated.Distinction between desires and needs, emphasizing the potential for disappointment when desires are treated as needs.Discussion on the limitations of human relationships in fulfilling these deep desires.The spiritual versus earthly realms and how they relate to human experiences of love and forgiveness.Consequences of placing unrealistic expectations on others based on concepts like the Five Love Languages.The idea that only God can fully meet these desires, while humans can only offer love and forgiveness abundantly.The importance of accepting human limitations in relationships to avoid disappointment and anger.Encouragement to seek fulfillment of desires through God rather than through others.Recognition of the growth potential in human relationships as individuals learn to love more abundantly.The role of earthly relationships in reflecting God's love and grace, while acknowledging their inherent limitations. More Resources:Resources for MenResources for WivesResources for FamilyRelated Podcasts:Why Jesus?I Want to Be KnownKnowing Your True Identity Beyond Sexual Brokenness ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    32 min
  3. Critical Conversation #4: Dealing with Temptation

    10 APR

    Critical Conversation #4: Dealing with Temptation

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode of Family Time, I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, to discuss the fourth of our six “Critical Conversations” for parents: Dealing with Temptation. We explore how to help kids recognize and respond to temptation without shame, emphasizing grace, honesty, and open communication.  Norma shares practical tips for building trust, normalizing temptation as a human experience, and equipping children with lifelong skills for integrity. We also talk about common barriers parents face and offer resources to support families on this journey. It’s all about progress, not perfection! For all of our Family resources, including our free Critical Conversations online course, visit Bebroken.org/family. Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of discussing sex and sexuality with children in a sexualized culture.Overview of the "Critical Conversations" series for parents.Focus on "Dealing with Temptation" as a key conversation topic.Understanding temptation as a universal human experience.Strategies for parents to help children recognize and resist temptation.The significance of approaching conversations with grace rather than shame.Common barriers parents face in discussing temptation with their children.The role of parental honesty and sharing personal experiences in building trust.Practical exercises for parents to engage children in conversations about temptation.Resources available for parents to further support these discussions. Resources for Next Steps:Critical Conversation Online Course (free)Father-Son Accountability* by John FortGirl Talk by Ashley Jameson For more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles. *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    20 min
  4. Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce: Healing After Infidelity Breaks Up Your Marriage

    8 APR

    Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce: Healing After Infidelity Breaks Up Your Marriage

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I sit down with Linda McDonald, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to discuss her personal journey through betrayal, divorce, and healing on her own after her husband’s affair. Linda shares how her experience inspired her new book, “Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce,” and introduces the term “betrandoned” to describe the unique, compounded grief of betrayal and abandonment.  We explore the stigma, shame, and lack of closure in post-affair divorce, and Linda offers honest, faith-filled advice for finding hope, support, and true forgiveness after deep relational trauma. To learn more about Linda and get her book, visit LindaJMacDonald.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Personal experiences of betrayal and divorceThe concept of "betrandoned" (betrayal + abandon) and its implicationsCompounded grief associated with infidelity and divorceDifferences in societal perceptions of widows versus divorceesThe stigma and shame surrounding divorce due to infidelityThe lack of rituals and support for those experiencing divorce from infidelityThe process of recovery and the importance of brutal honestyThe role of forgiveness in healing from betrayalThe significance of finding supportive communities and resourcesThe potential for redemption and hope after trauma and loss More Resources:Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce* by Linda MacDonaldRedeeming the Post-Affair Divorce Workbook*"Betrandoned" YouTube PlaylistRelated Podcasts:Betrayed and Abandoned on Affair Healing PodcastDealing with Divorce, Betrayal Trauma, and HopeIs There Hope After Divorce Due to Sexual Betrayal? *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    37 min
  5. Healing Trauma: Understanding the Body's Role in Spiritual & Emotional Wholeness

    1 APR

    Healing Trauma: Understanding the Body's Role in Spiritual & Emotional Wholeness

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I welcome back Kristin Cary to explore the mind-body connection, especially how our bodies respond to trauma and betrayal. Kristin shares insights from her ministry, Living Truth, explaining how God designed our nervous systems to protect us through natural responses like fight, flight, or freeze.  We discuss the importance of compassion over shame, practical grounding techniques (like the butterfly hug; even walking or jogging), and the vital role of community in healing. Kristin encourages us to honor our bodies as God’s creation and to approach trauma recovery with patience, curiosity, and faith. To learn more about Kristin and her ministry, visit Living-Truth.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:The mind-body connection and its relevance to trauma.Physiological responses to trauma, including the activation of the vagus nerve and the release of stress hormones.The fight, flight, or freeze responses as natural protective mechanisms.The impact of betrayal trauma on individuals, particularly betrayed spouses.The importance of reframing bodily trauma responses as positive warning systems rather than signs of weakness.The experience of shame among Christians regarding trauma responses and faith.The significance of understanding the body's signals and their role in emotional and spiritual health.Grounding techniques and self-soothing methods to regulate the nervous system.The role of community and relational support in healing from trauma.The necessity of practicing regulation strategies in calm states to prepare for stressful situations. More Resources:Women in the BattleWives Care Online GroupsGoing Deeper for Betrayed Partners* by Eddie & Teri CapparucciRelated Podcasts:The Need for Safety in Betrayal Trauma HealingEmotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed WivesOnline Care Groups for Wives Facing Betrayal Trauma *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    31 min
  6. Confessions of a Recovering Approval Junkie

    25 MAR

    Confessions of a Recovering Approval Junkie

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I sit down with my friend and decades-long colleague, Dr. Stephen Cervantes, to explore our shared struggles with seeking approval and what it means to be an “approval junkie.” Together, we reflect on why we crave affirmation—from childhood to adulthood—and how this shapes our sense of belonging and self-worth.  We discuss the dangers of letting approval define us, the role of leaders in fostering healthy communities, and ultimately, how true acceptance comes from God’s unconditional love. Join us as we unpack these honest, relatable experiences and encourage one another toward deeper healing and authentic connection. For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.  Topics Covered in this Episode:Exploration of the human need for approval and the concept of being an "approval junkie."Discussion on the origins of approval-seeking behavior rooted in early childhood development.Examination of the impact of seeking approval on self-worth and identity.Analysis of the different sources of approval, including peers, leaders, and spiritual figures.Consideration of the unhealthy aspects of excessive approval-seeking and its potential to become an addiction.Reflection on the role of leaders in affirming others and fostering healthy community dynamics.Insights into the emotional struggles associated with conditional approval and feelings of inadequacy.Discussion of "image building" and the conflict between external validation and internal acceptance.Emphasis on the importance of belonging and the safety it provides in community settings.Encouragement for listeners to seek true healing and identity through divine approval rather than human affirmation. More Resources:Going Deeper by Dr. Eddie CapparucciUnwanted by Jay StringerGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenRelated Podcasts:Going Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sex AddictionThe Key to Real and Lasting Freedom from PornOvercoming Shame and Embracing Your True Identity ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    29 min
  7. Critical Conversation #3: Preparing for Exposure

    20 MAR

    Critical Conversation #3: Preparing for Exposure

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In today’s Family Time episode, I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, to unpack the third critical conversation every parent needs to have with their child: preparing kids for exposure to sexualized content. We talk about why this comes after building trust and discussing God’s design for sex, and share practical ways to equip children for what they’ll inevitably see online or from peers.  Norma offers encouragement, tips for open communication, and resources to help parents feel confident—not fearful—as they guide their kids through a sex-saturated culture with grace and understanding. For all of our Family resources, visit Bebroken.org/family. Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of discussing feelings and emotions with children as a foundation for trust.Understanding God's design for sex and its relevance in today's culture.Preparing children for exposure to sexualized content in various media.Common sources of sexualized content that children may encounter.Barriers parents face in initiating conversations about exposure.Consequences of avoiding discussions about sexual content with children.Key principles for parents to communicate regarding exposure and boundaries.Strategies for keeping communication open and non-judgmental.Practical exercises, such as role-playing, to prepare children for potential exposure.Resources and next steps for parents to engage in these critical conversations. More Resources:Good Pictures Bad Pictures by Kristen JensonA Family Game Plan for Discussing Porn (online course)Family Integrity Trio Bundle (online courses)Related Podcasts:Helping Your Kids Know God's Good DesignBetter Screen Time for You and Your FamilyBrain Defense Digital Safety for Kids ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    21 min
  8. The Anatomy of Awakening from Addiction

    18 MAR

    The Anatomy of Awakening from Addiction

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I sit down with Stephen Cervantes, AKA "Doctor Marriage," to explore the journey of awakening from addiction. Together, we discuss how addiction numbs pain and stunts emotional and spiritual growth, and why facing our pain—rather than running from it—is key to healing.  Stephen shares personal insights about slowing down, self-reflection, and finding freedom in Christ. If you’re fighting an addiction, we encourage you to embrace courage, seek support, and trust God’s grace as you move from darkness and disconnection into light, connection, and true emotional freedom. For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Awakening from addiction and its emotional and spiritual dimensions.The role of addiction as a form of numbness and escape from pain.The impact of addiction on emotional growth and personal relationships.The importance of facing pain rather than avoiding it through addiction.The connection between childhood wounds and the onset of addiction.The process of self-examination and slowing down to confront personal pain.The significance of community, accountability, and spiritual support in recovery.The concept of courage in the face of fear and the journey of healing.The ongoing nature of awakening and spiritual growth beyond initial recovery.The hope and possibility of healing through faith and honest self-reflection. More Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men40 Days of Purity online courseGrace-Based Recovery* by Jonathan DaughertyRelated Podcasts:Inviting Men to Wake Up Emotionally and SpirituallyMaxims that Help Us Go Beyond Sobriety in RecoveryAre You on an Emotional and Spiritual Growth Mission? *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    31 min
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Pure Sex Radio (PSR) seeks to help men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. Host, Jonathan Daugherty, has been working in sexual integrity ministry for over 20 years and brings his expertise and personal experience into each episode. Stephen Cervantes, aka Dr. Marriage, has over 30 years of counseling experience and provides daily thoughts for married men at DoctorMarriage.org. If you have questions, comments, or a suggestion for a topic, email us at psr@bebroken.org. Access video version on Vimeo.

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  • Creator
    Jonathan Daugherty
  • Years Active
    2006 - 2026
  • Episodes
    579
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    PSR Podcast

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